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Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

When you grow old, i pray you will not eat your words...

OOOKEWALE:
When you grow old, i pray you will not eat your words...

You dey mind am

OOOKEWALE:
When you grow old, i pray you will not eat your words...

henrybomb:
You dey mind am

He's right. Don't plan to be a burden on your children

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

Everywhere in the world, parents make their children their life time retirement. Don't let inferiority complex destroy you.

When you grow up and start raising children, you can choose not to make them your retirement plan. Children are the only investment a dutiful parent will never retire from its ROI. Not even your marriage that you placed above your own parents can be your retirement plan because your spouse will divorce you.

Only Failed parents and products of failed parenting/dysfunctiomal parents believe that they don’t owe one another anything

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

The first time I am agreeing with you but still, I cannot have money and watch my parents suffer. They are blood but I cannot stand entitlements mentalities.

You don't know the joy of taking good care of your parents and the blessings that come with it

But you owe your girlfriend . I dey wire my parents money as i like even though them no dey beg me. I only give people who have contributed meaningfully to my lifed

Wheel U kip quayet!


This is Africa.


Go and do like white to tell your father:
"Daddy, will you keep quiet?"

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

I could see you are still a teenager boy who know next to nothing about real life situation. When you start having your own children, you will understand better.

yemmit90:
I could see you are still a teenager boy who know next to nothing about real life situation. When you start having your own children, you will understand better.

person wey don clock 45.
His age pass seun character

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

My people say e no dey tey young girl go resemble him mama.

Time will tell as you get old

Op you dey yarn dust, continue saying it until it sticks, karma will always got your address, for me, I owe my parent every good damm thing in this world, they deserve it all, so does my future kids owes me, my parent spent their youth raising me and providing me all ever asked of.in my neighbor hood, me an my siblings attended the best and most expensive school, my parent aren't rich nor poor, just average but I am always seen as a rich kid in the neighborhood and everywhere, do you know why?

Because they made sure we lacked nothing, now my parent are retired and elderly, their strength can't carry them to do much as before, now I place them on monthly stipends and make sure they lacked nothing, I bought them health insurance and I am doing my best to give them the best, and so would my future kids,

if you say u owe your parent nothing, karma will smile at you when you are very old and struggling when you should be retired and resting with your kids abandoning you to suffer

ExudeLoveToAll:
But you owe your girlfriend . I dey wire my parents money as i like even though them no dey beg me. I only give people who have contributed meaningfully to my lifed

People like that could even place him girlfriend on salary while their parent suffer, but don't worry, karma no dey miss address

Sucre6:
Op you dey yarn dust, continue saying it until it sticks, karma will always got your address, for me, I owe my parent every good damm thing in this world, they deserve it all, so does my future kids owes me, my parent spent their youth raising me and providing me all ever asked of.in my neighbor hood, me an my siblings attended the best and most expensive school, my parent aren't rich nor poor, just average but I am always seen as a rich kid in the neighborhood and everywhere, do you know why?

Because they made sure we lacked nothing, now my parent are retired and elderly, their strength can't carry them to do much as before, now I place them on monthly stipends and make sure they lacked nothing, I bought them health insurance and I am doing my best to give them the best, and so would my future kids,

if you say u owe your parent nothing, karma will smile at you when you are very old and struggling when you should be retired and resting with your kids abandoning you to suffer

how old are you

Thereedemer:
how old are you

30+

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

You're definitely suffering from the trauma of lack of parental love in your life. It's obvious you've not really experience parental love.

Allow us that have been showered with sweet parental love to also reciprocate same with joy the same way a Yahoo boy dey see joy in throwing money in clubs and spending on his girls 😂😁

When the right time comes for instance, you have the money will you allow your parents to suffer?

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

You are correct.
Nigerians are the most hypocritical creatures on earth I have seen. They want Nigeria to change but they don't want to change their retrogressive habits and culture.

The Wise and responsible parents don't expect anything from their kids because they know it is not their right. The kids can decide to support their parents out of goodwill. Many irresponsible parents bring out kids just to suffer them perpetually and people support this.
I have seen many parents with retirement plan and that is how it should be and not to depend on children. They didn't force the parents to be born.
Depending on kids and pushing them to crime is one of the ills of the society which is rampant in Nigeria. It's even written in the Bible that a good parent should leave inheritance down to the grandchildren.

Sir Chi boy.

Chi for Chinedu or Chibuzor.

How can we be surprised at what you wrote? It is expected, nah.

When a relative said” help my children now so in the future they will remember you”, to that I said ‘pray they remember you their father, let alone me’.

This generation don’t have a sense of responsibility to society , know this and know peace.

ExudeLoveToAll:
But you owe your girlfriend . I dey wire my parents money as i like even though them no dey beg me. I only give people who have contributed meaningfully to my lifed

This is very nice.

Every parents who toiled day and night to give their children good upbringing and legacy deserves all the enjoyment in the world.

Parenting is not a walk in the park.

When you say ANYTHING.

That's when I know you are just a scumbag.

So cuppy doesn't owe Her Pops Femi respect, regards, abi. Y'all think its all about finance.

GROW UP and stop swallowing western pills to sound intelligent.

This post is from a Genz, I hardly give my ears to their words

Pls you can only personalize to yourself and not general.
You might not owe your parent anything but me i owe my parent a lot especially my MOTHER
If there is anyting am doing for her she deserve more than that.

Sirchiboy:
Parenthood is responsibilty not an avenue to breed kids in the hope of making them your retirement plan.
This is very common in African culture where parents make their kids their life time retirement.
Every parents should plan for their future retirement.
You can decide to support them once in a while but not a most it is your reponsiblity to cater for them in their old age.

Dude is broke reason for the topic. If you are doing well, taking care of your family members will not even be an issue up for discussion.

I owe my Parents a lot o abeg. Especially my Papa, May God give me the ability to Pay Back

Ho po nu adviser

Speak for yourself!!!

If na irresponsible parents raise you no mean say other people parents too dey irresponsible.