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Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

Most ladies mature beyond their age mates who are males.

What about you, are you dating your age mate?

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

Their age mates don't have the financial capacity to maintain a married lifestyle

It's not real advisable cha......

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

Maturity

Is not all about the money

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?
Is there a taboo in it?

is dating/marrying your agemate a necessity to have a successful marriage? women should marry who they desire, and if the men that approach them are older then so be it.

here is a simple clue: many men prefer dating/marrying younger women (if in doubt, go ask Ned and his Regina).

Whoever said that? It's best to date or marry one's age mate. You'll have more in common and all.

men date down, women date up... only a man can marry a lady who has nothing to offer, women don't unless she absolutely has no other options or just looking for a sperm donor...

Actually as a guy,all the girls have dated in my life are older than I do apart from my first girlfriend whom we share the same age.My pastor's daughter then I dated next was 2 years older and even the next lady I dated in school who had a child but didn't tell me until I found out myself was four years older

Sapasenator:
Most ladies mature beyond their age mate.

What about you, are you dating your age mate?

No, my age mates are not around me

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Maturity

Is not all about the money

I don't think maturity is by age because some younger people are sensible than most older folks. I believe that if the person is sensible irrespective of the age, it's a YES.

labake1:
I don't think maturity is by age because some younger people are sensible than most older folks. I believe that if the person is sensible irrespective of the age, it's a YES.

But in most cases experience comes with age

That's why you hear people say he or she has come of age, more wiser.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
But in most cases experience comes with age

That's why you hear people say he or she has come of age, more wiser.

That's true

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

lets get this right.. Nigerian ladies. Its obvious na. Na money they want. At least in almost all cases.

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

Are you not a female? I think you should tell us ur own experience in dating older men.

I will knock my age mate, I can't do that to someone older

A man should be @ least 7 years older than his babe. Women age faster with 5+ age to men. A 23 year old girl is literally 28yrs. and men age slower 5- to their age. So a 28yrs man is literally a 23yrs old.

The older the better...but money can break those protocols sha....

labake1:
Why is it that most ladies don't want to date or marry their age mates?


Is there a taboo in it?

Because most of their age mates no dey get the kind money wey them want.
If na their younger ones get money. Them go gladly date them too.

Fiscus105:
Are you not a female? I think you should tell us ur own experience in dating older men.

My age mates are not ready for relationship

labake1:
My age mates are not ready for relationship

....not ready for relationships or not ready for serious relationships?


The last time I checked, young sharps still want bestie stuff o.
I mean, craving for Friend With Benefits!

Sapasenator:
Most ladies mature beyond their age mate.

What about you, are you dating your age mate?

Hmm

I am one year older than my wife and she is looking wonderful. Na money be the koko.

If u have money and u guys eat good food forget older than who.

Poverty of both mind and cash is the problem here.

Maturity. Experience. Achievement.

In Nigeria,a thirty year old guy is starting to get on his feet meanwhile a woman of the same age is called "evening newspaper"

You already know this but just want to make noise and show the women in bad light

The Same reason why men want a younger obedient and chaste woman.

Most Nigerian ladies you meant. Nigerian ladies believe their husbands must die before them, hence they can't marry their mate

For respect and maturity 🖐️

Nigerian women, to be specific, and it revolves around respect.

They have not fully respected men older than them. Is it their age mates they want to respect?

Responsibility

Wisdom is expected to come with age

Except you are a simp, you may not respect your young spouse

Where no respect, there may be contempt that leads to gbassss gbosss

But marry for love sha

Damnnn niggar

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