EreluRoz:
What did you just do it not justifying it?

I said it earlier that I'm not.

All I'm saying is that they are not the same thing.

Niyi4321:

Identifying and doing my responsibilities at home and be there when she needs me.

What are your responsibilities?
'Be there when she needs me' - beautiful. Don you think she needs sexual fidelity/faithfulness from you?

noCAP:
That's the fact. For men, it's just sex, pleasure, nothing more

I am not disputing what sex is for men.

I am asking for the definition/your definition of love in a relationship/marriage context.

bal4real:

The guy is right. Not that I'm justifying cheating in men.

Sex means different things to both men and women.

A man can cheat/have sex with another woman and still love his wife.
Sex, to men, means pleasure, a means to satisfy his sexual urges. Their might be no bond or emotional attachment with the said woman. Just to 4uck, ejaculate, and zip your trouser and go.

But to women, sex means a totally different thing to them. Women easily bond with the guy they have sex with, so on.

I am not asking for the meaning of sex to men.

I asked for the definition of love.

bukatyne:


I am not asking for the meaning of sex to men.

I asked for the definition of love.

I think being in love means that you are connected with someone on all levels: physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc.

It's a mix of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person.