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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Matheusmartin: 9:31pm On Apr 02
pocohantas:


But on Nairaland I read that foreign girls receive them at the airport with cultural troops and flowers. I love reality sha. grin grin

grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Matheusmartin: 9:33pm On Apr 02
helinues:
Only those who are not focused chase girls around in Abroad .

Where is even the time, na you go dey ignore them eventually
...
Konji na werey. grin
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gift96: 9:35pm On Apr 02
Just because few dudes on the internet are saying they don't get females doesn't mean others arent getting women.
If you don't have game, you should atleast have swag (style). Don't do things the regular way.. Keep your beards, learn to smile, learn to wink at em.



Getting a female is all about game.
Look at birds, when they are looking for a mate, they have moves. You have do things the special way, even if you want to talk.
Just be different, put nice perfume

Just do the right things and don't stay on the "work and home schedule". Add church, parties or any social gathering to your schedules... You'll get the kind of women you want

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by franchasofficia: 9:38pm On Apr 02
why is it that I hear these bullcraps only on the internet?


You guys always sound paranoid. This is 2024 that virtually every Nigerian now have one or two friends or family members living abroad, this is not 1962 for Christ's sake.


A Lizard in Nigeria can never turn to a Crocodile just because he relocated to New York. A Lizard in Lagos will still be a Lizard in Abuja, Tokyo, California, London or Beijing, that is the simple truth about life.


The same guys who struggle to get a chick to bed in Nigeria suffer same fate abroad for obvious reasons.

First, you cannot migrate abroad as an illegal migrant looking Hopeless, worried of your future, unorganized, haggard, disoriented, broke, pitiable and still expect foreign ladies to rush you just because you used to lure vulnerable broke girls in your village or street with chewing gum to bed, it doesn't work that way.


Even when you relocate to a new city in Nigeria, unless you are a financially buoyant young man with lots of goodies to attract women, you will still find it hard to get a chick to bed just immediately you arrive the city.


Women are the same all over the world; materialistic. All women are moved by what they see, by how much you can offer. What changes abroad is that the amount of money and material things that entice women over there is bigger than what entices majority of women in Nigeria and its simply because over there they too are working and earning, but they still fall for guys that have it bigger than they do, its same all over the world.


All my friends who have lived abroad for decades never experienced this, instead they had their very good share of foreign women before they settled down, so if you are a Nigerian guy that found it hard to get girls in Naija or you only bed low class babes with lies and peanuts, then you should also know that getting girls abroad will be difficult for you, so dont expect a miracle abroad.


You cannot be short, fat or obsessed, dull, broke and an illegal migrant and still be expecting foreign ladies to be falling for you just because you heard that oyimbo ladies love black guys, how?


White ladies love tall guys. Just being tall alone with good dress sense will win you some free pussies abroad once you have settled.


If you then have style and good job to go with, you will have your good share of foreign women abroad. Just make sure you forget Nigerian ladies, except you will be targeting the newcomers that just arrived from Nigeria for school or tourism, aside that, go for foreign women, it's not as bad as these online boys paint it.


worse comes to worse, you can go to massage centers and make your choice of super hot ladies from all over the world, just be prepared to pay for it, that's all.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gift96: 9:45pm On Apr 02
franchasofficia:
why is it that I hear these bullcraps only on the internet?


You guys always sound paranoid. This is 2024 that virtually every Nigerian now have one or two friends or family members living abroad, this is not 1962 for Christ's sake.


A Lizard in Nigeria can never turn to a Crocodile just because he relocated to New York. A Lizard in Lagos will still be a Lizard in Abuja, Tokyo, California, London or Beijing, that is the simple truth about life.
.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Thegamingorca(m): 9:54pm On Apr 02
franchasofficia:
why is it that I hear these bullcraps only on the internet?


You guys always sound paranoid. This is 2024 that virtually every Nigerian now have one or two friends or family members living abroad, this is not 1962 for Christ's sake.


A Lizard in Nigeria can never turn to a Crocodile just because he relocated to New York. A Lizard in Lagos will still be a Lizard in Abuja, Tokyo, California, London or Beijing, that is the simple truth about life.


The same guys who struggle to get a chick to bed in Nigeria suffer same fate abroad for obvious reasons.

First, you cannot migrate abroad as an illegal migrant looking Hopeless, worried of your future, unorganized, haggard, disoriented, broke, pitiable and still expect foreign ladies to rush you just because you used to lure vulnerable broke girls in your village or street with chewing gum to bed, it doesn't work that way.


Even when you relocate to a new city in Nigeria, unless you are a financially buoyant young man with lots of goodies to attract women, you will still find it hard to get a chick to bed just immediately you arrive the city.


Women are the same all over the world; materialistic. All women are moved by what they see, by how much you can offer. What changes abroad is that the amount of money and material things that entice women over there is bigger than what entices majority of women in Nigeria and its simply because over there they too are working and earning, but they still fall for guys that have it bigger than they do, its same all over the world.


All my friends who have lived abroad for decades never experienced this, instead they had their very good share of foreign women before they settled down, so if you are a Nigerian guy that found it hard to get girls in Naija or you only bed low class babes with lies and peanuts, then you should also know that getting girls abroad will be difficult for you, so dont expect a miracle abroad.


You cannot be short, fat or obsessed, dull, broke and an illegal migrant and still be expecting foreign ladies to be falling for you just because you heard that oyimbo ladies love black guys, how?


White ladies love tall guys. Just being tall alone with good dress sense will win you some free pussies abroad once you have settled.


If you then have style and good job to go with, you will have your good share of foreign women abroad. Just make sure you forget Nigerian ladies, except you will be targeting the newcomers that just arrived from Nigeria for school or tourism, aside that, go for foreign women, it's not as bad as these online boys paint it.


worse comes to worse, you can go to massage centers and make your choice of super hot ladies from all over the world, just be prepared to pay for it, that's all.


How dem dey take star posts for nl

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:12pm On Apr 02
The truth is that a whole lot of Nigerian men are very ugly and have very low status even in the abroad.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Peakdesign23(m): 10:20pm On Apr 02
Hmmm… The best thing is to get acquainted to someone here before leaving.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Sulele04(m): 10:21pm On Apr 02
tensazangetsu20:
The truth is that a whole lot of Nigerian men are very ugly and have very low status even in the abroad.
You are insecure about yourself, just speak for yourself ok.

Nigerian men are ugly una.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Eagba(m): 10:33pm On Apr 02
pocohantas:


But on Nairaland I read that foreign girls receive them at the airport with cultural troops and flowers. I love reality sha. grin grin
I know say Poco no well
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Eagba(m): 10:34pm On Apr 02
pocohantas:


Lol. He suddenly remembered black women are going through same. Black women are not the ones claiming to be loved by foreign women na.

And a willing pen*s is way more available than clean water. Women can lack commitment, definitely not sex.
Poco I hate to hate you
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:46pm On Apr 02
Sulele04:

You are insecure about yourself, just speak for yourself ok.

Nigerian men are ugly una.

The Truth is bitter. No other countrymen complains about such things. That should tell you something.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 10:59pm On Apr 02
Kini kon kini kon Nigerian men are hotcakes in the abroad. Thank God dem don use their eyes see am.

People wey Buhari economy knack them suffer want to get chicks in the UK, Germany and US simply because black men are loved?! grin Whereas the black men here are African American men o. Nigerian men wey worwor with big fat potbelly and sufferhead face. Then add Buhari's battering and the need to repay Proof of Funds? At the same time, Rishi Sunak wants to finish them with immigration policies!

You lots better apologise to Nigerian women because las las they're the ones you people would date, fvck and marry.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 11:03pm On Apr 02
Gerrard59:


That depends on the kind of woman o. In ranking order, the white man is revered worldwide and is higher than his black counterpart (thanks to their great-grandparents who dominated the world). To get the top class women in developed countries as a black African male migrant takes a whole lot - education, mannerisms, spoken language, career etc. Add the fact that most Nigerian men are ugly (myself included), some due to the suffer-head conditions they faced in Nigeria, and it gets worse. One literally has to be a Tidjane Thiam to stand a chance. It might be better in the US and other countries with a substantial black population, but in places where the black population is very minute, e get as e be. So, when they say "Nigerian men are loved in the abroad", certain questions should be asked.

- What calibre of women "love" Nigerian men?
- Which countries do they come from?
- What are the profiles of these women (height, facial looks, educational attainment, career etc)?

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 11:05pm On Apr 02
Zonefree:
There are paid kpekus everywhere in the world.

Na over sabi men dey search for innocent girls to deceive in the name of Dating so they can be getting free kpekus.

Patronising prostitutes is expensive in the abroad. Thirty minutes with an escort costs an equivalent of $100 where I'm and I was told that was even pre-COVID rates. Na person wey get proof of funds to repay go dey indulge in such? You want to use your earnings from care jobs to patronise sex workers?

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:10pm On Apr 02
The average Nigerian man looks below and you want to Bleep Oyinbo cry cry

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 11:11pm On Apr 02
ednut1:
not true. If you want casual nacks as a woman just download dating app you will get more than 5 men willing to come nack you. If you dey find serious relationship or not into casual sex na them she go enter stainless o

I was thinking aloud sef few days ago, the way I see it, it's actually Nigerian men who cannot do without marriage especially at an older age. The way our men dey complain tells me they won't be able to stay without women than women staying without men.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 11:13pm On Apr 02
BareFacedLies:


It's obvious you're talking from experience grin

She's right. Men offer commitment, but if a woman wants sex, she'd get it. It's a global phenomenon and worse amongst Nigerians as the preek of a Nigerian man is cheaper than one mold of Akara.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by ednut1(m): 11:14pm On Apr 02
prophetfire:
Guy you are bad. You are just saying that Nigeria girls are hungry and cheap and only noodles is what you need to have them.
not all grin
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Gerrard59(m): 11:17pm On Apr 02
tensazangetsu20:
The average Nigerian man looks below and you want to Bleep Oyinbo cry cry

This boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

But no be lie. When folks in the yukay were showcasing themselves in videos, man, the faces I saw weren't palatable. Men wey Buhari's economy don panelbeat tire.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:18pm On Apr 02
Gerrard59:


This boy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

But no be lie. When folks in the yukay were showcasing themselves in videos, man, the faces I saw weren't palatable. Men wey Buhari's economy don panelbeat tire.

Honestly then the body is nothing to write home about. Pot belly everywhere lol with one strong thick African accent grin grin. The worst part is no good career or job or skills lol grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Lordbinsmar: 11:20pm On Apr 02
It depends on you how you carry yourself. It's not a big deal for a Nigerian or black guy to date a beautiful European babe.

I have lived in 4 European countries in 2 years and I've seen lots of black guys dating beautiful European.

Just on Facebook today a random guy interviewing people on the street of Italy interviewed a Nigerian guy who got married to a young beautiful Italian lady. They already have a young boy. From their interview, they met when they where in the university.

I've lived in Italy and Spain it is not a big deal to see a black guy dating a Spanish or Italian in the cities I have lived in.

My close friend is dating a Chinese lady. Very young and beautiful babe who recently completed her PhD. My guy also is about to start his PhD.

I belong to a watsapp group of Nigerian students in Italy and its no big deal to see guys from the group getting married to Europeans.

It depends on whom you are and the type of people you move with. It's nothing special for a sensible well to do Nigerian or African to date European.

Sincerely, I don't get where the fallacy of Nigerian not been able to date white ladies is coming from.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:23pm On Apr 02
I abroad,na me dey run.But you need to be tall o.Oyibo like tall guys.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:25pm On Apr 02
Lordbinsmar:
It depends on you how you carry yourself. It's not a big deal for a Nigerian or black guy to date a beautiful European babe.

I have lived in 4 European countries in 2 years and I've seen lots of black guys dating beautiful European.

Just on Facebook today a random guy interviewing people on the street of Italy interviewed a Nigerian guy who got married to a young beautiful Italian lady.

I've lived in Italy and Spain it is not a big deal to see a black guy dating a Spanish or Italian in the cities I have lived in.
I tire o,the guys complaining, I dont even why,maybe dem no get swag.i would have married my European babe but she no wan leave smoking alone.she beg me tire to come and see her parents but I no gree go.till we broke up.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:27pm On Apr 02
Lordbinsmar:
It depends on you how you carry yourself. It's not a big deal for a Nigerian or black guy to date a beautiful European babe.

I have lived in 4 European countries in 2 years and I've seen lots of black guys dating beautiful European.

Just on Facebook today a random guy interviewing people on the street of Italy interviewed a Nigerian guy who got married to a young beautiful Italian lady. They already have a young boy. From their interview, they met when they where in the university.

I've lived in Italy and Spain it is not a big deal to see a black guy dating a Spanish or Italian in the cities I have lived in.

My close friend is dating a Chinese lady. Very young and beautiful babe who recently completed her PhD. My guy also is about to start his PhD.

I belong to a watsapp group of Italian students in Italy and its no big deal to see guys from the group getting married to Europeans.

It depends on whom you are and the type of people you move with. It's nothing special for a sensible well to do Nigerian or African to date European.

It's mostly UK guys complaining. Very useless country. Aside electricity, I don't see the difference between the UK and Nigeria.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Lordbinsmar: 11:31pm On Apr 02
Aaaaarghmed:
I tire o,the guys complaining, I dont even why,maybe dem no get swag.i would have married my European babe but she no wan leave smoking alone.she beg me tire to come and see her parents but I no gree go.till we broke up.

I swear to God if I had not gotten a babe that we have been through thing and thick together while I was in the University in Nigeria and I can't even imagine disappointing her because of what she meant in my life.

The easiest thing for me would have dating or getting married to an European.


As an Erasmus Mundus scholar, I interact with lots of Spanish and Italian whom I could have dated if I wanted to. Same as a phd guy also.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Lordbinsmar: 11:33pm On Apr 02
tensazangetsu20:


It's mostly UK guys complaining. Very useless country. Aside electricity, I don't see the difference between the UK and Nigeria.

Yeah those guys just dey like to make mouth over rubbish things.

You hardly see guys living in the EU typing all those kind of rubbish online.

Where the time even dey.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:35pm On Apr 02
Lordbinsmar:


Yeah those guys just dey like to make mouth over rubbish things.

You hardly see guys living in the EU typing all those kind of rubbish online.

Where the time even dey.

I remember wanting to marry my ex gf because UK guys said sex Is hard abroad. Thank God I no make that mistake o. I can't relate to be honest grin grin grin.
Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Lordbinsmar: 11:38pm On Apr 02
Aaaaarghmed:
I tire o,the guys complaining, I dont even why,maybe dem no get swag.i would have married my European babe but she no wan leave smoking alone.she beg me tire to come and see her parents but I no gree go.till we broke up.

When I was living in Italy my flatmate a Sudanese guy was dating a hot Italian chick.

Same when I lived in Spain my flatmate was a morrocan he just dey change Spanish babes like clothes.

Me wey don get my personal persin for Naija, I just face wetin carry me come Europe.

If you are a street guy in Nigeria and you are educated and well to do in Europe you go game European babes tire.

Just that someone must be careful as its easy to fall into trap.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Lordbinsmar: 11:41pm On Apr 02
tensazangetsu20:


I remember wanting to marry my ex gf because UK guys said sex Is hard abroad. Thank God I no make that mistake o. I can't relate to be honest grin grin grin.

Maybe it's the reality in UK, I have not been there before, but based on my experience living in 4 European country. An educated Nigerian guy with a good job and correct packaging won't find it difficult to mingle with or date an European lady.

Some of them may have some baise, but there are plenty fishes in the river.

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:42pm On Apr 02
Lordbinsmar:


When I was living in Italy my flatmate a Sudanese guy was dating a hot Italian chick.

Same when I lived in Spain my flatmate was a morrocan he just dey change Spanish babes like clothes.

Me wey don get my personal persin for Naija, I just face wetin carry me come Europe.

If you are a street guy in Nigeria and you are educated and well to do in Europe you go game European babes tire.

Just that someone must be careful as its easy to fall into trap.
yes ,person gatz dey careful.Uk people be using their experience for all abroad guys.Europe is bae,esp if you can speak the country language. Na fire down

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Re: Nigerian Men Speak On Dating Abroad by Okoroawusa: 11:44pm On Apr 02
pocohantas:


When dealing with a gender that thinks they are winning by sleeping around, it is common sense that they would satisfy every sexually charged woman (inadvertently).

Please close your teeth. I know your type and your attempts at being demeaning...
Chinekem o! This girl inwere onu ojoo! Negodu ife igwalu madu ibe gi.

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