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There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

OMG

Second day of the year

Kalulu44:
➜So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days. So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind. So guys, what do you think I should do? Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.

Kobojunkie:
Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

Lolz! I am so happy you’re the first person to comment.
She’s not the reading type and I doubt 90% she even knows Nairaland or any other news or reading platform.
But if she can by chance be on Nairaland see this, I will be happy. I can even invite her if she wants. Me no send her at all at all. When I really care about her and wouldn’t have posted this is gone.

TheFreshVanilla:
What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.

Lolz, you don hear of 1,2,3 different accounts. I showed her the one I feel like to show her

Carndidlaydid:
OMG

Second day of the year

Hahahaha, what happened to your God. Is he injured

Kalulu44:
➜Lolz! I am so happy you’re the first person to comment. She’s not the reading type and I doubt 90% she even knows Nairaland or any other news or reading platform. But if she can by chance be on Nairaland see this, I will be happy. I can even invite her if she wants.
➜ Me no send her at all at all. When I really care about her and wouldn’t have posted this is gone.

Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too.
Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.

You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect you, she'll snatch that money from you

Kobojunkie:
Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

Hahahaha, I don't have any friendship, relationship or situationship as you call it again with her that will end. Though I am not happy I got what I wanted from her like this with deception. I really wanted more from her before, but the ship has since sail on.

Kalulu44:
➜Hahahaha, I don't have any friendship, relationship or situationship as you call it again with her that will end. Though I am not happy I got what I wanted from her like this with deception. I really wanted more from her before, but the ship has since sail on.

It's Ok! Just send her the invite to Nairaland to read your story, at least! Maybe that will work in favor of your revenge game, too.

RealityKings1:
➜ Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too. Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.
You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect, she'll snatch that money from you

😩

All four of you
You, she, her friend and the guy she stood you up for are all dirty and dishonest people

Kobojunkie:
Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

And answering your first quotes, I don't have the power or time to convince someone that doesn't know more than tiktok and video viewing websites.
She's not into news and nairaland I honestly guess will be boring for her.
And did you also forget I said her friend told me it's a man she went to see those missing days, so what is she coming to share here if at all she comes on this platform

Kobojunkie:
😩

The boy is just being very irresponsible and immature.

duduade:
All four of you
You, she, her friend and the guy she stood you up for are all dirty and dishonest people

Honestly, I will like you to explain this dishonest part

RealityKings1:
Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too.
Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.

You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect, she'll snatch that money from you

For what?
Woman, she played him now it's her turn to be played.

Kalulu, oya tell us say you use the money take do give away to the poor. Let her learn ashy no dey pay

Kobojunkie:
It's Ok! Just send her the invite to Nairaland to read your story, at least! Maybe that will work in favor of your revenge game, too.

Hahahaha, where you dey even drive your motor go sef. If I even invite her, how will you know

Dtruthspeaker:
For what?
She played him now it's her turn to be played

How old are you?

Stop dating broke girls

RealityKings1:
Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too.
Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.

You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect, she'll snatch that money from you

So I now have a promise to fulfill, so you skip the part on how she fail to fulfill her own promise a year ago and how she has refused saying what happened on that day after a year

Kalulu44:
➜And answering your first quotes, I don't have the power or time to convince someone that doesn't know more than tiktok and video viewing websites. She's not into news and nairaland I honestly guess will be boring for her.
➜ And did you also forget I said her friend told me it's a man she went to see those missing days, so what is she coming to share here if at all she comes on this platform

1. Let her decide on whether to join Nairaland or not by herself. 🥱🥱

2. I am interested in hearing it directly from the horse's mouth, not from a third party. 🥱🥱🥱

RealityKings1:
The boy is just being very irresponsible and immature.

Who's the boy if I may ask?

Kobojunkie:
1. Let her decide on whether to join Nairaland or not by herself. 🥱🥱

2. I am interested in hearing it directly from the horse's mouth, not from a third party. 🥱🥱🥱

Aha! I have seen where you car is driving to.

weslay:
Stop dating broke girls

Hahahaha

SUPERBLOOM:
How old are you?

Now, it's against you ashys you are asking my age.

SUPERBLOOM:
How old are you?

What concerns age here

Kalulu44:
➜Aha! I have seen where you car is driving to.

I made this clear since the first comment... I am interested in reading about what really happened that day from her. Is there anything wrong with that?

Dtruthspeaker:
Now, it's against you ashys you are asking my age.

Lolz, no mind her

Kalulu44:
So I now have a promise to fulfill, so you skip the part on how she fail to fulfill her own promise a year ago and how she has refused saying what happened on that day after a year

That is why if you don't do her back ehn, .... Make I keep am for mind

Kobojunkie:
I made this clear since the first comment... I am interested in reading about what really happened that day from her. Is there anything wrong with that?

There's definitely nothing wrong with that, but she has refused telling me. Is it you or any other stranger she will tell.

Kalulu44:
➜So I now have a promise to fulfill, so you skip the part on how she fail to fulfill her own promise a year ago and how she has refused saying what happened on that day after a year

So, a part of you does not believe what her friend told you, yet only moments ago, you were content shoving her supposed friend's version of things at me as conclusive detail? 🥱🥱🥱