In your late 20s, everyone starts getting concerned about your marital status. Your aunts, parents, older siblings, friends and even frenemies. Once you hit 30 and are still single, more pressure builds up. Ladies especially are subjects to this pressure more than guys.

Guess what, when these ladies appreciate that you mean well for them and you want them to get settled, sometimes it’s too much and wishes that you would just let them be. Check out these things that single ladies in their 30s are tired of hearing:

1. The clock is ticking

She knows this already but probably, she is yet to meet her match. So, you don’t have to rub it in.

2. You should just get a kid

First, not everyone wants kids. Secondly, maybe she has been trying to get a kid because she also knows that the clock is ticking but the efforts haven’t born any fruits, yet.

3. All your agemates are married

Really? This is the last thing you should tell a single girl in her 30s. She knows that her agemates are married but she can’t just marry a random guy because she wants to be like her peers.

4. It’s time you find yourself a man

Well, maybe it’s not yet time for her. You don’t know what her priorities are. Just let her be.


5. What are you still waiting for?

People wait for many things. She could be waiting to be financially stable or she could be waiting for a Mr Right. Because sometimes it’s not always easy to land on a man who matches your standards.

6. I know of a good guy who is still single

Unless she has requested to be set up with a guy, don’t try to hook her up with your male friends.

7. People will be thinking you are your kids’ granny

This is just mean.

8. You should join tinder, there are good guys there

By the time she is 30, she undoubtedly tried or considered trying online dating but for some reasons, she chose another route.

9. How are you still single?

People will be like, ‘you are so beautiful, how come you are still single?’ But beauty is not all that matters

10. Maybe you are just too picky

No, it’s not about being picky. Sometimes Mr Luck is not on your side and you end up kissing a little more too many frogs.

Source: https://tigblog.com.ng/2020/04/26/10-things-single-ladies-in-their-30s-are-tired-of-hearing/

sad

Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

Wayne4uall:
Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

Wayne4uall:
Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

And they have used potential boyfriend who might become their husband to play Mario.

When it comes back to bite them hard, they will start jumping from one Mountain to the other but by then its late.

Spot on

After extorting and dumping good guys Wen they were younger. After all d "u are not my match""u are not my type" "u can't takdme care of me" " I don't do broke guys" "I don't do guys dat don't drive cars"
Karma is a big bitch

by God's grace Shiloh will hold this year
they should get their mantles ready

Its the truth now.

Wayne4uall:
Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

LOL you know the drill, fam

Eyaaa.

I don't tell such 30+ ladies such things.

I am not that wicked and heartless.

I only tell them that Shiloh is waiting for them.

Stop shaming single ladies who are 30 plus. Remember what goes around comes around. It might be your daughter or sister's turn tomorrow.
Not all ladies who are 30 plus neglected men who could have been their husbands as you guys always claim,not all of them were run girls who wasted their 20s. Some were just unlucky to have been used and dumped,some focused on career and self development which might have affected their relationship status,some were just plain unlucky not to find a husband at the right age.

Wayne4uall:
Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

Lmao!!

faith2kool:
sad

30 over 30 spotted?

zionmde:
After extorting and dumping good guys Wen they were younger. After all d "u are not my match""u are not my type" "u can't take care of me" " I don't do broke guys" "I don't do guys dat don't drive cars"
Karma is a big bitch

by God's grace Shiloh will hold this year
they should get their mantles ready

� show love na

Wayne4uall:
Lol.. So funny.... wen dey hav use dere husband to do boyfriend...

You think it applies only to ladies? Even men face the same questions. So, it goes both ways.

Would b easier if one can order one on jumia or konga.

My advice to ladies: don't always listen to what people will say cus even if you eventually get married, they'll still look for another thing to talk about like "when are you gonna get pregnant" ?

When you eventually get pregnant and give birth to a female child, they'll still ask "when are you gonna have a male child"

Stop listening to people and do only what makes you happy !

The men also feel the heat too as they clock 30 and right into their mid 30s.

I remember a guy once telling me, "Chi, I am ashamed. I hardly go out these days" for fear of being reminded of his martial status. And the worst thing about men is, when they get to that age, they find it difficult to marry their hearts wish. You know a woman in her 30s can still take care of herself and look under 16 and a young boy will see her and marry her. But once a man gets to certain age theyll be looking so old and hard, if you know what I mean. And this can be a turn off for most girls
/ ladies. Dunno why it is so though.

Back to the matter. Only a lady who lacks focus and understanding will be perturbed by such questions.

Eulalia:
The men also feel the heat too as they clock 30 and right into their mid 30s.

I remember a guy once telling me, "Chi, I am ashamed. I hardly go out these days" for fear of being reminded of his martial status. And the worst thing about men is, when they get to that age, they find it difficult to marry their hearts wish. You know a woman in her 30s can still take care of herself and look under 16 and a young boy will see her and marry her. But once a man gets to certain age theyll be looking so old and hard, if you know what I mean. And this can be a turn off for most girls
/ ladies. Dunno why it is so though.

Back to the matter. Only a lady who lacks focus and understanding will be perturbed by such questions.

Keep living in fantasy land

OneChanceTaxi:


Keep living in fantasy land

Whatever.

Eulalia:


You think it applies only to ladies? Even men face the same questions. So, it goes both ways.

May b u Re right... But men still had the upper hand.. A man can still born at the age of 50 but ladies can't do

Wayne4uall:


May b u Re right... But men still had the upper hand.. A man can still born at the age of 50 but ladies can't do

What about those who got married at the age of 18 and up till now @ 50, have not conceived even for once? Some never had till they died.

Stop viewing life from only one angle. This life is kinda twisted and doesn't always work they way we think it does. So, stop basing certain things as the ultimate in life. Some married early and were wiped off the surface of the earth in one day. So, its not enough reason to "marriageshame" anybody.
Once you're alive and in good health, thank God and try to give yourself peace and be happy until He makes everything beautiful. Its not always as bad as people make it seem.

Eulalia:


What about those who got married at the age of 18 and up till now @ 50, have not conceived even for once? Some never had till they died.

Stop viewing life from only one angle. This life is kinda twisted and doesn't always work they way we think it does. So, stop basing certain things as the ultimate in life. Some married early and were wiped off the surface of the earth in one day. So, its not enough reason to "marriageshame" anybody.
Once you're alive and in good health, thank God and try to give yourself peace and be happy until He makes everything beautiful. Its not always as bad as people make it seem.

Why r u taking this personal?

LilPeezy:
Why r u taking this personal?

How? Oh.... Maybe because I'm 150 years old . Satisfied? Since I can't contribute like every other sane human beings here in peace again. Ajuju.

Eulalia:


How? Oh.... Maybe because I'm 150 years old . Satisfied? Since I can't contribute like every other sane human beings here in peace again. Ajuju.

I should be satisfied cos u r 150yrs old, none of business with ur age....D way u tackle comments makes me wonder

LilPeezy:
I should be satisfied cos u r 150yrs old, none of business with ur age....D way u tackle comments makes me wonder

The way i tackle issues? Please tell me how?

Another one?? ....let's go.. Who is attacking for us..

Eulalia:




The way i tackle issues? Please tell me how?

leaave that idiot,you should have known he is a primary school leaver. You should have known from his previous,tell him to answer your questions he no go fit,na weyrey him be!!

LilPeezy:
I should satisfied cos u r 150yrs old, none of business with ur age....D way u tackle comments makes me wonder

lil peezy,you are a plain idiot,weyrey na him you be

@OP are you married? I'm not

Most at their prime, do usually forget that new models are been rolled out...And then before you are done with your make up you realize the phase is gone...sadly, people begin to assume there must be something inherently wrong with you not to have gotten married ... On a more serious note this 30+ ladies thread has become annoying.. I know many men who started considering marriage @40 and married @42/43 ....No be everybody go marry abeg and there is no age limit...