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GenFunction:
He say na driver he be.
Say money na water
Na this kind driver dey think rubbish for head come go get accident wound other people Jin

Kalulu44:
There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
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So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
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P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I am so happy you’re the first person to comment.
She’s not the reading type and I doubt 90% she even knows Nairaland or any other news or reading platform.
But if she can by chance be on Nairaland see this, I will be happy. I can even invite her if she wants. Me no send her at all at all. When I really care about her and wouldn’t have posted this is gone.

Mrexcell:
This ur story doesn't even deserve front page fornication is personal not something to broadcast to the whole world.

tonicyril:
U dey date olosho, placed her on 2k per day ontop the 250k(10k per day) wey u dey make.. guy u mumu oh.

The chick even use ur name go lodge for man house for three days and u re here narating rubbish like champion.. oponu

Guy wait, 250k to 300k is a weekly income, but stil dem no born us well to place one codedruns babe on 2k stipend daily

gucci20:
My brother chat me up on 09055654526 less rub minds.

Kobojunkie:
Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜I have sent it to her, hope she comes on here and relay her mind

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't you send her a link to your post?

Kalulu44:
➜Hahahaha, Kobojunkie wetin come be your own for this matter. I don try the best wey I fit do. It remains for her to find it herself. That's if she will even visit it sef

Kobojunkie:
I look forward to reading what happened to her, as I sense she had a bad experience that she would rather hide than reveal to those around her.

We are talking here of a woman dressed up at night, riding a keke to her destination on the night of December 31st. Most Nigerian men don't really care, but a lot of women have bad experiences that they keep quiet about — survival behavior— while they go on allowing others to believe whatever they will. Anyway, that's just my thinking, and I would really love for this young woman to be able to let it out instead of keeping it tucked in like our great-grandmothers, grandmothers, and mothers thought they had to, only it never turned out well for them. Emotions are not meant to be suppressed but regulated and managed🥱🥱

What have you got to lose by sending her the link to this post of yours? You already distanced yourself from her. So, what do you care? Just send her the link. 🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜Hmm..... We are talking about what happened about a year ago, not this 31st o. And also, I really don't have anything to do with her again. Chatting her up will make it looks as if my mind is still there.
➜ By the way, I have given her the money

Kobojunkie:
I didn't ask you to chat her up. Simply asked you to send her the link to your post on Nairaland, which happens to be about the incident. 🥱🥱

2. Glad you made that decision for yourself. Send her the link, then so she can know for certain you two are over. 🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜I'm saying the same thing, sending her the link will only happen by msg to her WhatsApp or direct msg. And she will still think, we are good. And more over Kobo, I can definitely tell you she won't visit anything. And even if she visit, how that one wan take register so that she can comment on posts or make a post herself.
➜ The process of doing all that will stress her out. I know her very well and what she's interested in. At least I have invited her and even told her to check romance section for interesting story. Let her do that first, then if she chat me that she saw an interesting story that looks like her story, then I will let you know the outcome

Kalulu44:
You wey no be oponu, thank you for your opinion

Kalulu44:
I have sent it to her, hope she comes on here and relay her mind

Tenrack:
Yna Aneema like am dey end up doing worse. Dem plenty for Nairaland. Na only how to insult dem Sabi. Most of them na small boys wey Neva know life. Ignore am

Kalulu44:
You wey no be oponu, thank you for your opinion

tonicyril:
Well, pay her the money oh, cus to me agreement is an agreement.. 10k can not kill you.

But make sure u always treat her like olosho cus that girl dey use ur head, na survival mode she dey. She normally feel you na ur money make her dey around you.

Give her the 10k and get wise, treat her like olosho which she is henceforth.

Double0h7:
45 year old predator; you can’t even make this up.

Kalulu44:
Ok

Kalulu44 post137992756: There’s this girl I met on the 10th of September 2024. Which was on my birthday.
We got talking and a friendship developed.
From that September till December, we hanged out a lot and she came to my place exactly 5 times.
Let’s I forget, two weeks after the friendship started. I put her on 2k daily allowance and every two days #500 for recharge card. Not forgetting other things I bought for her sometimes.
Before most of una and especially the ones wey call themselves redpiller, begin yab me. 2k to me no be anything cus as a bus driver I make over 10k and above daily.
.
So, in the 5 times she has come to my place. She hasn’t allowed me make love to her apart from touching here and there. I tried all the convincing I can but to no avail.
Me no fit force or rape woman, so I always let her be.
Then she promised on the 31st night of December 2024, that we’ll get down, but she wants us to book a nice hotel for it.
I said no problem, on the D day, after putting every plans in motion. I called her by 6pm and asked how far. She told me she’s getting ready. I said no problem.
By 7pm, I called her again and she said she’s on top bike. I noticed it too cus there was vehicular noises here and there.
30 min later I called again and she said she’s about 10 min away from me. That was the last time I heard from her. I called and called, her line was not reachable until it finally went dead. I stayed in that hotel till daybreak heart broken. Bcus I have bought and prepared so many things that will make the night fun.
The next day, I packed the few things I can and left for my house. Tried her number severally again but switched off.
Then in the evening of 1st January last year which was the next day. A known number called me, and asked if I have seen her cus she hasn’t been home since last night and that she told her she was coming to me.
I told the person I last spoke to her 7:30pm last night, that ever since then her phone is switched off.
She said they too haven’t seen her or heard from her too. It became something of anger to panic mode to me.
I became worried about her.
There’s nothing that didn’t run thru out mind that day.
Has she been kidnapped, did she had an accident and so many other thoughts.
That same babe her friend that called me earlier kept calling me to know how far. Same answer from me.
The next two days I couldn’t go to work, panic has set in for me. What if that her friend bring police to my place, cus she said she told her it was me she was coming to meet. Luckily she called me after 3 days.
My people, as I am typing this. She hasn’t tell me what transpired that day, even after she left my place this morning after not seeing each other thru out last year.
.
So after the incident, I didn’t talk to her for a while. Three months later, we started chatting. But she hates me bringing the topic of what went wrong that night of 31st. So I totally stopped bothering her about it. Thru out last year I have been trying to invite her to my place, but it has been one excuses to another till last year ended and we didn’t see eye to eye.
So on the 31st night again which was 2 days ago, I teased her again, that shey she know it’s a year we haven’t seen each other. She promised to come see me on the 2nd which is today. And what do I have for her cus she didn’t eat my 1 naira thru out last year. I told her they’re many goodies and that I even have 10k to give her, but on one condition that she should not come to my place and start playing holier than thou attitude for me. I told her we must get down or she should forget about coming.
.
Like play like play she came truly. After entertaining her, we got down to the main business why I invited her. Luckily for me, she didn’t prove stubborn like before. Not until she said if not for the money I promised her she wouldn’t have come. She said this in the middle of our marathon race. I said within me, me sef know say na im make you come but I go suffer you with that money.
.
So after every every. She was about to go and asked for the money. I brought out 10k, counted it in her presence and after, did as if I wanted to give her, as she stretched her hand to collect it, I withdrew it back and asked her.
Are you a prostitute? She said no nah, and why did I ask?
I said cus it’s only prostitute that collect money for sex.
She felt embarrassed and asked what is my meaning.
I told her since she says she’s not a prostitute, I won’t give her the money but later when she gets home. That if I give her now, then she should take herself to be a prostitute in my sight. I opened my account balance to show her money more than the cash I had with me.
I told her to drop her account number, that either this evening or tmrw morning I will transfer the money to her, and at that time it won’t be as if I am paying for sex.
.
She looked at me for upto 2 min without saying anything and then finally said, if I am sure I will send it to her. I told her I cross my heart that I will do it. She grumbling gave me her account number and say what of transport fare. I said that’s not a problem, I squeeze 1k into her hand and escorted to take bike of #500.
It’s been over 3hrs she left, but she has reminded twice not to forget the 10k o.
.
So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days.
So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind.
So guys, what do you think I should do?
Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Tenrack:
The Olosho is 22. He's 45. How is he a predator? What would you call the 22 year old then? Smh.

Anonymouskid:
Hope you gave her?,then cut her off?

Double0h7:
Just say you don’t know what the word means instead of arguing blindly.