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AlphaNugget:
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PinkNature:
As a Christian guy, do you approach Muslim babes? If yes, how does it ever turn out?

emmaodet:
It is easier for six people to lift your casket than they can lift your life

logicalhumour:
I've been interacting with them, but never blipd any though if that's what you're looking for. Not like I'm trying anyways... I'm not just sexually attracted to the ones I'm close to.

They're just like every other girl, but will get attached to you if you show them the amoral part of you (just like every other girl as I've said). They'll chat dirty with you and all that if you signal them that you'll allow that and won't tell anyone about it. Just don't start being dirty first. They'll signal you by subtle means like suggesting/hinting that they've watched a dirty-ish movie and stuff like that...

They (at least the girls I'm close to) actually don't like being treated like the Holy-holy prudes they portray themselves as in public, but whatever you do, don't behave with them in public the way you people act towards each other in private. They seem to care more about their public image in public even more than Christian girls.

Don't raise voice when you people are chatting in public, you'll notice they'll never laugh out loud nor raise voice. Match that.

This is me assuming you're Christian, and that you're not talking about the outright ashaaaawhoh Muslim girls.

heracles1:
they will stil not give u pussy

emmaodet:
If you put the king inside the circus, the circus doesn't look like a palace but the king looks like a clown.

Notateflonguy:
It’s been over four years since I last posted here. Looking back at my past posts, I can’t help but wonder if I was really the one who wrote some of those things . But I don’t feel bad at all — in fact, I feel really good. The beauty of life is in growth: being able to look back and confidently say, “I’ve outgrown certain mindsets and embraced a more responsible way of thinking.”

To the young men out here, be mindful of what you consume here and other social media. Your focus should be on self-improvement — becoming a better man, contributing positively to society, and being the best partner to your woman. Whatever personal issues may have led you to redpill content, please make sure your end goal isn't to hurt women, break hearts, or jump online shouting “women are scum” 😄😄. Let what you consume build you, not poison you.

The real win /redpill is becoming a man who is financially stable, emotionally mature, a loving husband to his wife, a responsible father to his kids, and a responsible man in the society. That’s the kind of growth we should all strive for

Notateflonguy:
It’s been over four years since I last posted here. Looking back at my past posts, I can’t help but wonder if I was really the one who wrote some of those things . But I don’t feel bad at all — in fact, I feel really good. The beauty of life is in growth: being able to look back and confidently say, “I’ve outgrown certain mindsets and embraced a more responsible way of thinking.”

To the young men out here, be mindful of what you consume here and other social media. Your focus should be on self-improvement — becoming a better man, contributing positively to society, and being the best partner to your woman. Whatever personal issues may have led you to redpill content, please make sure your end goal isn't to hurt women, break hearts, or jump online shouting “women are scum” 😄😄. Let what you consume build you, not poison you.

The real win /redpill is becoming a man who is financially stable, emotionally mature, a loving husband to his wife, a responsible father to his kids, and a responsible man in the society. That’s the kind of growth we should all strive for

luminouz:
We have never advocated for women hate but self development and intrinsic understanding of women nature so that when you make it as a man against all odds you don't still get trapped and used. If anyone here posts on that hate alone, they are prolly going through the 'rage' phase of heartbreak or the first rush of realization of what the redpill is.
I appreciate that you have evolved but not all men would choose marriage or kids maybe just settle for the responsible man tag and that is still fine.

Note: I hope you are not one of those who wanted the redpill when broke but got money and of course girls and kids and decided that women nature is not worth
knowing or the redpill is bullshiit. Because I assure you, married men also need it.

heracles1:
most of us redpillars are broke angry youth. that hardly get sex

Notateflonguy:
You're 100% right!, I totally get where you're coming from, and I appreciate the perspective.

Just to clarify, I am not discrediting redpill, quite the opposite. I’ve never been against understanding female nature or the foundational principles behind redpill awareness. In fact, I believe that kind of insight is crucial, especially in a world where many men are unprepared for the realities of relationships and society at large.

What I’m emphasizing in my post is balance. it should be a tool for awareness and personal growth, not a crutch for bitterness.

I’m not saying every man must marry or have kids either. Like you said, choosing to just be a responsible man, for yourself, your people, and your community, is still very valid. That’s the whole point

luminouz:
We have never advocated for women hate but self development and intrinsic understanding of women nature so that when you make it as a man against all odds you don't still get trapped and used. If anyone here posts on that hate alone, they are prolly going through the 'rage' phase of heartbreak or the first rush of realization of what the redpill is.
I appreciate that you have evolved but not all men would choose marriage or kids maybe just settle for the responsible man tag and that is still fine.

Note: I hope you are not one of those who wanted the redpill when broke but got money and of course girls and kids and decided that women nature is not worth
knowing or the redpill is bullshiit. Because I assure you, married men also need it.

PinkNature:
As a Christian guy, do you approach Muslim babes? If yes, how does it ever turn out?

Pukkalolo:
This is an interesting question, PinkNature.

I have approached a number of them in the past… so I'll be speaking straight from raw experience.

The thing about wooing a Muslim babe as a Christian guy is that it comes with one obvious obstacle…

Which is:

You’re Christian. Obviously. And most Muslim girls would generally prefer mating with their fellow Muslim brothers.

But despite that obvious obstacle, I was able to overcome it and date a few in the past… and it wasn’t because I recited the Qur’an or converted overnight.

It’s because I understand something most men don’t, and I have something most men don’t have.

Grab some popcorn. Let’s begin. This is gonna be a long one.

Here’s one reality check I understand:

A hijab does not block her from getting wet.

I don’t care if she prays five times a day, fasts during Ramadan, and avoids pork like the plague… she’s still a woman. And all women get wet.

Religious or not, good girl or not… she still has sexual desires. And she still wants a man who can bring out those desires: who won’t judge her and who doesn’t kiss and tell.

The reason why I can bring out her sexual desire is because I have something most men don’t:

I have BIG BALLS.

Women love a man with balls: fearless confidence.

Just because she’s Muslim doesn’t mean she suddenly becomes immune to audacity and masculine energy. Yes, she’s going to shit test you. Which’s fine.

The only reason I was able to date Muslim girls in the past, despite being a Christian, is because I didn’t approach them like they were special heavenly beings. I didn’t act like I needed their Imam’s approval before saying “Hi.”

I approached them the same way I’d approach any other woman… confident and unapologetically masculine.

I’ve dated Muslim girls before. I’ve kissed them. I’ve had few in my bed. But for serious relationships, I’ve dated two amazing ones before.

How did I meet the first one… let’s call her Aisha (not her real name).

I was at the bank ATM to withdraw money…

While I stood in the queue, she also approached and asked me, “Sorry please, are you the last person on the queue?”

I said, “Yes.”

So she stood behind me. Seeing she was beautiful, I decided to shoot my shot.

I turned sideways towards her, and the first thing I confidently said was:
“So… are you gonna tell me your name, or should I call you Miss Cutie in a Hijab?”

After saying that, I paused.

She looked at me skeptically, straight in the eyes, for a few seconds. There was a little tension between us… That skeptical look was the first shit test.

We held eye contact. I didn’t look away.
Then after a few seconds, she smiled slightly and said, “You don’t need to know my name.”

That was the second shit test.

I continued playfully, yet confidently:
“So if I took you on a date, would it be totally haram… or just a little haram?”

Immediately I said that, she looked me dead in the eyes again for a few seconds. We held strong eye contact. I didn’t look away. That was the third shit test.

Then after a few seconds, she smiled and said, “You are really funny.”

I could see in her eyes that she was gradually feeling me.

The very fact that a Christian guy like me had the balls to break the social script and hit on her anyway…that alone sparked intrigue in her mind.

To cut the story short, I asked for her phone number. In fact, I noticed while she was calling her number, she was stylishly looking around, as if hoping no one saw her giving her number to a bad-boy-looking Christian brother.

Here’s the truth:

If a Muslim babe is feeling you, she’ll bend her own rules. Period.

Trust me. I’m an OG in this game. I know what I’m talking about.

But she won’t even consider breaking a single rule for you if you come at her fearful, unsure, or scared of her religion.

Women—Muslim or not—are turned off by fear, weakness and hesitation in a guy.
Anyway… Muslim or not, all women respect balls and audacity. They melt for confidence.

So if you see one you admire, then man up and approach her RESPECTFULLY and CONFIDENTLY, and let her decide if she wants you.

If she’s feeling you, she’ll vibe with you.
If she’s not, you walk away.

Here’s the second Muslim girl I dated. Although she gave me some hard time initially, then we dated and had fun for a couple of months… But this particular girl was really of great value to me. She is one of the best girls I’ve met so far.

But then we broke up because of the religion issue. But we are still totally cool.

Here's is how I approached her:

https://www.nairaland.com/7809463/funny-experience-beautiful-muslim-lady

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

While single mom is a no no

SpencerForbes:
Woman shares how she rebuked her husband for wanting to join her and her daughter on a lunch date with her babydaddy.

While single mom is a no no

franchasofficia:
If you are born into a poor family background, as in, your parents are not rich, please don't marry just because of love.

Love is a fallacy that led so many men into marrying ladies that ended up hampering their lives and keeping them poor or dragging them backward on daily basis.



If your parents are not rich as a guy, marry with purpose and future in mind.


Go for financial, career, business focused lady.


Marry a lady with the potential of helping you become better financially not one that will drain you and take you back to square one.


In summary, if your parents are not rich, when you want to marry as a young man, consider:


1.) The girls family background

2.) The girls career or job

3.) Her source of income

4.) Her academic background

5.) If she have a western country passport to help you Japa if push comes to shove

6.) Is she financially wise and smart


7.) Is she a money maker or a layback, lazy, unambitious girl that just want to eat, sleep, have sex, get pregnant and give birth and be monitoring you her husband to know how many girls you are chasing outside. If she is one run for your life

8.) Until you have secured a good job, career or established a thriving business, don't ever keep a girl in your house. Don't have a live in girlfriend. Let her come and go. She must not spend more than 2 days in your house until you re ready to settle down.


9.) Make use of condom a habit as a single guy until you marry to avoid marrying the wrong girl out of pressure of "I am pregnant"

SpencerForbes:
Let’s talk about this sudden influx of young guys worshipping this geh geh.
Now my question is are they just realizing the redpill or they were just looking for a figurehead to spearhead the movement. But I’m sure the ladies won’t relent. They are going to be coming out with a new pattern or format.

Hard times really breed strong men. That’s why the 49th law of power states never admit to the use of the redpill. Think redpill but act bluepill. I’m still watching to see how this ends.

luminouz:
What's geh geh?

SpencerForbes:
Let’s talk about this sudden influx of young guys worshipping this geh geh.
Now my question is are they just realizing the redpill or they were just looking for a figurehead to spearhead the movement. But I’m sure the ladies won’t relent. They are going to be coming out with a new pattern or format.

Hard times really breed strong men. That’s why the 49th law of power states never admit to the use of the redpill. Think redpill but act bluepill. I’m still watching to see how this ends.

SpencerForbes:
A Nigerian TikTok influencer that preaches a bit of what we do here and now he suddenly has lots of young boys worshipping him. You can search online tho.