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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by jaszplus12(m): 11:00pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


Then he lied to you he wasn't serious about the wedding. Tops even a crazy man would go is introduction, a totally crazy man may go as far as bride price! Plus, see above
Well, he told me the truth about the fake wedding he had with a lady just to lay her!
Isn't that the reason for this thread??
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by dkidd: 11:01pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


Introduction NOT marriage ("with live band and buffet kitchen"!}
The marriage thing is what marks it a fake story.
That and "abroad guy"!
U don't have to rule it out completely some guys can go to any length for pussy just to bring it down.
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 11:05pm On May 10
jaszplus12:

Well, he told me the truth about the fake wedding he had with a lady just to lay her!
Isn't that the reason for this thread??

He lied to you, simple. He lied to you the wedding was just to sex her
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 11:07pm On May 10
dkidd:

U don't have to rule it out completely some guys can go to any length for pussy just to bring it down.

Not in Nigeria when it comes to money, with the type of girls I see around here
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Beautifulday: 11:17pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


And do you know we're in Naija?
People who have such money are sought after - and usually don't have time


Everyone who has such money has excess time because nah illegal money. There are too many money miss road for this country.
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 11:27pm On May 10
Beautifulday:


Everyone who has such money has excess time because nah illegal money. There are too many money miss road for this country.

No time in the sense that they have too many Naija women after them. Too many to deal with to start doing fake marriage 4 one.

Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Beautifulday: 11:31pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


No time in the sense that they have too many Naija women after them. Too many to deal with to start doing fake marriage 4 one.

You mean dirty women? Money make you seek different class.
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by dkidd: 11:36pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


Not in Nigeria when it comes to money, with the type of girls I see around here
Okay
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 11:37pm On May 10
Beautifulday:


You mean dirty women? Money make you seek different class.

In Naija if you have money and what money can buy, girls will be there whether u like it or not - all kinds. That's how things work here.
Desperate, broke guys are the ones who'd do carry-wine introduction for sex!
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Beautifulday: 11:39pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:


In Naija if you have money and what money can buy, girls will be there whether u like it or not - all kinds. That's how things work here.
Desperate, broke guys are the ones who'd do carry-wine introduction for sex!

And you feel a guy must accept any girl that comes his way? If you have money, you will start selecting girls. Money brings out fetish in men
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 11:42pm On May 10
Beautifulday:


And you feel a guy must accept any girl that comes his way? If you have money, you will start selecting girls. Money brings out fetish in men

You don't understand. Not only are there no such rich men, there are no such girls in Nigeria
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Celense(m): 11:52pm On May 10
This happened years back, it's similar to the one that happened to the person I know.
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MamaletASO: 11:55pm On May 10
DaddyCoool:
FAKE story

Hmm..bros no be fake oo...

I know a stoopid guy that have done it to six -girls..

He did engagement just to fvck the ladies..and the guy didn't marry anyone of them...

He travelled to just Libya in Africa the guy was deported...

It's been long I hear from the guy...I bliev the guy fit dey suffer...those ladies he offended by putting them to shame will affect him...

It's real.


Just to fvck pvzzy you guys do some crazy things alot

Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 12:01am On May 11
MamaletASO:


Hmm..bros no be fake oo...

I know a stoopid guy that have done it to six -girls..

He did engagement just to fvck the ladies..and the guy didn't marry anyone of them...

He travelled to just Libya in Africa the guy was deported...

It's been long I hear from the guy...I bliev the guy fit dey suffer...those ladies he offended by putting them to shame will affect him...

It's real.


Just to fvck pvzzy you guys do some crazy things alot

Did you read the thread at all? Everybody is talking engagement or introduction.
Here's OP's own:

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Sniper101(m): 1:38am On May 11
In my church a few years back, my Bro's friend (who had not even been a member for UpTo 10 months) proposed to a very pretty churchy lady in our church there. He engaged her and thereafter took her to the pastor to state some gibberish about his desire to marry her.

Afterwards, consistent knacking ensued because Sister in the Lord was certain Brother in the Lord is her husband already grin

After about 3 months of courtship and intense frequent knacking, Brother in the Lord was nowhere to be found in the church nor in the State.


PS: I learnt all these when my Bro gave his buddy a call to enquire of his whereabouts. His buddy mentioned that he came to the church just to find a way to get close to the lady and engage her...so as to have a free pass (from her) to chop her.




How cruel can some people be grin

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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MrLibrarian(m): 4:55am On May 11
ehissi:


Don't say that ooo I know of folks who hold fake proposals with ring, roses, friends held in expensive hotels just to get a girl to sleep with them.

At a time, I know a guy who has 5 different rings he use to propose just to get some koochi .

Later you will hear, my mummy said we forbid to marry Edo, or my family church Pastor say you people have Spiritual problem because someone in your family used to serve juju
grin grin grin
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MrLibrarian(m): 4:57am On May 11
bestman09:


May be real.
I witnessed one. After lots of fruitless efforts to sleep with the lady, the guy kind of RENTED fake family and friends to go with him to the girl's family with drinks showing his seriousness to marry the lady, and after all said and done, he dumped her after getting what he wanted. He spent money then for the rubbish
na WA oo people dey ooo
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MrLibrarian(m): 5:00am On May 11
YelloweWest:
This is why you must do court marriage as a lady!

Your traditional marriage offers you zero protection from monstrous men.

If she was married in court, (marriage registry) she could find for divorce and get full compensation!
na the compensation una dey always look for.
Bloody greedy thieves
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by DaddyCoool: 5:10am On May 11
YelloweWest:
This is why you must do court marriage as a lady!

Your traditional marriage offers you zero protection from monstrous men.

If she was married in court, (marriage registry) she could find for divorce and get full compensation!

You are wrong. This is a common misconception. Traditional marriage with photos and witnesses has same legal weight as registry marriage IN NIGERIA. Outside Nigeria or foreign embassy is a different matter

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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by HRMK: 6:59am On May 11
THAT COULD ONLY BE DONE BY A PARTICULAR REGION OF THE COUNTRY! WHAT A HEARTLESS THING TO DO!!
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Fiscus105(m): 7:02am On May 11
advanceDNA:


It was everywhere naaa......can't get the exact blog but some of it is below..it was her first marriage that lasted only few months ooo.. nit with JJC oooo...
...she spoke of the verbal abuse back then how he would always say he would return to his becos he never wanted to marry her ......
https://www.thecable.ng/how-funke-akindele-is-surviving-her-failed-marriage-and-making-life-count/amp/


How the link correlated with post here?.....the post is about, go as far as doing traditional marriage with a lady because she is forming hard and not about Marriage failure after few months, because i didn't see where they say, he did wedding for Funke because she was forming hard.


I guess the second marriage that failed, it was also about forming hard.
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Fiscus105(m): 7:11am On May 11
DaddyCoool:


Did you read the thread at all? Everybody is talking engagement or introduction.
Here's OP's own:

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."


So, the abroad guy that stayed in abroad also knew that ur cousin was forming hard to get? I guess the abroad guy is jobless in the abroad he based.


Many of you mistaken deceiving woman to sex, or Marriage that's not last to forming hard.

Marriages can be failed because of many reasons which is different from forming hard.

The process of Marriage is too tedious for rational human beings to involve himself for sole purpose of sleeping with that girl.

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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by YelloweWest: 7:57am On May 11
DaddyCoool:


You are wrong. This is a common misconception. Traditional marriage with photos and witnesses has same legal weight as registry marriage IN NIGERIA. Outside Nigeria or foreign embassy is a different matter
It doesn't pls! In circumstances like this if the matter is brought to court the court would refer the woman back to her native law for redress since it is under native law the marriage was contracted.

She can't get alimony or even a settlement. Under native law she gets nothing!
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by YelloweWest: 8:01am On May 11
MrLibrarian:
na the compensation una dey always look for.
Bloody greedy thieves

It's to wreck a woman's life you guys are always after. Bloody fùçking bastàrds!

This should even be a criminal offence where the culprit goes to jail not just pay compensation. Nonsense!
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by advanceDNA: 8:17am On May 11
Fiscus105:



How the link corolated with post here?.....the post is about go as far as doing traditional marriage with a lady because she is forming hard and not about Marriage failure after few months, because i didn't see where they say, he did wedding for Funke because she was forming hard.


I guess the second marriage that failed, it was also about forming hard.

Lol.....go and meet whoever annoyed u abeg
because I know it's not me....
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MrLibrarian(m): 8:21am On May 11
YelloweWest:


It's to wreck a woman's life you guys are always after. Bloody fùçking bastàrds!

This should even be a criminal offence where the culprit goes to jail not just pay compensation. Nonsense!
women and infidelity are inseparable.
I'm very much sure and can swear with my life that ever since you got married to that simp you called husband, other dicks have been thrusting your pussy as your poor simp husband is not the only one fuccking you.
While he suffers and sweats to feed you and the kids you and your fellow women are just useless and lazy by sleeping around and bringing diseases and infections to the poor man.
Useless entities
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by MamaletASO: 8:22am On May 11
DaddyCoool:


Did you read the thread at all? Everybody is talking engagement or introduction.
Here's OP's own:

"There was this abroad guy that came back, did introduction and traditional marriage (with live band, buffet kitchen, canopy and all that) just to chop my hard-to-get cousin."

Engagement is the Traditional Wedding.. maybe English dey confuse you..

Process of wedding:

*Introduction
*Engagement (traditional wedding where dowry is been paid)
*Then, you can proceed to Church wedding, if you are Christian, that's all.


You got Court to collect certificate, for your wedding to have legal backing...dazzol

Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Psoul(m): 8:35am On May 11
Chickenandchips:
A medical doctor has revealed the extent a man went to get his (doctor's) cousin who rejected his advances.

He explained that the man went as far as getting married to the woman traditionally just so he could sleep with her.

Afterwards, he broke things off with her and said he only did the traditional wedding to have s*x with her since she was forming hard to get.

The doctor wrote:

Chiemeziem MD

If this story is true then, Doctor, your cousin is a dumb and unintelligent.

A guy approached you and you did not see anything in him that will make you accept him as your date.

He changed the strategy to marriage, you accepted him.
I don't understand why a woman will be playing hard to get when in the real sense, she's not.
That your cousin has no class. She's just arrogant lady with empty skull
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by Zealag(m): 9:50am On May 11
Believe it or not,guys will go any extent to fxck a lady that plays hard to get. My own experience.
My secretary met a guy online last year,he stays in (Mainz) Germany,they got along and continued chatting and VC daily to the extent that she fell so deep inluv with the guy that she even VC him when she’s in the bathroom,dressing up and told this mystery guy everything about her life and her family jus in the name of been open to the lohl.
Funny enough this guy also spent on her in the early stages,sent her euros oftentimes.
Dude told her his coming back around February to see his family members back in Lagos,she immediately shifted her leave of 2weeks to February just to meet her online husband which definitely happened.They had good time,enjoyed each other and dude left her traveled back to Mainz and immediately break up with her,blocked her on all social media till today.

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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by maasoap(m): 10:26am On May 11
DaddyCoool:


And men who have that kind of money won't have the time

They can have the time because some people no dey chase money, na money dey chase them grin grin grin

and too many girls after them

You don't know what ego and bruised ego means, do you? Laughing

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Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by jaywon442: 12:18pm On May 11
Tame26:
this might be fake. But someone did exactly thesame to me not up to marriage, but he only asked me out just to prove a point to his friends. The relationship was great, he only disclosed this when it was going sour.
the relationship with Chad and Tyrone is always great. Keep it up
Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by YelloweWest: 12:45pm On May 11
MrLibrarian:
women and infidelity are inseparable.
I'm very much sure and can swear with my life that ever since you got married to that simp you called husband, other dicks have been thrusting your pussy as your poor simp husband is not the only one fuccking you.
While he suffers and sweats to feed you and the kids you and your fellow women are just useless and lazy by sleeping around and bringing diseases and infections to the poor man.
Useless entities

Eyaaa not every woman is your mother. You are clearly the son of a whôre.

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