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From My Inbox:

Hi, good morning. Please Sir, post for me but Hide my Identity.

Three months ago, I was in a Keke(Tricycle), while on the way, I was joined by a co-passenger, a young lady. We interacted for some time until I alighted the Keke. While i paid my transport fare, I also paid for her. Hers was #500. We exchanged contacts, & parted ways that day.
For two weeks, I didn't call, chat or messaged her. In fact, I didn't save her number, I forgot to do so that day. It was after 2wks that I remember I took a lady's number, then I began to search my call log, but I still couldn't figure out her number cos I had lots of strange numbers that had called within this period. I felt sad that I couldn't find it. However, it occurred to me that I should check my Truecaller app to see if I could find it, and thank God I was able to find it when I checked and saw her name on the Truecaller app.
I called, I introduced myself, we exchanged pleasantries. We chatted and we began to know each other. She said she's a single mother of two, and that she lost her husband last year. She's 26. Has an ND and helps her elder sister to sell at her provision shop. I began to show interest in her when she started giving me greenlight. I visited her, we hanged out and had a few drinks. She likes to drink all these hot drinks and spirits as well. She's short and dark. I paid for our outing and gave her some money before we parted that day.
She isn't a bad girl. But the situation of things around her is what is frightening me. First, she is the only one fending for herself and two kids. She pays the rent, pays the kids sch fees and everything, according to her o. I asked to know what her late husband's people are doing to help her situation, but to my surprise, she claimed nobody in her family or late husband's family is supporting her in any way. I asked of her own dad, she said she's disowned her dad because the man is irresponsible. I asked how, she said the man isn't responsible to her and her siblings. He married another woman and he only cares about the second wife. I asked again, "Was your dad not the one who trained you in sch"? She replied by saying, what's secondary sch education?. I told her that she should be grateful that she has a father who was able to see her through secondary sch. Telling me that she disowned her father just because of his inability to train her in tertiary institution is not really something I can accept, except there's another reason. But no matter the reason, you must reconcile with your dad. I told her.
Another troubling issue is that she's trying to push her children's responsibilities on me. Sch just resumed and she's stylishly telling me about the kid's sch fees. Who does that?. Whenever we are chatting, she will be asking me why I hardly ask about her kids. She moved into a new house just last month, in the new apartment, there's no light, the room hasn't being painted and so many facilities are not there. She's always complaining to me.
She visited me for the first time yesterday. We romanced and kissed, but this girl refused to let me sleep with her. I pleaded and pleaded but no way and I had to respect myself and bear the pains of my swollen scrotum. I couldn't even walk due to pains. I believe guys understand what I'm saying here. Managed to see her off to the road to get a bike, went to the POS and I gave her my ATM card to withdraw her transport back home. I showed her what I had in my Opay. I had just 3k there and this girl withdrew #2,600 when #500 can take her home. I was surprised but I hid my feelings from her.
Now she's telling me that I don't love her, I only want sex, that why should I be demanding sex on her first visit to my house?. In my mind, I was like, so I'm now the fool who has being giving you money all this while?
You keep collecting my money without thinking it's too early to get money from me, yet it is too early for you to give me sex?
I don't know if she's thinking I will Marry her or shoulder the responsibilities of her kids. What nonsense. I'm even suspecting that she didn't lose her husband. In fact, she never married. She was just whoring around till she became a mother of two.

Run from single mothers especially as a young man who's still trying to survive. The werey even get male bestie wey she save as Haruna-Love with love emojis.

I want to Block her now.

Mynd44
Lalasticlala Nlfpmod Seun

You had only 3k and she withdrew #2600? . At least,she left #400 for you which you can use to recharge airtime and call anybody to send you money

Well,ask any good tailor around you and he/she'll tell you those characters she has displayed are good enough to sew a very big red flag.

Sonnobax15:

You had only 3k and she withdrew #2600? . At least,she left #400 for you which you can use to recharge airtime and call anybody to send you money

Well,ask any good tailor around you and she'll tell your those characters she has displayed are good enough to sew a very big red flag.

The guy already left her. He said he can't add more poverty to himself.
May God help her.
She's from a dysfunctional family

Run

You only have 3k in opay your account yet it's a single mother of two not even one, that excites you

I deh pity single guys weh never marry

Brahamimo:
From My Inbox:

Hi, good morning. Please Sir, post for me but Hide my Identity.

Three months ago, I was in a Keke(Tricycle), while on the way, I was joined by a co-passenger, a young lady. We interacted for some time until I alighted the Keke. While i paid my transport fare, I also paid for her. Hers was #500. We exchanged contacts, & parted ways that day.
For two weeks, I didn't call, chat or messaged her. In fact, I didn't save her number, I forgot to do so that day. It was after 2wks that I remember I took a lady's number, then I began to search my call log, but I still couldn't figure out her number cos I had lots of strange numbers that had called within this period. I felt sad that I couldn't find it. However, it occurred to me that I should check my Truecaller app to see if I could find it, and thank God I was able to find it when I checked and saw her name on the Truecaller app.
I called, I introduced myself, we exchanged pleasantries. We chatted and we began to know each other. She said she's a single mother of two, and that she lost her husband last year. She's 26. Has an ND and helps her elder sister to sell at her provision shop. I began to show interest in her when she started giving me greenlight. I visited her, we hanged out and had a few drinks. She likes to drink all these hot drinks and spirits as well. She's short and dark. I paid for our outing and gave her some money before we parted that day.
She isn't a bad girl. But the situation of things around her is what is frightening me. First, she is the only one fending for herself and two kids. She pays the rent, pays the kids sch fees and everything, according to her o. I asked to know what her late husband's people are doing to help her situation, but to my surprise, she claimed nobody in her family or late husband's family is supporting her in any way. I asked of her own dad, she said she's disowned her dad because the man is irresponsible. I asked how, she said the man isn't responsible to her and her siblings. He married another woman and he only cares about the second wife. I asked again, "Was your dad not the one who trained you in sch"? She replied by saying, what's secondary sch education?. I told her that she should be grateful that she has a father who was able to see her through secondary sch. Telling me that she disowned her father just because of his inability to train her in tertiary institution is not really something I can accept, except there's another reason. But no matter the reason, you must reconcile with your dad. I told her.
Another troubling issue is that she's trying to push her children's responsibilities on me. Sch just resumed and she's stylishly telling me about the kid's sch fees. Who does that?. Whenever we are chatting, she will be asking me why I hardly ask about her kids. She moved into a new house just last month, in the new apartment, there's no light, the room hasn't being painted and so many facilities are not there. She's always complaining to me.
She visited me for the first time yesterday. We romanced and kissed, but this girl refused to let me sleep with her. I pleaded and pleaded but no way and I had to respect myself and bear the pains of my swollen scrotum. I couldn't even walk due to pains. I believe guys understand what I'm saying here. Managed to see her off to the road to get a bike, went to the POS and I gave her my ATM card to withdraw her transport back home. I showed her what I had in my Opay. I had just 3k there and this girl withdrew #2,600 when #500 can take her home. I was surprised but I hid my feelings from her.
Now she's telling me that I don't love her, I only want sex, that why should I be demanding sex on her first visit to my house?. In my mind, I was like, so I'm now the fool who has being giving you money all this while?
You keep collecting my money without thinking it's too early to get money from me, yet it is too early for you to give me sex?
I don't know if she's thinking I will Marry her or shoulder the responsibilities of her kids. What nonsense. I'm even suspecting that she didn't lose her husband. In fact, she never married. She was just whoring around till she became a mother of two.

Run from single mothers especially as a young man who's still trying to survive. The werey even get male bestie wey she save as Haruna-Love with love emojis.

I want to Block her now

LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣

A fool says in his heart "thats your woman".

You're dead broke and you're trying to have sex with a single mother of two who is struggling financially...if you mistakenly get her pregnant do you have money for baby food or diapers?!

Ikennaford:
I deh pity single guys weh never marry

cause of rubbish wey full outside abi. I no pity myself. E better make I no marry than to put one animal for house wey go further shorten my life span.

Ikennaford:
I deh pity single guys weh never marry

Wetin we do you big man now

I do not advice men again. There is already enough information online to make people avoid single mothers. It seems hearing such [I’m a single mother] from a female turns some guys on.

Kobicove:
You're dead broke and you're trying to have sex with a single mother of two who is struggling financially...if you mistakenly get her pregnant do you have money for baby food or diapers?!

So, a broke guy shouldn't have sex again?
This una mentality nawao.

Dem tie the girl hand make she no get money?
Some of u guys are the reason these girls are misbehaving. Simps everywhere

She wants u to be fully committed before giving you what you want. My advice is RUN!

As e be now, na 1 zero o

...she don chop your money go.

She billed him for the kiss and romance

Avoid most of the single mothers as a young guy

Those women would always blame the man for their misfortunes, absolving themselves of all blame whatsoever

But if you dig a bit deeper, you would know why those men left

As a young man with no baggage, avoid single mothers

God do for you make you nor see number, you go true caller go find number

Go soak ur balls in ice water. You'll feel fine

Kudos to Haruna love.....he is doing a good work

Brahamimo:
So what is your account number doing on your profile sir?
Una dey beg o

Mynd44
Lalasticlala

Where did you see account number on his profile?

Be patient, don't block her. Plead with her and play along.
When next she visits, don't go close to her, just say afar and be busy with your phone. If she has stayed for close to an Hour, suspend your phone and tell her if she's ready to listen to you. When you've gotten her attention, look at her deep in the eye, call her name: "Dami, I love you, I really do"

Afterwards, stand up and act like you want to c√y, immediately move outside, she will follow you or call you back, when she does, lean on her bewss tightly (not too tight o), tell her, she doesn't trust you. That you truly love her...then k!ss her gently, sq€€z€ her brea5ts like oranges for like 3 minutes...then go straight to her veejay and finger her too while squ€€zing her brea5t with your lips on her lips...by this time she will sit down, then unzip her and finger her more. Put your middle finger in that hole and make sure it comes out wet. S3x her with CDs and bl0ck her after 3 days. You can still continue to s3x her if you wish and she'll never resist you again. Bye

SamuraiXXX:
Where did you see account number on his profile?

So u think I'm lying or what?
Check his signature on his profile, except he has removed it.

Brahamimo or whoever it may concern.

Firstly, whenever you met a lady who calls her father useless and irresponsible please run away from such a lady even if the dad is truly irresponsible because you'll soon join the league of her father. Imagine a girl child claiming to disown her own dad because he didn't train her in school. She's been damaged emotionally by her mother and she has a bitter mindset towards men.

Also, it's funny if you're even thinking twice about such a lady because it's crystal clear you'll bear full responsibility of her children and it's also clear she has a huge entitlement mentality.

It's even funny how a single young man will be thinking about marrying a single mother of 2 even she's a widow (you can't tell what killed the husband). To even make matter worst, a liability single mother because it's obvious she's been funded by different men.

Another question is how did her husband die, what killed him ? Because a lady who disowned her own dad will not think twice about harming her husband

ediko5:
Brahamimo or whoever it may concern.

Firstly, whenever you met a lady who calls her father useless and irresponsible please run away from such a lady even if the dad is truly irresponsible because you'll soon join the league of her father. Imagine a girl child claiming to disown her own dad because he didn't train her in school. She's been damaged emotionally by her mother and she has a bitter mindset towards men.

Also, it's funny if you're even thinking twice about such a lady because it's crystal clear you'll bear full responsibility of her children and it's also clear she has a huge entitlement mentality.

It's even funny how a single young man will be thinking about marrying a single mother of 2 even she's a widow (you can't tell what killed the husband). The even make matter worst, a liability single mother because it's obvious she's been funded by different men.

Another question is how did her husband die, what killed him ? Because a lady who disowned her own dad will not think twice about harming her husband

You've said it all Bro