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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Kalulu44: 12:37pm On Sep 27, 2025

obiekunie01:
Dont stress yourself bros!

All of them na the same thing.

The difference be say some dey stay their papa house dey runs am, while some dey their husband house dey runs am. Some stay their school hostel de runs am, while some dey stand for road dey runs am, and some dey hire room to dey runs am. Some ma dey live for hotel dey runs am.

THE KOKO BE SAY ALL ALL NA PROSTITUTES - SOME PREFER TO USE THE BAPTISM NAME 'RUNS GIRLS' WHILE OTHERS PREFER TO USE THE CONFIRMATION NAME "HOOKUP!" - ALL NA ASEWO!

SOME DEY EVEN START AT AGE 13!

AND WHICH EVER WAY YOU TAKE APPROACH AM, IT MUST COST YOU MONEY WELLA!

Dey even pray make e dey cost you only money bc some people, e cost them their lives!

Lolz! See as you talk and arrange everything wella. You just sums it up man

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by MarketDispatch: 12:37pm On Sep 27, 2025

KiNg0G:
I have ercome this challenge.

You need to calculate the amount you spend on pay as you go versus the projected cost of keeping a wife in the house.

You will pay wedding fees,
provide free housing,
free food,
free pocket money
Free business money,
Money to take care of her family,
Money to send her younger siblings to school
Buy car for her,
Sometimes she may allow you to do, sometimes you will beg for it, sometimes she will not be in the mood.. despite these, you must still meet the financial obligations. The list is endless

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Odidigboigbo(m): 12:37pm On Sep 27, 2025

princepee:
OGA it's simple...
Get a girlfriend, meanwhile you can self service while you are looking for a girlfriend.

Prostitute is very bad...bad energy plus disease

Make up your mind not to go back

It's a habit that he needs to deal with first, having a girlfriend will not solve it. Even if he get marred today; he will still be patronising them until he deal with the habit.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by KIDfurniture(m): 12:38pm On Sep 27, 2025

You need to travel to all the states to knack different Oloshos ! I pray God provide 4 u to achieve this every day. You really need them badly. You’re a special human being

jamesversion:
I cannot have an erection for a particular consecutively. I have to alternate women to enjoy sex, else it gives me the feeling of having sex under duress.

It's been like that since I came of age. If I have sex with any lady, I cannot have an erection for her again until I sleep with another lady.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Sonnobax15(m): 12:39pm On Sep 27, 2025

Ingriid:
Mr Sonnobax15, you have been dating your current banny for four years. When are you finally going to put a ring on it?

I’m asking on behalf of my sister, no offense.

Enjoy your weekend!

. Coming year by the grace of God............

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by LIVINGICONREBOR: 12:41pm On Sep 27, 2025

It beats my imagination how you guys get addicted to patronising the ladies of the night. Like how does this happen? Congo meat wey dem dey use chase me everywhere for basically "free". Damn!!

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by gentlegiant95: 12:42pm On Sep 27, 2025

You don't have game. If I had even a fraction of the money you have, I wouldn't need to spend heavily before I knack

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Mindlog: 12:45pm On Sep 27, 2025*

Gerrard59:
Exactly. His mind is thoroughly damaged. He needs a mind re-set.

Anything done too much becomes an addiction. Addiction is a bad thing.

Reason I didn't do my psychology specialization in
Addiction Counselling, it can be so draining!

My practicum in a Rehab, felt like trying to fill up a basket with water as the rate of relapse was so discouraging!

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by KiNg0G(op): 12:48pm On Sep 27, 2025

Gerrard59:
Exactly. His mind is thoroughly damaged. He needs a mind re-set.

Anything done too much becomes an addiction. Addiction is a bad thing.

how do I do that. I do need my mind reset.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by NiRfreak(m): 12:49pm On Sep 27, 2025

Mrpojj:
I cant even look prostitute twice
How una dey take do am

Many na Alcohol, smoking and drug dey give dem the morale, some na lack of direction in life dey cause am

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by omenuwad(m): 12:55pm On Sep 27, 2025

We understand your pain bro. Just join the NSPPD prayer platform you will surely receive salvation through pastor Jerry Eze. The good lord will help you just make your mind.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Bahamas95(m): 12:57pm On Sep 27, 2025

Just get a lady in her 30s that can match your energy, I mean in za oza room and stick to her. Those ones got lesser problem because they've seen it all. Avoid tiktok girls, dem nor get sense.

I can't believe you spend up to 40 - 80k for sex that you can get almost free these days....How do you even feel after you cūm, e nor dey do you as if you waste money? undecided

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by T0BY(m): 1:04pm On Sep 27, 2025

Discipline is all you need. Fight for your life.. nobody go do am for you.
Take your spiritual life serious, take action.. discipline yourself.

Stop wasting your money on them and make good use of your money to fix and manage your life. Nah serious battle o!

Fight!

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 27, 2025

So una get 150k to Dey spend on a lady but if you see a fellow 🥷 you can’t invest in him huh

You pple will continue to get addicted.

Btw how do you even get addicted. Something wey you just wan use release your sac?
I think prostitute should only be patronized when your babe is far away. None is cheaper but babe is safer. I’m not even sure sef😂 just look for the lesser evil.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by dododawa1: 1:08pm On Sep 27, 2025

Visit

ODUMEJE church

For

Deliverance

Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by bigcasava1(m): 1:10pm On Sep 27, 2025

This year don dey already finish, just patronize this year next year you can stop

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by TheGift: 1:11pm On Sep 27, 2025

You need to deal , not with the addiction, but the thing that is causing the addiction.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by jamesversion: 1:16pm On Sep 27, 2025

KIDfurniture:
You need to travel to all the states to knack different Oloshos ! I pray God provide 4 u to achieve this every day. You really need them badly. You’re a special human being

Lolz.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Imma624(m): 1:18pm On Sep 27, 2025

Bro, you need Jesus Christ in your life. You're already on the train that'll ruin your life.
Accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and savior, let him cleanse you from your sin. Find a bible believing Church to worship tomorrow and surrender all to Jesus Christ

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by iOYEN: 1:20pm On Sep 27, 2025

You challenge is both spiritual and physical and to be liberty over or, you might give the both battle.

It is spiritual because
Sexual sin is not just physical; it’s spiritual (1 Cor. 6:18-20).
Satan uses sex as a yoke to enslave, but Christ sets us free (Gal. 5:1).

Way out
1. Confess your sins and give you life to Christ.
2. Engage Prayer & Fasting for deliverance from this act
3. Don’t fight secretly. Share your struggle with a trusted mentor, pastor, or accountability partner that will monitor you and help you when the though come to your mind (James 5:16).

Physical Strategies
1. Avoid triggers & access points by not going near the environment (brothels), block porn sites, movies, images, or social media accounts that fuel the lust.
3. Replace the habit with new activities (Idleness fuels temptation). You may replace it with sport etc
4. Seek the help of counselors

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by ProductofGrace: 1:42pm On Sep 27, 2025

There's just one thing to do and your life will turn around. If you can allow God to help you by sincerely giving your life to Christ, you will be free. Mary Magdalene was a prostitute and had seven demons, but when she came to Jesus, she was set free. Only God can set you free from the shackles of the enemy. Romans 10:13[b] ( And it shall come to pass that whosoever call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.)[/b]
If you can call on Jesus right now and repent and tell him all you've been through that you need His help, He will help beyond your understanding.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Banhammy717: 1:42pm On Sep 27, 2025

If you really want to stop this madness, all what you need is self-restraint.
Go spiritual, by observing "fasting" for 4 days in a week, 5am till 7 pm.
Then stay away from alcohol and music.
Then pray and look for a good wife who can satisfy your high libido, let her know this before marriage.
Good luck to you

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Banhammy717: 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2025

ProductofGrace:
There's just one thing to do and your life will turn around. If you can allow God to help you by sincerely giving your life to Christ, you will be free. Mary Magdalene was a prostitute and had seven demons, but when she came to Jesus, she was set free. Only God can set you free from the shackles of the enemy. Romans 10:13[b] ( And it shall come to pass that whosoever call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.)[/b]
If you can call on Jesus right now and repent and tell him all you've been through that you need His help, He will help beyond your understanding.

.
Please advise him on how to give his life to Christ

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Guestmale: 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2025

No human can deliver him or herself from the bondage of sin ,you need an helper who has conquered the power of sin and devil and that personality is Jesus Christ,he is the only one that can rescue you from the power of all sin immorality inclusive .
He said in Matthew 11:27-30 KJV
All things are delivered unto me of my Father: and no man knoweth the Son, but the Father; neither knoweth any man the Father, save the Son, and he to whomsoever the Son will reveal him. [28] Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. [29] Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. [30] For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Give your life to Jesus and He will deliver you from the bondage of all sins.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by FatherLord: 2:25pm On Sep 27, 2025

Take my advice. Changing things on your own can be almost impossible why not turn to Jesus for help. Legit He will help you

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by omolola12345(m): 2:28pm On Sep 27, 2025

Hmmm.... I really felt for you. It's like someone is addicted to alcohol or smoking, you know it's not easy to stop. The same way someone is addicted to masturbation and fornication. There is a spirit behind it and the power of the Holy Ghost from God can stop it. We have a lot of people with evil spirits in the Bible that encountered Jesus Christ and they were healed. My dear brother it's not too late to surrender yourself to Jesus Christ and let Him help you to get out of this difficult situation.The devil is only aimed to steal, kill and destroy what belongs to you. Don't give more room to the devil. Surrender to Jesus and you will begin to hate sin with a very serious passion.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by SHIVA001: 2:29pm On Sep 27, 2025

Uptheante:
Among all the beautiful & decent girls in the world, na only olosho he go marry?

80 percent of Girls now are into Hookups. So forget bro even the ones u call decent.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Guestmale: 2:31pm On Sep 27, 2025

Banhammy717:
If you really want to stop this madness, all what you need is self-restraint.
Go spiritual, by observing "fasting" for 4 days in a week, 5am till 7 pm.
Then stay away from alcohol and music.
Then pray and look for a good wife who can satisfy your high libido, let her know this before marriage.
Good luck to you

What an adultrated solutions.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by ayo2008: 2:33pm On Sep 27, 2025

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

You need Jesus Christ bro.
Jesus can deliver you completely from this mess.
God bless you

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by Richie0001: 2:38pm On Sep 27, 2025

KiNg0G:
I have never been in a relationship before, all my life was for pay as you go in since I was a teenager to this moment because I always wanted it easy and stress free..

First it seems like a flex, sampling different flavours from one brothel to another, hookups and all. Till it turned an habit that I can't stop.

Now I am more mature going in my 40s with nothing to show for it all these year's. I just can't stop myself, Is this how I am going to live my life till old age.

Every week I know how much comes out from my account for sex and I am so tired and wish I would stop. My high end tastes doesn't help matters at all..I can't even save anymore. 40k for short, 80k for daybreak. Not talking about transportation and other necessity, Is this how expensive sex is supposed to be for a man.

I know some people who are in relationships will say if I get a girlfriend it still expensive but I really doubt so.. when I go 3 to 4 times in a week not even calculating the amount spent in a month. This is a cry of a man in pains, I need help on how to overcome this challenge.

Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by UniversalDove: 2:49pm On Sep 27, 2025

Until the day a disrespect happens, that's when you'll quit forever..

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Re: I Am Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes, I Need Help. by EvangelistChuks(m): 2:53pm On Sep 27, 2025

Jesus the answer . Give your life to Him and He will quench the thirst for the habit. Am a witness.

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