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My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Abetterperson(op): 7:49am On Jul 26, 2024
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by ogashman(m): 7:58am On Jul 26, 2024
Is this a movie?
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by haphizz57(m): 7:58am On Jul 26, 2024
Never take judgement wit ur hand
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by JAOS(m): 8:00am On Jul 26, 2024
give yourself more time
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by advanceDNA: 8:06am On Jul 26, 2024
Madam...weda u kill him or not...

.Las las....U go dey alright.....
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by ObalendeCMS: 8:20am On Jul 26, 2024
This Is a lesson for all those foolish guys that like to go for low hanging fruits (opportunists).
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Abetterperson(op): 8:24am On Jul 26, 2024
ObalendeCMS:
This Is a lesson for all those foolish guys that like to go for low hanging fruits (opportunists).
It pains me I don't know u
U would have join him today
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by ObalendeCMS: 8:27am On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
It pains me I don't know u
U would have join him today
You can't know my kind because I'm not an opportunist & I don't go for low hanging fruits.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by goldust777: 8:30am On Jul 26, 2024
Dey play grin the pains will go away with time stop giving yourself headache grin grin grin
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Sheistoopretty(f): 8:54am On Jul 26, 2024
.m
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Itooweak4una: 8:57am On Jul 26, 2024
Hi
Why?
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by mohims(m): 9:29am On Jul 26, 2024
Hahahaha. What's the title of this movie please?
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Mistral(m):
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Dear Abetterperson, I want you to know that you are not alone in your struggles. Your life holds infinite value and your presence in this world is irreplaceable. While it may feel overwhelming now, please remember that the pain you're experiencing is not permanent. (With a gentle tone,) You have the strength within you to overcome this darkness and find light again. Seek solace in the knowledge that love surrounds you, both from those who care for you now and those who will cherish you in the future. There is a world of possibilities awaiting you, filled with beauty, connection and growth. Embrace the healing power of time and reach out to those who offer you warmth and understanding. Your journey is far from over; it's a path waiting to be illuminated by the brightness of your resilience and courage. Take one step at a time, knowing that you are cherished and supported on this journey.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by RealityKings: 9:40am On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Why not be patient and see how life goes through. Sometimes its sad, sometimes it's like that but life always change for the better as time goes on
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Dollarmind001(m): 9:54am On Jul 26, 2024
You're obviously obsessed with him and he doesn't replicate what you feel about him towards you which triggered your depression.
And you want him and you to stop breathing cuz you're tired of life already.

Open up to your family about it or anyone close to you and seek their advise.

Devil go dey hell with big hammer dey wait for you. You better don't do that shit
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by gift2xl: 10:23am On Jul 26, 2024
Dear sorry for the misfortune, there is light for you at the end of the tunnel, hold on don't give up by closing your chapter on earth.

My prayer for you is to encounter light, that light is Christ Jesus that gives peace fulfilment he said in Matthew 11:28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

Your fellow human is prom to disappointment but the supreme is never a disappointment.

Follow the light and you will be ok.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by D111: 10:41am On Jul 26, 2024
This must be expensive jokes, but if it true please shelve your plan
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by purples25(f): 10:58am On Jul 26, 2024
Please don't do it. Talk to us here please.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Zaheertyler(m): 11:01am On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
If this is real
Be thankful you still have life
There are lots of old people today wishing they were your age so they would have made better decisions
You have alot to fix in your life and you have your mojo back nobody is abusing you anymore start fixing your life there is still so much you can achieve
If you revenge you will regret it
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Bornboy4: 11:12am On Jul 26, 2024
Except you are just acting this out.
Why do you girls always choose bad boys as l9vers?
You are reaping the consequence of your foolishness.
But if you would rather chose to relive your life and be truly loved instead of throwing away your precious life, come and settle down with me. I'm widowed and looking for a Soulmate to love and adore like a goddess.
I'm not forcing this proposal on you though but instead of throwing away your life for a carefree guy, give it to me to keep, admire and treasure.
Chat me up on WhatsApp and say, I want to give you an opportunity to relive your life and be truly loved and happy!
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by blazepascal(m): 12:25pm On Jul 26, 2024
Don't every try it in your life
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by CyrusVI(m): 12:36pm On Jul 26, 2024
This is 12:34. You created this thread around 7am and your last seen is 12:14, meaning you are still alive

Good to hear
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by CyrusVI(m): 12:44pm On Jul 26, 2024
advanceDNA:
Madam...weda u kill him or not...

.Las las....U go dey alright.....
The girl say she wan kill herself

Person wey die no fit dey alright again na shocked
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Farrason: 1:01pm On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Wow... Are you a content writer... Send me your number, let's talk about what you can write for me.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by advanceDNA: 1:12pm On Jul 26, 2024
CyrusVI:
The girl say she wan kill herself

Person wey die no fit dey alright again na shocked
U have a wrong view of death..... cool
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Seunpapa65: 2:01pm On Jul 26, 2024
Mistral:
(...ponders on her messages...feels sorry for her)

Sweetheart Abetterperson, if you end your life, You're going to rot in hell for eternity. Believe me, I fully understand what I'm talking about. You need to be strong for yourself as only you can and build your life in such a way that the past remains in the past. You aren't the first to go through a trauma of this kind and won't be the last but it doesn't mean your life has to end. A fact you have to understand is that you'll always be loved. Someone somewhere enjoys your presence and cares about you. Someone else in the future is going to love you for you. It isn't over, no it isn't. There are many more things for you to achieve, sites to see, people to love and experiences to share. Stop looking at the negatives only. Let the pain sink in, let it burn eventually time would heal you and you'll find the will to continue your life in the way it will serve you. You need to engage with people and quit ruminating over your negative experiences. A lot of open arms are waiting for you if only you will make the decision to go to them.
Have you been to hell before what makes you so sure am just curious
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by mmadu4: 2:06pm On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Your mom could have aborted your Fetus when she was pregnant all these nonsense would have been avoided.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by BALLOSKI: 2:58pm On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Can we talk privately?

Please, let's talk.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by WhiteIverson: 3:14pm On Jul 26, 2024
Hmm send me 20k too cool
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by GOFRONT(m): 3:17pm On Jul 26, 2024
Even at the point of death, you still send 20k to him......I hope you still send down 20k from the great beyond......Sani Abacha has been sending us some token even in death.
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by Bonjovi13: 4:58pm On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first
Third to the last paragraph made me realise that this is just content.
" Paid people?" Yeah right.
If you still want to insist that you are right share some details that will give us a clue when the incident gets to the mainstream media that it was you and your man who died.

Rubbish
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Re: My Last Update And Why Am Killing My Ex by brodalikeme(m): 5:45pm On Jul 26, 2024
Abetterperson:
People honestly don't get it,
Am not saying am a victim, I was already depressed before meeting, I was a minor, told him all I went through as a child, he took advantage of me and did all he wanted to
I haven't even said all he did
He raped me several times, beat me, stole from me while all I did was help him

So no he is not the reason am talking my life
But for adding to my pain, he has to follow me
Today is the day, I feel so free
I thought I will feel scared or something
But nop I feel Happy strangely

I sent him 20k through POS anonymously
I really want him to life it up
Today he goes

So am not a victim, because am strong
Am a warrior but this fight called life isn't for all I wanted was to be loved but people just keep taking advantage of me
So have decided to leave, I feel death will be more peaceful than this

So nobody should ever call me a victim
Because am not, never was and never will be

Today is going to be a good day
I already bought a beautiful dress
This morning am going to eat my favorite food
Dance to my favorite music

Have already paid both people that will do the job
He will surely go to his creator by my hands
Then I will follow him

To girls, don't be like me
Always put urself first


You’re deciding to end a book that is still being written. Who told you there isn’t a silver lining at the back of all the darkness. If you go ahead with this senseless plot of yours, then know that you cheated yourself.

I am almost completely blind in my left eye and have about 40% vision in my right eye. I wish I can collect your eyes and replace it with mine before you kill yourself. You don’t know what people are battling and would easily trade it with what you have. Las las, you’re an ingrate!!! A big one
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