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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by sucess001(m): 1:26pm On May 18
saphiere:
Poor men should not even get erection talk more of getting married.
I'd rather be a rainbow 🌈 person than marry a broke man. Isn't it better than being with the rapist gender?

Ashiere spotted

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by YOLO1(m): 1:28pm On May 18
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by iCauseTrouble: 1:29pm On May 18
If there is anything relationship has taught me, it will be to prioritize myself and my mental health first before my partner.
Anything fit sup tomorrow.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by article1: 1:30pm On May 18
Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
What is important is the message he tried to pass across. You don't have to pick holes in people's mistakes at all times. No one is an island. Perfection is only found in God.
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 1:32pm On May 18
CuriousCart:


Now it's "each gender" but if the genders in the story were reversed it would be an all out attack against men. This is why I avoid conversations with my fellow women.

What she did was evil.
Period.

If you were curious enough, you would have realized that I neither do gender wars nor join victimhood FC.

By the way, if you avoid conversations with women, who do you converse with? Ghosts?

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 1:32pm On May 18
Mariangeles:


Yeah. It didn't state clearly that the couple were divorced.


There is no context to the story.
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 1:34pm On May 18
LexngtonSteele:


Yeah. I know a family friend who had 3 official children.

Not knowing that the yeye guy who pretends to be a Saint has sowed wild oats. He had 3 bastards as of last count. We know more will come out when he dies. cheesy

Ha! Toor! cheesy

You guys should be preparing then.

On a serious note, hope the wife knows and have re-engineered her life accordingly since she has decided to continue the marriage.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Joshcoli(m): 1:34pm On May 18
Convinced your mum to sell her only property so as to enable you sponsor a woman and worst of it all to the abroad...

Your f**lishness is tasting colour brown
What an ignoramourasrically baffoon baboon

May God condole your innocent mum for giving birth to a nonsensically enabled son

Tweeeeeh...

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by obaidan: 1:34pm On May 18
You fronted the LOVE OF YOUR YOUTH with money from sales of what should be your inheritance. You dey add value to her with your inheritance while you are stagnant. You empowered and exalted her to a position where you will be dependent on her. Some of you are diluting common sense with modern day wokeness.
U say so it can be easy for you people, probably so u can hustle long hours while she goes to school, d kids are in naija what is wrong with the woman being d one to go and hustle warehouse job and long hour shifts while u the man go to school first, when u finish and get a stable job, then she goes to her own school. Una go just lay with woman, the toto go sweet una, then u start spending ur inheritance in the name of "I love her"

The only women u should delay ur own development and gratification in order to support are your daughter, mother and sister(if she qualifies) based on history.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by MaziObinnaokija: 1:35pm On May 18
shaybebaby:

Hope you will be at the airport to collect him and have a job or business lined up for him.

#mensupportingmen.
cool bia! Not everybody are suffering..In this present Economy storm,there are still people making it without noise..Some people don land in Nigeria b4 him,.Nothing do them.Id u fail/fall,doesn't mean you'll not pass/walk again.There's still HOPE for him UNLESS ones head is CUT off.He'l still SHINEl
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by faithfull18(f): 1:37pm On May 18
Somebody should explain it well.
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:39pm On May 18
Super foolish man,?
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Juoflife1(f): 1:39pm On May 18
Mtcheeew
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Nonexisting1: 1:40pm On May 18
Another simp crushed. I'm very pleased. Daughters of Jezebel should continue giving them simps breakfast. We have been warning them but it seems that Mr. experience is in better position to teach them well.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:40pm On May 18
obaidan:
You fronted the LOVE OF YOUR YOUTH with money from sales of what should be your inheritance. You dey add value to her with your inheritance while you are stagnant. You empowered and exalted her to a position where you will be dependent on her. Some of you are diluting common sense with modern day wokeness.
U say so it can be easy for you people, probably so u can hustle long hours while she goes to school, d kids are in naija what is wrong with the woman being d one to go and hustle warehouse job and long hour shifts while u the man go to school first, when u finish and get a stable job, then she goes to her own school. Una go just lay with woman, the toto go sweet una, then u start spending ur inheritance in the name of "I love her"

The only women u should delay ur own development and gratification in order to support are your daughter, mother and sister(if she qualifies) based on history.
Absolutely

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:41pm On May 18
A moda4ukhing simp

Fhukin lied to your mom so you could pleas a beatch, now see what you got

What's the difference between you and yahoo boys? You scammed an old woman!!!

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bikefab(m): 1:41pm On May 18
Stories of this nature usually paint the woman as the antagonist but never judge a book by its cover. There are always two sides to a story

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Anunakeeh: 1:41pm On May 18
idahme:
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

The day many foools who called themselves men become absolutely aware of who and what women really are.

Anything marriage will end that very day!

But for now let them keep wallowing in their foolishness and stupidity.
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Babbyad: 1:42pm On May 18
Are you an educationist?
Klass99:


No, seriously I didn't get the message. Did you? If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense.

I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity also thrives as against excellence.



Lol cheesy. I didn't intend to be savage, just honest about what I read. Did you understand the guy's story? I didn't.

Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Nairalander248: 1:43pm On May 18
Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.


And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

People with LGBTQ dey reason like this and I won't be surprised if you are one.

Clap for your self
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by MaziObinnaokija: 1:43pm On May 18
Dem dey give olodo visq too.Visa is 50/50 chance. Ifu like,dey yarn okpata grammar,dem ho either give u WHITE/BLUE sheet of paper to go home with.That's all sad
Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and MO of insults na? grin You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by israelmao(m): 1:43pm On May 18
This is story is scanty and confusing.
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by maasoap(m): 1:44pm On May 18
Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and MO of insults na?

Because you are being petty and derailing the thread, simple

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by LexngtonSteele: 1:44pm On May 18
bukatyne:


Ha! Toor! cheesy

You guys should be preparing then.

On a serious note, hope the wife knows and have re-engineered her life accordingly since she has decided to continue the marriage.

The poor woman so devastated that she packed out immediately.

After much begging, she went back but things can never be the same.

In anger, she snitched that the guy falsified documents and age declaration. It messed his career up undecided

He too should kept his rod in one place grin

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Druss(m): 1:45pm On May 18
There is no explanation in the OP.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Judolisco(m): 1:45pm On May 18
immortalcrown:
Not the first of its kind.

You quote the Bible after deceiving your mother.
u dey mind d Osinwinn
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:47pm On May 18
saphiere:
Poor men should not even get erection talk more of getting married.
I'd rather be a rainbow 🌈 person than marry a broke man. Isn't it better than being with the rapist gender?
Do you think at all? Your brother and father belong to the same gender remember??
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 1:47pm On May 18
fastseo:
A friend of mine whose marriage was 8 years.. The marriage ended in the UK.

In all honesty, how was the marriage while they were in Nigeria?

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by ABANGWABOI(m): 1:47pm On May 18
grin that man should use Sniper ..
We won't miss him..

Dear naija woEmen.. pls continue dealing with these men abroad till Dem get senZe

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Judolisco(m): 1:49pm On May 18
eweqwatr:
Mtshew, dependent husband for 10 whole years he kept depending?
if uno understand something no be by force to chuk mouth

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by maasoap(m): 1:49pm On May 18
Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.

And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

You guys are practically supporting the destruction of marriages and complete homes/families solely based on gender biased. That's the destruction of society you guys are supporting unknowingly

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