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Am I crazy?


I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

Brandiebird:
Am I crazy?


I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

Yes you're doing it all Wrong.
You sound like you want a man that will be under u and u be the head of the family regardlessly.

Good luck dear, God bless your heart desires come in Triple Folds. Amen:


I left..!

No you are not, your preference is very fine. U go surely see your match even on NL, we have a lot of dummies on here too. Wait, are you even fine? Let’s see a pic.

Brandiebird:
Am I crazy?


I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

This is being disingenuous. A traditional man will treat you like a traditional woman. You will have little or no say in things.

ednut1:
This is being disingenuous. A traditional man will treat you like a traditional woman. You will have little or no say in things.

She wants a resolute, conservative traditional man

But she is not ready to be a traditional woman! No b JuJu b that?

That's witchcraft.

Good luck

You can't eat your cake and still have it... Wake up from your slumber, not in this generation will you find all of that. You are confused

You 're obviously not matured for marriage.
You dont yet know what you want and you are self centered.
You want a traditional man who will be traditional when it favours you.
Lol
Who marry na problem e marry

This one think say na nollywood be reality, continue to be a boss biatche and wanting wifely and princess treatment without doing wifely duties, your eyes go soon clear

Brandiebird:
Am I crazy?


I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

Nope not a dream just a standard you set for your self which is good.
Does your potential prospect too have a say of their own requirements too?

Wetin mkpulummili go cause for nairaland nobi here.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
She wants a resolute, conservative traditional man
But she is not ready to be a traditional woman! No b JuJu b that?
That's witchcraft.

Witchcraft or Nigeria feminism

Brandiebird:
Am I crazy?


I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I don’t want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

So sorry my dear.
Just hope your prayers will yield.
The institutions have been destroyed.
It's difficult getting such now, that I can assure.
Abroad is even worse, so don't near there except you want to settle for BabyMaMa.
You Ladies are already getting what most of you bargained for. Very soon we shall be sending you ladies to work as underwater welding technicians while we stay at home to do kangaroo care for babies 🤣🤣.
Finally, avoid ZEEWORLD, and reconcile with reality

pointblank247:
Wetin mkpulummili go cause for nairaland nobi here.

She's still fantasizing with ZeeWorld.
Yet to reconcile with the reality, that men would prefer to be wealthy and remain single nowadays.
You don't need to get married again to enjoy whatever a married man may claim he's enjoying.

Op is still building castles in the air. By this, it's glaring she is still eating indomie & egg boys are gifting her and watching Zee World and Telemundo or is it Telenovela.

Brandiebird:
Am I crazy?
Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend

Crazy bawo?? It's ur choice....go for it girl.....
Don't let anybody guilt trip u please ...we are all entitled to choices.....ask for more seff...u have not asked enough..

Simply say you are looking for a Simp... Good for you because Nigeria is full of them like the one that just married Queen of BBN

Dudes can't even tell a shitpost when it's smacking them in the face, lmao.

Eunoiaa:
Dudes can't even tell a shitpost when it's smacking them in the face, lmao.

Actually this is what most women are looking for but are too scared to say it. Deep down it's probably the same thing for you

Op there's clay everywhere, mould your own man and leave us the Bleep alone....