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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by lastkingsman: 3:14am On Apr 04, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
Chinese men have money and big businesses Sha. Here in Chile I have seen Chinese men with really hot Latino babes. They own malls, businesses and restaurants so they get money. Black man no get level only big prick even the big preek dey fear them here o. My friend for Santiago been wan Bleep olosho, she reject am as she see him face o. She said he's black and black people have it too big lol grin grin grin
No be stainless steel your guy dey go so like this? grin
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Thegamingorca(m): 5:37am On Apr 04, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
Chinese men have money and big businesses Sha. Here in Chile I have seen Chinese men with really hot Latino babes. They own malls, businesses and restaurants so they get money. Black man no get level only big prick even the big preek dey fear them here o. My friend for Santiago been wan Bleep olosho, she reject am as she see him face o. She said he's black and black people have it too big lol grin grin grin
Lol! She no want retire early
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m):
Karleb:
I use to doubt this until I did a survey in a viewing center during an important match when the place was crowded.

Truth is, for every average or handsome guy, there was atleast 6 ugly guys/men. I mean very ugly men, from dentition, shape of head, terrible accent and voice, bad form/no muscle, terrible hairstyle to say the least. Many were not just ugly but they were not also putting efforts into looking good, this is where our women are doing better but they also become really unattractive after just a child.

Only set of people that are goodlooking/looking good are young unmarried ladies.
Thank God you don see am for yourself. Mine is a dating/friendship group comprising largely young people within a particular region. I noticed the introductory posts by new members: the ladies looked pretty good, while the men weren't so good. I don't look at complexion, but general dress sense, structure of face, dentition, hair style etc. Where you see a handsome lad, even other males dey confirm say this dude is fine. The lad gets many positive responses from the lasses, with some "green light comments". Before readers think it is a group of poor people, no it is not. It is mixed, but mainly young people who are unmarried and very few married folks.

After a series of introductory posts, I con dey think say our men aren't really that handsome. This was before the yukay wave of videos. When I saw the faces involved in these videos, it confirmed my observations: Nigerian men are not handsome. Now, how can these men compete with born and bred Black British or African American men? No be say we get long preek pass Sudanese, Gambians or Senegalese. No be say we tall like those people sef. Our ambitious spirit might be a positive factor, but that is not a phenotypic feature.

Another thing too, people tend to think of Nigeria as just Lagos and Abuja, but there exist other places in Nigeria; and there, being ugly is the standard. Places like Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara would never have handsome men no matter how hard they try.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 6:29am On Apr 04, 2024
ednut1:
not true. The most common interracial dating pair in western world is white male asian female. There are many asian females ( Chinese, Japanese, Koreans etc) who have never dated their race. Then their men are known for small peepee . 🤣
Wow! I sympathise with those Asian men sha. Their women in the West, especially in the California area, have been so westernised that they cannot compete. However, the good thing is, that these Asian men have the option of moving back to their countries which they built to high standards and get the best women there. Asian women are facially beautiful and genetically slim, so no surprise white men like them.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:58am On Apr 04, 2024
lastkingsman:
No be stainless steel your guy dey go so like this? grin
At all. He even has a gf from Venezuela.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by lastkingsman: 8:20am On Apr 04, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
At all. He even has a gf from Venezuela.
Men Dem cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by JIREN01: 11:34am On Apr 04, 2024
tensazangetsu20:
The average Nigerian man looks below and you want to Bleep Oyinbo cry cry
grin grin grin grin Mad boy
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Nobody: 4:07am On Apr 11, 2024
Nigerian women suffer konji more abroad. The average Caucasian man doesn't find them attractive as their white women. And Nigerian men hardly look at them except she's doing free giveaways. They rely on toys. Whoever told u Nigerian women who just got freshly into any western country has the option of engaging in casual sex at will is lying. Where she go see the casual fling from? Except she's doing giveaways like I said then African/ Naija men will line up to collect. As for Nigerian men. If u enter illegally and are focused on settling u won't have that time but if ur there legit and u work. U don't need even months to start changing women if that's what u want to do. If u don't have game in Naija don't expect game over another man's country. U can only be more encouraged by open greenlight because their women are liberal and not timid or pretentious in matters like these.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by zed7:
tensazangetsu20:
They will say you have low self esteem. Honestly just stand on a street in Chile and see how handsome the men are then stand on a street in Nigeria and just look. The difference is like day and night.
Chile sef na country wey dem dey brag with? Anyways, Nigerians who grew in extreme poverty will brag with anything.

The guys who can't get girls abroad are guys who relocated out of poverty. Poverty has humbled them and taken away their self esteem. Even for 2 weeks training, men still lay chicks not to talk of those permanently residing there.

No woman should be sex starved except she has self esteem issues or values her body and only wants to share with the right man for her. Men will dig into anything if offered.

Worse case scenario, those men who have esteem issues should go and get a hooker. Hookers are expensive, so is dating. The only difference is that you will miss out on the emotional part of dating a woman.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Uchenna10(m): 6:56am On Apr 11, 2024
eepeepook:
If in a school environment, you won’t have issues. Those who catch babes in Nigerian unis perform the same in foreign unis. Those who soapy in Nigerian unis soapy in foreign unis.

Those who go there for work stay involuntary celibate for four to six months. Once oyibos see you’ve stayed a few months and have adjusted a little mentally, they’ll show interest.

The black men who are hot cakes are those with low standards. If you like obese women, you’ll have your pick of the lot. Oyibo people hate obese individuals to their core. Dress well, workout regularly and be exciting discussion-wise. Land whales will fight over you.
Lol,land sperm whales😂😂😂
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m):
drnoel:
Not true. If e scarce scarce, red light district never finish
I no dey go ashawo joint, na only clean toto I dey chop grin
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by drnoel: 5:00pm On Apr 29, 2024
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I no dey go ashawo joint, na only clean toto I dey chop grin
Good for you. I no dey judge person for their orientation
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Ilekokonit:
Gerrard59:
Patronising prostitutes is expensive in the abroad. Thirty minutes with an escort costs an equivalent of $100 where I'm and I was told that was even pre-COVID rates. Na person wey get proof of funds to repay go dey indulge in such? You want to use your earnings from care jobs to patronise sex workers? huh
A few years ago, I met a Romanian Ashewo at a Naija beer parlour in London. Intrigued by her stamina and ability to buy and drink 2 bottles of Henessy from her own pocket (at £80 a bottle), we got talking and she opened up that she is a well earning escort and that she sends £5,000 to her parents in Romania every month. (I later advised her to save some money for a period when she is not healthy enough to ply her trade).

She said a Jamaican man (one of her regular customers) patronizes her for 2 one hour slots EVERY week paying her £150 per hour and the man fell in love with her and started buying her flowers and gifts on every visit and since there were no repercussions on both sides when the CD mistakenly burst, they waved bye bye to CD to the point that the Ashewo got pregnant and Baba told her to keep the baby but she went behind his back and flew to Romania to terminate the pregnancy and came back to London to continue plying her trade.

Imagine what could have pushed the man to settle for an Ashi to fall in love with huh??
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by luminouz(m): 12:57am On May 14, 2024
Gerrard59:
Thank God you don see am for yourself. Mine is a dating/friendship group comprising largely young people within a particular region. I noticed the introductory posts by new members: the ladies looked pretty good, while the men weren't so good. I don't look at complexion, but general dress sense, structure of face, dentition, hair style etc. Where you see a handsome lad, even other males dey confirm say this dude is fine. The lad gets many positive responses from the lasses, with some "green light comments". Before readers think it is a group of poor people, no it is not. It is mixed, but mainly young people who are unmarried and very few married folks.

After a series of introductory posts, I con dey think say our men aren't really that handsome. This was before the yukay wave of videos. When I saw the faces involved in these videos, it confirmed my observations: Nigerian men are not handsome. Now, how can these men compete with born and bred Black British or African American men? No be say we get long preek pass Sudanese, Gambians or Senegalese. No be say we tall like those people sef. Our ambitious spirit might be a positive factor, but that is not a phenotypic feature.

Another thing too, people tend to think of Nigeria as just Lagos and Abuja, but there exist other places in Nigeria; and there, being ugly is the standard. Places like Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara would never have handsome men no matter how hard they try.
When I call you ignorant, it would seem very harsh

So in your wisdom, all men in Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara are UGLY?
What kind of mad assumption be that?
You are always on some insane shiit..so no biggie
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Mcslize: 4:11am On May 14, 2024
Whereas there is a group I belong, I won't mention it (due to my confidential nature), there is a cumrade who is changing puzzies like pampers in that same abroad o.

It's all about your style and how much level you have as a guy. If you don't know how to toast women in Nigeria before leaving for abroad, you won't know how to toast women when you get to abroad. Our elders once said, a fowl that sleeps on top of roof tops in the village, when taken to the city, it will also sleep on roof tops. A goat 🐐 can never give birth to a pigeon. Same applies in the dating game.

Back then when we were in the university, me and 2 of my guys usually go hunting for ladies to try our toasting skills. Even though we studied engineering courses that are so demanding, we still carved out time to go hunting. We called it hunting at the time, cuz girls too many for school. That really helped in making us to learn how to talk to women aside reading design process, fluid mechanics, heat transfer, process separation and the like.

It was all fun walking up to ladies and talking to them.

It's all about you. You don't have to have money before you are able to pull girls as a man. Just get small swag and dress nice, you will never lack ladies in your bed.

Any way, we have repented.

So, back to that cumrade I mentioned earlier, go and see the ladies he is bunking abroad. Some black thick girls with big yansh. Normal working ladies no be joke. Some are even married o. The latest one he is bunking is a married lady.

Women! Any way, let's keep it there. What happens in Rome remains in Rome that's my rule of engagement with women.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by luminouz(m): 2:44pm On May 14, 2024
Mcslize:
Whereas there is a group I belong, I won't mention it (due to my confidential nature), there is a cumrade who is changing puzzies like pampers in that same abroad o.

It's all about your style and how much level you have as a guy. If you don't know how to toast women in Nigeria before leaving for abroad, you won't know how to toast women when you get to abroad. Our elders once said, a fowl that sleeps on top of roof tops in the village, when taken to the city, it will also sleep on roof tops. A goat 🐐 can never give birth to a pigeon. Same applies in the dating game.

Back then when we were in the university, me and 2 of my guys usually go hunting for ladies to try our toasting skills. Even though we studied engineering courses that are so demanding, we still carved out time to go hunting. We called it hunting at the time, cuz girls too many for school. That really helped in making us to learn how to talk to women aside reading design process, fluid mechanics, heat transfer, process separation and the like.

It was all fun walking up to ladies and talking to them.

It's all about you. You don't have to have money before you are able to pull girls as a man. Just get small swag and dress nice, you will never lack ladies in your bed.

Any way, we have repented.

So, back to that cumrade I mentioned earlier, go and see the ladies he is bunking abroad. Some black thick girls with big yansh. Normal working ladies no be joke. Some are even married o. The latest one he is bunking is a married lady.

Women! Any way, let's keep it there. What happens in Rome remains in Rome that's my rule of engagement with women.
He is a real nigga
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Mcslize: 4:02pm On May 14, 2024
luminouz:
He is a real nigga
I'm telling you.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 8:49am On May 15, 2024
luminouz:
When I call you ignorant, it would seem very harsh

So in your wisdom, all men in Kogi, Bayelsa, Ebonyi and Kwara are UGLY?
What kind of mad assumption be that?
You are always on some insane shiit..so no biggie
There are exceptions to every phenomenon. I am not interested in that minority. My focus is strictly on the majority, and yes, there are lots of ugly people in Kogi. Poverty is one cause of ugliness. Kogi is one of Nigeria's poorest and most deprived states.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 8:59am On May 15, 2024
Ilekokonit:
A few years ago, I met a Romanian Ashewo at a Naija beer parlour in London. Intrigued by her stamina and ability to buy and drink 2 bottles of Henessy from her own pocket (at £80 izes her for 2 one hour slots EVERY week paying her £150 per hour and the man fell in love with her and started buying her flowers and gifts on every visit and since there were no repercussions on both sides when the CD mistakenly burst, they waved bye bye to CD to the point that the Ashewo got pregnant and Baba told her to keep the baby but she went behind his back and flew to Romania to terminate the pregnancy and came back to London to continue plying her trade.

Imagine what could have pushed the man to settle for an Ashi to fall in love with huh??
Care and sex. It is possible. However, I applaud the escort for being a businesswoman rather than a lover. Men should learn the same. Sex is a business transaction. Treat it as such.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by luminouz(m): 2:48pm On May 15, 2024
Gerrard59:
There are exceptions to every phenomenon. I am not interested in that minority. My focus is strictly on the majority, and yes, there are lots of ugly people in Kogi. Poverty is one cause of ugliness. Kogi is one of Nigeria's poorest and most deprived states.
Stfu.... How dumb can you be to claim majority equals totality in states with millions of people? Have you personally gone to these states and verified all the men are ugly? The way you make assumptions show that you don't anything about these states. So coming from someone has visited these states, there are many handsome dudes in these states..so stfu

I think it's because you are ugly, that's why you project your own shiit to others. I have noticed you are always touchy on the subject of getting girls abroad as a Naija man and always claim we don't get the girls.

If only you knew mudafucker how easy it is to get women there, you would never believe it. Girls are the same all over the world...you look fit, smell good and talk good game..and you'd have them eating out of your hands. The funny thing is you are in oriental countries where the girls should be the easiest to smash but you weren't even getting any...because you are ugly...and it scarred your mentality.

Stop projecting that shiit on to the rest of us. Because men like me, never had issues getting foreign women.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 8:50am On May 16, 2024
luminouz:
Stfu.... How dumb can you be to claim majority equals totality in states with millions of people? Have you personally gone to these states and verified all the men are ugly? The way you make assumptions show that you don't anything about these states. So coming from someone has game..and you'd have them eating out of your hands. The funny thing is you are in oriental countries where the girls should be the easiest to smash but you weren't even getting any...because you are ugly...and it scarred your mentality.

Stop projecting that shiit on to the rest of us. Because men like me, never had issues getting foreign women.
I maintain my stance regarding the link between a high poverty rate and ugliness. Also, I have never claimed to be handsome. If you see me in real life, I resemble Ojuju Calabar.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by luminouz(m): 12:39pm On May 16, 2024
Gerrard59:
I maintain my stance regarding the link between a high poverty rate and ugliness. Also, I have never claimed to be handsome. If you see me in real life, I resemble Ojuju Calabar.
Stfu
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Ekaka14: 1:18pm On May 16, 2024
Sulele04:
You are insecure about yourself, just speak for yourself ok.

Nigerian men are ugly una.
You get time for somebody wey dey write "in the abroad" does that strike you like some you can hold intelligent conversations with? cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Karleb(m): 10:25pm On Jun 20, 2024
madone:
Men and women have this sqme issue abroad. Why cant they just come to term and do the do. Marry and dey together. Husband scarse wife scarse what then are you all doing over there.
The reason is simple, they are very foolish.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by DevilsEqual(m): 1:07pm On Jun 21, 2024
shocked
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Karleb(m): 3:23pm On Jan 07, 2025
MissTemi1:
I speak foolishness to your lineage. May u birth fools that will wash the ground and lick the soil. I see h begging for mercy , I see u weeping in pain because u are tired of life. I see u being bathed in ashes and rain. Death to your soul
grin grin

You will just kill yourself over nothing.

No go warm eba. undecided undecided
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Karleb(m): 3:28pm On Jan 07, 2025
MissTemi1:
I speak foolishness to your lineage. May u birth fools that will wash the ground and lick the soil. I see h begging for mercy , I see u weeping in pain because u are tired of life. I see u being bathed in ashes and rain. Death to your soul
I have gone through your profile and I see this is how you casually curse people for someone who claim to love God.


I am not scared of your curses. It means nothing to me but I want to give you a taste of your own medicine.


May you die a miserable death before the end of this month.
May dogs eat your dead body.
Before your death, may you be infected with sores and leprosy.
May you be a laughing stock in the community.
I pray you never amount to nothing in your miserable life.


Do you see how that feels?
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Karleb(m): 4:43pm On Jan 07, 2025
MissTemi1:
May eba be severed on your burial day soon. May u wish to eat eba but u are rotting in the grave of hell
Ogun lo ma pa iya e. grin

Mad woman. grin grin grin
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