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“At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in SEEING ME”

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That last word gave you away. It should have been, “seeing him”. You could consider editing it.

My advice to you is simple:

Stay faithful to your wife. It may be hard, but discipline is what it entails. Self control will save your life.

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

GloriousGbola:
all these silly made up stories for clicks and outrage

na oyibo dey give money to instagram or streaming on OF thot

nigerians will expect to see the person in person

more so when it is a standard yahoo scam of catfishing men

bull shit story.

not all Nigerians oo .. some send money blindly after series of video calls oo ...

These girls know how to play that stuff .

Omoh. Na man de do man sha. Someone suggested it's better to go for pretty set ladies in their 30s. If you de reason to go for those 20s because you feel their body count no go much, I assure you that na 20s body count plenty pass, Boss. Things de happen especially girls wey de uni or ones wey suppose don enter. They go whine your soul eh, you go doubt the good times you had if it was real. They only look out for themselves and their pleasures.

So this guy never still wise sending all this fund to a lady u meet online .......ion have time to nurse any woman now

EmperorCaesar:

Your friend no be saint too

I believe cheats are coward MFs that are too weak to walk out of the union or take a second wife for themselves. I detest cowards



That aside, your guy just dey burn burn money and wetin hin dey get in return? just the P***y?

Well, you guys overprice and overvalue all these girls, and na una make dem dey get entitlement mentality.

this is is not married yet. lol

Starz825:
I say women dey enjoy....

Dem go just siddon pretty dey collect money.... without doing nothing

Na d mumu SIMP weh dey give dem I dey blame

The painful part is if u ask dat same guy giving such ladies money 💰, him go tell u say he no get shishi

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

how do you mean?
I don’t understand? Girls wey full everywhere ?
Yahoo boys can’t possibly carry all of them.

There are more than enough to go round . Na you go taya .

This write up doesn’t make sense jor.

zed7:
Cheating isn't really worth it, especially when you're married. The girl will always misbehave because she thinks she's doing you a favour. She knows all she'll get from the relationship is money and she'll bill you like mad. She'll always threaten to leave, especially if she's beautiful.

If you must cheat as a married man, get a mature girl who's in her 30's and has lost hope of marriage or a single mother. Those are the type that will be happy to have a man and will show some form of loyalty.

If you ask me, cheating is a waste of energy, money and emotions. It depletes you spiritually, physically, financially and emotionally. Avoid it!.

Well said

God bless you mate

ruggedtimi:
you think dem investing on Iphone na for play. They upload quality pics to attract big customers. Different level girls, the once that mostly upload pics from local hanging spots/university enviroment you can try your luck, once posting pics only from nice looking lounge/restuarant just ready to pay steady uber and hanging out, the once posting in lagos,abuja ,port harcourt and Owerri just ask her how much when ever you notice she is in your city. But see those once posting pics from Santorini, london, Marrakech , Dubai and back to nigeria all in one month. Baba run oh.

U sabi them.
Dem no dey move me an inch

Your conclusion is trash.

How is your friend sending such money to a girl he has never met?

He was literally trying to buy her over.

Don't start anything romance with a Nigerian lady with money or money you can't afford to lose.

This guy doesn’t know how to play the game as an abroad based.

While based here in the West, you shouldn’t date them for long. Only start dating them when you have less than 8 weeks to ariive Nigeria, that way you will get them to come over immediately you land and you wouldn’t have spent much money funding their life styles.

I did same last 2 months when I was in the country for vacation. After having a nice time with my flings while I was in Lagos though they were all compensated for their time lol,

It was thereafter all of them threw heavy bills on me lol. Each of their request ranges from buying iPhone 14 (500k) , buying air conditioner (150k) , paying for shop rent (170k), paying for a new apartment (450k) and so many more.

Immediately I landed back here, I blanked them all.

These ladies don’t love us at all, they only love the benefits coming from the guys based abroad. They all have boyfriends residing with them in Nigeria and these boyfriends know the abroad based guys funding the life styles of their girlfriends.

The OP is still a learner in the game.

Veetee:
She sent back the money and said she isnt interested in seeing him anymore

Quarrel no dey then!

I like the girl already!

Reverseng:
Like attract like, opposite repels

You attract what you are not what you deserve and what you are is a product of all your current and past lives you've lived so far.

No be every time like dey attract like.

I doubt the story… doesn’t look real to me

travelzcruix:
We the made men are aware there is fierce competition out there. We levelled up, Personally, I don't do money relationship again. How much do I have compared to a keyboard bandit/criminal in the first place. My d*ck scarce pass Uranium. At my age, what I need from a relationship isn't companionship or s*x, so why should I even pay a dime for it. My theory is simple, if you want to date me, go ahead, with time we will know where we are going in the relationship.

do you fúck

Sonofgod1990:
No go hustle dey there dey Wait for a Rich brother wey go come give you his 5million naira. Criminal

God knows I don't live on anyone, I live within my own means bro. I've learnt to cry in the rain so nobody sees my tears than begging any morafucker for assistance, any problem bigger than me should just take my life instead of me going begging.However, I'm always passionate about giving and helping the people around me no matter how little, I believe I can sleep better knowing fully well that my nextdoor neighbor hasn't gone to bed with an empty stomach.
You can choose to spend your own money carrying olosho for all I care though.

Ode... U gave a side chic or a girl you're still wooing more than 5k self... You have paid scam money. Most Nigerian girls don't even date because the guy has or is successful.(dem no send u), they are just hungry. You now give her 5k or pass, once she chop finish there will be little to no attraction for you in them again.

We weh no dey give girl money unless we don truly know say na genuine love na joke we be to u this people because unna get money well abi? Dey play

sylve11:
Good to know you later changed all the "he, his, and him" to "me".

Now back to the story. Guy, use that money she returned to you give to any orphanage home.

I have done it before and it was an amazing experience. Today I still see that same girl who tried to play the nonsense game with me. The last time I saw her I was like "ope Oluwa". See person wey I be wan waste my hard earned money on.

na loose gal?

Mariangeles:
So, the point of this whole story, the fuss gangan is that she called his bluff and sent back his money?
Shouldn't he be glad?

how much you dey charge? Stop hiding under kitchen

phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.

Most rich men are Simps

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

wetin married man dey find side chic for?? Tell your friend to go face his wife and children... But finally who go dey lash dat babe na one broke ass nigga

Get out! Go and ask your mother that!

Katcall:
how much you dey charge? Stop hiding under kitchen

Ewu!

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

What then is the moral of these nonsense story?
You friend is married and going after another woman?
Why not divorce the wife and marry the girl?

phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.

Big men prefer upgrading a side chick rather uplifting their wards/friends/relative .

chidiokay:
Going my your story and your conclusion is not "True" cos from your narrative someone that can send "320k to babe he as not met before is rich

Money is not the problem here, even the Yahoo boiz you so much reverred naa 1st impression, they spend to get to the lady pant after dat its one story or the other, infact the babe fit turn client, borrow me 100k i wan buy log in,e.t.c is coming cash out

i think the babe no just really dey into your guy, the interest no dey naa your Guy just dey force things, i see guys do these a lot, "force". if a babe wants you she will so much express it, women dont know how to hide feelings except the one wey no dey

Not all women.
Some girls or women will like u but out of ego or pride they won't want to show they like you.

Why is your friend CHEATING on his wife in the 1st place

SERVES HIM RIGHT

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

Your Friend is an ADULT-ERER...he has no moral grounds to judge the runs girl of a side chic
Truth is,you don't even know how to lie because this is your personal story...tell it well with your chest...and I'm not sure of all those figures you're throwing around here

She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

You make mistake expose yourself abi you dey fantasize of yourself being in the position?

What honestly is the cautionary tale here? He chose to have a relationship outside his marriage and the thing ended. Relationships end every day in different ways. Carry your story comot here. I blame the idiot moderator who took this to front page for “engagement.”

Gentlesoul2021:
Big men prefer upgrading a side chick rather uplifting their wards/friends/relative .

That calls for sober reflection though.

Chidolalar:
Not all women.
Some girls or women will like u but out of ego or pride they won't want to show they like you.

i quiet agree with you ... but thats mostly from a distance, a lady that feels your vibe/flow wont hestiate to see you, reminds me 2go days


A lady might have pride, she can even feign i dont care but she will always jump at every chance to be around you and if you are a sharp guy you will sense the green light

Starz825:
I say women dey enjoy....

Dem go just siddon pretty dey collect money.... without doing nothing

it's a phase bro, and it doesn't last long.

Kpatakpata withing 18 to 28, after rhat market start going down

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

Just imagine