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Namaster:
First of all, NEVER date a girl without fucking her. It's MADNESS to say you are dating a girl without banging her like a drum.

In fact, ALL your relationships must start with sex. Sex first, then the specifics later.

Women bring absolutely NOTHING to a relationship apart from sex. If you don't Bleep her, you are only deceiving yourself.

It doesn't matter if she's a virgin or the blood daughter of Jesus, you need to get your dick inside her vagina ASAP. That is the only way women get invested in and committed to a relationship.

Otherwise, you'll just end up like OP who rented a house for a strange man to Bleep his GF in.

Zonefree:

You think all these can can keep a Nigerian girlfriend?

Nigerian girls are wired differently.


The "Y" in your "Your Girlfriend" is always silent. Always remember this to retain your sanity.

Namaster:
First of all, NEVER date a girl without fucking her. It's MADNESS to say you are dating a girl without banging her like a drum.

In fact, ALL your relationships must start with sex. Sex first, then the specifics later.

Women bring absolutely NOTHING to a relationship apart from sex. If you don't Bleep her, you are only deceiving yourself.

It doesn't matter if she's a virgin or the blood daughter of Jesus, you need to get your dick inside her vagina ASAP. That is the only way women get invested in and committed to a relationship.

Otherwise, you'll just end up like OP who rented a house for a strange man to Bleep his GF in.

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

Jewessgratitud3:
I know what I'm saying. He spoilt her. That's how you men spoil girls and they become wild. If he left her like she said earlier she won't know what bj is or try to do it on some one else.

All I'm trying to say in essence is he spoilt the girl. Now she tear eyes you're crying foul

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

You might be richer than the guy, but the guy has more of street OT.
You think money can buy a woman's loyalty, the lady is with you because of the financial benefits she's getting, stop doing all those things, she will dump you...
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU OR RATE YOU...
WE KNOW YOU WILL SURELY TAKE HER BACK, AND SHE WILL STILL CONTINUE TO GIVE OTHER GUYS BJ, LATER SHE WILL KISS YOU WITH THE SAME MOUTH.
YOU HAVE REALLY SUFFFERED, DUMP HER NOW OR SUFFERING AWAITS YOU.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

Gadafii:
First of, that girl no be virgin like she claimed, secondly you be mumu for renting a place for her, paying for her upkeep and utilities

Also, that gangster neighbor of hers has given her hot doggie and spread her wide like eagle, she downplayed her cheating by telling you she only cuddled and no sexxx😂😂

Another point, I want to put it to you that while she was riding him, his dick slipped out and she hurriedly put it back inside and moan gleefully 😂😂😂

Also note that, she’s not all what you described her to be in your first paragraph, but as a weak man she made you believe so, 😂😂😂


Lastly she Dey use the money you sent to her take cook better soup for the guy man, wash his clothes and clean his house, I fear who no fear women

Lastly, it’s foolery for you t think the guy is below you, you think it’s by nice cars, apartment or money abi… you Dey craze


Girl you rented house for, paid her upkeep including utilities, is giving another guy who definitely hadn’t bought anything for her Mouth Action and hot Bleep and you are still here talking about you are above such guy You must be a naive simp 😂😂😂



I will drop my pen here and wait for the more experienced elders to contribute

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

Love56743:
Sometimes I wonder what is the problem of women of this generation? Same thing happened to me recently my ex girlfriend that I'm planning to marry by December has been busy sleeping with one guy that can't even take care of her, someone I send 20k weekly to take care of herself because I love her so much i never wanted her to lack anything I even brought her an iPhone not quite long...i started noticing her attitude then i decided to hack her WhatsApp to see what is happening only to discover something that shock me, sometimes i would be talking to her the next is her battery is down good night but i would call her in the next 30 minutes writing call waiting she claimed to be talking to her Aunty, the day i hacked her whatsapp she was having issues with that guy I saw a message where she saying that I even ignored my boyfriend thats doing everything for me just because of you, and some other guys that she is chatting with...when i called she denied then i show her all the evidence then i immediately block her on WhatsApp and Facebook then i transfer 20k to my friends in Nigeria to go and collect the iPhone from her... Since then she has been writing me with different numbers once i noticed it's her i just blocked her..

Namaster:
First of all, NEVER date a girl without fucking her. It's MADNESS to say you are dating a girl without banging her like a drum.

In fact, ALL your relationships must start with sex. Sex first, then the specifics later.

Women bring absolutely NOTHING to a relationship apart from sex. If you don't Bleep her, you are only deceiving yourself.

It doesn't matter if she's a virgin or the blood daughter of Jesus, you need to get your dick inside her vagina ASAP. That is the only way women get invested in and committed to a relationship.

Otherwise, you'll just end up like OP who rented a house for a strange man to Bleep his GF in.

Quality20:
Maybe d guys charms were beyond her power n spirituality. Forgive her n don't let her be in the sight of d guy again

SYSTEM222:
This is heartbreaking.

It's almost like we had same story. My ex gf did same thing. She Will tell me her battery is down or she wants to sleep even by 9pm because she's exhausted. Lols 😆.

It's safe to say it's difficult to understand ladies of this generation. You take them so seriously, You do everything for them and they end up sleeping with other persons who can't measure up to even 1/4 of what you are to them.

They screw things up so badly. Hurt you and leave you hanging.

But then they expect you to accept their flaws and see past the cheating. Funny people.

The loving guy then develop trust issues. Sees all other ladies like cheats. Then they've finally created a monster cheat.

I see no reason why you will want to sleep with someone you do not see as your future partner. Or intentionally hurt someone you don't want to lose

Jewessgratitud3:
Why are you angry?
A lady will tell you she's not ready to engage in any form of sexual activity, youll force her until she succumbs and when she gets accostomed to the habit and takes it to another level you'll get angry.

You thought her BJ and now she wants to explore with different men you dey vex.

Jewessgratitud3:
I know what I'm saying. He spoilt her. That's how you men spoil girls and they become wild. If he left her like she said earlier she won't know what bj is or try to do it on some one else.

All I'm trying to say in essence is he spoilt the girl. Now she tear eyes you're crying foul

Dyfynezz12:
😂😂😂
Laugh want kill me
This story na fiction sha cox I no believe guys still dey this naive when it comes to girls

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

SYSTEM222:
I will make the story brief.

I met my girlfriend, now ex, 4yrs ago. We were good friends for 1yr and then started dating. I really liked everything about her and she gave me the peace I needed in a woman.
She is a good Christian and Goes to church regularly.

I looked forward to engaging her this year.

One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me.

In our 3yrs relationship we never got intimate. She's a Virgin. She told me she doesn't want to open that side of her and wants to wait till marriage. She gave me the kind of peace a good wife gives a Husband.
However, I introduced her to deep romance without sex (Including BJ). She regularly satisfy me in that regard.


Fast forward to last year June. She moved to a new town because of NYSC.
She rented a new place this January and That was where she met this new guy in her compound.
She became really close to the guy. The guy told her he likes her. She told the guy she has a boyfriend. But then the guy wanted to still be close with her.
When we talk in the evening 60% of her day was interwoven with this guy. They go out together, take evening strolls etc.
I told her I wasn't comfortable with her new found friend. She assured me nothing will ever happen. She doesn't like the guy. She told me the guy was just a nice guy and a good friend.

Fast forward February.
She told me she had slept in the guys room few times and they cuddled. I kicked against it and was really furious.
She begged me and told me it will never happen again.
But she did it again after few weeks in late February. I told her she likes the guy and he will soon have his way If she doesn't stay off.
Few days later she then confessed to me that she has had romance with the guy 4 different times. She even gave the guy BJ 2 times but no sex. She cried and said she didn't know how it happened.

But then, she and the guy are still cool. They still hangout in the evening. What the Bleep!

I told her to give me Lonng space. I find it very difficult to even accept her as far friend not to talk of a girlfriend. My orientation about her has totally changed.
She has since told her closest friends and even her brother to call and beg me...
She has been crying and begging me.

It still bothers me how she can do this with a guy she doesn't like and wouldn't want to be with.

Something I warned her about eventually happened and you're begging me?.

This said guy is really below me in terms of everything.
I am financially stable, I have a good car and decent apartment.
I Sub you, Paid your rent, give you enough money for upkeep.
And you do this with a guy without even a bed frame? Or even Fan or Ac?


Omo
Na wa for girls. Very funny people.
It's disgusting to even see talk to her...

Gadafii:
First of, that girl no be virgin like she claimed, secondly you be mumu for renting a place for her, paying for her upkeep and utilities

Also, that gangster neighbor of hers has given her hot doggie and spread her wide like eagle, she downplayed her cheating by telling you she only cuddled and no sexxx😂😂

Another point, I want to put it to you that while she was riding him, his dick slipped out and she hurriedly put it back inside and moan gleefully 😂😂😂

Also note that, she’s not all what you described her to be in your first paragraph, but as a weak man she made you believe so, 😂😂😂


Lastly she Dey use the money you sent to her take cook better soup for the guy man, wash his clothes and clean his house, I fear who no fear women

Lastly, it’s foolery for you t think the guy is below you, you think it’s by nice cars, apartment or money abi… you Dey craze


Girl you rented house for, paid her upkeep including utilities, is giving another guy who definitely hadn’t bought anything for her Mouth Action and hot Bleep and you are still here talking about you are above such guy You must be a naive simp 😂😂😂



I will drop my pen here and wait for the more experienced elders to contribute

SYSTEM222:
. .. One thing I've always loved about her was her transparency, cooking skills, passion for growth and most importantly her love for Me. She can't stay a day without talking to me

Love56743:
Sometimes I wonder what is the problem of women of this generation? Same thing happened to me recently my ex girlfriend that I'm planning to marry by December has been busy sleeping with one guy that can't even take care of her, someone I send 20k weekly to take care of herself because I love her so much i never wanted her to lack anything I even brought her an iPhone not quite long...i started noticing her attitude then i decided to hack her WhatsApp to see what is happening only to discover something that shock me, sometimes i would be talking to her the next is her battery is down good night but i would call her in the next 30 minutes writing call waiting she claimed to be talking to her Aunty, the day i hacked her whatsapp she was having issues with that guy I saw a message where she saying that I even ignored my boyfriend thats doing everything for me just because of you, and some other guys that she is chatting with...when i called she denied then i show her all the evidence then i immediately block her on WhatsApp and Facebook then i transfer 20k to my friends in Nigeria to go and collect the iPhone from her... Since then she has been writing me with different numbers once i noticed it's her i just blocked her..

SYSTEM222:
Are you saying a man that marries a lady and deflower her has opened her to sex?
And its not her fault if she gives it to other guys?

I don't believe that there is any excuse for cheating. Even if you guys have issues, it still doesn't give you the right to cheat.

Can a man not fully trust his wife when he travels for a month?
All because he has opened her to such desires?

I so much believe that when you love someone and you want to be with that person you won't hurt the person or think about sleeping with someone else.

So if eventually I get married to her and open he t