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Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by idris646(m): 8:02am On Jul 30, 2025
Hampers001:
I already put him in archive, I just want to be sure it's a good idea giving him a good distance
oga avoid anything wey go enter your virgin hole oo
stay safe..🚶🏾‍♂️
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by HeadBoy9: 11:06am On Jul 30, 2025
Dexlomo:
Here is my advice to you. Let him know you understand his sexuality and you are not judging him based on that. You appreciate his friendship and are willing to remain friends with him and he needs understand you are not into same sex. Not because you think it is right or wrong but because you just don't feel that way. I am sure he will appreciate it. I am bi and I am not sure any of my friends are aware of this part of me. They could have their suspicions but it is not my business and if you ask me, I might tell you depending on how mature I think you are to understand that we all are different. However, if it is my "holier than thou friends", I will never mention it.
Don't be greedy man. Just choose one already. How can you be wanting it all.

By the way, gayism disgusts me. Can't just make sense of how people find it doable. A fellow man? With blockos like mine? Probably peepee bigger and longer than mine. Hell nuh! Nigga nuh! And I mean it.

Has nothing to do with religion or morality with me but pure off-putting-ness.
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Silentgroper(m): 11:14am On Jul 30, 2025
Nonexisting1:
He has been a good friend so it's not okay to just cut ties. Tell him you are not gay and can never be one no matter what he decides about your friendship. But if he can use the gay thing to get American visa for the two of you, biko pretend to be one and japa with him. Country hard now. When you get there, he can easily get a partner while you begin fucck oyibo girls jare.
Omoh.. sense full you head abeg ..


See untapped Japa route...
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Silentgroper(m): 11:16am On Jul 30, 2025
meobizy:
Did not read. Tales by moonlight too many for Nairaland.
Yet you had comment instead of ignoring ..

Jokes on you .
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by meobizy(m): 11:41am On Jul 30, 2025
Silentgroper:
Yet you had comment instead of ignoring ..

Jokes on you .
Opinions are cheap.
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jul 30, 2025
ReacherSaidNoth:
Perhaps you're emitting gay vibes as well which is why your gay friend openly approaches you.

A truly straight man does not refer to another man as cute.
Who made the law?
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Dexlomo: 4:34pm On Jul 30, 2025
HeadBoy9:
Don't be greedy man. Just choose one already. How can you be wanting it all.

By the way, gayism disgusts me. Can't just make sense of how people find it doable. A fellow man? With blockos like mine? Probably peepee bigger and longer than mine. Hell nuh! Nigga nuh! And I mean it.

Has nothing to do with religion or morality with me but pure off-putting-ness.
Why do you need to make sense of what it is like if you are not interested?
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 30, 2025
Dexlomo:
Why do you need to make sense of what it is like if you are not interested?
I read through your past posts...
All I can say is mhen
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Dexlomo: 5:57pm On Jul 30, 2025
Hampers001:
I read through your past posts...
All I can say is mhen
Mhen what? I am just as human as I can be. I do not think I have any issues whatsoever. I am glad for my life and what I have made of it. Grateful to my parents for the platform they gave me, to life for being fair to me, and to God for being gracious and merciful towards me.

This is the reason I gave my initial advice that you should let him know you are not judging him and make him understand he owes no one an explanation as to who he is. He only needs watch those he shares his information with.
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jul 30, 2025
Dexlomo:
Mhen what? I am just as human as I can be. I do not think I have any issues whatsoever. I am glad for my life and what I have made of it. Grateful to my parents for the platform they gave me, to life for being fair to me, and to God for being gracious and merciful towards me.

This is the reason I gave my initial advice that you should let him know you are not judging him and make him understand he owes no one an explanation as to who he is. He only needs watch those he shares his information with.
Like me nau? So he needs to watch whom he shares his information..
I am as discreet as I can be, this is not even my real moniker seff...
I am confused and this is not a question to just ask anyhow because of how this country is...
So I got the answers I needed so it's for me to make my decision.
I love the answers I got here and yours was one of the best
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Millitaryregime: 1:48pm On Aug 03, 2025
Just tell him you are straight and you are okay with him for being that,those gay guys are one of the realest people out there.
I have a similar issues like this too,,he often spends night,I will wake up in the middle of the night and catch him staring at me,,
I go just give am better warning say if him no sleep I go give am better konk..
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 8:29pm On Aug 03, 2025
Millitaryregime:
Just tell him you are straight and you are okay with him for being that,those gay guys are one of the realest people out there.
I have a similar issues like this too,,he often spends night,I will wake up in the middle of the night and catch him staring at me,,
I go just give am better warning say if him no sleep I go give am better konk..
😂😂😂😂
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Dexlomo: 7:05pm On Aug 25, 2025
Hampers001:
Like me nau? So he needs to watch whom he shares his information..
I am as discreet as I can be, this is not even my real moniker seff...
I am confused and this is not a question to just ask anyhow because of how this country is...
So I got the answers I needed so it's for me to make my decision.
I love the answers I got here and yours was one of the best
Is this what I think it is?
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 11:23pm On Aug 25, 2025
Dexlomo:
Is this what I think it is?
What? Ohh that I am the person?
God forbid bad thing
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Kobojunkie: 11:37pm On Aug 25, 2025
Hampers001:
➜Now that he told me his intention, he said "If i say No, he will live with guilt all his life because i already know who he was and what he wants...I like him so much but not to that route he'@?s asking of. should I break ties with him?
Is Jay also a rapist or something that you should think about breaking ties with him because you have to reject him? angry

Guys get rejected by girls every day, and they don't go into some sort of rejection coma —at least the sane ones among them —after that. Your friend will be fine, and if not, he will have to deal with his particular emotional issues somehow. It is not up to you to satisfy him in any way. undecided
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 11:38pm On Aug 25, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Is Jay also a rapist or something that you should think about breaking ties with him because you have to reject him? angry

Guys get rejected by girls every day, and they don't go into some sort of rejection coma —at least the sane ones among them —after that. Your friend will be fine, and if not, he will have to deal with his particular emotional issues somehow. It is not up to you to satisfy him in any way. undecided
I blocked him already and told him I needed break for now..
He knows I don't want him around anymore
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Dexlomo: 5:55pm On Aug 28, 2025
Hampers001:
What? Ohh that I am the person?
God forbid bad thing
That you are likely involved.
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 28, 2025
Dexlomo:
That you are likely involved.
Cheap blackmail 😂😂😂
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by kiddaz: 11:04pm On Aug 28, 2025
ReacherSaidNoth:
Perhaps you're emitting gay vibes as well which is why your gay friend openly approaches you.

A truly straight man does not refer to another man as cute
Swears that was weird AF. He sounded feminine maybe he's also an effeminate young man that's why he's about to get hit
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Dexlomo: 3:27pm On Aug 29, 2025
Hampers001:
Cheap blackmail 😂😂😂
You know too many jargon used by those involved.
Re: I Just Discovered A Friend Of Mine Is G*y by Nobody: 9:19pm On Aug 29, 2025
Dexlomo:
You know too many jargon used by those involved.
Where?
If you go through my profile, you will know I love banny that any thing...
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