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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Godsonkemz(m): 7:58pm On Dec 10, 2025
Not everyone has time for girlish drama. Perhaps he knew you'd become a gold digger once he indicates interest.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Mirasteel: 7:59pm On Dec 10, 2025
brain54:
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to approach you. Girls most times get that wrong!
Exactly
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 10, 2025
PepeXKermit:
It says alot about the women you date. Tyoically, a woman who is het fathers's responsibility and is from a decent middle/middle upper class family does not bill... your circle determines if you will ever meet such women.. so when you say what you say, i understand
And you believe what you just wrote?? Too much Nollywood😂

Let's be real, even someone like Otedola's daughter is going to 'bill' you. That's just the plain truth! Just because some girls can afford their own crazy lifestyles doesn't mean all of them can. Plus, sometimes these super-rich kids actually expect more from you than the average girl. If you can't match their level, you better believe they'll still be looking for something else from you.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by just2endowed: 8:36pm On Dec 10, 2025
Billings reason.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ZombieDredd: 8:42pm On Dec 10, 2025
In a mall abi?

Don't worry he will monitor you and approach outside before you bill am shege
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ZombieDredd: 8:43pm On Dec 10, 2025
Godsonkemz:
Not everyone has time for girlish drama. Perhaps he knew you'd become a gold digger once he indicates interest.
He might even be staring and thinking about which fund manager to do business with, wether it's Stanbic or GTCO.

I do that a lot.

I can stare but my mind is else where
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Samantha125(f): 8:47pm On Dec 10, 2025
It's only fair that I learn a thing or two since nairaland is the only social media platform I'm active on and I prefer it that way.

I'd rather be active on a foreign platform than a local one because I don't want to find myself beefing with my own people... I recently tried TikTok and I didn't like the toxicity there, it was slowly turning me into this toxic being I didn't recognise, so I deregistered my account.
Christlike01:
I’m beginning to doubt whether you’re truly South African! “Urgent 2k”? Wow! You’ve clearly rolled with us Nigerians here so much that one would even think you’re Nigerian.
"Urgent 2k", "Wotowoto" omo,you dey catch up o!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by biggie73(m): 8:56pm On Dec 10, 2025
The guy knew that’s trouble, hence he faced his business.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by PepeXKermit: 9:17pm On Dec 10, 2025
SpencerForbes:
And you believe what you just wrote?? Too much Nollywood😂

Let's be real, even someone like Otedola's daughter is going to 'bill' you. That's just the plain truth! Just because some girls can afford their own crazy lifestyles doesn't mean all of them can. Plus, sometimes these super-rich kids actually expect more from you than the average girl. If you can't match their level, you better believe they'll still be looking for something else from you.
Ok bruv. If what you believe makes you happy
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by lauzun: 9:19pm On Dec 10, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
Indeed! grin
But if that was the goal, I feel that "confidence" was wasted, honestly!
You dey believe that guy? Someone that's probably about to write WAEC?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by stampo: 9:21pm On Dec 10, 2025
Some girls discourage guys from approaching them..

Met 2 girls recently for the first time, as i was talking to one of them, the other was asking me if i had money to assist her get a bike.. she was about going out.

Later that same day, the other girls chatted me up that she is craving for pizza and ice cream and she doesn't have money...

Na once i block her o...
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Wotowotoman: 9:31pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
Wotowotofy him... grin grin grin
undecided
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by CaseSensitive(m): 9:31pm On Dec 10, 2025
When I stare at a woman like that, personally it could mean:

You look like my aunty who chased me around the neighbourhood with a broom in 2005

Maybe I'm just zoning out and your face was the nearest object in 4K resolution.

I could genuinely be admiring you but my mouth refuse to load the "Hi" software because I know greeting a beautiful woman these days is basically signing a non-verbal financial agreement. Terms & conditions apply.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Deepthoughts: 9:36pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.




Source
I would answer from my sincere self experience,the guy might have felt attracted to what he saw but the cost estimate might have weighed him down,so the guy man just swallow saliva n Waka pass jejely.money sabi yab man I ogo lie!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Deepthoughts: 9:39pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
You staring from head to leg and Ur 3rd legs raised inside Ur trousers, yet you have so many reasons not to approach.

I'm ashamed of u.
Wetin Carry your eyes go everywhere so?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Exceed15: 9:44pm On Dec 10, 2025
The moment you start showing concern and care they begin to show attitude. See ehn Ignoring a woman is fvcking iattractive
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Ravenna: 9:46pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
Wen men staring on ladies, 8/10 of such guys, their 3rd legs already tormenting them.
This is dumb!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by WantsandMore: 9:50pm On Dec 10, 2025
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

Seriously, If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN ! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
imagine if she actually cares about your money? The Billings go triple grin
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by TRIXIA: 9:51pm On Dec 10, 2025
Apt
SpencerForbes:
The second you say 'hi' to them, they immediately start sending you vibes. Two days later, her gas runs out, and then suddenly she's 'not feeling well.' Whenever I see a beautiful woman, my brain just goes, 'Wow, that's God's masterpiece,' quickly followed by, 'And that's a one-way ticket to financial black hole.'

Seriously, If a girl tells you she doesn't care about your money, that's a HUGE red flag! You need to RUN ! Like, 98 times out of 100, she's actually going to end up 'billing' you way more than any other girl.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Jman06(m): 9:52pm On Dec 10, 2025
everythingtall3:
Sometimes you just think about the talking stage and all energy and stress.
Honestly! It can be draining!
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by peleson1: 9:52pm On Dec 10, 2025
brain54:
A guy can have a lot of reasons for staring...

Doesn't absolutely means it's because he likes you. I could be looking at you because you remind me of someone, your teeth looks weird, I like your dress very plenty reasons etc.

Not necessarily because I want to approach you. Girls most times get that wrong!
What if he actually like her but couldn't approach her because he already got a woman ?
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 10:01pm On Dec 10, 2025
WantsandMore:
imagine if she actually cares about your money? The Billings go triple grin
No oo…. You go know Wetin you sign up for and how to maneuver. Not the ones you weren’t expecting and two months later, one unsuspected billing just ‘knack’ you. Everywhere go fess blur😂
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Jman06(m): 10:15pm On Dec 10, 2025
It is normal for a guy to be shy around a lady he likes. I can be as shy as anything around a girl I'm hugely into. In such scenarios, I'll try to get friendly with her first and from there I'll start getting comfortable around her and then we can start flowing. I think this should be seen as normal.

Ladies too need to cut down on too much expectations and make themselves more friendly especially if they notice that the guy is shy.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by ZooOga: 10:16pm On Dec 10, 2025
Love800:
He wasn't ready to woo at that moment, but though some men think that ladies will have courage to do the toasting, only few women can do that.

Men need to learn that you need to approach a woman you like. You met her and she reject you, fine, you find another to approach. Out of four(4), you will surely see one who will accept your advance.
But first, you must pursue your career or job to earn good and be doing well for yourself before you start adding a woman to your life.
This 55 seconds You tube vid supports your thesis.

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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by naijapikin2(m): 10:20pm On Dec 10, 2025
Go to SHILOH
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Okhuadams(m): 10:35pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.




Source
You resemble the girl wey steal him money
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by InvertedHammer: 10:49pm On Dec 10, 2025
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.




Source
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She expects a man to toast her around Christmas time? The man respected his pocket. It ain't got nothing to do with intimidation. She should wait till after Xmas and her birthday better not be in January. Valentine day is also lurking around the corner in February. She may have to wait till March. Then Easter! shocked Damn!

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Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 10, 2025
Men are only real men nowadays, when they do what women want.
Fiscus105:
A lady on X queries that why guy staring but unable to approach, she said , she met a guy in mall in which, he was staring and staring back, but doesn't have enough ball to toast her.


I think, men are loosing confident day by day to approach women for relationship, in recent times, no thanks to independence of several ladies now, unlike before.




Source
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Slimwhyt(m): 11:40pm On Dec 10, 2025
Make him say hi, make you come tell am say you never chop since 3 days.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Emeskhalifa(m): 11:52pm On Dec 10, 2025
Samantha125:
If we don't go after your money, who will? Your fellow men?
Can't you ladies just make your own money for crying out loud??

It is really frustrating.
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Emeskhalifa(m): 11:54pm On Dec 10, 2025
Goodmarlian:
Women instinctively like men with guts and control, I did some experiment some few months ago,I approached some pretty ladies with extreme confidence and some with fear , I notice most of the ones I approached with extreme Confidence surrendered Instantly to my advances even though they wanted to do shakara but their resistance was weak grin,and after getting their numbers they responded well to my chats and calls,but you see the ones I approached as a sissy they gave me their numbers but didn't pick my calls or reply my chats, women simply want a man that can trigger attraction in them but they are not even aware of this.
Just chill, you will come back here and tell us about the billing aspect when they start grin
Re: Lady Queries, Why Guys Staring And Unable To Approach. by Nahunger(m): 12:16am On Dec 11, 2025
Samantha125:
Well, I'm a lady and you know we ladies don't like offering our services free of charge, we're always hungry... grin grin grin
Services 😋😋😋
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