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Therock5555:
I be wan start something 1st October, them use protest cover my mouth


Now them just siddon for my head squarely, one werey girl saw my note pad for my upcoming story, the girl see her name inside, naso she tear the page begin dey para, I sha calm her down, give her 2 rounds for the road and I try convince her say na just name clash say no be her, but truly na she sha.....



Since then to redraft dey hard me die.

the girl been no wan cast ..lol ..


omoh , make you try redraft oo abeg oo .


man, i too dey enjoy those story back then .e be like modern day netflix and chill, even the time wey you been start monetize am, i been dey pay to always read am ..


Abeg find time start again oo .. no allow village people win ontop the matter oo .



no worry, i go gather all the general overseers from all the churches in Nigeria, we go do fasting and prayer on top the matter.. All of them go die ...

This is one of the reasons women should be given financial responsibility in marriage or relationship, someone who has invested heavily in relationship can not be saying let's scatter everything because she will have a lot to loose but the person who invest little or nothing will have that mind to say such rubbish.

If you are the type that seeks peace of mind in marriage you better have a deep conversation and put all your options on the table, she is already exuding early signs of divorce in her you can't just take it lightly the red flag is very clear.

If I was to be in your scenario and I want to go ahead with this relationship I will make her work in the relationship to ensure she sees herself as a stakeholder in the relationship and not just passerby who is only present to ease her financial liability because some else is ready to take it up. Anything less than this I won't proceed with someone who has zero regards about our relationship.

lykwhoishe:
You carry 100% bills, you will carry 100% marriage expenses. Stop telling her to make a decision, cool off anything marriage talk from your end. Also your telling her every progress you make for Una five year plan is nonsense, tweak that progress report to "I" instead of "we". Take her out of it

It's surprising for dudes to complain when they marry that their wives aren't helping them in the home front. 99% of the time they were the ones paying 100% of the bills and then expect the lady to bring out her money in marriage

OP, even as a feminist, I still think the man is the head and should be respected always.

If she finds it easy to say "let us scatter everything" it simply means two things.

1. She has other men who are willing to marry her.
2. She doesn't value you. She probably thinks she is doing you a favor by dating you or even wanting to marry you.

Op, please be wise. Remember, if she cannot respect you as her boyfriend, why would she respect you as her husband?

A man deserves a woman who can listen, a woman who can accept her wrongs. A woman who can value and see her man as the head, no matter what. If these things are missing, I am sorry, no matter what you do, she will never value you or appreciate you enough.

Have a nice Sunday!

Samantha125:
Nigerians and their English... Go ahead and scatter everything...🤣🤣🤣🤣

Your post really made my morning...🤣🤣🤣

And have a good day...🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

I am still searching for what was funny here.

I am now wondering if you are just an attention seeking she goat or not.
You did not even contribute to the topic. Shows how brainless you probably are. Smh!

Okay...☺️☺️☺️

janetakan:
I am still searching for what was funny here.

I am now wondering if you are just an attention seeking she goat or not.
You did not even contribute to the topic. Shows how brainless you probably are. Smh!

skliz:
So I am dating this lady and we intend getting married in January unfortunately there is this terrible signs I noticed.
Anytime there is any little misunderstanding she comes our ranting, "Let me know if this is not going to work so we scatter every thing". So I always ask a simple conversation that matured adults can seat down and resolve you end up shouting on me and telling me let scatter every thing. 99 percent of times I hear that statement, I always tell her that this is not a forced relationship or marriage. If you think you are not ok with this upcoming marriage. Kindly let me know and work away. Yesterday she came home arround 9pm which is far from close time. So I asked her when do you close in a polite way. This simple question ended up in me recieving alot of insults, shouting and let us scatter every thing, I am tired. You dont have time for me bla bla bla bla. This is someone that I am always indoor working from home 2 4 7. I run multiple jobs to ensure that I can provide and create a 5 year plan for the upcoming marriage. I explain everything to her as I make progress. Infact I am the one responsible for all her bills. I carry 100 percent financial responsibility. Honest I am just thinking.......

She is not the one for you if she cannot even respect you. Better be wise!

Samantha125:
Thanks for the compliment...☺️☺️☺️

You're very welcome. And there is more from where that came from.
Just let me know if you need it. 😊

Okay...🤣🤣🤣

janetakan:
You're very welcome. And there is more from where that came from.
Just let me know if you need it. 😊

Samantha125:
No, seriously, it is funny... But it wasn't my intention to offend anyone, you're the one who chose to be offended and that's not my problem.

I can speak about 7 African languages, while I understand some, even though speaking them is still a challenge... So there's no need for me to be always speaking English, I only use it when necessary.

I dey learn pidgin as well...

Can you hear Igbo?

No, I can't.

Susily:
Can you hear Igbo?

skliz:
@pete1234 you gave the most useful and related information to me. Thanks alot. This is the question I have been asking her of recent. Mostly I would involve her family very soon.

I also think that oga the rock 555 second advice makes sense

😂


Now the actual trolls on her ..

Samantha125:
But op, why are you then sending me an email request when you should be focusing on a way forward to mend things with your future wife?

You said you're planning on getting married to her by January, yet you're here sending an email request to another woman... If you want me to advise you on something, you're free to either quote me or mention me, but don't send me email requests.

Clearly both you and your girlfriend or fiancee have got issues.

You assume every guy sending you a request wants to date you or have a relationship with you?

What a shallow way of reasoning and you think so highly of yourself madam.

Samantha125:
No, I can't.

Better go learn it

Why?

Susily:
Better go learn it

Samantha125:
Why?

You'd love it

I know few Yoruba words.

Olorun means God.
Omalicha means beautiful.
Mo ni fere means I love you, but I'm not sure if I still remember it correctly.
Ololufemi means my love, but I'm not sure as well.
Omo baba olowo means a rich man's son.

I think I forgot others... It's been long since I listened to Nigerian gospel and some Nigerian love songs, that's where I learnt these words... But I learnt most of them from listening to Nigerian gospel and funny enough, most of the artists just happened to be singing in Yoruba.

I was also told that lai lai is a Yoruba term for never.

Susily:
You'd love it

Nnamdipapa:
You assume every guy sending you a request wants to date you or have a relationship with you?

What a shallow way of reasoning and you think so highly of yourself madam.

Thanks for stating this. This was my thoughts. I only wanted a one to one conversation with a lady following the thread. There are some details I did not add to the initial post.

skliz:
Thanks for stating this. This was my thoughts. I only wanted a one to one conversation with a lady following the thread. There are some details I did not add to the initial post.

That lady has an overwhelming sense of self importance and I wonder why? My piece of advice is to break off the relationship with your present gf, you are going to have lots of regrets down the road. Do not allow yourself be emotionally manipulated by her. This is the most important decision of your life and if you get it wrong, it will haunt you for the rest of life.

DeltaBachelor:
…..then why talk about the other person’s (Nigerian) English when yours isn’t perfect either ? Please remove the plank from your eyes, before removing a speck from his/her eyes. Shalom !!!!

You do not understand the context of her comments and she was not making fun of the guy's English, it was the Nigerian version of English she was poking a fun at and nothing serious.

Sp1ritHusband:
You do not understand the context of her comments and she was not making fun of the guy's English, it was the Nigerian version of English she was poking a fun at and nothing serious.

Oga Analyser . OK. Thanks Mr Simpson

Samantha125:
I know few Yoruba words.

Olorun means God.
Omalicha means beautiful.
Mo ni fere means I love you, but I'm not sure if I still remember it correctly.
Ololufemi means my love, but I'm not sure as well.
Omo baba olowo means a rich man's son.

I think I forgot others... It's been long since I listened to Nigerian gospel and some Nigerian love songs, that's where I learnt these words... But I learnt most of them from listening to Nigerian gospel and funny enough, most of the artists just happened to be singing in Yoruba.

I was also told that lai lai is a Yoruba term for never.

You're doing great in your language learning. Proud of you

PS: Omalicha is Igbo, not yoruba

I'm a South African, so the ability to learn other languages is in my DNA...

There's this other SA song that features a Nigerian artist, I haven't been able to get the translations of what the Nigerian artist is saying, can you help?😅😅😅

Susily:
You're doing great in your language learning. Proud of you

PS: Omalicha is Igbo, not yoruba

DeltaBachelor:
Oga Analyser . OK. Thanks Mr Simpson

Normal na. No rebuttal except name call.

Samantha125:
I'm a South African, so the ability to learn other languages is in my DNA...

There's this other SA song that features a Nigerian artist, I haven't been able to get the translations of what the Nigerian artist is saying, can you help?😅😅😅

What's the name of the song so I can check it up

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-OzKgmSv3Q?si=Z6kkGbgH0HGFzXul

Susily:
What's the name of the song so I can check it up

She behaves like she's doing you favor. That girl will frustrate u big time if u married her. Don't say I didn't warn u.

Exceed15:
She behaves like she's doing you favor. That girl will frustrate u big time if u married her. Don't say I didn't warn u.

You are correct bro, Meself don they find way to break up. I have already informed family asap. Honestly Tpain economy is really hard for extra stress walaiiii

Samantha125:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-OzKgmSv3Q?si=Z6kkGbgH0HGFzXul

There's no Nigerian in that video

skliz:
So I am dating this lady and we intend getting married in January unfortunately there is this terrible signs I noticed.
Anytime there is any little misunderstanding she comes our ranting, "Let me know if this is not going to work so we scatter every thing". So I always ask a simple conversation that matured adults can seat down and resolve you end up shouting on me and telling me let scatter every thing. 99 percent of times I hear that statement, I always tell her that this is not a forced relationship or marriage. If you think you are not ok with this upcoming marriage. Kindly let me know and work away. Yesterday she came home arround 9pm which is far from close time. So I asked her when do you close in a polite way. This simple question ended up in me recieving alot of insults, shouting and let us scatter every thing, I am tired. You dont have time for me bla bla bla bla. This is someone that I am always indoor working from home 2 4 7. I run multiple jobs to ensure that I can provide and create a 5 year plan for the upcoming marriage. I explain everything to her as I make progress. Infact I am the one responsible for all her bills. I carry 100 percent financial responsibility. Honest I am just thinking.......

ar u okay? Bet me.. U gonna learn in a hard way if u don't end it now...watch and see

DeeScan:
the girl been no wan cast ..lol ..


omoh , make you try redraft oo abeg oo .


man, i too dey enjoy those story back then .e be like modern day netflix and chill, even the time wey you been start monetize am, i been dey pay to always read am ..


Abeg find time start again oo .. no allow village people win ontop the matter oo .



no worry, i go gather all the general overseers from all the churches in Nigeria, we go do fasting and prayer on top the matter.. All of them go die ...

January no go pass me by, just dey watch my profile