rman:

Why do I get this feeling that too many people are lonely Naija, hence we hold on to unhealthy relationships.

@ POST
Why do you want her back? And when will men start being men and stop coming to the net to tell stories like ladies. Enough guys!

Right on target!! 

@poster -    - can't believe you are a man writing this - you've got no balls at all. Love is not been stupid you know, common get a grip and dump the girl straight. Trust me, your mama would tell you to get a grip  - YOU ARE A MAN!!

freedomlov:

Hello all,
I Have a girlfriend is is very beautiful, caring and kind, but her problem is she is very very very stubborn, and she lack  respect, and don't take advice from anybody and she wants to do what she want, and she talk to me anyhow, which i have been trying to avoid, but each time i try to avoid her silly talk and misbehaviour, by keeping quite and ignoring her, or leaving her house, she will says i act as a woman, that she can not date such men that i must take her the way i see her and that she can not change, even if i tell her with time, she will change, she will says she is not ready to change, and if i don't want the relationship, i should quite, so that she can get other men, because so many men are on the line, she don't flect, when she is with you, she is with you, but her problem is commot for road make i pass,

freedomlov:

as i am typing the message she  just broke my heart, for reason i don't really understand. last week Saturday, i was in her house and spend the whole day with her and everything seem cool and undercontrol so i left her place about 2:am mid night and i told her we gonna see on sunday, she says NO that  we should see again on Monday, i said NO. because i can not stay without seen her everyday since we live in the same area and she said OK  i should come around Then and i told her i will visit after church services, and when sunday came it was about 7:30 pm and i called her i am coming to her place, she told me to come with her book she gave me about 6 months ago, one dictionary and another book called WHY ASK WHY, so i told her that  i cant remember where i kept the book for now, that i will search for it and give to her, then she said if i did not come with that Book that she can break up her relationship with me, i was so shock and i hang the phone on her, later i called her that i was going back home, and that i will see her on Monday, she said O.K, since on Monday which is yesterday, i called her through out yesterday, she refuse to pick my call, after almost many hours of refusing to pick my call, she finally pick and said i should never come close to her again, because i went back to my house, after i promise i was coming to her place. that i should never come to her house again, i told her i was sorry it was because she was shouting on the phone on sunday, so i had to avoid that, so she immediately hang the phone and i called again she insulted the hell out of me and said is over and over for life, she is not picking calls any more and i am so cofused and loved her so much,i have sent sms over 57 times, she never responded back to me, i am just wondering if she is enjoying the heart break she is given to me, i have try to forget about her and move on, i just could not and it really getting me down, can anyone advice me on what to do? how do i get her back? i cant stand to lose her just like that,pls advice.

rman:

@ POST

Why do you want her back? And when will men start being men and stop coming to the net to tell stories like ladies. Enough guys!

Odunnu:

I'm sorry u r passing thru such pains because you choose 2 love.
I'll advice you to pick up your life again,and honestly dat gurl doesnt deserve you.You sound like a nice person,your gurl sounds fierce!
If you have a friend outside your area,crash with that friend for the nxt few weeks to avoid any physical 'bumping' between you and d gurl.Dont send her any more texts or calls,you'v done enuf of dat (57 sms!!!na wa o)try and make friends ths period.You'l ovrcome her.Be hapi,you'l meet anoda nice gal who'l make you her king!Goodluck
 

freedomlov:

Thank you every one who has responded to my post, your message has really make me feel strong, i have tried my best to make this girl so happy every blessed day i have given her every good things i can lay my hands on every moment and anywhere i go, i have given her too much suprise and really nice gift, care, love and good time,each time she wants to travel out of Town, i always Use a Rented Lexus Limozine to pick her from her apartment to the airport, and from the airport back home when ever she is going to town, all this i did to make her happy, i take her to a bar, where you can play your favorite music and sing the song on stage with oever 500 people watching you sing and clapping for you after singing.,, just to make her happy, lots lots lots of things i have done for this beautiful lady, the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month, just to make her happy, but today play, tomorrow shouting and yailling, i think i dont really deserve her, the way she treat me, she dont have respect for me, i will stop carrling and sending sms, i wish her all the best, while i will paddle my own canoe.

freedomlov:

Thank you every one who has responded to my post, your message has really make me feel strong, i have tried my best to make this girl so happy every blessed day i have given her every good things i can lay my hands on every moment and anywhere i go, i have given her too much suprise and really nice gift, care, love and good time,each time she wants to travel out of Town, i always Use a Rented Lexus Limozine to pick her from her apartment to the airport, and from the airport back home when ever she is going to town, all this i did to make her happy, i take her to a bar, where you can play your favorite music and sing the song on stage with oever 500 people watching you sing and clapping for you after singing.,, just to make her happy, lots lots lots of things i have done for this beautiful lady, the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month, just to make her happy, but today play, tomorrow shouting and yailling, i think i dont really deserve her, the way she treat me, she dont have respect for me, i will stop carrling and sending sms, i wish her all the best, while i will paddle my own canoe.

Wat is d meaning of all dis?r u so thoughtless/jobless?y should u do all dis 4 1 human being?wat happened 2 your lyfe? u did dis 2 urself bro dis is 1 of d cases where supposed 'love' turns man into mumu ha wat a shame  i think u should know by now dat 'money' does not buy 'love'.

freedomlov:

Hello all,
I Have a girlfriend who is very beautiful, caring and kind, but her problem is she is very very very stubborn, and she lack  respect, and don't take advice from anybody and she wants to do what she want, and she talk to me anyhow,

freedomlov:

Thank you every one who has responded to my post, your message has really make me feel strong, i have tried my best to make this girl so happy every blessed day i have given her every good things i can lay my hands on every moment and anywhere i go, i have given her too much suprise and really nice gift, care, love and good time,each time she wants to travel out of Town, i always Use a Rented Lexus Limozine to pick her from her apartment to the airport, and from the airport back home when ever she is going to town, all this i did to make her happy, i take her to a bar, where you can play your favorite music and sing the song on stage with oever 500 people watching you sing and clapping for you after singing.,, just to make her happy, lots lots lots of things i have done for this beautiful lady, the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month, just to make her happy, but today play, tomorrow shouting and yailling, i think i dont really deserve her, the way she treat me, she dont have respect for me, i will stop carrling and sending sms, i wish her all the best, while i will paddle my own canoe.

homealone0:

Bro, Maybe you need to ask what LOVE is?I mean find a meaning to the word LOVE, kindly get back to me, B4 i can share more light to your challenge

freedomlov:

Thank you every one who has responded to my post, your message has really make me feel strong, i have tried my best to make this girl so happy every blessed day i have given her every good things i can lay my hands on every moment and anywhere i go, i have given her too much suprise and really nice gift, care, love and good time,each time she wants to travel out of Town, i always Use a Rented Lexus Limozine to pick her from her apartment to the airport, and from the airport back home when ever she is going to town, all this i did to make her happy, i take her to a bar, where you can play your favorite music and sing the song on stage with oever 500 people watching you sing and clapping for you after singing.,, just to make her happy, lots lots lots of things i have done for this beautiful lady, the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month, just to make her happy, but today play, tomorrow shouting and yailling, i think i dont really deserve her, the way she treat me, she dont have respect for me, i will stop carrling and sending sms, i wish her all the best, while i will paddle my own canoe.

the apartment she is staying cost 650 euros, i paid all that every month

freedomlov:

Hello all,
I Have a girlfriend who is very beautiful, caring and kind, but her problem is she is very very very stubborn, and she lack respect, and don't take advice from anybody and she wants to do what she want, and she talk to me anyhow, which i have been trying to avoid, but each time i try to avoid her silly talk and misbehaviour, by keeping quite and ignoring her, or leaving her house, she will says i act as a woman, that she can not date such men that i must take her the way i see her and that she can not change, even if i tell her with time, she will change, she will says she is not ready to change, and if i don't want the relationship, i should quite, so that she can get other men, because so many men are on the line, she don't flect, when she is with you, she is with you, but her problem is commot for road make i pass,