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adeiza4u:
Firstly, pray about it and let God work it out on your behalf since you are a child of God.

Secondly, take it gradual. Look for ways to support his contents and all. Let him notice you and what you stand for and your beliefs, through your engagement of his contents.
Thirdly, think about innovative ways to better his contents and goals. Make the suggestions to him.
If God is in support, he'll get to know something unique about you and gets closer.
Please, relax and take it gradual. God bless you for wanting something good!

Jewessgratitud3:
I introduced myself as a single bornagain sister.

Jetland:
I've a few things to say if only you'll accept it.

1. 80% of men won't respect you if you obviously shoot your shot first as a lady. It's only mature men with high level of understandings will appreciate your courage for taking the shot.

2. If you must shoot your shot, let it be indirect. Like your body language kind of stuff instead of making it too obvious.
3. That she teaches about purity doesn't mean he's born again. You just have to be careful. Not withstanding though, you can still fire your shot and observe him as the relationship progresses to see if he's practicing what he's teaching.

4. There is no harm in trying and damn the consequences.
But on a serious note, I've been looking for a lady who will first shoot her shot at me for years now, but I'm yet to find one

bitbillionaire:
LoL. My dear 'born-again' sister, if you are truly born again as you claim I expect you to have the Holy Spirit in you. Why don't you consult the Holy Spirit about this matter? Or are you referring to a different kind of born-again here?

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Jewessgratitud3:
I feel I do. Please you people should let me express myself any way I want. Stop trying to shut me up.

Public opinion on matters like this sometimes go a long way before I make a fool of myself.

Please allow me

EreluRoz:
That's enough greenlight already but you may go further. Funny enough most guys don't quickly grab a greenlight.

If you are not very smart as a guy you'll not understand some kind of greenlight. My own greenlight is very funny, you'll never have a clue except you are way too smart.

AMI3:
I understand u perfectly well.

Take my little advice .

Well don't be too carried away because what he says on the camera.

There are people that I can not loose guard on. People that preaches gospels or morals on stage or camera.

I will not advice my enemy to marry somebody because the person is active church goer, or preaches in the church daily, sweet the church premises everyday.or dress so righteously

Becareful of sure people.

SOME may have some other motive behind their actions.

Please don't be carried away by what he has been saying.

First of all engage him in a conversation not in connection to relationship but in relation to morals.

Do not show any atom of having feeling fo him because human been can pretend.

How many pastors have cut in the act red handed? Yet if the want to preach they have sugar coated tongue.

Don't allow your impulse to make u lost your sense of judgement.

I met several people that a very nice in spoken words
But what the do behind the scene can make u be afraid of human being.

If you can be his friend then stand afar and watch him

Get to him first before u jump into ship.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Are you a virgin?
As in, true virgin front and back?

If you are, simply slide into his dm, appreciate his contents from the depth of your heart and tell him you would like to be his friend.

If he is open to friendship, once in a while, pick something from one of his posts and ask him questions.

Once or twice, then leave him alone.

He's not yet your husband nor your boyfriend.
Both of you are not dating, or in any serious relationship.
He has met women and will still meet more.
By the way, there are women who are closer to him than you currently are.

Because if you carry his matter for head like Gala, na straight blocking as I dey see am so.

I consider you an unserious person by approaching him in the first place without your real picture on your profile.
He may end up building a Madonna image in his head when you're 5/10.

If you shock him beyond what he can manage, na blocking straight.

If he accepts you and you reach out twice, leave him alone.

There would be other women throwing themselves at him.
Don't join them.

If he doesn't reach out after that, leave him alone and respond to other brothers in your dm, so we don't have an extra Jennyclay or siofra on this forum.

If you're not a virgin, die those feelings.
Infact, consider my advice as ranting and misyarnings.

Udo.

99thEnemy:
You need to understand that the OP is desperate

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Emmanuel30a2:
Are you a psycho...? You don't even knows analogy, let alone dermatology...

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

jmoore:
Have you removed the womb?

What's the point shooting your shot if he wants kids?

Jewessgratitud3:
I need very mature advice here.

I'm a picky person when it comes to making relationship choices. For me the attractiion has to come from my end otherwise I'll find it difficult to accept the individual.


There's this guy, very mature and. I'm sure will be older than me or we'll be of same age I love watching his contents on Facebook and what attracted me to him was one of his sit down videos where he talked about premarital sex and the dangers of engaging in it as a Christian. I was wowed that a dark handsome man like him could speak against such practices and his audience that day were youth and teenagers.

I began to observe him and noticed he addresses the youth more and is always teaching them moral and academic lessons. I somehow felt connected to him and one day summoned the courage to ask him if he's married. He didn't reply.

I recently came across his video again and asked him for the last time on his comment section if he's married and I said this was the last time I was going to ask him this question. He now replied that he is not married.

I don't know, would it be wise if I take a shot at him or try being his friend. He's a Born again brother and my spec.

Please sincere advice.

kpakpakpa:
I don't like to argue online madam, some pastors who preach on the pulpit almost everyday are fake.

I'm not against you trying, just be careful cos like i said not all that glitters is gold

Just be careful biko

Emmanuel30a2:
You are suffering from stroke and you probably have amnesia, that you can't take to asia... Even anastasia in asia and malaysia are having amnesia... I don't know what to do with your amnesia... I am not prince or queen of persia... You can take your amnesia to asia or malaysia... By the way, you may wants to give me some of money as gift... Give me a monetary gift...

Jewessgratitud3:
Why should I settle for a single guy who is not celibate?

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
It's evident.

She's already married the unfortunate guy in her head.

fyzaila:
Not necessarily green light, but it will catch your attention abit. Like who is this liking all my post? 🤔

immortalcrown:
You don't need public opinions on this because the public does not know how you intend to approach him and how he will respond.

Take the risk wisely. It may favour you. It may not favour you. But as long as you do it wisely, you will not regret it. You will regret it if you do it foolishly.

There is no particular step to be termed wise here. His attitude towards you determines what will be wise for you to do.

Jewessgratitud3:
Ok. Thanks.

I'm not carried away yet so I can still manage and control my emotions for now. So no worries, I won't lose it. Trust me.