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My boss was married a virgin by the very husband I know so well but today she's a community project and the only reason she gave me for this attitude was that she didn't enjoy life before marriage.
Install secret cameras in your apartment

Something is telling me that this your story is a COOKED story. But let me pretend that it is true;
What you have in your house is not a wife. You left your home to fend for both of you, and in less than 12 hours, she is flirting with another man, in the same vicinity. She even lies to you blatantly about her whereabout, and you think you are married?; You think you have a wife? Very soon, you will be the talk of the street. My friend you don't have a wife. Send her back to her father's house, immediately. 😎

I would have said you should let go and give second chance, but u see lies

She's at home while clearly she wasn't is already a cheating sign..
Also bringing another man into a matrimonial home? Wow that's dangerous men, and without a shame of what neighbors will think?

You don't need to catch her red handed to know she's cheating on you. Diligently do your research on her properly, if she's guilty...then decide if you can cope because cheating won't stop

For her to lie that she was at home when she was away says it all.

Bringing a man into her home or walking along with him at odd hour is more than red flag.

What were you expecting from her? To tell you she opened her legs wild for the man to enter?

Even if she didn't do anything her attitudes portray one who has compromised!

I will advice you to make a decision on your own so you can own it any day any time.

If I am in your shoe I will quietly let her go and enjoy the man she loves.

Wish you goodluck in your decision

FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?

Your wife is your wife, the virginity was not needed if you weren't trying to push an agenda.

An evil person is an evil person whether they are virgins or not.


Lemme say something quickly about people who push the virgin propaganda.

They say, being virgin is not enough. Character is very important.


Yes character is very important but virginity or non virginity does not change a lady 's character.

An uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful virgin lady will still be uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful when she becomes a non virgin, therefore choose virgin.

At least it shows she's disciplined and virtuous.


A homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful virgin girl will be homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful when she becomes non-virgin.


There are non virgin girls with some good qualities likewise there are virgin girls with good qualities. Therefore, virginity still wins.

There are non virgin girls with really bad qualities and there are also virgins with bad qualities. Virginity still wins.

The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

She is not entirely evil, but she has started to toe the line of evil.
With time she will get entirely evil.

Wetin be meaning of virging?
What does virging contribute to human character?
When they said person is virging is becouse the person have never test the other side of adult hood but when testing, it become something else and want it more like crazy, so be ready to handle virging
We need wife material that posses good character not virging

Let me break this down....
No 1.....U bringing ur predicament to NL is a good and a bad thing...literally, both are equally terrifying.
No 2..... U bringing ur new wedded wife to lagos st, it's finished....a guy in my area brought his new wedded wife to lagos and she started working in a bread factory...now almost all the guys there have had their ways with her and her husband caught her twice...them don split now.
No 3... The very moment u knew ur wife has a very high sex drive, that was d beginning of ur problem
No 4....she just told u she ended up sleeping with dat nigga...bcus if d nigga try forcing his self on her....why was she there at first?....why did the nigga escorted her back home?....why was her phone off?.....why did she lied she was at home?...



























Bro..truth be told....ur wife just got fu××k by some street nigga and if the guy handled her well more than u do, just forget abt it....it's finish....i repeat it's finish.....






I come in peace

The emphasis on her "virginity" makes your story sound like a figment of your warped imagination.

This lady has shown you who she is, even had the gut to lie to you that she was at home and her phone battery low. And some clowns on this website are advising you to take it like a man, go for counseling and not involve her parents?

You have two options..

Option 1- she gets better at hiding her trails and continues with her act of disregarding and disrespecting you.


Option 2- you get your peace of mind back without her. You’ll never trust her the same way again. She will never trust you haven’t forgiven her again. You both will just resent each other with time.


So if this story is true, you are only a couple of time away from bringing another thread to this website titled “My wife has left me for another man”. Good luck.

I don't know oh
But I must not know what to do
This woman is going that's my first step
All these things no reach to dei waste time with
Mk them go die abeggg

FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?

Your wife is your wife, the virginity was not needed if you weren't trying to push an agenda.

An evil person is an evil person whether they are virgins or not.


Lemme say something quickly about people who push the virgin propaganda.

They say, being virgin is not enough. Character is very important.


Yes character is very important but virginity or non virginity does not change a lady 's character.

An uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful virgin lady will still be uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful when she becomes a non virgin, therefore choose virgin.

At least it shows she's disciplined and virtuous.


A homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful virgin girl will be homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful when she becomes non-virgin.


There are non virgin girls with some good qualities likewise there are virgin girls with good qualities. Therefore, virginity still wins.

There are non virgin girls with really bad qualities and there are also virgins with bad qualities. Virginity still wins.

The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

Na content be this

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

Guy you be simp. She has sworn with everything that she didn't do anything with him. What did you expect her to say? Na WA for you o. That's the same way she lied to you that she was a virgin and you believed just because she said so. You're a classic example of a simp.

Who even told you that a virgin cannot cheat or misbehave? Virginity is overrated. I've seen many virgins I mean women who entered a marriage without boning another man misbehave big time. Either you are not throttling her enough, or she has just realized that she had wasted all her time waiting to be managed by just one man. Now that she has tasted this one, I bet she will taste more.

I rather marry a woman who is truthful and has decorum with virtue than a virgin, just for being a virgin.

As a single guy, I avoided virgins. Once you say you're a virgin, I just keep u as friend, nothing more, because I wouldn't like to answer God any question if I chop and run away I only dated and deflowered just one virgin in my entire life, because I was a virgin also before the encounter. And she took in for another man a year after I left town. So what's there in dating or marrying a virgin? Some and majority of the claims are scams. Even when they're not scams, there is no warranty that the product will not malfunction.

Sorry. My advice is that you should manage her the way it is. But don't believe she has not banged the guy. Where do u think she was all-day? She was planning to switch off her phone and run all night while you labour your simp head away.

So do u think that the very first time of opening for the guy will be to carry him home? She must have done the introduction or the unwrapping before elsewhere before bringing him home to "own" him all night.

The communication you noticed the first time u went out together was her efforts at trying to warn him that this is her husband o.

Enjoy ur virgin and leave us who married 2nd hand in peace

your wife has cheated on you already, and you have caught her even if not naked in bed with another man...fact is she is a cheat... and you should never forgive a cheating wife ,, they don't like being forgiven because they know they'll loose the charm over you.
a cheating house wife is a dangerous woman when caught,, write this down very soon she will start disrespecting you because she'll now see you as a weak and not enough man to decide and put 2 and 2 together... bro collect her phone go to her WhatsApp at the search area type words like "hotel, meet, hangout, sex, bar, love, miss" you will the type of person you married ....even virgins dey cheat



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FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?

Your wife is your wife, the virginity was not needed if you weren't trying to push an agenda.

An evil person is an evil person whether they are virgins or not.


Lemme say something quickly about people who push the virgin propaganda.

They say, being virgin is not enough. Character is very important.


Yes character is very important but virginity or non virginity does not change a lady 's character.

An uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful virgin lady will still be uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful when she becomes a non virgin, therefore choose virgin.

At least it shows she's disciplined and virtuous.


A homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful virgin girl will be homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful when she becomes non-virgin.


There are non virgin girls with some good qualities likewise there are virgin girls with good qualities. Therefore, virginity still wins.

There are non virgin girls with really bad qualities and there are also virgins with bad qualities. Virginity still wins.

The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

Ggamsolutely said...and seconded!

Cosigned by me, Deputy Director of the Association of Marrying a Virgin who is top 3 in her class, disciplined and has morals!

Marriage is meant for men and not boys. Because on the shoulders of a man lies huge responsibilities.
The truth is your wife is sleeping with that guy! Like 99% assurance, now it is up to you to manage her by disconnecting her from that guy. Don't be weak about it, be very stern and "brutal" about it. She has to be punished in some way to make her understand there is consequences for everything in life. I am not saying beat her but make it known that cheating is not allowed at all (because you sounded very weak, trusting and understanding to me). With cheating comes other rebellious acts. Even the shame alone of the street people seeing your wife with another guy is crazy, so you have to take charge of your marriage and let your wife know you are a no-nonsense-man. She will have to decide if she wants to stay in the marriage or not and possibly change your location afterwards.

she is an unloyal woman, already flirting and probably cheating with another man in the first year of marriage, if i were you i will divorce the hoe because this is just the begining

You sold yourself out bro, get a job for her,get her busy and set boundaries..

Good afternoon dear. Very sorry about your experience.
You did not tell us about the age of the girl in question but from your narration, i guess she is around 22-28. You did not tell us if you have got children in the marriage.

The first thing you should do is to sit her down and ask her what the issue is? She will tell you lots of story but listen to her patiently and carefully. After that then start talking but with a mild and matured tone and words too.
1. Ask her where you have offended her
2. Ask her if you are not sexually satisfying her
3. Ask her if she really want the married to continue.
4. Ask her how she will feel if she is the one you are doing like this
5. Don't let her parents know of this first. Try manage it within first.
6. Get your marriage counselor, pastor to know of this first even before her marriage.

I will like to hear from you on this.

FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?

Your wife is your wife, the virginity was not needed if you weren't trying to push an agenda.

An evil person is an evil person whether they are virgins or not.


Lemme say something quickly about people who push the virgin propaganda.

They say, being virgin is not enough. Character is very important.


Yes character is very important but virginity or non virginity does not change a lady 's character.

An uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful virgin lady will still be uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful when she becomes a non virgin, therefore choose virgin.

At least it shows she's disciplined and virtuous.


A homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful virgin girl will be homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful when she becomes non-virgin.


There are non virgin girls with some good qualities likewise there are virgin girls with good qualities. Therefore, virginity still wins.

There are non virgin girls with really bad qualities and there are also virgins with bad qualities. Virginity still wins.

The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

Virginity is part of character, an integral part.
If sexual discipline is not part of your character, then what is left of it? What are you actually referring to as good character?

Both you and your virginity wife should getat abeg.

FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?


The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

Stop lying to Op. She never tasted diick before. Now that she did, she's discovered her talent. She's more than evil

Firebox123:
if this fake news can reach frontpage

Seun mynd44 Dominique just delete my nairaland account with immediate effects

Which part of the story made it looks like a fakes story to you? This is not even one of the most terrible news among couples we've heard

The fact is you can't know someone's true character until they've been tested.

Men who seek virgin wives are very insecure.

FRANCISTOWN:
Why did you have to put "My Virgin wife"?

Your wife is your wife, the virginity was not needed if you weren't trying to push an agenda.

An evil person is an evil person whether they are virgins or not.


Lemme say something quickly about people who push the virgin propaganda.

They say, being virgin is not enough. Character is very important.


Yes character is very important but virginity or non virginity does not change a lady 's character.

An uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful virgin lady will still be uncultured, unlucky and disrespectful when she becomes a non virgin, therefore choose virgin.

At least it shows she's disciplined and virtuous.


A homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful virgin girl will be homely, submissive, disciplined and respectful when she becomes non-virgin.


There are non virgin girls with some good qualities likewise there are virgin girls with good qualities. Therefore, virginity still wins.

There are non virgin girls with really bad qualities and there are also virgins with bad qualities. Virginity still wins.

The fact that your wife is a virgin shows she has discipline to an extent. She's not entirely evil.

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

What would you want her to tell you before, to confess? That's not going to happen

maasoap:
Which part of the story made it looks like a fakes story to you? This is not even one of the most terrible news among couples we've heard

until this same nairaland account start scamming innocent people on nairaland

Watch and see

No be so odafe start wetin end ham

Xso666:
Please I don’t know who you are talking about I am new on this platform and a friend introduced me here.

And you came here to seek solution to your marital issues? Na so

maasoap:
Which part of the story made it looks like a fakes story to you? This is not even one of the most terrible news among couples we've heard

The repeated emphasis on "virgin" gave him away. He wrote the story to manipulate people's emotions...

Xso666:
She has sworn with everything that she didn’t do anything with the guy. We promised not to involve 3rd party in our relationship but at this point I am thinking of doing that which is why I came here to seek advice and not to act based on emotions because I love my wife so much

Send her parking. I remember I once had something similar with an ex, she asked her uncle whom I respect very much to talk to me, when I met the man, the first thing he told me was that

'Young man, this thing is totally up to you, but as for me, if I see my wife coming out of a man's room, there is nothing she can tell me that will make me believe nothing happened, weather it happened or not, for me, it has happened, cos there is no justification for a married woman to be in a private space with another man who isn't her husband, so if I want to continue the relationship, I should make sure it is at the back of my mind that she did this in this past, and I have forgiven, if I know o can't, I should end the relationship '

I respected that man even more that day cos he didn't mind the fact that she was his sister's child.

By the way, why did the man run if nothing indeed happened?

Please, from a concern man who is watching out for his brother, end the marriage or whatever you call it. She will never respect you anymore if you choose to let this slide. Thank God you did not mention anything about a child on the way or anything of such.

If there is a child on the way. Let her have it, take care of her while she is with her parent and once she have that child, go for a DNA test, if the child is yours, take care of your child, if the child is not yours, count your loss.

Women are very dangerous, and most of them hate men. Do you know a lady can choose to date a man only to bear a child and there is no love or any other thing in site. I have seen a lady that goes into different relationship just to pass a disease around.

Be careful. Personally I have told myself I won't get married. The lady I'm dating I already told her, we will just have a kid or two together. If she choose to stay after, its her choice, not forcing any bond.

Please be careful, and sleep with one eyes open if you choose to still sleep under same roof if any child is on the way but if no child, discharge her, in fact if a child is on the way send her home and tell her parent you will take care of her from distance till she birth and you are doing a DNA