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Kaycee9242:
She shouldn't come and cry to us later oooooooooo

Sorry they don't cry like you think. One of my ex who came on her own is living a good life where she is, for certain reasons we couldn't be together but still maintain communication and respect each other till date. Though I was already admiring her then but she took the bold step first and we haven't regret it.

and if i guy said 1 love just like that series of questiosns follow

i dont know
u dont know me
what do u do for a iving
are u such its now just sex
bla bla bla

Two good heart may God bless union ….. some ladies are bold and a lot of ladies have done this in the past either directly or indirectly . …. Some do give green light and left it for the smart man to catch

Kaycee9242:
She shouldn't come and cry to us later oooooooooo

Always wish people well

If naija babe do this heaven will fall surely.

SlavaUkraini:
Very bold Lady....

Shoot your shot..

If you see what you want... Go for it and stop waiting for the guy to start the conversation.

If the guyman says no, then move on without remorse.

There are many Lions in the Jungle

don't mind them hypocrites,that was how my wife walked to me that I'm fine and she likes me.i didn't know what to say...we've been married for 12 years now with 2 kids and very happy

She wouldn't have posted it if she was turned down.




I turned down two girls few years ago and they're still angry with me till today, most especially whenever they see me with my wife. I wonder why Nigerian girls can't handle rejection. Maybe they thought I rejected them because they made the first move, that wasn't my reason.

They ain't my spec, I am very selective when it comes to making choice........I prefer my woman slim and curvy.

voiceoftheupcom:
A Nigerian lady has gone viral after revealing how she boldly made the first move on her now-boyfriend.

The X (formerly Twitter) user, identified as @simplytee23, shared screenshots of their very first conversation, admitting that she felt “shameless” at the time but is now grateful as the relationship is nearing its third anniversary. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
Making the first move

According to her, it all began after her then-crush complimented her. Summoning courage, she confessed her feelings, though she joked she was afraid she might “trend on Twitter as the girl that loves at first text” if things went wrong.



https://x.com/simplytee23/status/1974698189279424584?t=mdIDzgin5yELxTe66QfxoQ&s=19

she wrote.

The chat quickly blossomed into something deeper as the pair exchanged numbers, discussed their relationship dynamics, and eventually became inseparable.

She reflected:

“I was scared that we won’t be compatible, but God had other plans cause he gave me a best friend for life.”

Netizens react

Her story struck a chord with many social media users who praised her courage and even shared similar experiences of making the first move.

While some hailed her for defying stereotypes around women initiating relationships, others joked that they lacked the boldness to try such.

Her post has since continued to trend, inspiring debates on whether love should wait for tradition or embrace boldness.

https://eyesoflagos.com/lady-shares-viral-chat-of-how-she-toasted-her-man/

Honestly Igbo girls do this too,they are bold and go for it if they like any man
When I was living in Ogurugu road,Nnsuka Enugu state
I eventually toast a girl and she boldly told me that she is already planning to come and meet me before weekend if I didn’t approach her first, and when I moved to Nkpor junction after that a girl boldly walk up to me and normally toasts me I was shocked bècause I have never experienced it before I left SW. Igbo in the house I’m not saying this in a bad context

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

We are simply not really interested or the man just isn't worth it. Understand that! 😐

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

Even Nigerian men will misinterpret it to only mean sex

God when?

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

Nigeria girls would rather wish for the ground to open than to do this.

I have one on my WhatsApp list, she's literally the first person to always view my status within seconds of uploading. Madam likes, sometimes comment by most times she keeps liking them.

she's yet to comes straight and stop beating around the bush

G0odharddick:
Nigeria girls would rather wish for the ground to open than to do this.

I have one on my WhatsApp list, she's literally the first person to always view my status within seconds of uploading. Madam likes, sometimes comment by most times she keeps liking them.

she's yet to comes straight and stop beating around the bush

My goodness,you Nigerian males are simply hopeless with women.
The fact that she always does what you claim she does on your WhatsApp list,means she has already "come straight and stopped beating around the bush".
She is a woman.Generally expect coyness from women no matter the culture/society.
As a man,the ball is now in your court.Either invite her someplace if you are interested or ignore her if you are not
Shikena!

IHate9jerianss:
My goodness,you Nigerian males are simply hopeless with women.
The fact that she always does what you claim she does on your WhatsApp list,means she has already "come straight and stopped beating around the bush".
She is a woman.Generally expect coyness from women no matter the culture/society.
As a man,the ball is now in your court.Either invite her someplace if you are interested or ignore her if you are not
Shikena!

I already did that bro but as usual she wanted to do shakara, so I just left her alone! She was even shocked and surprised that i didn't bothered inviting her over again (because normally I no dey ask girl out twice). Once is okay for me and if she refuses or comes up with excuses upon stories, I'll just bounce and move on to the next girl. No time at all.

Now she doesn't allow my status to rest. It's as if she's waiting for me to upload so she can immediately view it within seconds, like she's literally the first person to view my status. I feel like she's stalking on me bro!

I know those are green light but this time around I prefer she comes straight to the point and stop beating around the bush!

Slippy:
It can only be a South African

A Nigerian girl could never 😂

I dey tell you.

No be me. I no fit biko. Tueh!!!!

Proserpina:
If it's not that I'm shy, what's small toasting I can not do?

Abi I should enter his inbox too?

Yes, enter his inbox.

Opening lines you can use:

1. Can I put my eggs in your basket?
2. I'd like you to put your pen in my office.

Tested and trusted.

folake4u:
Yes, enter his inbox.

Opening lines you can use:

1. Can I put my eggs in your basket?
2. I'd like you to put your pen in my office.

Tested and trusted.

Pen-- in my orifice

Got it

folake4u:
Yes, enter his inbox.

Opening lines you can use:

1. Can I put my eggs in your basket?
2. I'd like you to put your pen in my office.

Tested and trusted.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaa

You are a bad child

Today is his birthday you know? I couldn't even tag him

Proserpina:
Haaaaaaaaaaaaa

You are a bad child

Today is his birthday you know? I couldn't even tag him

Lol, bad child? You mean very direct and straight to the point? Yelz.

Wahala everywhere. You nor go like attend some of his events? From there, you'd do meet and greet, no?

Proserpina:
Haaaaaaaaaaaaa

You are a bad child

Today is his birthday you know? I couldn't even tag him

She meant orifice

GloriousGbola:
She meant orifice

trash

My geh rn...

The advice of choosing a woman who love you over the ones you love as a man is the koko.

Nawaa oo. These old people still dey do boyfriend and girlfriend. That man is obviously in his 40's or close.

I also started this way, it's been 10 years now

She gets slippers breast

I don't like such breast

I like pointed breasts