₦airaland Forum

candelahria:
I actually had all these except a vehicle before I got married and it's because I hadn't learnt how to drive yet. You may not believe me but it's the truth.

Why did u think we will not believe u.....??

GrandFinale2021:
you're a simp, leave that useless woman alone

I am a simp for posting...


Are u mad or sth?

illicit:
I am a simp for posting...


Are u mad or sth?

you're a foolish idiot for quoting that evening newspaper.
Make both of una getout

GrandFinale2021:
you're a foolish idiot for quoting that evening newspaper.
Make both of una getout

Na wa 4 u o

If no be say I no dey insult people, I for call ur papa a lunatic

Cloudflare:
Honestly, why is it so extremely difficult to find these qualities in a woman.

1. Doesn't double date
men for money
11. Spend her money on her man and Pampers him
18. Virgin
19. Has a car
20. doesn't have only sex to offer

Those are the qualities every sane man wants in a woman, is that too much to ask?

Judging from my female classmates and other Facebook female friends who are married, Nigerian men don't pay so much attention to those points, except she is a known sex peddler or chronic feminist. In fact, I know one who was notorious for fvcking anything in trousers during our first year wey don marry and have two children. Another used to coordinate runs in the state capital during weekends, she too don born two children. Then another who was close to me and gist about sexcapades married one well-to-do dude who is very handsome. Yet another who was infamous for being a club-goer don marry and born pikin. This one is a close friend to the notorious fvcker. I have seen a lot, which is why this alfa meil movement in Nigeria dey always surprise me. There was even another who was very churchy in her outward appearance but was sleeping with the student's pastor. If I was a frequent "we outside" person, I probably would have known more than I saw and was told.

For those who are single, they are being very selective and want the kind of men in Labake's thread. Unfortunately for them, that number 13 of not being a womaniser is where wahala go dey.

As for your list, there are women who qualify, but I am not sure of their virginity status. A few exhibit Ndi ifemenisim traits. I am wary of these ones.

Better drop your phone and go warm eba chop.

Badmashiii:
Bros i be confirm northerner and wetin you talk no be lie. Infact any girl from 23 na evening newspaper already for north.

I just dey try give am small hope because she desperately need it.

The world isn't the North.

shaybebaby:
The world isn't the North.

Fortunately for you guys. If not you would have been mindful of your doings.

Badmashiii:
Fortunately for you guys. If not you would have been mindful of your doings.

And unfortunate for you because you have to be mindful of your doings in the rest of the world.

shaybebaby:
And unfortunate for you because you have to be mindful of your doings in the rest of the world.

I'm not in "the rest of the world".

I'm your typical aboki northerner and in my books,any lady that is 23 and above is already OLD. Or what my homeboys call an EVENING NEWSPAPER.

illicit:
Na wa 4 u o

If no be say I no dey insult people, I for call ur papa a lunatic

Badmashiii:
I'm not in "the rest of the world".

I'm your typical aboki northerner .

Interesting.!!!...so u don't mind the tag aboki

I remember one incident I called one northerner aboki just to say hi when I wanted to buy water melon from him........this nigga wasn't having any of gestures at all....I tried to explain that aboki means my friend.....but he got angry more and said to his friend that was trying to calm him down that we down in the south don't use aboki to mean friend.....but we use it as a derogatory or a mere general tag for any one that's a northerner...

Deep down....I knew he was right......I said sorry...but he ddnt bulge..so I just left him quickly

advanceDNA:
Interesting.!!!...so u don't mind the tag aboki

I remember one incident I called one northerner aboki just to say hi when I wanted to buy water melon from him........this nigga wasn't having any of gestures at all....I tried to explain that aboki means my friend.....but he got angry more and said to his friend that was trying to calm him down that we down in the south don't use aboki to mean friend.....but we use it as a derogatory or a mere general tag for any one that's a northerner...

Deep down....I knew he was right......I said sorry...but he ddnt bulge..so I just left him quickly

I used to mind in the past but not anymore.

Sometimes i pick fun calling my fellow northerners "ABOKI" just for laughs and when they pick offense i immediately apologise in hausa after that they would laugh along with me.

It quite silly how a harmless word is now given a different meaning.

Aboki truly is an insulting term in the south. You should use "ABOKINA" instead and most northerners won't mind.

Badmashiii:
I used to mind in the past but not anymore.

Sometimes i pick fun calling my fellow northerners "ABOKI" just for laughs and when they pick offense i immediately apologise in hausa after that they would laugh along with me.

It quite silly how a harmless word is now given a different meaning.

Aboki truly is an insulting term in the south. You should use "ABOKINA" instead and most northerners won't mind.

What's the meaning of abokina

advanceDNA:
What's the meaning of abokina

The literal meaning of "ABOKI" is friend.

"ABOKINA" means my friend.

So it sounds somehow off to just address a stranger as "friend" unless you mean something different

That's why they pick offense. They knew you are only trying to insult them. But when you use "my friend" they believe you are being genuinely friendly.

Go outside and try using "ABOKINA" the reaction will shock you.

An average man expects to be paired with an average woman.

An average woman expects to be paired with an elite / high status man, and when she is paired with an average man, she will never get over her dissatisafaction.


The hypergamic bias of women is to think:

"I can be average or slightly above average, and I will be paired with a man who is elite on every metric"


Sadly, this usually does not materialize for them.

Badmashiii:
The literal meaning of "ABOKI" is friend.

"ABOKINA" means my friend.

So it sounds somehow off to just address a stranger as "friend" unless you mean something different

That's why they pick offense. They knew you are only trying to insult them. But when you use "my friend" they believe you are being genuinely friendly.

Go outside and try using "ABOKINA" the reaction will shock you.

Kk..thanks

Well... it's typical of nairalanders

advanceDNA:
Why did u think we will not believe u.....??

Jewessgratitud3 also known as Mariangeles:
You see what I'm talking about. This particular guy started since very early morning today mentioning me with all sorts of insults. If he's not mad tell me what his problem is...

Maria just ignore the troll..
He isn't worth your time.
When you ignore him and act like he doesn't exist, trust me he'll fade off completely

Cloudflare:
Honestly, why is it so extremely difficult to find these qualities in a woman.

1. Doesn't double date
2. Not into hookup, runz and twerking on tiktok and whatsApp status
3. Independent
4. rich
5. Educated
6. Not a single mother
7. Beautiful
8. Figure 8
9. Romantic
10. Doesn't follow men for money
11. Spend her money on her man and Pampers him
12. Isn't stingy
13. Doesn't have entitlement mentality
14. Tall
15. Doing well for herself
16. Have a good business or a job that fetches her good salary
17. Smart with good sense of humour
18. Virgin
19. Has a car
20. doesn't have only sex to offer

Those are the qualities every sane man wants in a woman, is that too much to ask?

Below are the qualities most women wants in man, is this too much to ask?

1. Faithful
2. Not reckless, not a drunkard or a drug addict
3. Independent
4. Wealthy
5. Educated and intelligent
6. Not someone's baby daddy
7. Handsome
8. Six packs
9. Romantic
10. Doesn't follow women for big boobs & butt.
11. Spend his money on his woman and pampers her.
12. Isn't stingy
13. Doesn't have entitlement mentality
14. Tall
15. Lives in a mansion
16. Have a decent and legit business that fetches him good salary
17. Smart with good sense of humour
18. Virgin
19. With exotic cars
20. Doesn't have only money to offer.