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pocohantas:
Damn! Are they not tired?
How are men who do not benefit from marriage more concerned??

go and get married my friend.
No worry when you clock 60 without anybody to take care of you your body go tell you how far.
Keep looking for high standards at your old age

woman don dey support other women to think lyk venture capitalist o... all these ones with their mindset, even married women sef na problem.


If nor be work wey my wife dey always dey on duty for months, i for don run or divorce am since...

She is good on her own, so am the issue. I dey quick tire for woman.

Everybody has value but the society the environment we find ourselves covers up the potential that most people carry. Not to even talk of the spiritual which exists a lot in underdeveloped country like ours.

You have to be intentional, passionate and sometimes aggressive to have the value you are talking about. Many people especially ladies lack these but they are not doomed a little encouragement and exposure can turn things around..

When you overdo songs of solomon and mixup the remaining 65 books, this is the end. We talk about the breadwinner but never the breadbakers. Lack of bread due to low baking output and breadwinning mentality has almost crumbled the entire world. Too many dont know what they are looking for?

Ebenezer2021:
go and get married my friend.
No worry when you clock 60 without anybody to take care of you your body go tell you how far.
Keep looking for high standards at your old age

And how does this affect you? Is marriage not a scam that doesn't benefit men?

Ebenezer2021:
go and get married my friend.
No worry when you clock 60 without anybody to take care of you your body go tell you how far.
Keep looking for high standards at your old age

Are you inferring that this Topic would have been created for her?
I say so because she once said she eats and lives by Nairaland, that she has been active on the platform for roughly 16 years. Mehn! She's done well.
But he did you Guys know she has not cleaved to a man since her emergence here?
Although, I know that a woman with shared homely responsibilities wouldn't be as active as she is on Nairaland else her "Food go dey burn steady" Do you think she needs help?
Please educate me more?

Aside from blaming ladies for this or that... Omor to marry now na unless you get connections ooo married don cost on top 70k minimum wage...

Cause no one is ready to read their headlines, evening newspapers don't sell

APOPTOSIS:
Are you inferring that this Topic would have been created for her?
I say so because she once said she eats and lives by Nairaland, that she has been active on the platform for roughly 16 years. Mehn! She's done well.
But he did you Guys know she has not cleaved to a man since her emergence here?
Although, I know that a woman with shared homely responsibilities wouldn't be as active as she is on Nairaland else her "Food go dey burn steady" Do you think she needs help?
Please educate me more?

Malignantguest the happily married man who is obsessed with Nairaland single ladies. Why would I need to cleave a guy here? There is a real world. I am sure you have forgotten as you are obsessed with NL users __single ladies to be specific. Please go outside and touch grass.
😂😂😂😂

Because the numbers of body counts a typical city girls rack up before they even clock 25yrs is mind-blowing, a female friend of mine once told me that a friend of hers can't recall the numbers of men she has slept with in as little as six months

RealityKings1:
I don't see a problem there, they are having the best time of their life.

they are clocking menopause
its bad choice for them

Women realize failing backward

Men realize failing forward

Anytime I look at her, I laugh — such a highly delusional lady! She’s waiting for her perfect man — very rich, highly educated, princely handsome, well-connected, powerful, gentle — a bit of a mungu — highly sociable, well-travelled, etc., to appear from nowhere and take her to the moon for her wedding! She is my sister-in-law — a truly delusional being! She’ll be 40 this year and is still swimming in her delusion. She once asked why I always laughed whenever I saw her — if only she knew her delusion was the reason!

DyshApp:
A hot take from Apoorva Govind, CEO of Bestever, has gone viral, pulling over 10 million views on X (formerly Twitter), and it’s shaking up conversations on modern dating.

Reacting to a Wall Street Journal article titled “American women have never been this resigned to staying single,” Govind claimed many single women in their 30s are looking for the perfect man that doesn’t exist.

Her words:


She blamed media and dating apps for feeding unrealistic expectations, adding that the abundance of matches makes it seem like there are endless good options—when in reality, commitment and flings run on two very different rules.

Her advice?


This hot take has split the internet. Some say she's right, others say she's oversimplifying.

Seun's bot be behaving like Bola Ahmed tinubu

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Like this 41 year old Sapiosexual Aunty weh dey look for high level standard men.

She still thinks and feels she is sweet 16, and that men get her time.

sylve11:
Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, it's wise to investigate the family you are marrying into; otherwise, you may face significant heartache.

U can never see it all,just get a good woman & pray for the very best of in-laws

Thou u gotta U dig & mk findings which is very necessary but trust you'll never get it all perfect

RealityKings1:
I don't see a problem there, they are having the best time of their life.

not if they're complaining they are not.
Fortycharacters minimum is not high iq

NL bots banning apoptosis the happily married man as usual. If you are not trained from home to converse in a civil manner, the bots would train you here.

God bless Seun and his bots.

DyshApp:
A hot take from Apoorva Govind, CEO of Bestever, has gone viral, pulling over 10 million views on X (formerly Twitter), and it’s shaking up conversations on modern dating.

Reacting to a Wall Street Journal article titled “American women have never been this resigned to staying single,” Govind claimed many single women in their 30s are looking for the perfect man that doesn’t exist.

Her words:


She blamed media and dating apps for feeding unrealistic expectations, adding that the abundance of matches makes it seem like there are endless good options—when in reality, commitment and flings run on two very different rules.

Her advice?


This hot take has split the internet. Some say she's right, others say she's oversimplifying.

Ladies over 30yrs are a mine field I dey pity for them cos they are so vulnerable..at that point they need to open their eyes clearly cos they might miss it if a man's means them and pretends to be who he is not.

omoadeleye:
They used billings and too much dependency and high standards to delay themselves during their prime.

Plus over righteousness and some people whose parents caused it.
You'll see some girls whose parents would demonize boys and go ahead to punish their daughters severely for talking with boys. It stereotypes the entire dating thing to them until life hit them at 30.

This part, “Think like a VC betting on future potential—not a bank checking present profit & loss.”, make a lot of sense only if them go hear!

Akinpresident:
Plus over righteousness and some people whose parents caused it.
You'll see some girls whose parents would demonize boys and go ahead to punish their daughters severely for talking with boys. It stereotypes the entire dating thing to them until life hit them at 30.

So that you can make them single mothers, abi?


This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

Blitzking:
Ladies over 30yrs are a mine field I dey pity for them cos they are so vulnerable..at that point they need to open their eyes clearly cos they might miss it if a man's means them and pretends to be who he is not.

Aswear

As they are usually desperate at that period of their life, they are prone to be easily deceived and exploited by hawks and scavengers masquerading as potential suitors

May Baba God continue to protect such ladies, most especially those good ladies in that category, who out of no fault of their own, are still single even though they desire marriage

Amen

twosquare:
So that you can make them single mothers, abi?


This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

That's for who wants.

A mother is supposed to teach her daughter everything about boy/girl relations including sex so that if she make that mistake, she's responsible for it.

bluefilm:
Aswear

As they are usually desperate at that period of their life, they are prone to be easily deceived and exploited by hawks and scavengers masquerading as potential suitors

May Baba God continue to protect such ladies, most especially those good ladies in that category, who out of no fault of their own, are still single even though they desire marriage

Amen

In my early 30s I saw first hand how desperate those ladies are..at work..in church..outings...some will come out plainly and ask a guy out...some will give Greenhithe that even the blind can see it, I just wish the good ones among them find their soul mate.

There are many factors involved, good, bad and ugly.

Most Ladies are not ready to Submit the to a man anyone