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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Oluwadare316(m): 8:28am On Jan 18

dododawa1:
YOU

Needed

JESUS,MUHAMMAD(saw),Ogun,sango,obatala

in your LIFE.

Add budha too

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by NevetsIbot(m): 8:29am On Jan 18

20 girls on day 18!?

Let’s assume it’s one round per girl…. You mean you’ve already cum twenty times this year already?!! shocked

Osanobua! And you still have the urge to go again today huh

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Oluwadare316(m): 8:30am On Jan 18

richiemcgold:
Over 20 prostitutes? 🤥🤥

And today is 17th

Jesu!

Make e tag GWR

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by eteba(m): 10:28am On Jan 18

Pls continue, be your brother's keeper.

Patronise other people's businesses.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Successsearch90(m): 11:09am On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.

this is demonic, not normal. You need deliverance first of all to bind the spirit sponsoring it, only then can physical steps be taken with results

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by reallifegospel(m): 11:35am On Jan 18

It's a simple problem with a simple solution.

First the conditioning of your mind has to change. You need to change what your mind tells you sex is.
"Easy sex is a path that surely leads to a hard life" then make up your mind.

Also pray that God will make you hate the very act of going to a brothel and having sex with women of easy virtues.

Finally substitute your minds source of libido.
You can derive libido from having a seven or more figure account balance every month than from having sex with 20 or more women (which is sending you into the abyss of penury).

Also endeavor to get rid of all kinds and sorts of porn. Pornography is very destructive to your mind's perception of sex.

Take some time to detox, then when you're mentally prepared get married and stick to drinking water only from your well.

It's all in the mind.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by sacajawea(m): 11:38am On Jan 18

20 different ones?
Or some of them are the same ones, repeated?

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Sayelabola(m): 12:16pm On Jan 18

I hope you will reply to your email...my WhatsApp line was attached.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by magicalme2001(f): 12:20pm On Jan 18

Honestly it's kinda easy to stop. I've had similar experiences with masturbation but I easily stopped it when I knew what was going on.

You see it's a lustful spirit that's feeding on you, any time you have sex, you won't even be feeling as pleasurable as you'd want to feel but for some reason you just can't stop. The spirit has taken a domain from you as it's own, all you have to do is to fight in the spirit.

Just type in a search engine, scriptures that fights lust, pick out 10 of it, read it and use it to pray before you sleep, then before you sleep cover your self with the blood of Jesus Christ.

You see when you do that, you have waged a war on it, do this for 3 days and you will notice that you won't feel an ounce of lust.

But be careful, You Must Cover Yourself With The Blood of Jesus Christ before you Sleep because if not, the spirit will enter your dreams and you Will definitely find yourself having Spiritual Sex.

Trust me on this one. I have battled with it and won

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by MrSly(m): 12:24pm On Jan 18

MONEY247:
Bro these is a proven way to, if you are sincerely willing to stop the act

Being accountable to an elder does not quench libido. Someone who could borrow money just to visit a brothel for nacking. The first practical solution is to have a wife with high sex drive too. She will sap his libido to moderate limit.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Kindness218: 12:35pm On Jan 18

God has delivered me from this shit. I never steps my legs on os quarter all through last year. Just one hookup last year. And this year God will see me through

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Fearyourcreator: 12:42pm On Jan 18

Sonnobax15:

Continue bro..

Nothing dey inside relationship..

Infact,no difference between Os and girlfriends

He better know now make he no dey decieve himself...

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by reachbenny(m): 1:10pm On Jan 18

It's truly well!

You are not alone, my beloved brother.

We are all creatures of habits. We keep repeating who we are/what we believe.

Firstly, salvation is the way to go. Genuine repentance; "change the way, you think." Get to know and accept God Almighty.

Secondly, replace the habit of going after prostitutes, with something more fruitful and productive. Life abhors a vacuum. A bad habit, must be replaced with a better one. Choose to pray when tempted to patronize them.

Thirdly, choose to be deliberate and disciplined about changing. The temptation will keep coming, what would you do, to resist it?
i. Resist the urge, with your spoken words (God's infallible Word)
ii. Resist the urge with your actions. Don't go to environment/area, where, you are prone to fail.

Change can be very painful and tough, especially when dealing with addictions.

In addition, get someone, a spiritual person, with integrity. One who sees God Almighty in the weakness of men. One who will pray with you and for you.

Lastly, tell yourself, "I am what and who, God says, I am." "I am an overcomer and not, a victim." Nobody will believe you, like you.

I personally look forward to celebrating your success story.

You are who God Almighty, says you are.

we shall SUCCEED!

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by MONEY247: 1:38pm On Jan 18

MrSly:
Being accountable to an elder does not quench libido. Someone who could borrow money just to visit a brothel for nacking. The first practical solution is to have a wife with high sex drive too. She will sap his libido to moderate limit.

I perceive you are a young man....
See I have seen the world, and live in it...

I work with someone that sleeps with his wife, gets up from her and goes to a prostitute lap.....

It all depends on the individual...

If you are sincerely willing to stop... And say when I do this please do this to me me... Do it for one year...

Or medically castrate

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Aircom8: 2:16pm On Jan 18

Try to locate any MFM church narate your experience to their pastor. Deliverance will help you

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by 29Ade07: 2:36pm On Jan 18

I know of one man who can set you free. He has never failed as he gave all he had inorder to achieve this kind of work. He also set me free from pornography and masturbation.
The fact that you are sorry and want to be free is all that you need to go to help him. He said anyone that comes will not be sent away.All you need do is to tell him you are sorry and then ask him to come and live his life in you. Then determine not to go back to the habit again . I promise you with with all I have that if you sincerely pray like this from the depth of your heart he will come in and save you. I am a living witness. If you are not in any church find a church with strong teaching ministry as you will need to grow. Churches like Deeperlife, Encounter Jesus Ministry, Remnant Christian Network, Baptist, Living Seed Ministry and identify with the pastor for your personal growth and edification.
Shalom

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Mosco100(m): 2:56pm On Jan 18

Come to Jesus

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by MrSly(m): 3:08pm On Jan 18

MONEY247:
I perceive you are a young man....
See I have seen the world, and live in it...

I work with someone that sleeps with his wife, gets up from her and goes to a prostitute lap.....

It all depends on the individual...

If you are sincerely willing to stop... And say when I do this please do this to me me... Do it for one year...

Or medically castrate

There you are. He still has strength to walk and that is why he went out to pristitutes. God created is all with varying levels of energy. Just get your match. The sexual problem we have in families is notncosidering sexual compactibility before marriage.

Having a wife with high sex drive will go a long way to help that young man.

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Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by MONEY247: 3:24pm On Jan 18

MrSly:
There you are. He still has strength to walk and that is why he went out to pristitutes. God created is all with varying levels of energy. Just get your match. The sexual problem we have in families is notncosidering sexual compactibility before marriage.

Having a wife with high sex drive will go a long way to help that young man.

I just dey laugh.... Have you lived with street people..... Like street...
Be like you don't know what bandage or addiction is.....

The therapy I described is the only way way to be free not a wife....

It's a mental problem, for someone to be addicted to sleeping with prostitute.... Till he becomes broke...
When an individual becomes accountable, there tends to be responsiblity in his /her actions...

Just like the law would hold you accountable if you steal...

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by ttmax09(m): 4:26pm On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways. Can you send me an email? I ve got a very good solution for you, however for it to work, it depends on your commitment and determination to truly break out of that life, mind you, no kobo will you spend.

I need help.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by ttmax09(m): 4:28pm On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Send me an Email if you truly want to breakout, however you won't spend a penny, only your commitment and determination to breakfreebb is needed and will set you free.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by merits(m): 5:36pm On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Your own small but I am totally free today,just go and marry simple. Your brain 🧠🧠🧠 will automatically format with family responsibility.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by eliwa47(m): 5:57pm On Jan 18

DrAkpa:
No, he doesn't need any deliverance. He is in a sexually active age, that's if he is below 30, and his hormones are raging. When he gets to 40, na body go tell am.
Stop this backwards mentality,pls

If he doesn't need any help why yelling on Nairaland?
Let his hormones continue raging until................... Then you will know it's not backwards mentality undecided

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by liveyourlife007(m): 7:47pm On Jan 18

Dog ate your placenta after birth.
Dem no bury am well.

God will deliver you.
You need to Pray.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by OnlyChris(m): 8:45pm On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes.

I need help.

But what's your reason for wanting to quit?
Are you going broke or you are planning to marry ? Or is it affecting your self esteem?

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by dtrend(m): 8:52pm On Jan 18

KiNg0G:
I need help.

Bro, hmmmmm.....
It's well with you.

Please, kindly seek the help of a Pastor who have experienced what you are going through sometime in his life...

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by dtrend(m): 8:55pm On Jan 18

liveyourlife007:
Dog ate your placenta after birth.
Dem no bury am well.

God will deliver you.
You need to Pray.

Are you sure about that?
Superstition

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Latakia(f): 11:07pm On Jan 18

SixSeven:
Please grow up. This is so distasteful. You people should learn where to draw the line between politics and fanaticism.

eeyah but Zombidients doesn't know when to draw the line between politics and fanaticism too. So I advise you to emulate Obi and ignore your wife when she cheat on you.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by SixSeven: 11:34pm On Jan 18

Latakia:
eeyah but Zombidients doesn't know when to draw the line between politics and fanaticism too. So I advise you to emulate Obi and ignore your wife when she cheat on you.

What is the correlation between the topic and any politician huh

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Coolgent(m): 6:42am On Jan 19

KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

Get yourself busy with hustles
Get married
Off and on fasting
Avoid porn
Avoid porn

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by liveyourlife007(m): 8:47am On Jan 19

dtrend:
Are you sure about that?
Superstition

When you born throw the placenta to dogs to consume.
Then U will know if it's superstition or not.

Re: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by Latakia(f): 6:35pm On Jan 20

SixSeven:
What is the correlation between the topic and any politician

the correlation is not to stress yourself and emulate Obi when you caught your wife cheating on you grin

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