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Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Dzzzz: 9:17am On Jul 18, 2025
I asked one of my babe then,what business will she like to do!..I was ready to even drop a million naira but the business would be in my name so we no go hear story for future..She said“I will like to sell cooked noodles with egg”😧😧I just pack my bag,climb boat and japa..
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by wiseone28: 9:18am On Jul 18, 2025
I got 99 problems but relationship ain't one
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Onogiede(m): 9:21am On Jul 18, 2025
dheolexaone:
Majority of the young kindlings on this thread will say nothing women bring to the table. I am not surprised. If you are successful yourself, you won't settle less for just BBL and SEX on the table.

Majority of men have been lifted up to high connections via the serious and successful wife they got married too. This life is not perfect.

Let no one man living under his parents or struggling by the day complain about not meeting the other version of women who empowers their circle.
love to have you as wife,… email me onogiede20@gmail.com
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by AZControversial: 9:22am On Jul 18, 2025
cool
Absolute peace of mind....

Feels good to be treated like a king....
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by dheolexaone(f): 9:31am On Jul 18, 2025
Onogiede:
love to have you as wife,… email me onogiede20@gmail.com
Thank you blessed soul.
I am married.

Parasitic men showed me shege while single. I left relationships and went on building and investing in myself. I didn't settle for less. When I met my man, he was not Dangote but trust me today... He is a fulfilled soul.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Myrepublic(m): 9:37am On Jul 18, 2025
The girls I have dated is basically sex, except for one that supported me with prayers (the babe go just dey fast for my sake,sow seed on my behalf)
Even though we didn't end up marrying each other,we are still good friends till date.. I still dey support her if need arise,since the country Tinubu. The second one helped me financially when I was totally down.. lost my job and was down for over a year..

Even though we didn't end up marrying each other,we are still good friends. She is married,even her husband knows we are friends,and it's more like family frds now..

She self don benefit from me,cux I no dey forget who help me when I needed help.

And all thanks to God I am fully back on my feet,and she self don benefit from it..

Currently I'm nt dating. I dey find wife sha,even though is very hard to find..

Anyone who is God fearing ,has sense and single,Should DM me.

Note : I don't give girls money,until you have shown me that you are not like every other girls that are like vampires out there..

I no go suffer make money,make u come use Toto when u dey give everybody collect am. Never!

If I wan carry OS,I know say na OS I wan carry.. No be say babe go dey act like OS for relationship when me and she dey..
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by ufotty2001: 9:38am On Jul 18, 2025
Do not marry a religious woman.. your marriage will be in the hand of pastor and Church. They believe what the pastor says than what the husband say. They are unproductive because they believe that their god will do it without work
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by MissOpe(f): 9:38am On Jul 18, 2025
Nonexisting1:
Most men benefit only sex, few more others benefit sex and maybe food so change your topic to 'Men, what values has your woman added to your life since you met her' and I bet you, many guys will avoid this your thread. grin
So in a nutshell , you're saying benefit is totally different from value cheesy grin grin grin.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Lovestrong(m): 9:45am On Jul 18, 2025
Righteousness2:
I am Benefitting a whole lot. Spiritually ,Physically, Ministerially, Financially, Health wise , Peace of mind, Strength to carry on , courage, Victory in the Battles of life, Hope of Eternal life so much more.

My Relationship with the KING OF kings, JESUS CHRIST is the GREATEST decision I have ever taken since I came into this world.
abeg rest, pastor!

U need 40 more characters to understand dis, sir.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by DaddyRochie1642: 9:51am On Jul 18, 2025
Therock5555:
The only time I benefit from my relationships is when I'm back in town...


When I'm out of town, I'm out of all relationships, I don't call, I barely pick theirs and no billing permitted.

If you still single when I get back to town, we continue from where we stop....
You are a very wise man.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by candygist: 9:52am On Jul 18, 2025
Nazgul:
That's because a lot of Nigerian men lack standards.

Once they see breasts and nyash, they start acting like kids. Women know this and use it to exploit them to their advantage.

It's only in Nigeria you'd see a man working his ass off just to lavish everything on a woman who has zero feelings for him. Some even go as far as placing these girls on monthly pay. I've seen struggling guys place their girlfriends on monthly salary and when you try to talk them out of it, they'll tell you that it's their responsibility to take care of their girl.

And you'd be like what's the job of her parents then?
Mostly Yahoo boys. Many of them out their girls on monthly payment.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by MrSly(m): 9:52am On Jul 18, 2025
Fiscus105:
Must you have relationship with women? I think it's time you leave woman for men that want them and stop complaining upon complaining.


Thank God for the post about masturbation in recent times.
If you follow the path of msturbation you will run out of it frustrated. Just didn't venture in at all.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Nazgul: 9:54am On Jul 18, 2025
candygist:
Mostly Yahoo boys. Many of them out their girls on monthly payment.
Bro even hard working guys do this. I know someone who works with Nigerian ports earns about 350k and gives his girlfriend 150k every month as upkeep money.

Most Nigerian mean are weak.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Smithwilliams826: 9:56am On Jul 18, 2025
Baronthecelebri:
I'm not in any stupid relationship.
Dem don frustrate dis 1
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Richpet85: 10:00am On Jul 18, 2025
I am benefiting alot beyond sex on my current relationship. Ranging from companionship, mental healing and above all good sex. Sincerely, I never knew I was not naturally a womanizer until my current relationship. My life has changed for good both spiritually, morally, physically and otherwise. Thought of cheating has disappeared and I can only think of how to improve my life and life of my partner. My greatest challenge now is that we are both AS blood genotype but our friendship is like love made in heaven. I am indeed proud of my woman Kelebaby may God bless you for ma
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Wenonawde(m): 10:26am On Jul 18, 2025
Onogiede:
love to have you as wife,… email me onogiede20@gmail.com
Where u wan put ur 2kids ? Now that u are planning to marry another wife.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by ibedun: 10:30am On Jul 18, 2025
MatrixCircle:
Healing .....someone to talk to after 12 &14 hours shift in Uk. I lost my social life. Pressure from Nigeria, family and friends begging for money.
I lost gbola erection, when I try to knack gbola no dey stand.
Until I met this pretty girl who showed me love and attention and I reduced my hustle. Started eating good home meal instead of burger , bread etc. My gbola started working to full capacity again even more than before. My health improved and mental health wahala disappeared. Lots of benefits.
I reduced trying to solve everyone's problems back home, i care only for my parents and siblings in Nigeria as she advised and started living again. Lots of benefits.
You go hear am later. Just make sure you’re not signing your life and peace away in a legal marriage.
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by gentility411(m): 10:32am On Jul 18, 2025
Dzzzz:
I asked one of my babe then,what business will she like to do!..I was ready to even drop a million naira but the business would be in my name so we no go hear story for future..She said“I will like to sell cooked noodles with egg”😧😧I just pack my bag,climb boat and japa..
Lolz................my belle oooo!!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Oshin56(m): 10:32am On Jul 18, 2025
I dey benefits plenty things like food, fresh pepper and free medical treatment and drugs...
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Riskymarvelous(m): 10:43am On Jul 18, 2025
Thank God say I don dey single now
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Abee79(m): 10:43am On Jul 18, 2025
Mistaresa:
Immediately we started dating, I started increasing in size...... Na food o😂😂😂.. Even if oga presido cripple d economy, my baby go make sure say I chop well...
On behalf of all men, we pray that God bless your baby. Tell her we are proud of her!
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by cucumbar: 10:44am On Jul 18, 2025
dheolexaone:
Majority of the young kindlings on this thread will say nothing women bring to the table. I am not surprised. If you are successful yourself, you won't settle less for just BBL and SEX on the table.

Majority of men have been lifted up to high connections via the serious and successful wife they got married too. This life is not perfect.

Let no one man living under his parents or struggling by the day complain about not meeting the other version of women who empowers their circle.
Do you know the meaning of Majority ?
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by emmnprince(m): 10:51am On Jul 18, 2025
Righteousness2:
I am Benefitting a whole lot. Spiritually ,Physically, Ministerially, Financially, Health wise , Peace of mind, Strength to carry on , courage, Victory in the Battles of life, Hope of Eternal life so much more.

My Relationship with the KING OF kings, JESUS CHRIST is the GREATEST decision I have ever taken since I came into this world.
Nice one!

But in the context of the post, it is about relationship with your spouse or a lady you're in a dating or courting relationship with.

So, aside your spiritual relationship with Jesus Christ you're benefiting greatly from as you stated, what are you benefiting from your physical relationship with your spouse or fianceé?
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Kinterez(m): 10:59am On Jul 18, 2025
Nonexisting1:
Most men benefit only sex, few more others benefit sex and maybe food so change your topic to 'Men, what values has your woman added to your life since you met her' and I bet you, many guys will avoid this your thread. grin
Thread avoided
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Psoul(m): 11:03am On Jul 18, 2025
When a man's ways pleases the God Almighty and he finds favour before him, He will bless him with the kind of woman I married.

Honey, you are the best of all.
You are a good home maker.
A prayer warrior.
Great adviser.
Wonderful Motivator.
Meticulous wealth organizer.
Wealth creator
Peace giver
Even your activities in the oza room is wonderful.

What else can a man ask for?
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by flakkybakky(f): 11:31am On Jul 18, 2025
Dzzzz:
I asked one of my babe then,what business will she like to do!..I was ready to even drop a million naira but the business would be in my name so we no go hear story for future..She said“I will like to sell cooked noodles with egg”😧😧I just pack my bag,climb boat and japa..
o. Omo, she lost a lifetime opportunity
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by Dzzzz: 12:33pm On Jul 18, 2025
flakkybakky:
o. Omo, she lost a lifetime opportunity
Although she’s doing good but na normal screw and bolt matter she Dey use survive😉..I wanted to take her serious but she sef no serious so I backed out..
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by NOBLE179(m): 1:56pm On Jul 18, 2025
Heartbreak
Re: Men, What Are You Benefiting From Your Relationship At The Moment? by francisobiabo(m): 2:59pm On Jul 18, 2025
Upkeep abi na keep up ... Kai, that guy must be a refined idiot....
Nazgul:
Bro even hard working guys do this. I know someone who works with Nigerian ports earns about 350k and gives his girlfriend 150k every month as upkeep money.

Most Nigerian mean are weak.
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