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Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:12am On Dec 24, 2025
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:12am On Dec 24, 2025
In a very short space of time. These cases have erupted.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:12am On Dec 24, 2025
Regina Daniels vs her husband Ned Nwoko
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:13am On Dec 24, 2025
Doris Ogala vs her boyfriend Pastor Chris Okafor
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:13am On Dec 24, 2025
Ada Igbo vs her husband Chinedu
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op):
Anita Joseph vs her husband MC Fish
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:17am On Dec 24, 2025
The cases are not the issue. But the comments of ladies under the cases are the issue. So many married and single ladies cheering it on. It's like an endless online war ladies, especially Igbo ladies have declared against men. Including those still praying to get married ooo.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 3:27am On Dec 24, 2025
And why are they all Igbo Ladies always exhibiting these toxic relationship drama on social media? From Regina Daniels to Doris Ogala to Ada Igbo to Anita Joseph. All are Igbo Ladies. Why always Toxic?
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by Nyascobar1414: 3:56am On Dec 24, 2025
Watch how 2026 will be sir..
Clarity will make men detest the one with vagina 😹
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 4:00am On Dec 24, 2025
Nyascobar1414:
Watch how 2026 will be sir..
Clarity will make men detest the one with vagina 😹
It's just so crazy and toxic.


Ladies no longer think independently. Just crowd mentality.

Until ladies realise that to create balance on earth and inter-gender relationships, God was very specific.

Lady must be submissive to their man

Then Men must love their woman.

These 2 are more difficult than the entire 10 commandments.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by BItt: 4:34am On Dec 24, 2025
essentialone:
Anita Joseph and her husband MC Fish
What happened to them
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by ManknowThyself(m): 4:37am On Dec 24, 2025
LoL,
No one is left out it's both genders thing!!!!!!!!

Life itself is a mystery, we can only navigate it with the wisdom from God and our little experiences of life.


Marriage and family (children) is the stability, respect, dignity and happiness of a true man.


The only important thing is never to settle for toxicity in any woman out of lust. Marrying a toxic woman can destroy your life, future and everything you are as a man.


Never be in haste to marry, take your time in chosen your queen cos marriage is a forever agreement between two people ready to tolerate each other flaws as one united family.

Never settle for toxicity it will definitely steal your peace and happiness and your kids will hate you for it.


Nothing beats marriage and having kids as one united happy family.

There are still real, respectful, disciplined but not perfect women out there. Just take your time and patience to marry the connection that vibes in your frequency.

No home without a woman, but there can only be house.

In a nutshell
Men should marry with clarity not with emotions and feelings.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 4:46am On Dec 24, 2025
ManknowThyself:
LoL,
No one is left out it's both genders thing!!!!!!!!

Life itself is a mystery, we can only navigate it with the wisdom from God and our little experiences of life.


Marriage and family (children) is the stability, respect, dignity and happiness of a true man.


The only important thing is never to settle for toxicity in any woman out of lust. Marrying a toxic woman can destroy your life, future and everything you are as a man.


Never be in haste to marry, take your time in chosen your queen cos marriage is a forever agreement between two people ready to tolerate each other flaws as one united family.

Never settle for toxicity it will definitely steal your peace and happiness and your kids will hate you for it.


Nothing beats marriage and having kids as one united happy family.

There are still real, respectful, disciplined but not perfect women out there. Just take your time and patience to marry the connection that vibes in your frequency.

No home without a woman, but there can only be house.

In a nutshell
Men should marry with clarity not with emotions and feelings.
Better to be safe than sorry. Most of these demon ladies were once thought to be angels.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 4:49am On Dec 24, 2025
BItt:
What happened to them
Not just yat their marriage has scattered, but so long as she is an Igbo Lady, she must be toxic and insult him publicly on social media.

A tribe of ladies who have no regard or respect for men. They will all soon marry themselves.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 4:51am On Dec 24, 2025
Guys, pay attention to who your wife supports on social media. It shows you the colour of the snake you call your wife. She is a time bomb waiting to explode.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by ManknowThyself(m): 4:55am On Dec 24, 2025
essentialone:
Better to be safe than sorry. Most of these demon ladies were once thought to be angels.
Yes that's why clarity is life key.

Clarity exposes demon lady pretending to be an angel.

Remember clarity is allergies to manipulation.
Real red pillers are allergies to manipulation.


It's only when you practice red pill with emotions and feelings is when you become toxic yourself to women.

It's both genders thing brother, most men practice red pill with emotions and feelings and they are toxic to real , respectful and discipline women.

You must not be toxic to practice red pill.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by Nobody: 6:22am On Dec 24, 2025
Be there looking for bad examples when you are only advising people to waste their times.

Don't get toxic relationships. If you're in one, leave.

If you hear 40 people fell into gutter in a year. You'd avoid walking around gutter? No? You'd just not walk when you're drunk or not get drunk at all.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by fyneboi79(m): 6:59am On Dec 24, 2025
Yeah!! How can one ever think of getting married with every lady married/single and widowed going into prostitution?
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 7:59am On Dec 24, 2025
ManknowThyself:
LoL,
No one is left out it's both genders thing!!!!!!!!

Life itself is a mystery, we can only navigate it with the wisdom from God and our little experiences of life.


Marriage and family (children) is the stability, respect, dignity and happiness of a true man.


The only important thing is never to settle for toxicity in any woman out of lust. Marrying a toxic woman can destroy your life, future and everything you are as a man.


Never be in haste to marry, take your time in chosen your queen cos marriage is a forever agreement between two people ready to tolerate each other flaws as one united family.

Never settle for toxicity it will definitely steal your peace and happiness and your kids will hate you for it.


Nothing beats marriage and having kids as one united happy family.

There are still real, respectful, disciplined but not perfect women out there. Just take your time and patience to marry the connection that vibes in your frequency.

No home without a woman, but there can only be house.

In a nutshell
Men should marry with clarity not with emotions and feelings.
Have you taken time to go through Facebook? Comments from ladies both married and singles, makes me wonder how they still pray to get married. It's a cold war declared on men, as in their war is tagged We vs Them kind of War. It's toxic. You wonder what mental baggage these ladies go into marriage with. I hear they even have a group called Di Gbaka Oku. Whatever that means.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 8:04am On Dec 24, 2025
fyneboi79:
Yeah!! How can one ever think of getting married with every lady married/single and widowed going into prostitution?
That too is an issue that people see as normal. It never will. Heard the voice note of one so called Ada Igbo where she said she is only in the marriage to be cashing out from her husband to fund her lifestyle elsewhere. It's the audacity for me. I miss those days ladies knew their place in the society. Igbo men are t ones that caused all these nonsense. Pick up an Illiterate and poor lady. Expose to so much comfort and all what nots. She turns around and says men are these and men are that. Same lady who probably almost jumped with excitement because she was married, no, rescued, by a man? It's toxic out there.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by MarkNsukkaBread: 8:07am On Dec 24, 2025
essentialone:
The cases are not the issue. But the comments of ladies under the cases are the issue. So many married and single ladies cheering it on. It's like an endless online war ladies, especially Igbo ladies have declared against men. Including those still praying to get married ooo.
Stop misleading people with your false narratives
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by MarkNsukkaBread:
essentialone:
That too is an issue that people see as normal. It never will. Heard the voice note of one so called Ada Igbo where she said she is only in the marriage to be cashing out from her husband to fund her lifestyle elsewhere. It's the audacity for me. I miss those days ladies knew their place in the society. Igbo men are t ones that caused all these nonsense. Pick up an Illiterate and poor lady. Expose to so much comfort and all what nots. She turns around and says men are these and men are that. Same lady who probably almost jumped with excitement because she was married, no, rescued, by a man? It's toxic out there.
It's better for you to just come out and say you don't have money so we can know how to help you!
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by vikings1: 8:38am On Dec 24, 2025
First don't use celebrity marriages as a yardstick to assess marriages, it is a wrong representation

Secondly Where you meet your wife and how you grow your relationship, know each other before marriage matters

It is the hookup culture among ladies and the economic woes of Nigeria that is actually eroding marriages

Don't believe that gender, they are different Online and in real life

Those ladies ranting online , dem go humble immediately for real life when they see rich man may set, with swagz and doesn't tolerate nonsense
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by harjay1986: 8:45am On Dec 24, 2025
essentialone:
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.
It never a mess... Marriage still work we talking about millions couple but you are judging by just few sample that is not even up to a thousand haba now... Can we say because people die everyday the rest should kill themselfhuh Find your own cross and carry it... Since many guy monitize relationship thats when I know that many will face what they do not bargain for but in all Marriage still work for more people
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by Olawrites: 9:27am On Dec 24, 2025
Small pikin talk
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by SixSeven: 10:59am On Dec 24, 2025
Avoid social media, most people there lie
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 11:10am On Dec 24, 2025
SixSeven:
Avoid social media, most people there lie
So relationships are only toxic these days on social media and perfect in real life?
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by Olive4570: 11:21am On Dec 24, 2025
After what I passed through in relationship first I trained my sef through med skool nd my ex through health skool brought her from village to asaba find job for her nd rent house infact made her comfortable what its my gain now wen suppose to enjoy my ex leave me tag me toxic cus the church wen I introduced her to she don see men for house on the rock lol she left me im doing fine my sef though bt my heart can never love again I see all women as betrayal i can only be a baby daddy I will never marry im only after spoiling other people love relationship so they will feel my pain also if I drive or see couple that are very much in love I will try my possible best I will always put issues in that relationship I will try to end it with my money nd resources I will mk sure they feel my pain after that I will move on the next aside my job nd business my vow its to end relationship especially those couple that re truly I love.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by thatsleepboy1: 11:23am On Dec 24, 2025
Topic of a jobless fellow. op engage your mind & leave these useless talks, when you make something good of yourself you will realize all you've said is ora.
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by Okoroemekah: 12:40pm On Dec 24, 2025
essentialone:
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.
everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion but the final decision lays in the heart
Re: Guys, Avoid Getting Married Or Having Children. It Is A Mess These Days by essentialone(op): 12:49pm On Dec 24, 2025
Olive4570:
After what I passed through in relationship first I trained my sef through med skool nd my ex through health skool brought her from village to asaba find job for her nd rent house infact made her comfortable what its my gain now wen suppose to enjoy my ex leave me tag me toxic cus the church wen I introduced her to she don see men for house on the rock lol she left me im doing fine my sef though bt my heart can never love again I see all women as betrayal i can only be a baby daddy I will never marry im only after spoiling other people love relationship so they will feel my pain also if I drive or see couple that are very much in love I will try my possible best I will always put issues in that relationship I will try to end it with my money nd resources I will mk sure they feel my pain after that I will move on the next aside my job nd business my vow its to end relationship especially those couple that re truly I love.
I support you. It's so toxic out there these days, especially Igbo ladies. I just don't know why. An extremely toxic group of people who get Exposure without Education. Toxic.
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