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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Stargurl20(f): 9:34pm On May 10
I wonder if these women usually visit your guest house to have nice time with spirits and not the opposite gender. Everytime "fear women"

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Stargurl20(f): 9:43pm On May 10
Stevenbright:



If the women start saying NO, there will be no cheating.

It's not only about saying no alone. It's about the men initiating it as well and all the blame is being apportioned to women. Make una fear God when judging.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by okoroemeka(m): 9:43pm On May 10
ForValour:
Fear woman? Naaaa, nothing to fear in a woman.
I wonder, is it not when you trust them you will fear for your heart
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Juoflife1(f): 9:47pm On May 10
The women went to the hotels with single guys abi? Your head is paining you sad

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Stevenbright(m): 9:55pm On May 10
Stargurl20:


It's not only about saying no alone. It's about the men initiating it as well and all the blame is being apportioned to women. Make una fear God when judging.

Just lookup the post I quoted. The op placed the blame squarely on the men for doing the chasing. I only added mine to balance that pov.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Bliztzer: 10:07pm On May 10
geoworldedu:
You are still in stone age if you believe in any specific God. The truth is, nobody knows and nobody can know the real truth about the existence of the universe. People like you created every single god to fill that void.

The fool had said in his heart, there is no God. Don't be like those that think there is no God
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by ALFADOS(m): 10:07pm On May 10
Odebayo4010:
My Experience working in a Hotel as a receptionist Open my eye to unimaginable things. So Many things that will make you scared. Working in a hotel will turn you to something else. Avoid it if you can.

Things dey happen there, Especially married women what they're doing they maval, I done hear different sound track I swear, both from married woman and singles. You will see how dey slàughter people's serious girlfriends.

Working at a lodge will make you fear marriage self.

Chai omo I done day fear women like this, many things day happen ooh, imagine both married women ooh, omo if no be to get children I for no near woman say I won marry
Especially married women with small small boys. One of them like me and wanted me to be her boyfriend and I refuse, she was angry and stop coming to the hotel.. To marry go hard o.

I have once catch my neighbor wife but I forgot to snap her for evidence. Without an evidence, I decided to keep quiet . This man loves this lady dīe. Come see gift he will pack come back while coming for holiday from work

That's is why I always say cheating is not gender based to confirm, just go to any hotel or guest house to relax or watch ball, u will see many married women coming for short time, many even stay over night, have seen a Soo called men and women of God come to hotel to do short time.

Some times is good to go out especially to some places to see dat dere is nothing in this life and u will appreciate the fact that you need to love your self more than any other person.

For men dat carry dere wives for head, I love my wife I love my wife, you wife dey hotel to do short time with another man, make everyone get sense and trust nobody.
Continue later, I wanted to rest for now.
OP this topic today loud, laugh wan kill me with different comments chai
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Orinechi: 10:32pm On May 10
donproject2:


You are a man of wisdom, everything here pours out my own mind. Hotels should make it one of their rules that no staff should talk about what they see in the hotel to outsiders, it should be breech of contract to anyone that does so.
Don't be afraid ur wife won't know.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Hassanmaye(m): 10:33pm On May 10
Legal001:
Fear women fear women
Are they going in there with their fellow women
Hahahaha
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Hassanmaye(m): 10:35pm On May 10
Stanweezy:
Alot happens there even medical doctor that came on health awareness still demanded for olosho to sleep with for night

In the morning he will embark on living healthy lifestyle

Ikegwurum
Hahahaha please My stomach I beg you 😆 👿
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Hassanmaye(m): 10:40pm On May 10
AmazingELixir:


Op oya comot your photo.... you no need post am make you no spoil business for your oga, some of dem wey go come do short time for una hotel dey here.
He's not wise
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by theredaddy: 10:44pm On May 10
Holluwhakemmy:
women are not doing it alone


Not only men are scum smiley
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by soccerlite: 10:45pm On May 10
Ode bayo and you got 215 likes for dis nonsense post

And it made fp too

Nl don become gutter


Rubbish
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Bloomfrancs03(m): 10:50pm On May 10
cococandy:


What if it were a single girl and a married man?

I am not saying you don’t see such. I am talking of the number of married women doing it compared to the number of married men

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Emmanuel909090: 10:57pm On May 10
So true
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by nedekid: 11:00pm On May 10
BigYash:
If men stop carrying the women,cheating no go dey.. Men are the major cause.. They use money to buy these ladies ,and thanks to the hardship apc brought upon nigerians.. It made it worst .. To see girl marry now is war.. You cant even see? Singles in relationships cheats, married folks worst .. Yesterday i saw something that shocked me in a church establlishment.. Someone that said he is a pastor and another pastor's wife.. I was like if this can happen in public,private place go be blast..

Lolz, women nko? I don see where corporate official car driver with madam at the back seat drive into short time hotel. Those ones with gate per room. They closed the gate as they drove in. After 1hr, they drove out. Watin them go do, I no know.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Lordbinsmar: 11:11pm On May 10
VeeVeeMyLuv:

His iq is smaller than a mustard seed

That tells you and demonstrates that people like op who work in hotels have very low levels of intelligence

But you be wicked somebody ooo cheesy

You dey compare his brain with a mustard seed

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Beautifulday: 11:22pm On May 10
Johnson225:
Its the way you keep stressing on the "women" for me grin
Abi no be men dey carry dem come the hotel??

Thing is; while growing up. We were told marriage is sacred and bla bla. But viewing Things now as an adult seems different from what we were told

About snapping your neighhours wife? Shun that thought... focus on your job. No go use your hand put yourself for trouble

If man wan carry married woman, what stop her from saying no?

Try go watch match for small lounge. You no cry for marriage. No be jonsing.

Wetin that guy talk nah true

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by DonroxyII: 12:17am On May 11
Shikena:
Fear human beings, shikena! grin
Simply Fear God & Close eyes ... Nothing to Fear in Anything Else than to Guide & Guard Yourself against Evils Emanating from Anyone/Anything!

No Looseguard, Human shall be Human ... No Suprises in Anything!
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by DonroxyII: 12:21am On May 11
SafePromotions:
Marry Only The Person You Can TRUST.

There Are Women Out There Who Don't Cheat And Are Dedicated To ONLY Their Husbands.


I Am A Man And I Am Married Safely Promoting The Businesses of Others Through My Skills of Digital Marketing.

Bro, Do Your Best, Close Ya Eyes, Pray to God & Leave the Rest .... Na Only God You fit Trust No be "Human" ... Human can happen to Anbody Anytime Anywhere....

Trust is simply a Simping thing since Year 0 ...

Trust are Broken Easily even by factors that can be beyond the broker of Trust ...
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by DonroxyII: 12:39am On May 11
omojeesu:
The players are irresponsible men and women!
This is not True !
Many Players are Responsible Depending on Personality!

Dem dey play ball ooo Normal Normal Steady but Dem wife & Children no dey lack anything!
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Flakky26(f): 12:41am On May 11
this is apt

ivolt:
Illogical submission.

If even just 1% of married women patronise hotel for illicit affairs,
major hotel owners will be dominating Nigeria's Forbes list.

Yet, majority of hotels struggle to breakeven and maintain their structures
despite the imaginary regular influx of married women.

Are there married women who engage in prostitution, yes, but that is the reality of life.
But the idea that an average married woman out there is somewhere selling herself at a hotel is ludicrous.

This is just like asking people to visit Igbobi Orthopaedic so they can fear traveling.
Yes, you will see enough badly broken bones. But that doesn't mean the average person
out there is treating one broken bone or the other. We all know a tiny minority of the people
find themselve in Igbobi.

This post isn't about absolving ALL married women of cheating/prostituting but to
invalidate pointless alarmist arguments.

Married women cheating is as old as marriage itself. We could forgive a child for
not knowing this but an adult shouldn't be surprised or alarmed.

@OP assuming all married women in Nigeria are chaste except your wife,
Will such stats make you happy and your home peaceful?

As long as a particular person's wife has not been found cheating/prostituting
what a random hotel worker reports should be irrelevant to their home.
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Kobicove(m): 12:57am On May 11
Stanweezy:
Alot happens there even medical doctor that came on health awareness still demanded for olosho to sleep with for night

In the morning he will embark on living healthy lifestyle

Ikegwurum

grin

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by DonroxyII: 12:58am On May 11
nedekid:

Lolz, women nko? I don see where corporate official car driver with madam at the back seat drive into short time hotel. Those ones with gate per room. They closed the gate as they drove in. After 1hr, they drove out. Watin them go do, I no know.
They went in for strategic thinking ... Leave Matter for Mathias ...

If they went into restaurant you for talk 👄

To feed mouth no be problem but to feed downstairs come be issues .....

We are mostly attached to someone feeding either our Mouth or Our Toyos grin ....

Just take your L in Peace for this Generation & Make your Own Billions ... Leave matter for Mathias ...

Human is Human ... we eat, we fvck, we piss, we shi.t ... we breathe in & Out ... Normal Human Parols no suppose amaze anyone cheesy

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Curious345: 1:18am On May 11
Airlord2030:
you can keep deceiving yourself. Majority of the prostitutes in Nigeria comes from those two cursed regions.
Na lie
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by freeborn02: 1:31am On May 11
BigYash:
If men stop carrying the women,cheating no go dey.. Men are the major cause.. They use money to buy these ladies ,and thanks to the hardship apc brought upon nigerians.. It made it worst .. To see girl marry now is war.. You cant even see? Singles in relationships cheats, married folks worst .. Yesterday i saw something that shocked me in a church establlishment.. Someone that said he is a pastor and another pastor's wife.. I was like if this can happen in public,private place go be blast..


Many married women cheat on their husbands with other women. Stop talking like a mentally limited person

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by NothingDoMe: 1:39am On May 11
Airlord2030:
Especially SE & their cursed SS brethens cheesy
How SS take enter this matter now? If I run enter you....

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by NothingDoMe: 1:50am On May 11
BigYash:
You give who dey hungry money worth more than her 4months salary in apc goverment ,you expect her to say no? If it was during pdp or lets say those days,some will say NO.. But now ,even who no wan do am before go do am ,when good money is involved.. Women dont cheat cux they like who dey are cheating with,they cheat for benefits.Might be good sex or money.. Men cheat because they like who they cheat with ,and they still end up spending on her.. Might even marry her as time goes on.. Men are the major promoters of cheating..
This is true. Many ladies are more vulnerable now due to the economic situation.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by patomberekpe(m): 2:08am On May 11
I don't know why i feel the writer of this article was making this up, I'm not saying what he said is not happening, But i have the felling he was lying to stare the space
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by hooklover: 2:15am On May 11
modernWays:


God bless you, in as much as I will agree that some married women cheat, I won't accept the popular believes that it is on majority side.

From my little assessment, only about 20% married women were once or randomly cheats, and out of this 20%, 15% fear using hotels to avoid being caught. Infact, majority of them in this bracket cheat with men their husbands or anyone will hardly suspect or expected. So, majority of the women this boy normally see where he works could probably be single mothers or mature babes.

Yes u are right married lady hoing to hotel na old chool now dey go to private residence . Wen i was onnfire with married ladies i take dem to apartment were nonody suspect . Many also have unions were they rent accomodation and direct their guys dere.They have many places dey pay for and u go dere with ut guy no fear of people seeing u.

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Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by cattylove7(f): 3:05am On May 11
any1 who does aristo while single ll surely continue after marriage na who dey catch b thief! www.cattylove.com
Re: Working At A Lodge Will Make You Fear Dating by Halo22: 3:50am On May 11
I don't get it with all these reports of men taking women to hotel or vice versa. If u check the ratio of ladies to men in this country now, it is about 5:2, so tell me why it won't be fair on the side of ladies to be patronized. Secondly, what people see as being married especially the arrangee marriage in vogue these days eeeh! I do not support spouse cheating on each other, but if that would guarantee longevity of life, why won't they indulge in it. After all, Yul Edochie told us he derived rest of mind the day he met Judy Austin and that's a very good case study.

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