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Picture this: It’s 11 PM. You’re home alone, and you find yourself in the bathroom with your phone in full brightness and the volume on zero.

You’ve gone down yet another rabbit hole on the internet, and now you’re sitting there, wondering if what you just saw actually reflects how things go down in the real world. Maybe you've even tried to sneak in some of those moves into your own life, only to be met with baffling looks or, worse, that awkward silence that makes you question all your life choices.

Trust me, you're not alone in this. It's easy to wonder if there’s a secret manual that everyone else is reading from, but here’s the truth: a lot of what you see in porn is like trying to use a Nollywood movie as a blueprint for real life.

So, before you start feeling like the only person who hasn’t cracked the code, let’s have an honest chat about what porn has normalized that really isn’t normal at all. Because if you’re setting your expectations based on what goes down in those videos, you might be heading straight for frustration, disappointment, or a very awkward situation.

Let’s start with speed.

Not the speed of your internet that buffers just when things get interesting, but the speed at which those guys in porn move.

You might think, “Fast and furious, right?” Easy there, boss.

Think of it like cooking food, if you rush it, most times you’ll end up with something half-cooked and unappealing.

Yet, those guys like King Nasir jump straight to the main event, often without any prep or even lube.

In real life, this is like trying to start a generator without fuel, nothing good is coming out of it.

Most women will tell you that this “hit and run” approach leads to awkward or downright painful experiences, especially when they’re still figuring things out. Slow down, take your time, and for goodness’ sake, consider lube. Your partner will be grateful.

Now, let’s talk about size.

Let’s address the elephant—or should I say, the horse—in the room: huge dicks.

Listen, not every guy is built like a thoroughbred, and that’s perfectly fine. A member the size of a plantain that stays rock-hard for two hours is not only unrealistic but also unnecessary. What you’ve got is more than enough. It’s not the size of the yam, but how you pound it that matters.

This idea that you need to be carrying an anaconda to satisfy someone’s girlfriend is just one of those myths that porn has managed to normalize.

Then there’s the whole “being loud the second something touches down there” trope.

I get it, we all love Victoria Cakes and maybe her moans. But the thing is they are fake because these actresses are paid to be dramatic, but in real life, most people don’t start yelling like they’re at a bus stop because you brushed against them.

Communication is key. If your partner isn’t making noise, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. People respond differently. The goal is to enjoy the experience, not win an award for “Best Soundtrack.”

Speaking of soundtracks, let’s talk about something that sounds as unsexy as it is: the prolapse.

Yeah, I know, it’s not a word that rolls off the tongue, but it’s important. When did turning someone’s body inside out become a thing?

It’s one of those bizarre trends that make you wonder if you’re watching a medical drama instead of something “romantic.” Prolapses are not a normal or healthy outcome of any activity. If you see that happening, it’s a big red flag—like a huge “abeg, no vex, but stop” sign.

And those acrobatic stunts?

Porn loves to show off moves that look like they require a professional coach and a safety net. Seriously, some of these positions require a physiotherapist on standby. Let’s be real—trying to mimic that can land you in the hospital instead of a happy place. Keep it simple and safe unless you’re looking to become the next headline in one of those “Weird But True” youtube channels..

Finally, let’s talk about that final move: the facial.

No, it’s not a skincare routine. Somehow, it’s become a signature ending in porn, but in reality, this isn’t something most ladies are lining up to receive.

It’s messy, sticky, and honestly, it’s just overrated. If you’re considering it, maybe have a chat first—your partner’s reaction might not be what you’re expecting, and not in a good way.

So, what’s the takeaway here?

Porn is pure entertainment like WWE, not a how-to guide. If you’re trying to recreate what you see Johhny Sins do to Mia Khalifa, you might be setting yourself up for a very awkward, uncomfortable, or even painful experience. So while Tinubu may be using one hand to destroy your financial life, don't use your hand to destroy your relationship life.

Real-life intimacy is about communication, consent, and making sure everyone is comfortable, not acrobatics, speed drills, or anything involving turning someone inside out. Leave the stunts for Tom Cruise and focus on what really matters: making sure everyone involved is having a good time.

Hmm, most people don't know how this thing destroy them

OZIOGU1:
Hmm, most people don't know how this thing destroy them

You wey know, tell us how e don destroy you

Namelesscoder:
You wey know, tell us how e don destroy you

Well i am married with kids, porn never destroy me, but i have counsel some young men fell for that 3minutes pleasure

OZIOGU1:
Well i am married with kids, porn never destroy me, but i have counsel some young men fell for that 3minutes pleasure

Okay, so after your counsel the young men are working for Cowbell or Peak Milk?

@Jacktheripper you have written/spoken well.


He that has ears, let him hear.

He that has eyes , let him read.

He that has a brain, let him understand.

OZIOGU1:
Well i am married with kids, porn never destroy me, but i have counsel some young men fell for that 3minutes pleasure

it's more than 3 minutes boss, if you do stop and start..

Starboytwo:
it's more than 3 minutes boss, if you do stop and start..

Omo na kill you dey kill yourself oo, , Th reality is that most young men are into it and you get over it if you speak out.

Nice write up but the major truth u wrote there is communication all the rest no follow cos in real life some girls love big pipes, average pipes or wtv U carry while some just want U to know how to use wtv tool U own. Same way some of us love big booties and jugs plus curvy soft vibrating bodies. Yes porn is entertainment alright but there are people in reality with such preferences. Some like slow and sensual while other like it rough, intense and passionate fvcking and yes with all the acrobatics and alk the turning inside out plus smack down. There's no one size fits all. Know what ur partner wants and deliver or them go help U dey supply her or him

OZIOGU1:
Omo na kill you dey kill yourself oo, , Th reality is that most young men are into it and you get over it if you speak out.

omo wetin person go con do for this great country??

The same way I hate WWE knowing that it's all fake is the same way I hate porn. The fake moaning is the most disgusting thing, like which girl starts shouting immediately you touch her?

Cunninlingus


Felatio

Namelesscoder:
Okay, so after your counsel the young men are working for Cowbell or Peak Milk?

This your question muzz me ..

Imagine blaming porn as the reason for being unfortunate in life..

This Oga sabi all their names

youngestgrad:
This Oga sabi all their names

DeeScan:
Cunninlingus


Felatio

Na there we go see you

Jacktheripper:
Na there we go see you

😁

Matheusmartin:
This your question muzz me ..

Imagine blaming porn as the reason for being unfortunate in life..

Na sprikoko people and superstitious monger na 😂😂

Watch porn find inspiration of knacking style, knack your babe and move on 😂😂

oneda:
The same way I hate WWE knowing that it's all fake is the same way I hate porn. The fake moaning is the most disgusting thing, like which girl starts shouting immediately you touch her?

Lol see U 😂... Back then in school this weyrey banny disturb my life na I decide to lash one time only. Baba the way she dey moan U go feel say na one kind virgin I dey penetrate. The pussy na borehole I was just using knowledge to fire the edges and bend her in certain ways that will make it less obvious but then the crying abi wailing became too much. Me when wicked... I pulled out, guess what? This fool was still moaning like a bastard na there I just give up. Some girls no well really no be only film trick

dkidd:
Lol see U 😂... Back then in school this weyrey banny disturb my life na I decide to lash one time only. Baba the way she dey moan U go feel say na one kind virgin I dey penetrate. The pussy na borehole I was just using knowledge to fire the edges and bend her in certain ways that will make it less obvious but then the crying abi wailing became too much. Me when wicked... I pulled out, guess what? This fool was still moaning like a bastard na there I just give up. Some girls no well really no be only film trick

omo women get many tricks, After pulling out, she still dey fake moan ,. Fear women

kheny12:
omo women get many tricks, After pulling out, she still dey fake moan ,. Fear women

Fear them oo

dkidd:
Lol see U 😂... Back then in school this weyrey banny disturb my life na I decide to lash one time only. Baba the way she dey moan U go feel say na one kind virgin I dey penetrate. The pussy na borehole I was just using knowledge to fire the edges and bend her in certain ways that will make it less obvious but then the crying abi wailing became too much. Me when wicked... I pulled out, guess what? This fool was still moaning like a bastard na there I just give up. Some girls no well really no be only film trick

Is Her name Margaret? 😂😂
If no be say na sin we go sin I for say make God punish her wherever she dey now

Nah so I see one "smallie", she no even respect say I be senior man. If you see d style wey she say make I dey do, omoh muscle pull almost kpai my enemy dat day. This nah for person wey dey workout steady. Damn!!🥱

Fcccking the anus of female or male where feaces escapes is crazy and disgusting OYIBO WEY DEY DO THIS IS MAD NII

Porn uses Green Screen just like movies. Abi una think say Jason Statham dey fly 20 storey building to land like lizard true true. Its all green screen shit

They are actors. No let doze videos whyne you.

See babe wants me to do like d movies and i told her to ride me for 1min to kickstart. MoF*cker was breathing like a goat at 30 seconds. She think say Khalifa and Brittany dey use normal eyes do am. Drugs or green screen at play

Boiz stay off drugs to please daughters of eve. U cannot drill something that's already drilled by nature

Some see videos of 20mins and be like see oo 20mins and u can't do pass 5mins. I'm like oya open d video and u see the first 15mins, they r driving, then come out of the vehicle, then enter the house, then watch movies, then last 5mins will be for pre-intimacy n sex n ejaks. For the long intense kpanshing witout green screen, Atyms dey shoot these movies for days and merge dem to be a 20mins video, its drugs and can only be given to pornsters only for video sake just like WWE (wrestlers cannot use that drug outside the WWE complex) its a crime and govt knows. Porn na bastard, and 90% of the people of this world have been or still a victim. Make nobody claim holy maria

Some of those 15minute-clips took like hours whole to act with interlude breaks.. then they strip them together.

Eating privates is not normal but let's keep pretending it's okay. Animals

PARADIZEPRIEST:
Fcccking the anus of female or male where feaces escapes is crazy and disgusting OYIBO WEY DEY DO THIS IS MAD NII

Make it stop to stop spreading diseases both in high and low places

Natbrowny:
Porn uses Green Screen just like movies. Abi una think say Jason Statham dey fly 20 storey building to land like lizard true true. Its all green screen shit

They are actors. No let doze videos whyne you.

See babe wants me to do like d movies and i told her to ride me for 1min to kickstart. MoF*cker was breathing like a goat at 30 seconds. She think say Khalifa and Brittany dey use normal eyes do am. Drugs or green screen at play

Boiz stay off drugs to please daughters of eve. U cannot drill something that's already drilled by nature

Some see videos of 20mins and be like see oo 20mins and u can't do pass 5mins. I'm like oya open d video and u see the first 15mins, they r driving, then come out of the vehicle, then enter the house, then watch movies, then last 5mins will be for pre-intimacy n sex n ejaks. For the long intense kpanshing witout green screen, Atyms dey shoot these movies for days and merge dem to be a 20mins video, its drugs and can only be given to pornsters only for video sake just like WWE (wrestlers cannot use that drug outside the WWE complex) its a crime and govt knows. Porn na bastard, and 90% of the people of this world have been or still a victim. Make nobody claim holy maria

You got it spot on! Everytime I see people talking about wanting to stay longer in bed for like 45mins or 1hr, I'll just be laughing. Many guys never get sense that's why a lot of them die quickly