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I met my girlfriend while we were in school. We have a wonderful love life, even till now.
She’s lovable.
As a matter of fact, she does things for me without me asking her. also…
I don’t stress her, I can cook, I clean after myself and honestly, I give her the things I can afford. But…

Our sex life is on decline. It’s always excuse upon excuse, how she's not always in the mood and all that.
Ps: I’m a freak. I could nack 3 to 10 times in a week. But…
Her demands have caused me to reduce my urge. If I see coochie once in a week now, I’m happy. Yes, it’s that bad.

We’ve spoken about this countless times(but she’ll always bring an excuse) . I know love dies/ reduces, but I’m not sure what this is
I’m comfortable to at least pay a hooker for sex, but I’m not that desperate.
The problem isn’t about me.
I’m just curious; she cares about me, but why the change in her libido levels?

Omo I no even understand women… I mean who does?

What should I do?

Boyfriend demanding husband rights.

Well you both are not sexually compatible. Sexual compatibility is very important but most of you downplay it.
Shalom

MrBrownJay1:
- did you guys had sex 3/10 times a week, at the beginning of the r/ship?
- did you upgrade your bedmatics as time went on?
- have you ever found out what turns her on, what she desires in the bedroom?

Initially she wanted it everyday… the way it just dropped marvels me o

EreluRoz:
Boyfriend demanding husband rights.

Well you both are not sexually compatible. Sexual compatibility is very important but most of you downplay it.
Shalom

😂
How I take demand husband rights again?

Fuckallmods:
😂
How I take demand husband rights again?

Ontop somebody's daughter that you have not paid her bride price yet you are demanding ten times a week sex

Fuckallmods:
Initially she wanted it everyday… the way it just dropped marvels me o

- could be that you didnt upgrade what you were doing, and now sex with you is boring to her
- could be that she is getting better anaconda (aka playing away matches)
- could be that LIFE happened and she has better things to do

sex is great in a r/ship but unless you supplement it with a great connection/relationship with that person, then its just that (sex), and people easily get tired of it. bring up upgrades and see if it will make your r/ship better... but MOST IMPORTANTLY, why dont you communicate with her and simply ask her whats going on?

She doesn’t love you sexually . Bro run oh i bet you she can easily leave you no time .or did you meet her a virgin if not she don’t have any sexual feelings for you . You are on your own

EreluRoz:
Ontop somebody's daughter that you have not paid her bride price yet you are demanding ten times a week sex

That’s not true. I don’t demand anything. That 10 times a week sex you’re talking about seemed exciting to her at the beginning, but the sudden change is what I’m concerned about. Datsol…
And by the way, she’s someone I intend marrying.

Fuckallmods:
That’s not true. I don’t demand anything. That 10 times a week sex you’re talking about seemed exciting to her at the beginning, but the sudden change is what I’m concerned about. Datsol…
And by the way, she’s someone I intend marrying.

Oya go and marry her already. Maybe you don't do things you use to do before, that's how most of you are

EreluRoz:
Oya go and marry her already. Maybe you don't do things you use to do before, that's how most of you are

Abi... Initially I used to give her 100% attention and I even cook for her at few instances when we were in school dating. she loved those moments I'm sure.
I changed obviously. I work now, I can't give her those moments anymore. Responsibilities changes things. I can only imagine how things will be when children come. But I love her still
Hmm

Fuckallmods:
Abi... Initially I used to give her 100% attention and I even cook for her at few instances when we were in school dating. she loved those moments I'm sure.
I changed obviously. I work now, I can't give her those moments anymore. Responsibilities changes things. I can only imagine how things will be when children come. But I love her still
Hmm

Attention is important, I think she's one us that likes attention else we will lost touch and go numb. Try to give her some attention whenever you can and she'll be fine

EreluRoz:
Boyfriend demanding husband rights.

Well you both are not sexually compatible. Sexual compatibility is very important but most of you downplay it.
Shalom

When you hear sex your ears and all your senses will be picking up signals like bats sending out sonar echolocation.

Nicepoker:
When you hear sex your ears and all your senses will be picking up signals like bats sending out sonar echolocation.

Honestly I lmao

Fuckallmods:
Initially she wanted it everyday… the way it just dropped marvels me o

It's over.

She's gone.

Move on.

EreluRoz:
Ontop somebody's daughter that you have not paid her bride price yet you are demanding ten times a week sex

Comprehension is far from you

Oga
Run ooo
You don't need to stay with someone that can't meet your sxx demand. The love is not complete.

MrBrownJay1:
- could be that you didnt upgrade what you were doing, and now sex with you is boring to her
- could be that she is getting better anaconda (aka playing away matches)
- could be that LIFE happened and she has better things to do

sex is great in a r/ship but unless you supplement it with a great connection/relationship with that person, then its just that (sex), and people easily get tired of it. bring up upgrades and see if it will make your r/ship better... but MOST IMPORTANTLY, why dont you communicate with her and
simply ask her whats going on?

Your number 1 above might come to play in their relationship.

Some guys dnt know that they poor in bed,.... whenever the signal stands, theirs, is to drop akamu and disappear and less concerned about their partners.

I remember what my friend told me about his wife's sex life few years ago, he said, his wife usually declined sex from him, that, she complained that having sex with him is like suffering herself, and would only wake her body up and disappeared along the line to finish the job.

I asked my friend how about his sex life, he sex he couldn't do more than 3 mins at first round and couldn't do second round at all.

He asked me what he can do? I told him everything I would have recommended for him, he wouldn't be able to do it, owing to his religion background.

Tinubu, some people still get energy to nack 2-10 times in a week, do something about it

You to knack somebody daughter 10times in a week, u don marry her So you wan to destroy her kpekus for her future husband

Fuckallmods:
I met my girlfriend while we were in school. We have a wonderful love life, even till now.
She’s lovable.
As a matter of fact, she does things for me without me asking her. also…
I don’t stress her, I can cook, I clean after myself and honestly, I give her the things I can afford. But…

Our sex life is on decline. It’s always excuse upon excuse, how she's not always in the mood and all that.
Ps: I’m a freak. I could nack 3 to 10 times in a week. But…
Her demands have caused me to reduce my urge. If I see coochie once in a week now, I’m happy. Yes, it’s that bad.

We’ve spoken about this countless times(but she’ll always bring an excuse) . I know love dies/ reduces, but I’m not sure what this is
I’m comfortable to at least pay a hooker for sex, but I’m not that desperate.
The problem isn’t about me.
I’m just curious; she cares about me, but why the change in her libido levels?

Omo I no even understand women… I mean who does?

What should I do?

Mugu
You wan make person pikin baby mama and run abi

Fuckallmods:
That’s not true. I don’t demand anything. That 10 times a week sex you’re talking about seemed exciting to her at the beginning, but the sudden change is what I’m concerned about. Datsol…
And by the way, she’s someone I intend marrying.

You should be very concerned... Women love sex more than breathing and when she suddenly starts bringing excuses bro, sorry to tell u that pussy is gone throbbing for another pipe elsewhere she's getting the pussy steadily pounded and beaten. Sorry bro

Law of diminishing marginal utility

Op na person future wife you get mind they nack 10 times a week, I don't know you and Tinubu who wicked pass

MrBrownJay1:
- could be that you didnt upgrade what you were doing, and now sex with you is boring to her
- could be that she is getting better anaconda (aka playing away matches)
- could be that LIFE happened and she has better things to do

sex is great in a r/ship but unless you supplement it with a great connection/relationship with that person, then its just that (sex), and people easily get tired of it. bring up upgrades and see if it will make your r/ship better... but MOST IMPORTANTLY, why dont you communicate with her and simply ask her whats going on?

I dey hail oh ✊
💯% respect to our amiable “love doc”

Sexual compatibility is very important in every relationship, do not progressing into marriage without resolving this important aspect.

Do you remain neat like when you first approached her?

Sometimes, try not to wear anything to bed to catch her attention.