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Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Solofresh2: 3:24pm On Jan 12
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
You’re considering “keeping her to cure konji”, that’s using her for sex while knowing you’ll never commit. That’s a weak move. It keeps you emotionally distracted, lowers your own self-respect, and blocks you from finding a woman without this much baggage and betrayal history.
Next time she calls, be direct but calm. Tell her your intentions
Then cut contact
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by favour32(m): 3:24pm On Jan 12
Creative writing.



Una dey try.


But this one nor dey realistic.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Sangoamadioha1: 3:25pm On Jan 12
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
The fact that you were even planning to celebrate another man's brace more than the man himself is enough to have your head checked angry

Bro, single mother of two? angry. And even dated your friend in your absence? Denied the whole thing?

Nigha,you don't need to ask any good tailor around to know if those materials displayed by her are more than enough to sew a very big red flag....Just open your eyes,spread your legs ,and run for your dear life.
Your banny wey you always dey hype here no be Delta babe? How we sure say she no get hat trick from another man.
All those children wey dey call her sister and their grandma mummy fit be her children o🫤
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Starboytwo(m): 3:25pm On Jan 12
I strongly think you are not serious sir...
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Quoteit: 3:25pm On Jan 12
So you still want us to advice you after all that you've seen and experienced? Dare to think for yourself man.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by tolufase: 3:27pm On Jan 12
Stupid boy because I can't call you a man for now. You better run for your life before you allow your third leg to ruin your life. Say you want to cure KONJI? Continue!
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by 123yes(m): 3:28pm On Jan 12
SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU. YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE UP YOUR MIND ON WHAT YOU WANTS TO DO AND YOU ARE ASKING US. LET HER CONTINUE TO CURE YOUR KONGE, BUT DONT COME HERE TELLING US WHEN IT BACK FIRES
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Solofresh2: 3:28pm On Jan 12
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
The fact that you were even planning to celebrate another man's brace more than the man himself is enough to have your head checked angry

Bro, single mother of two? angry. And even dated your friend in your absence? Denied the whole thing?

Nigha,you don't need to ask any good tailor around to know if those materials displayed by her are more than enough to sew a very big red flag....Just open your eyes,spread your legs ,and run for your dear life.
You didn't talk about the fact that he kept her for sex, without shut her down of her marriage thought
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Solofresh2: 3:29pm On Jan 12
Zonefree:









The last highlight is quite funny. They always want to eat their cake and have it.

Girl wey don live with man for many years, birth two children, left the union to continue her promiscuous, yet she wants another woman's innocent son to marry and be loyal to her.

What crime did OP commit that God wants to punish him with a woman like this? cry
Why keeping her for sex in the first place without making his intentions know
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Aguiyimba(m): 3:29pm On Jan 12
Precious201010:
on the seventh day when God was resting, angels carried out few experiments... Op is one the results of that
Honest truth. The angle forgot to add brain to him
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Kaido: 3:32pm On Jan 12
I sometimes like women. They are bold with irrational standards which they don't have.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by sirchim(m): 3:37pm On Jan 12
cheesy
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
The fact that you were even planning to celebrate another man's brace more than the man himself is enough to have your head checked angry

Bro, single mother of two? angry. And even dated your friend in your absence? Denied the whole thing?

Nigha,you don't need to ask any good tailor around to know if those materials displayed by her are more than enough to sew a very big red flag....Just open your eyes,spread your legs ,and run for your dear life.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by sirchim(m): 3:38pm On Jan 12
cheesy
Talkisneeded:
So you need my input to decide if you want to be with her or not??


God,so you actually created people like this…
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Eddodoh(op): 3:40pm On Jan 12
favour32:
Creative writing.



Una dey try.


But this one nor dey realistic.
Very realistic
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by sirchim(m): 3:41pm On Jan 12
I wonder!🤔
WhiteIverson:
You don't want to marry her because she's a single mom with 2 kids, you know her ex and your friends won't support you. She showed you love but deep down you know you won't marry her.

If you know all this, why are you still bothered by the fact that she hooked up with your friend? Why e dey pain you? Is she your wife?

She's free to live her life the way she wants, single mom or not. You don't want to marry her but you want to keep her all to yourself.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by TechBaron: 3:42pm On Jan 12
Just tell us that you're an irredeemable olodo na


What are all these epistles for again?
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by queenfav(f):
Na wa
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by AZControversial: 3:50pm On Jan 12
smiley

You've done well..... You get sense....
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by rossovu: 3:52pm On Jan 12
This can't be real sha but if e dey real aswear I suppose wear you 5k if I dey near you
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by pipnator00(m): 3:55pm On Jan 12
Don't be callous! Tell her where she stands with you!
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Nicoddemus(m): 4:06pm On Jan 12
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
keep her for Konji?

How does that sound to your ears? For God's sake are you that wicked? What if she's your sister or mother?
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Nobody: 4:09pm On Jan 12
Tenrack:
it's the case for these so called redpillers. They think they are wise. You want to be fucking a single mom lol. That's why I always say run away. Flee from single mom. Don't have anything to do with them. Treat them like plague else you go regret your life.
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It’s hilarious watching a guy think he can play a grown woman. He’s definitely not the first person to promise her a ring and disappear, yet he thinks he can use the same old tactics and just walk away. He doesn’t realize she might get truly desperate or diabolical just to keep him.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Mullermuller(m): 4:11pm On Jan 12
The last part choked. ..
Want to use her cure congi 😂
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by Nicoddemus(m): 4:14pm On Jan 12
Precious201010:
on the seventh day when God was resting, angels carried out few experiments... Op is one the results of that
grin grin
This is a big sledgehammer jesu grin
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by DeltaBachelor(m): 4:15pm On Jan 12
Choi. Relationship wahala everywhere too. Hmmmmm
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by grandstar(m): 4:15pm On Jan 12
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
I can forgive the single mother of two.

But that previously lived together with the father of her two kids, and chose to living with you is a huge no. She should have totally rejected that kind of life after the experience

Worse, the flirts with your friend while you're in a relationship with her is just over the top.

She has no moral compass. It's this type of woman that give others a bad name.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by BigCowHornn:
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
You are just a heartless coward


Why don't you tell her that you are not interested in marrige. You can't tell her but you are coming here to disturb nairaland
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by thorpido(m): 4:20pm On Jan 12
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
Try keeping her to use to cure konji

Man smart but the woman smarter,they know how fi trick you fi get you.........Yellowman
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by shoodboi2: 4:21pm On Jan 12
Avoid this one. She will entangle you with a pregnancy. This type can go as far as bursting your condom.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by IMPARTIAL: 4:28pm On Jan 12
Tell her to move on. Still keeping her for sex, and in the end disappoint her would only invite curses on you that may be difficult to break. Run far from her!

In fact, when ending the relationship, let her know that you could not get over what she did. I mean cheating with your friend.
Re: This Lady Must Be Sick by joseph1832(m): 4:31pm On Jan 12
Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.
If you know what is good for you, let her know plainly you don't plan on marrying her, not now, not ever. I also suggest you do where you can have evidence of your intentions i.e, whatsapp chat history, voice call and the likes.

If you keep on toying with her, and banging her without letting her know your intention, trust me, she might sue you. She's already shown you she can't be trusted, least of all, she's selfish. So, best tell her to get lost, or let her know what stand.
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