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Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Ebenezer2021(m): 6:35pm On Nov 25, 2024
LIVINGICONREBOR:
Another tale from Uganda. Go and sleep jareh. Night don come.🥱🥱
zed7:
When you wake up from this dream, make sure to inform us.
zed7:
I remember when I discovered nairaland in 2005. My favourite pastime was coming up with fairy tale stories to test my imagination and writing skills. You will learn eventually- look back and cringe.
eazzzy1:
A single Nigerian lady found you working as a dispatch rider, liked you, expressed her feelings for you, gave you an apartment, 300k, laptop, phone and router.

The things that happened in Star Wars and Matrix are more believable than this crap.
hahahahahagrin.
He's asleep already, relaying this from dreamland
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by lovat(m): 9:22pm On Nov 25, 2024
Is this not you

Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by lovat(m): 9:24pm On Nov 25, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
My discussions with her made me discover we share almost the same life values and perspectives.

Moreover, she's rich and from a rich family. I know her family very well cos we are from the same town. According to my Mum, the lady's Mum is so excited about the idea of me marrying her only daughter, and I am the only son of my parents too.
is this not you with plenty of super story

Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by LIVINGICONREBOR: 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2024
Ebenezer2021:
hahahahahagrin.
He's asleep already, relaying this from dreamland
Nah mumu person him be.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 12:28pm On Nov 26, 2024
LIVINGICONREBOR:
Nah mumu person him be.
Your Papa nah Mumu, you idiots thought am jobless like you.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 12:29pm On Nov 26, 2024
lovat:
is this not you with plenty of super story
You are just a fool. You have no job, so I can't blame you.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 12:31pm On Nov 26, 2024
Ebenezer2021:
hahahahahagrin.
He's asleep already, relaying this from dreamland
Online beggars. You lots are solemnly online to beg for food. Hungry miscreants.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheFinesseKid: 3:52pm On Nov 26, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
There are many top notch Nigerian ladies out there, don't be fooled by what you see and read only. Get to meet people in real life.

Try to meet rich kids with good morals, they are the best to date. They appreciate every little things you do for them neither do they have entitlement mentality.
boss I have not advice to give as I can't relate. But do what your heart tells you. Can I work for you as your PA remotely? Please...? 😩😭
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Psychopatheko: 4:01pm On Nov 26, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Omo! I'm still with her though and I deserve every good things in life.

I brought the issue here so you guys can help me view things from your perspectives.
Okay bro how you wan make she feel omo una get mind oooo
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 26, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
You know nothing.
What does the first lady do for money? And U really owe her nothing. Just because she decided to be of help doesn't mean U owe her Ur life? Don't let her stop u from marrying who U want
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 9:21pm On Nov 26, 2024
dkidd:
What does the first lady do for money? And U really owe her nothing. Just because she decided to be of help doesn't mean U owe her Ur life? Don't let her stop u from marrying who U want
Wow... You are the first person offering me a different advice. Almost everyone in here felt I was terrible for thinking about letting the first lady go.

I love the angle at which you view this, thanks.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by lovat(m): 10:11pm On Nov 26, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
You are just a fool. You have no job, so I can't blame you.
if I track you and pick you up now you will start crying in my office
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Clevagal(f): 10:37pm On Nov 26, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Lol... It is people like you who are suspicious of success because of the limitations of your mind. Can't help you, you gotta help yourself.
Coming from you that couldn’t help yourself? You had to USE someone to elevate your dispatch rider status. USER!
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Ebenezer2021(m): 2:16am On Nov 27, 2024
Clevagal:
Coming from you that couldn’t help yourself? You had to USE someone to elevate your dispatch rider status. USER!
hi miss.
Can we talk privately please
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Clevagal(f): 1:15pm On Nov 27, 2024
Ebenezer2021:
hi miss.
Can we talk privately please
About?
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 3:18am On Nov 28, 2024
Clevagal:
Coming from you that couldn’t help yourself? You had to USE someone to elevate your dispatch rider status. USER!
Couldn't help myself... Lol.

Nobody is willing to give you nothing if you have nothing to offer. Read to understand.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 3:19am On Nov 28, 2024
lovat:
if I track you and pick you up now you will start crying in my office
Lol.... You are truly senseless.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 3:20am On Nov 28, 2024
TheFinesseKid:
boss I have not advice to give as I can't relate. But do what your heart tells you. Can I work for you as your PA remotely? Please...? 😩😭
Funny😂
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheTundeMuniru(op): 3:22am On Nov 28, 2024
Ebenezer2021:
hi miss.
Can we talk privately please
Mumu dey do "hi Miss" for Nairaland 😸
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by TheFinesseKid: 3:43am On Nov 28, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Funny😂
it's not funny oh. 😩I have constant power supply here. I have two laptops. But I haven't been lucky with work lately. I was laid off the windows support job I was doing initially. They say if you no open mouth you won't get help. I don't mind you paying me very little so far as it's tangible. I am ready to do small tasks that you otherwise would consider a drag to help you focus on more important stuff. Abeg no laugh me bros.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Ebenezer2021(m): 10:51am On Nov 28, 2024
Clevagal:
About?
career related issue.
I need your insights and assistance (if possible) please
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Sammy101111(m): 2:48pm On Nov 28, 2024
Lol a single woman will rent house for a man
Lol when she is not a sugar mummy 😂
A young lady will rent house for a man .
It can never happen a young woman in Nigeria will never do that for a man

Na only married woman or sugar mummy way just one they do things lowkey but she get husband fit they sponsor the man base on say the guy they knack am 😂 her perfect way she want
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Clevagal(f): 5:27pm On Nov 28, 2024
Ebenezer2021:
career related issue.
I need your insights and assistance (if possible) please
What makes you think I’m in the right position to advice you on career paths? Anyway, you can send a message
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Mercylike: 7:09pm On Nov 28, 2024
Psychopatheko:
If this is true then you dont deserve a good life sorry to say so when she dey turn your life around you no remember now money don come better marry her cause watin she go use your eyes see you sef go tire
Shut the hell.. It is not by force..

How many men have turned the lives of women around and they end up jilting the men without an remorse.

Why do we feel remorseful for a lady left by a man but we don't for a man left by a woman
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Mercylike: 7:18pm On Nov 28, 2024
TheTundeMuniru:
Of course, she strongly believe it is something I can do, but she does not want it. After all, I told her about my dreams of being a Freelancer, she believed and I succeed in my Freelancing jobs.

That is why the new girl appeal to me, I dont need to convince her to support my life mission, it is her natural dream to live for the same ideology as mine. It is something she have practiced several times.

Her life adventure resonates with mine.
What if the new lady is pretending just to make sure she have you?
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Psychopatheko: 7:30am On Nov 29, 2024
Mercylike:
Shut the hell.. It is not by force..

How many men have turned the lives of women around and they end up jilting the men without an remorse.

Why do we feel remorseful for a lady left by a man but we don't for a man left by a woman
Bro you should shut the fu*k up if reverse was the case i will still say the same cause i dont deal with all this gender bullshit alright its bad let accept it okay you cant just get help from someone you know you dont want to have anything with and still continue to deceive her, so bro those gender shit you guys do on nairaland is none of my business.
Re: I Need Your Advice, Nairalanders by Hulu(m): 8:42am On Nov 29, 2024
Wow... You are the first person offering me a different advice. Almost everyone in here felt I was terrible for thinking about letting the first lady go.

I love the angle at which you view this, thanks.

Another angle to look at it is that, you seem focused on the new girl, where was she when you were a dispatch rider, from your "story" you knew her before now and she never elevated your previous status, now how sure are you that she will stick around when things turn down financially, will she raise you up like this present one did?
Above all pray 🙏 ooooo, very important
There is this my guy that currently going through something similar, but his own case is a little different, the new girl also rich, started reaching out from social media page but what made the difference is spiritual guidance. Not all that looks well seems well.
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