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Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by RollinTNDA(op):
Women are very stingy creatures.
Women don't even help each other
It is men that actually help women a lot in life.

80% of men are very dull and simps
I don't know if it is a curse on men.

A girl made a post and beg for money that things were hard. She put her opay

From 1200 naira to 250k + in 2 days
People donated money

Now a guy saw this and geniuely did a similar post he ask for office chair of 30k .

Nobody donated till now.

Why is the world so unfair to men.


To make it worse
A Yahoo guy sent a small girl I was wooing 2 million naira and I think they knacked.

My question is
Are men so foolish with money or are women the wisest species of humans.

Because if a woman has 400 million
She won't give money for sex at all

How can I pay someone 2m because of knack ooh. No woman will ever pay a man that much for nack

I'm beginning to think 87% of men are dull
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by MetalJigsaw(m):
My brother, simps are the majority of men. 90% of men would rather help a strange damsel than the man they already know.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by SixSeven: 3:49am On Mar 16
A woman has an unfair advantage over men. That's just how it is. Men need to grind and work hard and protect what they ground. That's how it is. The world will pity women and children first before men. That's unfortunately how the world is and women think it's a lie until they wear men's shoes and see how lonely the other side is. So what they think is entitlement or men's patriarchy or whatever they call it is survival of the fittest in a jungle world.

Men will continue to be seduced by beauty but great men will control their third leg from thinking for them. A man will work so hard to spend money on women.

Young man, the world doesn't care about you. Always work on yourself.

Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by RollinTNDA(op): 4:45am On Mar 16
MetalJigsaw:
My brother, simps are the majority of man. 90% of men would rather help a strange damsel than the man they already know.
reason why I will no longer help any woman.

Let her go meet simps that will give all their money to them.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by RollinTNDA(op): 4:48am On Mar 16
SixSeven:
A woman has an unfair advantage over men. That's just how it is. Men need to grind and work hard and protect what they ground. That's how it is. The world will pity women and children first before men. That's unfortunately how the world is and women think it's a lie until they wear men's shoes and see how lonely the other side is. So what they think is entitlement or men's patriarchy or whatever they call it is survival of the fittest in a jungle world.

Men will continue to be seduced by beauty but great men will control their third leg from thinking for them. A man will work so hard to spend money on women.

Young man, the world doesn't care about you. Always work on yourself.
A very muguliciois boy on Twitter
Said that it us broke guys that always shame other guys fur spending 50k on OS

I told him if his father was to wash all the gutters in their street area.
They still won't pay him UpTo 50k

I exposed how dumb it is to patronize OS 50k for short and come online to brag about it. The boy blocked me

Brooo simps are a disaster to mankind
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by MetalJigsaw(m): 4:49am On Mar 16
RollinTNDA:
reason why I will no longer help any woman.

Let her go meet simps that will give all their money to them.
...However, a good woman deserves kindness.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by RollinTNDA(op): 5:23am On Mar 16
MetalJigsaw:
...However, a good woman deserves kindness.
finding a good woman in this generation is like winning 3000 odds
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Gadafii: 5:28am On Mar 16
As a man you are already in trouble, from birth Dem go first slim fit you dkkk make your mind dey

These same men that life don dey lead like 5 zero are they ones the ones wit the believe that they have to struggle and hustle to be somebody so as to be seen eligible to have a woman, very pathetic mindset and culture the society has upheld for several centuries.


Its only a woman that will have 5k in her opay, and she will have a strong conviction that she will get married next month and doesn't even have to work to earn, after all her husband will take care of her cheesy
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Bahamas95(m): 5:32am On Mar 16
Even if this world comes to an end today and we start all over again there'll still be simps.

Some guys won't buy a bottle of beer for a fellow guy but would spend outrageous amount of money on women...... Honestly some men don't deserve to be given birth to, postinor2 would have saved the world from the embarrassment they cause everyday.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Kevineleven(m): 7:37am On Mar 16
RollinTNDA:
Women are very stingy creatures.
Women don't even help each other
It is men that actually help women a lot in life.

80% of men are very dull and simps
I don't know if it is a curse on men.

A girl made a post and beg for money that things were hard. She put her opay

From 1200 naira to 250k + in 2 days
People donated money

Now a guy saw this and geniuely did a similar post he ask for office chair of 30k .

Nobody donated till now.

Why is the world so unfair to men.


To make it worse
A Yahoo guy sent a small girl I was wooing 2 million naira and I think they knacked.

My question is
Are men so foolish with money or are women the wisest species of humans.

Because if a woman has 400 million
She won't give money for sex at all

How can I pay someone 2m because of knack ooh. No woman will ever pay a man that much for nack

I'm beginning to think 87% of men are dull
Na konji dey cause am
Men are born to crave zex, the older you get, the worse it becomes, as men get older they think women will not find them attractive anymore so they rely on using their money to get women and sex, women on the other hand know this and they use it against us.
Do you know that women can sense when a man is horney even if he is just chilling on his own.
Try semen retention, you will learn unspoken things about women.
Men must learn to control their zexual urge.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Jumbojax(m): 8:20am On Mar 16
Men have been leaking power through lust, thats why women's egos big diee, na her ego be the big god small girl wey she dey talk. A real niggas defence to this dramedy is to not care
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Hypnotise: 9:10am On Mar 16
If a man removes the possibility of having sex with a particular woman completely from his mind, her power over him will drastically reduce. Possibility of sex is thing fooling many men.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Sucre6: 9:28am On Mar 16
Help a woman when she is in need and she will only remember you when a similar need occurs, ungratefullness wan wound them, help a guy in need and he remembers it for the rest of his life,
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 10:00am On Mar 16
Rich single women do pay men for sex.

Some Zimbabwean guys here in SA are actually involved in commercial sex work, I once came across one documentary some years back of Zim guys making their livelihoods from commercial sex work.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by purples25(f): 10:42am On Mar 16
When it comes to help, I honestly noticed the women not helping other women thing, it's really bad, my personal opinion.

But going so far as to wish that no man helps every woman is just odd. There's a relationship between male and female that there isn't between male and male. I think it's better that any spending on women occurs after marriage unless there's strictly no strings attached. But even if there's spending, do you flirt with other men,get other men attracted , or date or have sexual relations with them? Capable of bearing kids for them? Because these are the interactions that enable this money spending you're so against and angry about.

There's an epidemic of men dressing like women or dl(down low) men. It's really starting to look like you really want to be women. It's also looking like jealousy. A lot of men don't like women because of the advantages, forgetting that there are disadvantages too.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by SixSeven: 10:46am On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Rich single women do pay men for sex.

Some Zimbabwean guys here in SA are actually involved in commercial sex work, I once came across one documentary some years back of Zim guys making their livelihoods from commercial sex work.
The average Nigerian man is not trained to be a gigolo. It's a taboo. His fellow men will regard him as weak. They call him woman wrapper. The Nigerian man still wants the respect of conquer. That's how his ego is.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Nobody:
Bahamas95:
Even if this world comes to an end today and we start all over again there'll still be simps.

Some guys won't buy a bottle of beer for a fellow guy but would spend outrageous amount of money on women...... Honestly some men don't deserve to be given birth to, postinor2 would have saved the world from the embarrassment they cause everyday.
I think it's a natural thing.
Check the stress and sacrifice male animals go through just to make the females
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Cum4me(m): 12:13pm On Mar 16
You think they knack grin
After he sent her 2m you think they knack. You think grin
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 12:17pm On Mar 16
But some of your brothers do get married to American and European elderly women for their pension funds, so what's the difference between them and those Zimbabwean commercial sex workers?🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
SixSeven:
The average Nigerian man is not trained to be a gigolo. It's a taboo. His fellow men will regard him as weak. They call him woman wrapper. The Nigerian man still wants the respect of conquer. That's how his ego is.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by SixSeven: 12:24pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
But some of your brothers do get married to American and European elderly women for their pension funds, so what's the difference between them and those Zimbabwean commercial sex workers?🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
Yes. I know about that. It's a sad reality of poverty and lack of opportunities or perhaps, more accurately, GREED and lack of self respect but I'm just telling you how Nigerians view it. There are rich women who pay for sex in Nigeria too. They even now advertise it online. But the average Nigerian will not see such a man as a man. Take note of the word, average. It's not the norm.

The Gen Z are now embracing feminity but Nigerian men are masculine in nature.

Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by franchasng: 12:31pm On Mar 16
Dear op, I understand how you feel....it is normal for you to feel this way when you are still a struggling young man, but as you grow older, you will realize that this is how the world was programmed from creation. Forget all those nonsense gender equality....there can never be gender equality no matter how hard humans try.


Go to all the countries of the world where they are fighting wars, it is men mostly that are at the frontlines fighting to defend their nation and its existence....go to Ukraine, when the war started, men were not allowed to leave Ukraine but women and children were allowed passage...that should tell any reasonable human that there can never be gender equality....what we should be agitating for is fair and just treatment of women as our complement.


The cry of a woman goes farther than the cry of a man.

Even in the animal kingdom, male lion can starve to death to preserve the life of its pride. It has nothing to do with simping or being a simp, its Biology at work, and Biology is bigger than us, we all obey the law of Biology just as things obey the law of gravity on earth.


I am a happily married man, and yes you are absolutely right that women are stingy. Women are born stingy.


Wealth in the hands of a woman is a caged opportunity....but wealth in the hand of a man will benefit the whole world; he will give to his kids, wife, parents, siblings, relatives, lovers, mistresses, male friends, kinsmen, religious leaders, religious brethren/members, schoolmates, foreigners, etc.


But a wealthy woman will only give to her children, parents and a choice sibling......a preferred religious leader or spiritual father....nothing for her husband.....if she ever gives, its almost equal to nothing or equal to what he has given to her.......she never gives to her female friends, never give to her male friends, never give to her boyfriend or lover, never give to her colleagues or schoolmates...never give to her community or kinsmen.....



It is how women are wired....most times you wonder where their income and massive earnings/salaries go to.......they will never build house for their parents (only very few do), they will never build house for their husband or boyfriend or lover or siblings (only very insignificant few do).....they will never embark on community development projects to help the community.....they will never do CSR.....they will never contribute to the development of their birth community even when they become successful and neither will they do it in their husband's community.....everything about them is hidden and a mirage. Their wealth never circulates like wealth in the hand of a man.


I won't blame them, I blame nature....its not their fault.....and this is why I get angry when I see any woman talk about male cheating with seriousness because cheating is a natural fault in majority of men just as being stingy is a natural fault in majority of women!


I don't care what anybody think about my comment..


My advice to the op and other young guys reading is to focus on becoming a quality man in life and you won't be bothered about women's stinginess but will only be wondering why it is so just for fun lol
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by franchasng: 12:35pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
But some of your brothers do get married to American and European elderly women for their pension funds, so what's the difference between them and those Zimbabwean commercial sex workers?🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
You are right but if I tell you what usually happens at the end you will be shocked.


Do you know that at the end after bringing the guys to their developed countries, most of those women end up relying on those guys to work and foot their entire billshuh

Those Nigerian guys are only going after them for the immigration papers not to depend on them for livelihood forever......at soon as they land in those foreign women's developed countries where there are plenty opportunities to work and earn a living, they usually become independent and most end up being the breadwinner....I speak from what I know and have witnessed severally, you can make a research about this.



So its a different thing with women (at least majority) naturally being stingy with their financial possession
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 12:43pm On Mar 16
No average man from anywhere in the world would put himself is such a degrading position, unless he's desperate.
SixSeven:
Yes. I know about that. It's a sad reality of poverty and lack of opportunities or perhaps, more accurately, GREED and lack of self respect but I'm just telling you how Nigerians view it. There are rich women who pay for sex in Nigeria too. They even now advertise it online. But the average Nigerian will not see such a man as a man. Take note of the word, average. It's not the norm.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 12:59pm On Mar 16
Speaking from experience?😃😃😃
franchasng:
You are right but if I tell you what usually happens at the end you will be shocked.


Do you know that at the end after bringing the guys to their developed countries, most of those women end up relying on those guys to work and foot their entire billshuh

Those Nigerian guys are only going after them for the immigration papers not to depend on them for livelihood forever......at soon as they land in those foreign women's developed countries where there are plenty opportunities to work and earn a living, they usually become independent and most end up being the breadwinner....I speak from what I know and have witnessed severally, you can make a research about this.



So its a different thing with women (at least majority) naturally being stingy with their financial possession
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by franchasng: 1:05pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Speaking from experience?😃😃😃
Lol, I am married to a Nigerian lady na....and I didn't marry broke, I was doing well financially to a good level before I got married grin


But I have a cousin that married a white lady that took him abroad and he ended up becoming the breadwinner till today lol. He also tells me that there are many of such scenarios cheesy
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by SixSeven: 1:16pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
No average man from anywhere in the world would put himself is such a degrading position, unless he's desperate.
But some men are okay with it, aren't they? Most of what I see non-Nigerian women admire Nigerian men are what makes a man. That standard is what will make it difficult for Nigerian women to date other men except she's willing to accept a weak man in the house. Today, people are posting on the internet that a man should take 100% of the bills, to the Nigerian man, he's prepared for that. Unfortunately, this has also made the women entitled so foreign women who have never seen a man step up that much and not run away from his responsibilities are awed by a leader, not a help mate. There's a difference. Nigerian men believe in leadership, especially in the home. It gives him purpose. Funnily enough, my profile picture has something related to this.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7507026641223175466

grin grin grin grin

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7495085568687131946
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:20pm On Mar 16
Men are mumu from earth creation. Just imagined, a woman that was created from your ribs convince you (Man) to eat forbidden fruit and man complies
RollinTNDA:
Women are very stingy creatures.
Women don't even help each other
It is men that actually help women a lot in life.

80% of men are very dull and simps
I don't know if it is a curse on men.

A girl made a post and beg for money that things were hard. She put her opay

From 1200 naira to 250k + in 2 days
People donated money

Now a guy saw this and geniuely did a similar post he ask for office chair of 30k .

Nobody donated till now.

Why is the world so unfair to men.


To make it worse
A Yahoo guy sent a small girl I was wooing 2 million naira and I think they knacked.

My question is
Are men so foolish with money or are women the wisest species of humans.

Because if a woman has 400 million
She won't give money for sex at all

How can I pay someone 2m because of knack ooh. No woman will ever pay a man that much for nack

I'm beginning to think 87% of men are dull
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 1:42pm On Mar 16
But their marriage is still based on deception as he's only in it for his own personal interests, and what is it that you've seen him doing as proof that he's now the breadwinner?

Because if he can deceive the old lady into becoming his wife, then he can surely still deceive you too into believing his lies.
franchasng:
Lol, I am married to a Nigerian lady na....and I didn't marry broke, I was doing well financially to a good level before I got married grin


But I have a cousin that married a white lady that took him abroad and he ended up becoming the breadwinner till today lol. He also tells me that there are many of such scenarios cheesy
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 1:57pm On Mar 16
But Nigerian women do get married to other nationalities, the only difference is that they're not noise makers like you guys...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
SixSeven:
But some men are okay with it, aren't they? Most of what I see non-Nigerian women admire Nigerian men are what makes a man. [b]That standard is what will make it difficult for Nigerian women to date other men [/b]except she's willing to accept a weak man in the house. Today, people are posting on the internet that a man should take 100% of the bills, to the Nigerian man, he's prepared for that. Unfortunately, this has also made the women entitled so foreign women who have never seen a man step up that much and not run away from his responsibilities are awed by a leader, not a help mate. There's a difference. Nigerian men believe in leadership, especially in the home. It gives him purpose. Funnily enough, my profile picture has something related to this.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7507026641223175466

grin grin grin grin

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7495085568687131946
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by SixSeven: 2:05pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
But Nigerian women do get married to other nationalities, the only difference is that they're not noise makers like you guys...🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
Who are you guyshuh
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