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Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by stanvesco(m): 10:00pm On Jan 02
Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
You wrote so well! I commend you for that!
That being said, please don't play with rape accusation abeg. Pay her that money and see her as the hookup connect that she is. Why are you trying to make a hoe holy?

Please kindly pay her and avoid the brouhaha that comes with such non-payment.

Also, note that *"she no send your papa"* she no send you at allll at all
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by always247: 10:00pm On Jan 02
thomas2024:
What if I tell you say the guy she went to meet no even give her money. Women behave like saint to guys who treat them well but behave like a slut to a guy that treat them like trash. That’s just the case here.
if our guy refuse to give her shishi she will begin to respect him
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by ibtommy(m):
See how you started your year lairis? Condom doesn'tgive 100%protection o. Be areful. Besides, that girl is a runs girl. She was actually coming to your place, but got a better offer. We can also say she is not a runs girl but someone who loves money and can be wooed with money. On her way to the hotel, she got wooed by a random guy who brandished real kudi to her. She had to oepn her legs and stay eith him for days. You come go dey use your driver money any how. Na like that girls scarce? Later now, na una go dey flaunt good clothes for church but to listen to weting God talk na wahala. Yeye man. No go marry, dey waste your semens on top yeye girl. Well, werin be.my own. Shebi na 2 yeye people jam themselves. Las Las e fit be one yeye fictional story. If it's true, well done! At least you.don start your own year somehow. If I kick you, you go land for top of your bus. grin
Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Insectkiller: 10:01pm On Jan 02
Explain again..

Give Caesar to what belongs to Caesar...

Though I don't support your immoral acts....

Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by colizee(m): 10:01pm On Jan 02
What is 10k ? Baba settle the girl abeg
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by thomas2024: 10:02pm On Jan 02
RealityKings1:
The boy is just being very irresponsible and immature.
Na you dey mature bah? Clap for yourself🥳
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by mustyjohnolu: 10:08pm On Jan 02
Oga now you telling us you not an elder statement,
Since you are thinking to give her privileges or not
Oga pay her her money
Simple
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by yemre: 10:09pm On Jan 02
Guy, I'm not the type that judge people because nobody holy. However, I think you made a mistake.

Someone promised coming to see you and after telling you she'd arrive in 10mins, she then went mute for days and never wanted to discuss what happened!

If I were you, having known eventually that she was okay, no accidents and no kidnapping, that would be the very end of our communication. A girl, who could do that for you, could plan something evil for you.

Trust me, sex is not everything. If you don't have sex with her, there are lots of other girls out there, not the ones with prostitute mentality.

Lastly, since you already let him back into your life and you people had a deal, she already played her own part, you too should play yours.

But be very careful, this is a new year.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Yankiss(m): 10:13pm On Jan 02
Kobojunkie:
1. Let her decide on whether to join Nairaland or not by herself. 🥱🥱

2. I am interested in hearing it directly from the horse's mouth, not from a third party. 🥱🥱🥱
What are you interested in hearing? She is not going to say anything. Will u wring the words out of her? As for the guy, don't be petty. Give her the money so promised. Don't fall into same dishonesty as she. That's not to say she tried. Letting you book hotel without showing up was heartless of her. But don't pay her in same coin.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by youngrichnigga: 10:16pm On Jan 02
December 2024, babe run you street, January 2026, you wan loseguard again angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by nonny1212: 10:17pm On Jan 02
RealityKings1:
Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too.
Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.

You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect you, she'll snatch that money from you angry
Na where he fvck up be that. Always settle, e geh WHY!
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by 8starmember: 10:17pm On Jan 02
TheFreshVanilla:
What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.
seriously, what if she plan with bad guys to kidnap him

The guy is a simp
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by loffyloffy:
Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
Tell her she will get the money if she tells you what happened that night.

If she oblige, give her, otherwise keep your money.

She owes you an explanation.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by GenFunction: 10:23pm On Jan 02
Baba no wan bliv say him paddy na per time runs girl.
Na her multiple stream of income be that.
E.g.
Tailor for daytime,ashawo for night.
Na normal thing.
Jus pay her her money
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by PepeXKermit: 10:25pm On Jan 02
Your chi has been trying to protect you but you were very stubborn and let your flesh get the best of you...
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by GenFunction: 10:26pm On Jan 02
cyberstarr:
So you wrote all that long essay just to narrate your encounter with a girl? SMH!
Nigerian youths are truly jobless.
He say na driver he be.
Say money na water
Na this kind driver dey think rubbish for head come go get accident wound other people Jin
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by UgOnyeoma(m): 10:33pm On Jan 02
Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
So in your mind you feel you na sharp guy.. for the sake of your life, Respect your old age and send her the money asap... This is mistake most men make.. 10k na nothing compared to your life...
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Skidee: 10:35pm On Jan 02
What's the difference between the both of you.
You both are obviously from poor homes..
You are seeking advice online, on paying a runz girl, an agreement of 10k or not..

Money thats not up to what real hustlers dash people for free.
Don't go and double your hustle and stop seeking stupeed validations online.

Shame wear me Chris Okafors scandals on your behalf.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by bejeria101(m): 10:40pm On Jan 02
Carndidlaydid:
OMG

Second day of the year
grin grin grin
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Afriifa(m): 10:41pm On Jan 02
TheFreshVanilla:
What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.
I stopped reading when he said he puts her on 2k daily because he averages 10k daily. 20% of your daily income isn't small bro.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Subonbon(m): 10:41pm On Jan 02
See you see revenge..... This 2026 you come bring this yeye topic dey find followers...Jackie chan
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Ewedegubbler: 10:42pm On Jan 02
So u make 10k daily and give 2k out of it to a gal. Not your mama or yoor business partner.


Ur mumu is factory fitted
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by UgOnyeoma(m): 10:43pm On Jan 02
always247:
if our guy refuse to give her shishi she will begin to respect him
Lies... And if she decides to be diabolic nko? e go catch this bus driver woto woto..

Always pays your dues whether she asks for money or not maka ndu gi...

She's not his girl friend.. whether she's a hookup girl or not it's none of his business.. she told him hoha she came because of the money and you had no problem with it.. well the girl self is a naive girl.. many for change am for him.. after the whole marathon and only God knows the things and things he took self
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by correctguy101(m): 10:44pm On Jan 02
I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
This one na part of the reason I tell people this. Men are the same devils making our women turn into the gold digging succubus they're all complaining about.

Ordinary 10k daily, you don put another person pikin for daily 2k.... See ya mouth like 2k is nothing to you.

Calculate how much e go take you for a year and you go see say ya land for mowe naim you use knack okolo.... Very mumu man.

Struggling man no suppose dey do all this kind Odogwu for woman. And na still ya fellow mumu man go increasebam to 5k wey the small girl go break ya fragile heart....

You be anyhow person aswia...

SMH
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Helpout12345: 10:44pm On Jan 02
This is an annoying simpleton story.

You are giving a girl that doesn't feel anything for you a whole 20pct of your earning.huh

Is this a movies??m

This is why Nigerian women misbehave and turn relationships to serious business because of men like you.

You don't have family that needs helphuh Or no more motherless baby homes in Nigeria againhuh
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by kushme: 10:45pm On Jan 02
Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, I don't have any friendship, relationship or situationship as you call it again with her that will end. Though I am not happy I got what I wanted from her like this with deception. I really wanted more from her before, but the ship has since sail on.
My question is, was the sex sweet? Since the whole thing na transactional. You were on a mission for payback with your daily 2k investment then while she was all about the money not really feeling you.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Kiitanthegod(m): 10:46pm On Jan 02
Na ur own con worse pass... Mr. Man fulfill your part of the agreement o. Make e no be say becos of 10k u go con de fight for ur life. Most of us don't know the spiritual implications/connections that takes place during s*x. One thing I've learnt in my life is never make a promise you can't keep to a woman just becos of opueh. A word is enough for the wise.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by promami: 10:51pm On Jan 02
An angry woman would go any length to destroy weaklings like you cos it's obvious you're a simp.
Pay her the money and avoid problem.
She asked if you're sure and you said yes. Avoid problem.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by hatchy: 10:51pm On Jan 02
TheFreshVanilla:
What a foolish bus driver. Imagine pulling up your bank balance for a runs girl just to prove a point. Hopefully she finds a way to drain the last pennies.
He is a very foolish man and he'll never change. His type will empty the house just to please a woman that is not his wife.

Imagine how bold he was telling us that he placed her on 2k daily allowance. If you place your mother that birthed you, which I believe doesn't see that much from you, she'll bless and pray for you daily.

You are doomed.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Nackzy: 10:53pm On Jan 02
Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
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So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
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So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
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Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
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So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
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She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.
Bros How Old are you?
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by Bankowner: 10:55pm On Jan 02
What is wrong with you?

How can you promise and now fail after you have gotten what you want?

Better give her the money and let things be.
Re: Pls Guys I Need Your Opinion Cus I Have Only About 14hrs To Make A Decision. by LZAA: 10:56pm On Jan 02
put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things

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