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Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

Please, what moral lesson do you want us to learn from this story?

Isn't it what you want? Move on nau.

badblackgod:
Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

So u want her to still be hung on you?? U want to eat your cake and still keep it...u are enjoying her attention and the sex but don't want commitment or relationship...

..u dont need to fly in the night to do evil before u are witch...this ur behavior right here is what is called witchcraft

Oga ade....u have moved on....it's only fair u let her do the same, instead of expecting her to keep intense communication lines open with you, fvcking each other when u are in different relationships....that's how paternity fraud happens....

Parallel or series connection?

The ping pong couple

😂

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

Don’t be angry o..but please how old are you?

Na this kind situation de lead to adultery when either of una come later marry. Okafors law go plenty finish for una matter

Op make up Ur mind to be or not to be and let the girl breathe

If confusion was a person, it'd be you. You need to sort yourself.

Stay away from her.

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

Please how old are you, your love story sounds like that of a teenager or you are mummy's boy. This your love story na boys Wey just enter Jss1 dae experience am, and I feel you should be up to 23

So in space of 1 year, you or she did not see any other person to start a relationship with

D

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

You told her you can't date her anymore. Why can't you move on The truth is that she was already seeing someone at her base but because she was posted to your location maybe some old flames came back. Better face your life and leave her alone.

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

You told her you can't date her anymore. Why can't you move on The truth is that she was already seeing someone at her base but because she was posted to your location maybe some old flames came back.. She has reconnected with her new guy again over there that's why she can disconnect from you immediately (thats a Red Flag on her part). Better face your life and leave her alone.

LandMann:
The wife you will marry will one day reconnect with her ex and they'll both shag each other a couple of times. When you find out you'll remember this your post and advise yourself.

You're a bandit on the stupidity spectrum but you just don't know it.

hahahahaha

You should thank God she never prepare Pepper soup for you.... Why ya all going back to ya vomit??

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

It's better that way she is a woman. Constant reaching out will lead to more intimacy and will cloud her judgement when suitors arrive. She can't continue knocking you and expect her to see clearly.

Weyrey nor want relationship but still dey sex the girl, what kind of relationship big pass sex?

You work full time so for God's sake, you are a man now. Stop being excessively stupid over women like a teenager will be.

You are confused. Why are you trying to initiate conversations again after she left having told her your Gospel mind .. abeg free the girl

You are confused.com
You told her, no more relationship. She leave you and you are still worried about her silence, what’s the colour of your problem?
She is trying to move on, so you better do same

Since you told her there is no possibility of having a relationship with her it's better to end communication completely so that she can fully disconnected and move on with another relationship

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

Free the girl abeg!

The only reason why you want her to still remain in contact with you is so that you can be fúcking her anytime you feel like it

This is the manipulation phase. E be like your bag don increase and you done fine extra nau. T-Pain got nothing on you Bruv

Werey you dey find free sex and attention without commitment.

ravensckar:
Lolz.

You took the words right outta my mouth!

The way and manner in which some people dey form seriousness for faceless forum ehn, perhaps they think it's their FAMILY MEETING.

still expecting your promise

jflower06:
Please, what moral lesson do you want us to learn from this story?

seroiusly i dont understand the author oooo

Oga make up your mind..

badblackgod:
Good evening Nlanders.

https://www.nairaland.com/7860317/heartbroken

After 1 year Apart, myself and my ex started talking again early October this year, she was posted to the teaching hospital where I work. We talked about all the issues that led to our breakups and got very close. She called and texted me often within a period of 2 to 3 weeks while she was doing her postings. Within this period, although we were not dating ,we still got intimate twice.. after the second time, she wanted us to make it official and start dating again,, but because of our history and how badly we were hurt from our repeated break ups, I told her we can never Date again. She cried for a bit. Then the next day I had to explain and make her understand why we can't have relationship anymore..
We still continued talking for a week, as usual she still called and texted me. After her postings in the hospital ended, she went back to her place and since then she hardly talks to me, she doesn't call or text me and even when I try to initiate the conversation, she make very little effort In responding. I don't know if it was because I told her we can't be together or there is something else

This was the text she sent me after explaining to her why we can't be together anymore

I just wanted to tell you that I was proud of you when you made the decision for us I know that yesterday when you said it,at that time, it just made me feel hurt and sad because we'd already like started spending this few days together

9:30 AM

And I'm proud of you because you were so strong and you actually like considered everything before you made the decision and I was just thinking about the now And it just shows me how matured and how grown you've become honestly

9:31 AM

And I'm sure that my heart will always ache for us..for what we shared and what we couldn't because of the circumstances and I'm like really sorry for hurting you..you mean a lot to me Vee vee you just don't know it yet

9:34 AM

I'm going to miss you so much

This is a copy of our WhatsApp chat, I don't want to post the screenshots here


I Don't want a relationship with her anymore but I don't know why I'm worried she isn't reaching out anymore

Pls what do you suggest might have been the actual reason for the the lack of communication on her path.

Oga wat do u want de girl to keep on doing...?? To still be calling nd begging u to makeup wit her?? Or to still be there so u go fit use her as ur sex--machine/cumbag??.... Oga Move on wit ur life make thunder no fire u...