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july21st:
So I chatted this person I met here in nl. She posted on a thread about relationship and marriage. This is someone that says she ready for marriage.
I blurred her name and contact to protect her privacy. I don't want to pre EMT what I feel that made me reply that way. But what do you think about this response?

Julia25:
His presentation was wrong, although childish . He shouldn't have done that, and to the 'economy-centric' dude above—How does asking for his occupation negate her "love orientation"?

Julia25:
His presentation was wrong, although childish . He shouldn't have done that, and to the 'economy-centric' dude above—How does asking for his occupation negate her "love orientation"?

Ibkay32:
I don’t think she’s really open to any relationship. She’s just looking for someone she can put her problem on to sponsor her business center and cover her bills, lol 😆

Ibkay32:
It seems you just join this forum?
Or you created a new account?

july21st:
Pls wrong presentation how? I already lost interest because I felt it's proper to make introductions first before delving into such.
I introduced myself. She didn't say her name. She is asking what I do.
Of all the things to ask someone in the world of. Is my occupation she is interested in.

july21st:
Pls wrong presentation how? I already lost interest because I felt it's proper to make introductions first before delving into such.
I introduced myself. She didn't say her name. She is asking what I do.
Of all the things to ask someone in the world of. Is my occupation she is interested in.

Julia25:
Just moved myself to join of recent, any problem?

Ibkay32:
😂
Most girls nowadays believe relationships should be more of a transaction than a genuine connection. They don’t want to go through the process of building from scratch anymore; instead, they’re only interested in men who are already made. Sometimes you’d wonder if they think their parents had everything figured out and settled before they even came into existence.

The irony is that true growth and bonding often come from starting small together and watching things blossom. But many don’t want that patience, sacrifice, or shared journey anymore, they want the finished product without the process.

JAOS:
You even mentioned her account lol let wait for her response

Julia25:
The world’s integrity seems to have gone on vacation, so the idea of ‘building together’ is a bit of a fantasy these days. 😔 Many have tried, worked hard for their ‘beaus,’ only to be tossed aside when a shiny new, younger ‘catch’ comes along. Classic! 💔 So, we’ve all kinda adapted to the game. If you’re trustworthy, great—we can build something solid. If not, well, maybe it’s time to already be ‘made.’ 🤷🏾‍♂️

july21st:
So I chatted this person I met here in nl. She posted on a thread about relationship and marriage. This is someone that says she ready for marriage.
I blurred her name and contact to protect her privacy. I don't want to pre EMT what I feel that made me reply that way. But what do you think about this response?

Obembet
Mydd44
Seun
Cuteeme
Netwalkers
Samantha125
Npfl

franugo:
She's obviously not one to waste time and you seem like a time waster from the chat, I find nothing wrong with her response, you goofed.

If you're still interested, you can chat her back and tell her you were only joking, make she no vex.

I see some people already saying she's materialistic like ibkay32, a woman looking to settle down will not be satisfied with someone who cannot take care of her or at least bring in something financially to the family. You guys like shaming people for their common_sense requests, I don't know why. Would you allow your sister marry a jobless man that will bring nothing to the home?

franugo:
She's obviously not one to waste time and you seem like a time waster from the chat, I find nothing wrong with her response, you goofed.

If you're still interested, you can chat her back and tell her you were only joking, make she no vex.

I see some people already saying she's materialistic like ibkay32, a woman looking to settle down will not be satisfied with someone who cannot take care of her or at least bring in something financially to the family. You guys like shaming people for their common_sense requests, I don't know why. Would you allow your sister marry a jobless man that will bring nothing to the home?

Amotolongbo:
If someone knock on your door and called himself thief, would you open your door for him?

But bro, that is not a good approach from you. Even if the lady appears desperate for relationship.

Ibkay32:
What's this one saying??
It seems you don't understand what the OP is trying to derive from the chat?

july21st:
Interested in what. I lost interest. She has no time to waste by even simply introducing herself or her name. I asked her if she is still open for relationship and she rudely jumped to my occupation. She don't have time to waste is my that have time to waste ba. I have a job and am comfortable

july21st:
So I chatted this person I met here in nl. She posted on a thread about relationship and marriage. This is someone that says she ready for marriage.
I blurred her name and contact to protect her privacy. I don't want to pre EMT what I feel that made me reply that way. But what do you think about this response?

Obembet
Mydd44
Seun
Cuteeme
Netwalkers
Samantha125
Npfl

franugo:
You did not ask for her name tho. Anyway, since you're not longer interested, it's a moot point... good night bro

ExudeLoveToAll:
Did u read where he asked if she was open for a relationship? She didn't answer next is to size his pocket what do u do for a living . That answer is good for her, na thief him be abi thief no dey do d do?

Julia25:
His presentation was wrong, although childish . He shouldn't have done that, and to the 'economy-centric' dude above—How does asking for his occupation negate her "love orientation"?