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LandMann:
Maybe your parents are there to prevent you from the calamity that is waiting to befall you as soon as they're out of the picture. Na their grace and prayers dey cover you till now else you for don kick bucket with your careless and wayward lifestyle.

The end result of sleeping around with numerous different girls is attracting all manners of negative evil energies into your life and potentially catching a deadly virus

The end result of smoking weed excessively and taking all manners of drugs and drinks to get high is destruction of your vital organs and your brain, potentially leading to mental health breakdown and insanity.

The more you engage in the two activities the greater the chances of you ending up with one or more of the consequences.

I hope you learn and become more responsible before your parents grace expire and they leave this earth.

Shalom!

Which shalom are you wishing him

Someone if not repented off, will perish and go to hell
There is a way that seem right to a man but the end therefore is destruction.

He need to repent now before it will be too late for him
I marvel
He thought he Is enjoying life

moneyhabitudes:
Look, friend, I want you to guide me genuinely. You ask for help in selecting one of the two ambiguities you are facing: "renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself." But after reading about your problems and the solution that you are planning, I am deeply concerned. Currently, you may be young and earn a good amount of money that you are spending on hotels and handling the high cost of drinks, but my friend, you are also a human, and day after day, humans get old and our bodies parts become weak, and you will be unable to generate income. As you also mention, you like to spend your time with females, which will also make you weak from the inside, which means that in older age you will suffer from many illnesses and you will require a lot of medicines and medical tests that require huge money. 

Conclusion:
1. First, you should leave or change your bad habits, like controlling your spending behavior by adopting good money attitudes.
2. As you discussed, if you are planning to move your parents into a rental house, don't do this. This will be your second destructive step or mistake.
3. Live with your parents, spend time with them and your friends, brother, and sister, and play with children and dogs. Do meditation and yoga that will help you control your inner will and your entire body.
4. Plan for the future in the present so that you can make your future. Think about investing; compound interest investing makes better use of money than spending it on useless things.

Want to ask or know more things? You can discuss this with us, and we will maintain your complete privacy and help you improve. Visit Money Habitudes.

All this won't help him without Jesus.

God!
Why can't you all be truthfully in telling the truth

Ibeyes:
And you are even proud of it

The guy they vex me

Yet he dey proud of am.

Cmanforall:
Which job do you do to be spending 200k per week on hotel bills only?

Maybe na yahoo

To renew his ritual
Abet
Give your life to Jesus before it will be too late

Hell await all sinner

are you really stup-d or pretending to be?

Rent a house bro. E get why. There is no gain in this your lifestyle for more than a decades now I have being going to club and there is no gain. Just rent a easy access house or build another one if you are capable

How on earth did this appear in FP?

Be like NL na for children wey dey find nonsense to post...mtcheeww

Rent an apartment or build a second house, Every man needs his privacy. Hope the house u built where ur parents lived have all documents in ur own name and not in ur parents names? E get why; as some siblings will be eyeing the house thinking it is their parents and therefore family property.
Building another house will make u channel more funds into it n indirectly reduce the wasteful spendings on these girls.
Having more fixed assets is wealth oh. And make sure all ur fixed assets is in ur name alone.

Oizee:
What stigma? People will talk for sometime and that's the end.

Op why do you love bringing different ladies home when you can just settle down since u have high libido, after all you are capable.

I like your attitude towards your parents though, I guess it's out of respect u don't want to misbehave in their presence, some ill mannered guys won't give a damn how he makes them feel simply because the parent are at his mercy.

You know your lifestyles, instead of wasting money on hotels, rent a room somewhere.

Please do and marry, I dislike irresponsible guys.

He should do and marry just because you dislike irresponsible guys? Let me guess,you are also a Disney princess in your own head abi?

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

If you can afford to pay for hotels why not rent a small apartment?

Didinrin

1000Capacity:
I noticed no one has been crazy and bold enough to tell you to move your parents out

It's important that you and your dick enjoy your life and maximum pleasure. You parents should not Stand in the way of your pleasures.
After all, they should have built their own house.

Move them to a "face me and slap you single room". That way, you can hold parties back to back in your mansion. No one has ever built that your kind of house before. Good boy

If your siblings come around to complain, tell them to kneel down and give each of them very loud knock on their big head. Family must not come in-between you, your small dick and the several hookup girls

Which kain advise be this? I smell sarcasm

T0T0Vulcanizer:
No I am not yet ready for marriage.
They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

Don't go and carry babe that'll give you HIV. It's best to look for your type of girl to marry or you stick with one girl as your girlfriend. Let your parents know that you have a girlfriend so that she can freely come and spend time with you at your house. Carrying different girls and going to clubs and hotels isn't a responsible lifestyle for any young man.

I don talk my own sha, no go dey carry woman upandan wey go give you HIV/STD. This life too sweet especially when you get money. No, live your life irresponsibly die throw way.

Gggggggg

Mindlog:
Though this is another tales by moonlight by OP but for such real life situation, the bigger problem is the "enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices....to cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week"...Hypersexuality is a mental health condition.

Almost all Nigerian men have hypersexuality then!!!☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

UPDATE: I went to check DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for hypersexuality, op doesn't have it!!!

U nor c ur self ! Hook up....that money should be enough for u to buy and build another house instead of waist n it

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

This thread reeks of boastfulness

frozen70:
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No sensible man drives his parents away from a home he built for whatever reasons

Just rent an apartment anywhere you want and since your sex drive is higher as four times a week

Rent an apartment for that purpose and furnish it to your taste and stay their to play your game whenever it's game time

You can still be leaving with your parents if you wish to still have them around you

So that means you will now be having two apartments which is very ok for you

Untill you are ready to settle down and start your own family

The OP didn't state that his sex drive is as high as 4 times a week. In any event, 4 times a week ISN'T a high sex drive for a young male.

Sex done 7 times OR more a week would be considered very high... OR when a dude's daily attention is constantly interrupted by the thoughts of having sex.

In any event, you largely made valid points in your summations here.

Fiction not true and never happened

T0T0Vulcanizer:
No I am not yet ready for marriage.
They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

Am quite sure that you are not using protection, with all these strain of HIV viruses everywhere.
Continue.

T0T0Vulcanizer:
No I am not yet ready for marriage.
They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

I don’t know how old you are but there’s this sense of irresponsibility coming from your write up & responses. There are things you might tell someone, but they won’t bother to listen. The only one they can listen to is consequences. A wise man said that there’s a way that seems wise to a man, but the end of it is destruction. Temporary pleasure that may come with permanent consequences. What advantages can you name you’ve gained from prostituting? Your username alone shows pride in your current lifestyle. You are self-destructing & I wish you could see beyond now. You’ll be wasting money, soul ties are real whether you are a believer or not, diseases, addiction, children with multiple women etc. I see nothing to write home about where that lifestyle is concerned. Why don’t you replace that habit with a more constructive hobby & set up a piggy bank where you deposit the money you’d spend weekly on prostitutes then do a count after say 3-6 months? I hope you won’t look at your past & be filled with regrets in years to come. We can write long pages of suggestions, but unless you make up your mind to change, then we write to you in vain. Money without character is a catastrophe.Anyway, the ball is in your court. Do what you think is good.

Tjra:
What do you guys enjoy in Hook up girls?
The mere mention of them makes me wanna vomit

get out idiot

Mindlog:
Though this is another tales by moonlight by OP but for such real life situation, the bigger problem is the "enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices....to cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week"...Hypersexuality is a mental health condition.

"Hypersexuality" is another term for being a male "nymphomaniac." You reckon the dude has a mental illness?

You're not serious are you? *Smirk*

jmoore:
Others are pumping tyre, you are pumping toto.

You are worried about stigma of a landlord renting an apartment, but you are not worried about stigma of patronizing ashawo.

If you marry and have kids, will you encourage your daughter to be an ashawo(one of the fishes)?

wetin be ya own. Mumu boy

ojun50:
I will advise you settle down with a girl instead of sleeping around.

Have you asked yr self this questions: what if you have HIV, what if she die why sexing or you die why doing it, which I don't pray for. What if, you end up sleeping with a girl that will take yr glory. Look for a stable GF.

you are very stupid. Whats your own

blackborn7:
If you have high sexual urge why don't you get a decent woman and wife her. is so shameful to rent another apartment for your parent because of kpekus. Dude, have you lost your civility and morals. enough of the hook up and get a decent girlfriend.

idiot, one woman cannot satisfy a man

How do you make your money. Please I need advice

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.

While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.

To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.

I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.

Fryx:
How do you being a woman advise a man to settle down because of sex.

Ask yourself, will you be always in the mood to satisfy your man?

Bad advice.

A man should never set to down in the hope of getting free sex.


Although I can’t blame you for that thought direction. Marriages are transactional these days.

they are neva in the mood

Dont forget to patronise Ishilove

T0T0Vulcanizer:
No I am not yet ready for marriage.
[/b]They still many fishes in the ocean that I still haven't tasted yet.[b]

Yes I respect my parents very much. If someone goes to tell my mom that see me with cigar stick she won't believe.

Imagine what a guy is saying, and yet nobody calls him male slut...
But when a girl says the same thing, the whole thread will attack her saying this one don be slut from belle...

It is well

fineboynl:
Rent a house bro. E get why. There is no gain in this your lifestyle for more than a decades now I have being going to club and there is no gain. Just rent a easy access house or build another one if you are capable

do you get free sex at the club