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Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by fyneboi79(m): 2:10pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Rich single women do pay men for sex.

Some Zimbabwean guys here in SA are actually involved in commercial sex work, I once came across one documentary some years back of Zim guys making their livelihoods from commercial sex work.
So you do sex work too? Ah! Only you one?
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by tanigororo: 2:13pm On Mar 16
Brutal Destiny the Male Gender has
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 2:14pm On Mar 16
Some noise making terrestrial beings...😒😒😒
SixSeven:
Who are you guyshuh
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 2:29pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Some noise making terrestrial beings...😒😒😒

Come here you lady!

I'll report you to your dad angry
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 2:34pm On Mar 16
Kevineleven:
Na konji dey cause am
Men are born to crave zex, the older you get, the worse it becomes, as men get older they think women will not find them attractive anymore so they rely on using their money to get women and sex, women on the other hand know this and they use it against us.
Do you know that women can sense when a man is horney even if he is just chilling on his own.
Try semen retention, you will learn unspoken things about women.
Men must learn to control their zexual urge.

How

Na by bluetooth conection?

So as i de my house - Beeches know im h-orny rn

how? grin
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Kevineleven(m): 2:46pm On Mar 16
190:

How

Na by bluetooth conection?

So as i de my house - Beeches know im h-orny rn

how? grin
When one comes around, she will pick up that energy.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 2:48pm On Mar 16
Kevineleven:
When one comes around, she will pick up that energy.

wait comes around you

how do they realise you need knacks lipsrsealed
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by franchasng: 3:04pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
But their marriage is still based on deception as he's only in it for his own personal interests, and what is it that you've seen him doing as proof that he's now the breadwinner?

Because if he can deceive the old lady into becoming his wife, then he can surely still deceive you too into believing his lies.
No no, he is truly the breadwinner.


Most Nigerian men enjoy being breadwinners of their family except they are financially handicapped. So most times when they relocate abroad where there are opportunities to work and earn, they want to assume their natural position as the breadwinner of their family. Only very insignificant number of Nigerian men hate to be the breadwinner, most desire it and once they are financially buoyant, they take up that role with joy.



If you test a home bred Nigerian man, you will despise South African men for real, that's why men from many countries don't like Nigerian men aside crime related issues with some Nigerian guys cheesy
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by YeePeyHaa: 3:34pm On Mar 16
Use a fake pic of a woman or girl to open a Facebook account and you will see the power of to.to!












They will atomic bomb your account like "shey I advertise nii?"












All my gender on social media now are "female"
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 3:47pm On Mar 16
Must you guys always see the need to be comparing yourselves with SA men though? Honestly this is now becoming boring... 🤦🤦🤦... Some Nigerian ladies are also married to other nationalities, but you'll never see them grandstanding about it..
🤦🤦🤦
franchasng:
No no, he is truly the breadwinner.


Most Nigerian men enjoy being breadwinners of their family except they are financially handicapped. So most times when they relocate abroad where there are opportunities to work and earn, they want to assume their natural position as the breadwinner of their family. Only very insignificant number of Nigerian men hate to be the breadwinner, most desire it and once they are financially buoyant, they take up that role with joy.



If you test a home bred Nigerian man, you will despise South African men for real, that's why men from many countries don't like Nigerian men aside crime related issues with some Nigerian guys cheesy
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 3:49pm On Mar 16
My father already knows that he has a crazy daughter, so go ahead... grin grin grin
190:

Come here you lady!

I'll report you to your dad angry
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 4:05pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
My father already knows that he has a crazy daughter, so go ahead... grin grin grin

Really?

I'll speak to your mom about how your actions got me bothered lately angry

I was gonna marry you before but now i have to rethink it angry
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 4:10pm On Mar 16
Be my guest...😃😃😃
190:

Really?

I'll speak to your mom about how your actions got me bothered lately angry

I was gonna marry you before but now i have to rethink it angry
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 4:36pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Be my guest...😃😃😃
can i DM you with my number?
lets talk
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 4:52pm On Mar 16
Unfortunately for you, I don't accept DMs.

What does a man old enough to be my father wants to talk about in private?🤔🤔🤔

You know, I was still a primary School pupil by the time you joined nairaland.
190:
can i DM you with my number?
lets talk
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by kiddaz: 6:16pm On Mar 16
SixSeven:
A woman has an unfair advantage over men. That's just how it is. Men need to grind and work hard and protect what they ground. That's how it is. The world will pity women and children first before men. That's unfortunately how the world is and women think it's a lie until they wear men's shoes and see how lonely the other side is. So what they think is entitlement or men's patriarchy or whatever they call it is survival of the fittest in a jungle world.

Men will continue to be seduced by beauty but great men will control their third leg from thinking for them. A man will work so hard to spend money on women.

Young man, the world doesn't care about you. Always work on yourself.
Very correct and that Alpha Men's Empire's quote is nothing but the "Holy Truth"

Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by kiddaz: 6:18pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Unfortunately for you, I don't accept DMs.

What does a man old enough to be my father wants to talk about in private?🤔🤔🤔

You know, I was still a primary School pupil by the time you joined nairaland
It doesn't mean anything. You are old enough and wise enough, if not even wiser than him in those ways undecided
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Gerrard59(m): 6:35pm On Mar 16
RollinTNDA:
A very muguliciois boy on Twitter
Said that it us broke guys that always shame other guys fur spending 50k on OS

I told him if his father was to wash all the gutters in their street area.
They still won't pay him UpTo 50k


I exposed how dumb it is to patronize OS 50k for short and come online to brag about it. The boy blocked me

Brooo simps are a disaster to mankind
Una get mouth o grin grin



Regarding the 2m by a yahoo boy given to a girl, I try not to dictate how much a man spends on a woman, but focus more on how that man makes his money. In this case, illegal funds and this has distorted the nature of our female folks. So, the blame is largely on our men.

The focus as a young man should be on his finances, nothing else, because in the near future, he would be measured by his finances not whether he believes spending more or less on a random woman is wrong. The good thing is: with your finances, you can get women elsewhere, especially from places where illegal money isn't well established or praised.

Just know that women are largely the same everywhere, ditto men.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Samantha125(f): 6:42pm On Mar 16
Nope, I'm not wise enough... I'm still very childish and immatured.
kiddaz:
It doesn't mean anything. You are old enough and wise enough, if not even wiser than him in those ways undecided
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Gerrard59(m): 6:50pm On Mar 16
franchasng:
Dear op, I understand how you feel....it is normal for you to feel this way when you are still a struggling young man, but as you grow older, you will realize that this is how the world was programmed from creation. Forget all those nonsense gender equality....there can never be gender equality no matter how hard humans try.


Go to all the countries of the world where they are fighting wars, it is men mostly that are at the frontlines fighting to defend their nation and its existence....go to Ukraine, when the war started, men were not allowed to leave Ukraine but women and children were allowed passage...that should tell any reasonable human that there can never be gender equality....what we should be agitating for is fair and just treatment of women as our complement.


The cry of a woman goes farther than the cry of a man.

Even in the animal kingdom, male lion can starve to death to preserve the life of its pride. It has nothing to do with simping or being a simp, its Biology at work, and Biology is bigger than us, we all obey the law of Biology just as things obey the law of gravity on earth.


I am a happily married man, and yes you are absolutely right that women are stingy. Women are born stingy.


Wealth in the hands of a woman is a caged opportunity....but wealth in the hand of a man will benefit the whole world; he will give to his kids, wife, parents, siblings, relatives, lovers, mistresses, male friends, kinsmen, religious leaders, religious brethren/members, schoolmates, foreigners, etc.


But a wealthy woman will only give to her children, parents and a choice sibling......a preferred religious leader or spiritual father....nothing for her husband.....if she ever gives, its almost equal to nothing or equal to what he has given to her.......she never gives to her female friends, never give to her male friends, never give to her boyfriend or lover, never give to her colleagues or schoolmates...never give to her community or kinsmen.....

I don't care what anybody think about my comment..
Everything you outlined here is true and it reflects in the fertility rates in ALL developed countries aside from Israel. When women earn as equal as men, they don't see the need for marriage or having children. Married families spend more money in the economy than single people. An economy needs more married homes for consistent growth.

I won't blame them, I blame nature....its not their fault.....and this is why I get angry when I see any woman talk about male cheating with seriousness because cheating is a natural fault in majority of men just as being stingy is a natural fault in majority of women!
It was before I took the cheating of married men very seriously, but not anymore considering most married women deliberately don't like sex and deny their HUSBANDS sex with their favourite arrogant question: "Is sex food"?

In my books, it's not "cheating", but exploration. ExxonMobil drills crude in Guyana and Namibia. ExxonMobil isn't cheating both countries, but just fulfilling its duties, aka ejaculation where acceptable.

Shikina!

It is how women are wired....most times you wonder where their income and massive earnings/salaries go to.......they will never build house for their parents (only very few do), they will never build house for their husband or boyfriend or lover or siblings (only very insignificant few do).....they will never embark on community development projects to help the community.....they will never do CSR.....they will never contribute to the development of their birth community even when they become successful and neither will they do it in their husband's community.....everything about them is hidden and a mirage. Their wealth never circulates like wealth in the hand of a man.
Men do these things way more than women even with almost gender parity in most industries. Women just save, save and save. So, what do you use the money for? You cannot just accumulating so much money and refuse to spend it. I see it with my mom. Spend this money, you have so much of it. You have money, more than I do, why ask me for money? Why not spend your money?

I came across TwitterNG a young lady's PiggyVest account balance - 12m naira. The Fintech company released a survey which showed that women are its biggest users than men. Many young men don't have 12m sitting pretty - no intended use - in PiggyVest. PiggyVest o, not a standard bank account. If you ask the same woman for money, she will tell you she doesn't have money. So, what's the 12m naira for? Explain like I am five.

My advice to the op and other young guys reading is to focus on becoming a quality man in life and you won't be bothered about women's stinginess but will only be wondering why it is so just for fun lol
Exactly! Make your money and spend it FIRST on yourself satisfactorily, before anyone else. There are so many economic opportunities today for women than in the '70s,' 80s or even '90s. So, no excuse for a woman not to make her own money and spend it on herself without waiting for a man. Most importantly, any woman who says she likes you must be willing to spend it on you as her man. Failure to do so WILLINGLY shows she doesn't like you.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by kiddaz: 7:25pm On Mar 16
Samantha125:
Nope, I'm not wise enough... I'm still very childish and immatured
Indeed grin
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by DeclanR(m): 9:38pm On Mar 16
kiddaz:
Indeed grin
Check mail
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by RollinTNDA(op): 11:22pm On Mar 16
grin grin grin grin grin cheesy

The thing shock me.
Na wifi Bluetooth connection
190:

How

Na by bluetooth conection?

So as i de my house - Beeches know im h-orny rn

how? grin
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by spiceadole(f): 2:26am On Mar 17
Instead of a man to spend my money, I rather go to jail.
God forbid ooooh
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Manculated: 10:01am On Mar 17
grin grin grin

The irredeemable seeemps called men watching you lament right now😂

Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by olioxx(m): 10:02am On Mar 17
spiceadole:
Instead of a man to spend my money, I rather go to jail.
God forbid ooooh
I hear this a lot, even though your gender will say, "If you spend on a man, he will relax and bla bla bla", but you lot are willing to accept from a man.

One thing I have come to know about women is women see men as work machine that is dispensible when not useful, women are stingy and consumerist, they spend more money than men, women withhold sex for manipulative purposes, women arent thinking about men the way men are thinking about women.

Now knowing this, I plead with every man reading this to please be stingy with your resources, rarely help women who wouldn't do same for you when your chips are down.

I must confess that even I blame and critic men for cheating, but now, I dont blame again. I blame and critic men for marrying multiple women, but now it is very needed to prevent oneitis.

As I am like this, all my disposable income will be spent on myself, my dad, then my mum and my blood children.

Women are callous, men needs to be.

Women have mastered the art of suppressing loving emotions, they have mastered the art of suppressing sexual needs all for MANIPULATION.

Aje nah Me First e go be henceforth. I am not even arguing with anybody, but MEN PUT YOURSELF FIRST, YOUR RESOURCES MUST BE SPENT ON YOURSELF AND YOUR BLOODLINE. That is the mantra for 2026 and henceforth.

Same women that wouldn't help themselves financially. Women only support themselves to promote their manipulative shenenigans, but when it comes to the other womans benefit, they are callous.

I have understand women to that extent, and I thank God and God bless Esther Vilar, you opened my minds.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Manculated:
As a Nigerian guy or man, most especially those born into poor and average backgrounds.

The very day you wake up to realize that the WAAR of LIFE, most especially in Nigeria is between you and your fellow men, will be the very day you start truly living.

Ladies and Women knows these things so well thus using it to their full advantage.

Personally, i rarely render help to humans nowadays wether man or woman, but i'm more hostile towards women because i have learnt my lesson in the past so well😂
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Manculated: 10:18am On Mar 17
olioxx:
I have understand women to that extent, and I thank God and God bless Esther Vilar, you opened my minds.
I didn't even need to read anybody's book to know about Women. I knew about Women because I GREW UP among Women😂

Plus I have always had this Manly Traits right from when I was young. So in summary, my own na Follow Come😂

The funny thing is I always promise to check out Esther Vilar works but it always skip my mind. I will check it out someday.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by olioxx(m):
Manculated:
I didn't even need to read anybody's book to know about Women. I knew about Women because I GREW UP among Women😂

Plus I have always had this Manly Traits right from when I was young. So in summary, my own na Follow Come😂

The funny thing is I always promise to check out Esther Vilar works but it always skip my mind. I will check it out someday.
Bruhhh!! See there are some truths you discovered that will make you live life calmly without stress and argument.
Till tomorrow I keep asking how Esther was able to succintly write that book in the early 1970s and the truth is still valid till today.

See ehn if I born boy tomorrow, from age 10 my son(s) must understand what I understood in my 20s about women. Its not even about hating women, it's just about evading their manipulative tactics that they(women) have MASTERED for long time.

Same here I also have this trait of not giving a f**k and maybe I just didnt see need to chase women cause I lived with women for a long time, maybe when i lived with my uncle was when I started having time for women cause my uncle nah flex man grin grin

SixSeven:
You should read The Polygamous Sex too. Another book that will blow your mind.
I am reading that this weekend. Esther cooked in her books. I wished more men can just read her books.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by Manculated: 11:05am On Mar 17
olioxx:
Bruhhh!! See there are some truths you discovered that will make you live life calmly without stress and argument.
Till tomorrow I keep asking how Esther was able to succintly write that book in the early 1970s and the truth is still valid till today.

See ehn if I born boy tomorrow, from age 10 my son(s) must understand what I understood in my 20s about women. Its not even about hating women, it's just about evading their manipulative tactics that they(women) have MASTERED for long time.

Same here I also have this trait of not giving a f**k and maybe I just didnt see need to chase women cause I lived with women for a long time, maybe when i lived with my uncle was when I started having time for women cause my uncle nah flex man grin grin
My comrade, I'm glad you are gamed too.

The system have been in place since time immemorial. It will only get worse.

That one is certain, I no go born muumu offsprings most especially my sons. They must have my DNA 100%.

Women matters are walk over for me. Most of them will always avoid you immediately they sense you aren't plugged to the matrix. Some of them would even help you inform their friends about you😂

Nigeriaa has the highest set of seempsons men in the world and it's very unfortunate.
Re: Why I Don't Help Women Anymore by 190: 11:18am On Mar 17
Samantha125:
Unfortunately for you, I don't accept DMs.

What does a man old enough to be my father wants to talk about in private?🤔🤔🤔

You know, I was still a primary School pupil by the time you joined nairaland.

I Was only 4yrs of age when i joined NL

Com'on sweetheart lets talk. I'll buy you watermelon undecided
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