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Reason why some men do not get married to thier baby mothers abroad, u can all live in same house but no marriage so she has no claims to ur property

Truths9ja:
The devil is destroying homes 🏠 . The women are the ones allowing the devil to destroyed their homes. Once they traveled abroad, they start displaying hatred to their husbands.

Devil is innocent here, woman are worse than the devil

This old fallacy! The devil came into life through the woman, right? Yet bible says sin came into the world through Adam and death by sin. I don’t think y’all are reading the Bible right.

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thesicilian:
The devil has always come into the home through the woman, right from the beginning of time. The fact that most men never see this coming always baffles me

Abeg fear Nigeria 🇳🇬 women oooo. I don’t know the pains the 56 years old man will be now.

Truths9ja:
juju dey work. Dey there, people are still doing rituals in different form

and you think the juju will affect the woman in abroad?

Seriously I no believe say juju dey work.

Magnumproperty:
Dey play!

seriously juju from Nigeria 🇳🇬 no fit work for abroad.

Artscollection:
The narrator self don't even know the root cause, the westerns ward especially the high end are not family oriented, if you like bring a nun soon the society will stress her to the point of divorce.
Things like
Lack of social cohesion in the society
If she is working, the stress at work and if hou have
Kids in most western society, you have to be taking this around for their won activities

I respect ur own angle to this too.

thesicilian:
Meaning you'd do the same.
If you don't want to be controlled why would you marry a man? Why do you work for an employer? The same foreign countries place strict financial and physical control on their citizens, why do you humbly obey all these and the only person you chose to fight is your husband who provides for you?

Exactly
You knew the man was abusive and yet you tolerated him until you got to a foreign country?
Interestingly,most of the guys who fall into these kind of ladies are the calm ones!

ChizzyBuna:
If that man decided to stay single in UK
He still will be living lavish as a single man.

But he became too foolish
Yes, being NICE to Women is FOOLISHNESS
The worst thing you can ever do as a man is be nice to women.
They will use and dump you back to your ancestors

Go and ask all those Nice men that paid school fees for girl they want to marry

According to Women . NICE = FOOL

Women see NICE men as WEAK men

If you are to nice to bring her from Nigeria to UK. She will treat you like a WEAK man.

That is why I can never be nice to any woman
Once you become nice
They see you as foolish man a.k.a MUGU
And run you street

Many men will still learn the hard way

Some people might differ with you but I don't. My first girl friend in the university once told me herself that girls don't value nice guys.

SweetBuns:
He was probably abusive and/or controlling
There is no smoke without fire
For the white mans land, if you do anyhow to women you will see anyhow

That is what jezebel would always say na..

Women are never wrong.., I don't blame the woman, na the man I blame.

1. I cat marry u and take u abroad, never.
2. If u mistakenly go and misbehave to me, or u suddenly grow wings.. I swear I will leave u there, travel down here and acquire what I will use to uproot ur wing from ur body

Bottomline is that, we wey no dey go church e get why..

JoeEeL:
For those unable to watch, the man emphasizes on ensuring to bring your wife if she's not the type that keeps friends. He keeps mentioning that it is the idea of friends, parties and events that leads women astray in the U.K, and if your wife is like that or has tendencies like that already in nigeria, then it is dangerous to bring her over.

Also, the man is not the one affected. He's just a narrator.

Finally, he dons a nice cap.

Would you rather I point a gun at you, but promise you that I won't shoot you, or that I should not be having the weapon in the first place?

It doesn't matter if a woman is reserved and doesn't keep friends, it is about the possibility that she can do evil to you if she wants to. She must not have that chance, doesn't matter if she wont use it.

lexy2014:
if he was abusive and controlling, why did she not quit the marriage when he was in the UK?

was that not a good opportunity to leave an abusive and controlling man?

why will an abusive husband waste his money to carry a woman he abuses to the UK?

Don't mind her. Their type always rush to claim abuse.

SweetBuns:
He was probably abusive and/or controlling
There is no smoke without fire
For the white mans land, if you do anyhow to women you will see anyhow

It is easy to say nonsense like this because you are not a man. I don't blame you sha, I blame the men that engage in importation business. He paid for his foolishness.

Truths9ja:
The devil is destroying homes 🏠 . The women are the ones allowing the devil to destroyed their homes. Once they traveled abroad, they start displaying hatred to their husbands.

The same way he was destroying his home and his wife mental health in Nigeria by letting the devil take charge of him. 😂

Oga, E go shock you say the guy fit so nothing but there is a spirit that even the way the husband looks , dress, talk nothing he does is okay. She just sees fault . Just don't like him. I know of a case no be say I read am . I know. Hmmm may God not let us see evil. I used to read or hear of it and think all such talk na lie but now God forgive me, it is real and happens and happening. God keep our marriages

SweetBuns:
He was probably abusive and/or controlling
There is no smoke without fire
For the white mans land, if you do anyhow to women you will see anyhow

UD101:
Reason why some men do not get married to thier baby mothers abroad, u can all live in same house but no marriage so she has no claims to ur property

In the UK, if you have lived together for a number of years and the partner has been contributing to things in the house, they can lay a claim to the house even if both are not married.

Truths9ja:
The devil is destroying homes 🏠 . The women are the ones allowing the devil to destroyed their homes. Once they traveled abroad, they start displaying hatred to their husbands.

We have advice men to stop marrying this hoes and see who will beg? Why would a man marry a liability who will reap him all his efforts?

This is a lie guys.

Truths9ja:
The devil is destroying homes 🏠 . The women are the ones allowing the devil to destroyed their homes. Once they traveled abroad, they start displaying hatred to their husbands.

It's a Nigerian thing and have nothing to do with the Asians or Indian Women!
In actual fact,all the Indians who married their husbands are still with them in Europe,UK or America but Africa and Nigeria in particular,are just not there for their husbands ,as they have messy homes! But why?
It's Shameful!

The guy de para for negative commenters

bemeruca:
This is a lie guys.

What is a lie? Tell us the truth.

Hassanmaye:
We have advice men to stop marrying this hoes and see who will beg? Why would a man marry a liability who will reap him all his efforts?

I strongly believe the Nigeria man will have been seeing red flag 🚩 from Nigeria 🇳🇬 from that evil woman 👩 unfortunate he’s not wise enough to deal with the case at hands. I felts for his pains he’s battling with. He’s even in his late 60’s. Some women are very wicked and unfortunate seriously

jessylaurel:
The same way he was destroying his home and his wife mental health in Nigeria by letting the devil take charge of him. 😂

very true. Thousands of divorce cases in the court of justice weekly over infidelity. It’s very unfortunate seriously.

Truths9ja:
The devil is destroying homes 🏠 . The women are the ones allowing the devil to destroyed their homes. Once they traveled abroad, they start displaying hatred to their husbands.

They never actually loved their husbands. They simply used their marriages as a means to escape poverty. I fear Nigerian women including my mother and sisters.

JONSYN7154:
and you think the juju will affect the woman in abroad?

Seriously I no believe say juju dey work.

it will affect the woman if she’s not prayerful at all

Bruno3000:
They never actually loved their husbands. They simply used their marriages as a means to escape poverty. I fear Nigerian women including my mother and sisters.

100% truths here. Single men are just scared to marry this days.

SweetBuns:
He was probably abusive and/or controlling
There is no smoke without fire
For the white mans land, if you do anyhow to women you will see anyhow

Absolutely wrong. Listen to this guy's comment. He is not describing himself, but speaking for a friend. So he's saying the truth.

RaptorX:
What is a lie? Tell us the truth.

He is 50+ years, trained his wife through university, brought her to the UK, he has lived 17 years in the UK. Two years after she took his property. He is a nurse and because of his divorce he lost his job. All this does not make sense. TikTok videos like this are many times lies.

Bluntemperor:
It's a Nigerian thing and have nothing to do with the Asians or Indian Women!
In actual fact,all the Indians who married their husbands are still with them in Europe,UK or America but Africa and Nigeria in particular,are just not there for their husbands ,as they have messy homes! But why?
It's Shameful!

very true here. It’s very rare to see Indians divorcing themselves abroad. Indians even lived with their extended families. I don’t know why Nigeria 🇳🇬 ladies loved to do evil this way.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Devil is innocent here, woman are worse than the devil

very true. It’s the humans that are doing the works of the devil. Very unfortunate situation

Truths9ja:
juju dey work. Dey there, people are still doing rituals in different form

It works for those who want it to work for them. But for me, God's time is the best. Leave the matter to God to judge and check out the difference between you and the other person.

Truths9ja:
Man shares friend ordeal after 17 yrs in Uk, chased out of their apartment by his Nigeria wife.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avOKzXQSOu0?si=MsFobDapMsoRz5IY

You guys should stop accusing the devil thing. The aggressors in situations like these plan and executed what they want to do without any invisible force propelling them to act.