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So I have spoken to 4 ladies now. They all don’t pick my calls neither respond to my chats
I give up

Rearealki:
So I have spoken to 4 ladies now. They all don’t pick my calls neither respond to my chats
I give up

. Bro,you should be happy none of them picked your calls or even chatted you back.

After all,they wouldn't have had anything meaning to add to your life in the first place .

Count your gains,and do not see these Generation of Nigerian bannies as loses and move on with your life bro ,cux they don't worth a second of your useful time.

Our girls prefer hooks up so if you are not talking about money you are wasting your time

But it's not easy being a guy... If I was single and I approached four guys who then rejected me in a space of two weeks, I'd have been in a mental institution by now...🤒🤒🤒

Thy are sore loosers
I get one small for y area like 20years old
I don buy this gal shawama
Card of 1k
Yet she felt entitled
Come my house. She no gree
I block am warn am not to ever call me or even greet me.

Another old cargo,I jam her for one super market
She come hug me.i dash am 3k
I called her after 2 weeks
She begin ask who be this
I no stress myself.i block am

I'm not moved by ugly ladies
Beautiful ladies
I'm moved by your actions

Some of them uses hard to get as a tools to take revenge on guys just because of their pass experience, the worst is that they will still fall victim to similar guys that break their hearts since they claimed to be emotional beings

Samantha125:
But it's not easy being a guy... If I was single and I approached four guys who then rejected me in a space of two weeks, I'd have been in a mental institution by now...🤒🤒🤒

More reason we gat balls and not pussies

2cribz:
Thy are sore loosers
I get one small for y area like 20years old
I don buy this gal shawama
Card of 1k
Yet she felt entitled
Come my house. She no gree
I block am warn am not to ever call me or even greet me.

Another old cargo,I jam her for one super market
She come hug me.i dash am 3k
I called her after 2 weeks
She begin ask who be this
I no stress myself.i block am

I'm not moved by ugly ladies
Beautiful ladies
I'm moved by your actions

Stop the trying to impress or win their affection with money.. you just have to be straight up with them. Tell her you saw her and liked her and would like you two gat something going on.. it isn't a crime and she ain't gonna bite. If she accepts win win for you guys if she says no don't bug don't fight no stress just let her go her lose man.. lots of women out there keep the game tight.. one love ❤️

Nope. Tey are below me. She begged 4 transport.
She stays on mu street. Them no be strangers. N me i get pride. I dnt gaf

tydi:
Stop the trying to impress or win their affection with money.. you just have to be straight up with them. Tell her you saw her and liked her and would like you two gat something going on.. it isn't a crime and she ain't gonna bite. If she accepts win win for you guys if she says no don't bug don't fight no stress just let her go her lose man.. lots of women out there keep the game tight.. one love ❤️

That's too easy to give up na.

Give us more context to help you. Ladies no too deep like that.

Besides 4 na very small number. I can go out now and talk to more than 10 ladies today.

Rearealki:
So I have spoken to 4 ladies now. They all don’t pick my calls neither respond to my chats
I give up

Lolz.

Na you be the old cargo sha.

Because why you dey throway money like say you pick am from ground?

Secondly, work on your tolerance level. Ladies doing yanga is how they project themselves as not cheap.

You have to learn to play the game as well. Yes it's annoying but it is what it is.

No lady will just open her legs waaa for you just like that. Learn to build up with conversation.

Continue calling and getting to know her after which it becomes impossible for them to say no to seeing you.

This usually happens after the 3rd or 4th call especially if you keep the conversation interesting.

Length of calls also matter to ladies. They love that feeling of "we talked so long and so much" and begin to mistake it for love.

I usually use this a lot. I keep them on the phone for 10min or even 30min. Yesterday I was on call with one for 18min.

Talking about what? Just goofing around and nonsense to me.

But to her, it meant a lot. This is because most guys can't keep them for that long and secondly, it sets you apart and make her trip.

Honestly, you need to learn to put effort in getting what you want regardless of the irritation.

I lost a lot of my girls especially in 100l because I couldn't understand why I have to do all the effort just to get a girl.

But nowadays, highest money I spend is on my recharge cards. Something that 3k you spend or the shawarma money will easily cover.

2cribz:
Thy are sore loosers
I get one small for y area like 20years old
I don buy this gal shawama
Card of 1k
Yet she felt entitled
Come my house. She no gree
I block am warn am not to ever call me or even greet me.

Another old cargo,I jam her for one super market
She come hug me.i dash am 3k
I called her after 2 weeks
She begin ask who be this
I no stress myself.i block am

I'm not moved by ugly ladies
Beautiful ladies
I'm moved by your actions

Hmmmm hmmmm hmmmm
Shawarma🥙 and 1k card? Like seriously

2cribz:
Thy are sore loosers
I get one small for y area like 20years old
I don buy this gal shawama
Card of 1k
Yet she felt entitled
Come my house. She no gree
I block am warn am not to ever call me or even greet me.

Another old cargo,I jam her for one super market
She come hug me.i dash am 3k
I called her after 2 weeks
She begin ask who be this
I no stress myself.i block am

I'm not moved by ugly ladies
Beautiful ladies
I'm moved by your actions

Ode. U think say i be student like u. U wey yur mama still dey feed

Host78:
Lolz.

Na you be the old cargo sha.

Because why you dey throway money like say you pick am from ground?

Secondly, work on your tolerance level. Ladies doing yanga is how they project themselves as not cheap.

You have to learn to play the game as well. Yes it's annoying but it is what it is.

No lady will just open her legs waaa for you just like that. Learn to build up with conversation.

Continue calling and getting to know her after which it becomes impossible for them to say no to seeing you.

This usually happens after the 3rd or 4th call especially if you keep the conversation interesting.

Length of calls also matter to ladies. They love that feeling of "we talked so long and so much" and begin to mistake it for love.

I usually use this a lot. I keep them on the phone for 10min or even 30min. Yesterday I was on call with one for 18min.

Talking about what? Just goofing around and nonsense to me.

But to her, it meant a lot. This is because most guys can't keep them for that long and secondly, it sets you apart and make her trip.

Honestly, you need to learn to put effort in getting what you want regardless of the irritation.

I lost a lot of my girls especially in 100l because I couldn't understand why I have to do all the effort just to get a girl.

But nowadays, highest money I spend is on my recharge cards. Something that 3k you spend or the shawarma money will easily cover.

Still doesn't change the fact that with all the money you throw around you still getting rejected.

Bend down, stay humble and learn.

2cribz:
Ode. U think say i be student like u. U wey yur mama still dey feed

Host78:
Lolz.

Na you be the old cargo sha.

Because why you dey throway money like say you pick am from ground?

Secondly, work on your tolerance level. Ladies doing yanga is how they project themselves as not cheap.

You have to learn to play the game as well. Yes it's annoying but it is what it is.

No lady will just open her legs waaa for you just like that. Learn to build up with conversation.

Continue calling and getting to know her after which it becomes impossible for them to say no to seeing you.

This usually happens after the 3rd or 4th call especially if you keep the conversation interesting.

Length of calls also matter to ladies. They love that feeling of "we talked so long and so much" and begin to mistake it for love.

I usually use this a lot. I keep them on the phone for 10min or even 30min. Yesterday I was on call with one for 18min.

Talking about what? Just goofing around and nonsense to me.

But to her, it meant a lot. This is because most guys can't keep them for that long and secondly, it sets you apart and make her trip.

Honestly, you need to learn to put effort in getting what you want regardless of the irritation.

I lost a lot of my girls especially in 100l because I couldn't understand why I have to do all the effort just to get a girl.

But nowadays, highest money I spend is on my recharge cards. Something that 3k you spend or the shawarma money will easily cover.

Everything should be mutual, don't waste yourself on mediocre entities.

Baba naija girls no dey look uche face oh, them don dey expensive, na money dey talk now.. money for hand back for ground less yarning.

Host78:
Lolz.

Na you be the old cargo sha.

Because why you dey throway money like say you pick am from ground?

Secondly, work on your tolerance level. Ladies doing yanga is how they project themselves as not cheap.

You have to learn to play the game as well. Yes it's annoying but it is what it is.

No lady will just open her legs waaa for you just like that. Learn to build up with conversation.

Continue calling and getting to know her after which it becomes impossible for them to say no to seeing you.

This usually happens after the 3rd or 4th call especially if you keep the conversation interesting.

Length of calls also matter to ladies. They love that feeling of "we talked so long and so much" and begin to mistake it for love.

I usually use this a lot. I keep them on the phone for 10min or even 30min. Yesterday I was on call with one for 18min.

Talking about what? Just goofing around and nonsense to me.

But to her, it meant a lot. This is because most guys can't keep them for that long and secondly, it sets you apart and make her trip.

Honestly, you need to learn to put effort in getting what you want regardless of the irritation.

I lost a lot of my girls especially in 100l because I couldn't understand why I have to do all the effort just to get a girl.

But nowadays, highest money I spend is on my recharge cards. Something that 3k you spend or the shawarma money will easily cover.

Let's stop lying to ourselves.

Nothing is ever mutual. And just wishing everything to be mutual won't make it mutual.

As far as you approach a girl first, you'll need to provide her with ample reasons why she should date you.

If I'm in my house and you bring market come, you need to work to gain my attention, sell me the market even though the product will benefit me as well.

But at that point I don't know it yet.

So Naso e be with girls. Even though they will end up benefiting more from you, you must sell yourself first

ReacherSaidNoth:
Everything should be mutual, don't waste yourself on mediocre entities.

Dem dey look except you no sabi wetin u dey look for

KingDashx:
Baba naija girls no dey look uche face oh, them don dey expensive, na money dey talk now.. money for hand back for ground less yarning.

Host78:
Let's stop lying to ourselves.

Nothing is ever mutual. And just wishing everything to be mutual won't make it mutual.

As far as you approach a girl first, you'll need to provide her with ample reasons why she should date you.

If I'm in my house and you bring market come, you need to work to gain my attention, sell me the market even though the product will benefit me as well.

But at that point I don't know it yet.

So Naso e be with girls. Even though they will end up benefiting more from you, you must sell yourself first

Putting them on a pedestal like they are some prize to be won is the genesis of the problem. Wanting to form a connection with a woman does not mean you become slavish in behavior.

A woman who admires you like you do her will put in her own effort to match yours if not more. The idea that you have to put pressure of any kind, to sell yourself to her like a job seeker is the sort of rubbish that has inflated their ego and ruined the dating scene.

If you're a content to lose yourself in the pursuit of vaginas, good for you.

One cumrade once said, they no dey fight with woman.

I sat down and thought about that statement. I came to realise that women whether old or young are all the same in terms of emotions. Don't pay attention to their shenanigans.

They act of emotions not logic. And they can gaslight and manipulate. When you catch them doing something, instead to feel remorse to explain well, they will rather start acting defensive, raising their voices and displaying the Jezebel spirit in them.

Never believe anything a woman tells you. They speak from both sides of the mouth. They can't say a word and stick to it.

No one says to put her on a pedestal. I'm saying if you approach me with a deal, you have to prove to me that I need such a deal and that it is beneficial to me as well.

It's the same thing with a woman. When you approach a girl on the street, for her number for instance, you don't expect her to just hand it over to you just like that.

You need to explain why. Same way with sleeping with a girl. You need a reason why she should sleep with you.

It's not putting her on a pedestal. It's showing genuine reason why she should accept to be with you.

Yesterday, she was OK without having you in her life, today she'll be fine as well. Na you approach her and as with any deal, you have the lesser hand and must provide proofs.

And yes, for some, clowning works quite well for them. In fact, there's a reason why funny guys get girls easily.

Sometimes put your sister as a reference. Do you think it's OK for her to just throw herself at a guy simply because he wants her to?

Of course not, you want her to act with dignity, act like she's well trained and see herself as decent.

So why have a problem with other girls simply because you're now the one they must act for?

ReacherSaidNoth:
Putting them on a pedestal like they are some prize to be won is the genesis of the problem. Wanting to form a connection with a woman does not mean you become slavish in behavior.

A woman who admires you like you do her will put in her own effort to match yours if not more. The idea that you have to put pressure of any kind, to sell yourself to her like a job seeker is the sort of rubbish that has inflated their ego and ruined the dating scene.

If you're a content to lose yourself in the pursuit of vaginas, good for you.

Samantha125:
But it's not easy being a guy... If I was single and I approached four guys who then rejected me in a space of two weeks, I'd have been in a mental institution by now...🤒🤒🤒

Rejection is hard but you get used to it as a guy with time...


Girls got it a lot easier. Some ladies have a wide list to pick from and can reject twice that amount in same time frame.


So while a guy is facing rejection a lady might be having a hard time making a decision on the best to pick or even remaining faithful and sticking to the guy she picked!

Rearealki:
So I have spoken to 4 ladies now. They all don’t pick my calls neither respond to my chats
I give up

Stop calling/chatting them without a reason. If you do they will think you are low value.

Ladies rejection literally means they aren't interested in spending your money

so its a Win Win for you

Rearealki:
So I have spoken to 4 ladies now. They all don’t pick my calls neither respond to my chats
I give up

If you like do it 100 times.
if your game is lame, it is lame.

AllBlack:
If you like do it 100 times.
if your game is lame, it is lame.

I admit my game is lame