spiceadole:


24years is now a girl because she is your sister.
Lol

Negroid001:


Bro make we no fool ourselves.
Marriage is finance. Based on the standard I've set for myself, finance plays a prominent role.

edicied:
This thread is so funny especially the way the op is defending his Olosho sister

pocohantas:


Na their way na. I have always wondered if all their sisters are even married. Yet they come online to curse single women.

Negroid001:


Eeyah.
How old are you?

Negroid001:

She's still young. Don't destroy her life. She's not hungry like the hoes you're used to.
Abeg! Goan focus on your own sisters too.

Any high value woman will get married when she's ready.

Avast:


One of my friends told me the only reason she is still in her marriage is because she is not financially independent.

Negroid001:


I'm not running away from responsibilities sir.
I'm the provider definitely.
I'm not just getting married to a liability with no connections or life changing skills.

Ezyp:


Have you heard of the word hypergamy? It runs deep in women.

Ladies in your class are looking for men above your class. So stop fooling yourself with the mentality that na your class you go marry. Grow up bro

Negroid001:
Me and my younger sister were having our usual afternoon gossips and gists and something came up.
I asked after a close friend of hers whom i know to be very affluent and she erupted that i should stop asking after her that she doesn't support me dating any of her close friends. I asked her why, she said i have nothing to offer her friend. I mean, imagine, I'm some years away from 30, working with several firms of which 1 is among the top 10 highest grossing in the country and this big head has the audacity to tell me i can't hook her rich friend.

I take us down memory lane to the reason why she ditched her immediate ex, she told me the dude was struggling and she didn't see much prospect in him, her childhood crush oo. I asked her what's the difference between me and her? She couldn't come up with a valid response. She kept on hollering that I'm supposed to be a provider. Provider my ass.

As a man, I've set the standard of not getting involved with women below my economic class or earnings and i see nothing wrong with it. If women see marrying above one's class as normal, we men shouldn't accept anyone below par also.

Woman wey no get shingbai for account go dey give man wey dey earn conditions, what absurdity!

Let's stop fooling ourselves with love shi. Marriages and relationships are transactional.
It's an arrangement and one has to make the best of choices. What are you bringing to the table?

I blame low self esteemed men for putting a false sense of value on our women. The thing dey mess with their brain. The only thing most of them have to offer is sex, nothing more.

Men, raise your standards!

pocohantas:


Why does it matter?



Didn't you just type this?

Aplaudez:
This girl legitly told me to give her 30k to work her relocation for her nysc

I've being laughing since morning

Like what audacity 😒, am I her father

Please laugh with me guys

Kingrshd3:



Similarly to age bracket too your school female can't marry u instead they will marry a man older and greater than you 😆

The Op never grow up like can I say is maturity is not standard yet

Villa12:
you may likely remain single for life. Your sister was right. As a man, you will be the provider even if you're furtunate enough to get someone within your class. It is the norms in our clines.

Reason why i said you may likely remain single for life is because it is much easier for women to get men within or above their class but not that easy for men.

Negroid001:

She's still young. Don't destroy her life. She's not hungry like the hoes you're used to.
Abeg! Goan focus on your own sisters too.

Any high value woman will get married when she's ready.

luminouz:

Since I was born I have never heard this...

😳😳😳😳😳

Kingrshd3:



Similarly to age bracket too your school female can't marry u instead they will marry a man older and greater than you 😆

The Op never grow up like can I say is maturity is not standard yet

Negroid001:


Want to know the reason you're tackling me. Maybe it's because you're way older than that and still single.

I have female colleagues, friends and family who got married after 30. Tho i deem it quite late. They were able to find a partner because they brought something to the table.

Not referring to the wasted ones who are still feeling entitled.

Negroid001:

It's men with low standards that allow this.
Even the rich get married to the rich.

pocohantas:


Okay. For your female friends, you deem it late.

But for the women in your family, marriage is not an achievement and they can marry whenever they are ready.

I got you the first time, Sir.✌️

Villa12:
don't mind OP, he should let those small small boys on the platform to decieve him.

It is normal, girls will marry guys that are older and richer than them.

Negroid001:


Want to know the reason you're tackling me. Maybe it's because you're way older than that and still single.

I have female colleagues, friends and family who got married after 30. Tho i deem it quite late. They were able to find a partner because they brought something to the table.

Not referring to the wasted ones who are still feeling entitled.

Omalicious1:


I really wish all men could raise their standards very high.

Villa12:
baba lower your tone. No one is saying you should settle down with a jobless girl but the way i view this your post, it's sounds like you want a girl that you guys earn the same or if possible earn more than you, reason why i said you may likely remain single for long.

Even those rich people that gives out their children hand in marriage, the husband's family still take up more of the responsibility in the marriage and family. It is cultural.

Negroid001:


Getting married after 30 is late for any woman.
I even used people close to me as examples so not to seem biased.

Don't get what this is all about again.

Negroid001:


Any decision she makes, it's up to her. My own is to watch out for her. Marriage no be achievement for my family. Erryone is career eccentric, no pressures

Negroid001:

She's still young. Don't destroy her life. She's not hungry like the hoes you're used to.
Abeg! Goan focus on your own sisters too.

Any high value woman will get married when she's ready.

Negroid001:


I will keep repeating it.
There are levels to it.

I don't date below.

jojothaiv:

How many high valued woman are married? The answer to this question will make you have a rethink about your second line.

Negroid001:


If i dey defend am. Wouldn't have posted it in the first place.

Villa12:
i guess you don't mind late marriage also?