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Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:07pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
This is very interesting to read
Yeah bro. I didn't marry any of the girls i did shi with.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:09pm On May 04
Negroid001:
Yeah bro. I didn't marry any of the girls i did shi with.
That doesnt mean that your wife is any any better than "the women you did "shii" with"

Just letting you know in case you erroneously think otherwise
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Ovieemmanuel: 12:11pm On May 04
Mrchippychappy:
Una country is in the worse state its ever been in, even the civil war era, Nigeria wasn't this bad but na irrelevant matter like a woman's viriginity dey bother una. Truly u deserve the leaders u get.
i tire for this kind of people oooooo. Abi dem be AI?
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by EmmyMaestro(m): 12:12pm On May 04
eepeepook:
If virginity is a man’s priority, he will learn to ask about it. If it isn’t, life continues. In this day and age that every woman claims she was raped as her first experience, I have no advice for men.
Those ones will talk like that because their first experience was not sweet

grin
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by BigCowHornn:
Powerbandooo:
Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense
You misunderstand the topic. Virgin. Or not doesn't guarantee no cheating in marriage

The golden thing is virgins don't have the added burden or temptation of past ecperiemcr to drive their craving


Until you as a normal man with an aversge size penis gets married to a woman who is used to big dicks and three.some in her past you won't understand this topic

But your eyes will clear well when discover you lovely wife with 3 kids has been busy collectimg big dick from her ex every Saturday even she seems uninterested in having sex with you

All those girls you see that lie down like dead body when you are having sex with them trust me you don't reach what the hell collected in the past that is why they are not moved by your love making.

The fear of old asha.wo is the begining of wisdom as a man. It has consequences fool yourself at your expense
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:13pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
That doesnt mean that your wife is any any better than "the women you did "shii" with"

Just letting you know in case you erroneously think otherwise
Dey play. Who is best fit to tell you about women, with all the nonsense wey i don do?
E just be like the way Olo**** dey always settle down for pastor.

Nobody is perfect, I ain't going to persuade you to see thing s the way i do, if you like, go marry condemned good.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:14pm On May 04
marcusverum:
You just proved my point without realising it.
You said it yourself, she has the craving but does not have the mind to act on it. That restraint is exactly what I am talking about. A woman with no history has no reference point for that craving. She does not know what she is missing. The woman with history knows exactly what she is missing and one day the opportunity will not just trigger, it will win.

You are not arguing against virginity. You are arguing for why experience makes temptation harder to resist. That is my entire point.

A woman with no comparison has nothing to compare you to. That is not nothing. That is everything.
If e reach your turn. Buy car with high mileage.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:15pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
That doesnt mean that your wife is any any better than "the women you did "shii" with"

Just letting you know in case you erroneously think otherwise
Check my previous thread. I unboxed a handful before i picked her
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by engagingworld: 12:17pm On May 04
Powerbandooo:
Once a woman is virgin, so she can't cheat in marriage, you never see stubborn virgin wey go choke you till depression for marriage,
Once a woman is taste sex, craving go come from another person, once he is tired of you in marriage, but Dem no get mind do am, if opportunity trigger, you go know sey wetin you write up there na nonsense
If your story is true, that is the exception and not the rule. Please stop supporting bad thing.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:18pm On May 04
Negroid001:
Check my previous thread. I unboxed a handful before i picked her
Doesn't still invalidate what I said
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:21pm On May 04
Negroid001:
Dey play. Who is best fit to tell you about women, with all the nonsense wey i don do?
E just be like the way Olo**** dey always settle down for pastor.

Nobody is perfect, I ain't going to persuade you to see thing s the way i do, if you like, go marry condemned good.
"condemned goods"

"all the nonsense I don do"

This man is funny

First of all, I have been with enough women to know women, but unlike you, I will NEVER call my ex coitus partners "condemned goods" because women are wayyy more than their body parts

If anything, those women are lucky NOT to be in a long term relationship with a man who thinks like you

See apari head like "condemned goods"
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:21pm On May 04
engagingworld:
If your story is true, that is the exception and not the rule. Please stop supporting bad thing.
and what is the "bad thing " here ?
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:24pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
"condemned goods"

"all the nonsense I don do"

This man is funny

First of all, I have been with enough women to know women, but unlike you, I will NEVER call my ex coitus partners "condemned goods" because women are wayyy more than their body parts

If anything, those women are lucky NOT to be in a long term relationship with a man who thinks like you

See apari head like "condemned goods"
Ok ooo. Dem no dey tell person.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by engagingworld: 12:25pm On May 04
lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!
The extent of immorality in this generation is appalling. Virginity is a basic requirement for marriage. Marriage is for disciplined people. That is why there is high rate of divorce these days, because people have relegated sound moral behaviors to the background.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:25pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
Doesn't still invalidate what I said
Different strokes for different folks. Do what pleases you
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by engagingworld: 12:26pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
and what is the "bad thing " here ?
Keep playing dumb. Guilty concience.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by engagingworld: 12:33pm On May 04
erad:
Virginity has never, and will never determine the happiness in, and strength of a relationship.

Lots of divorces happen with virgins... Why? They thought being a virgin was the only requirement and never got to build themselves character-wise or learn to be useful to others.
That's not true. How many of them have you met. You are generalizing. Your reasoning is called falacy of generalization. How did you arrive at that conclusion. Do you have the resources to conduct a survey all over the world or what? Be honest.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:39pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
"condemned goods"

"all the nonsense I don do"

This man is funny

First of all, I have been with enough women to know women, but unlike you, I will NEVER call my ex coitus partners "condemned goods" because women are wayyy more than their body parts

If anything, those women are lucky NOT to be in a long term relationship with a man who thinks like you

See apari head like "condemned goods"
Ok oo. Perfect Simp. You're every retired Olo*** dream guy.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:41pm On May 04
engagingworld:
The extent of immorality in this generation is appalling. Virginity is a basic requirement for marriage. Marriage is for disciplined people. That is why there is high rate of divorce these days, because people have relegated sound moral behaviors to the background.
One dude here dey drag me because i said i married a virgin despite all the nonsense I've done.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by BarrElChapo(m): 12:44pm On May 04
SixSeven:
Repost👇

Your value is in your virginity, believe it or not. Or your purity, you require higher standards than men. Don't let men get into your pants anyhow, men are opportunists, protect yourself.

You are not sure of a man's intention until he has you.

Education is your best investment. E get whu

Character is beauty. Men will eventually get tired of the boobs and ass. They always claim they want peace. Peace comes from feminity not masculinity.

The more you act like a man, you make a man take the back seat. Never help a man too much, you will kill his hunting spirit.
A woman is a man who doesn't have to be a man. A man is a woman who is not allowed to be a woman.

Be careful about the man who you let into your body. Ask yourself, will I like to have a baby like him?

Before you make decisions about men, ask another trusted man that doesn't want anything from you. They can separate logic from emotions. A kind man is better than a good man and a good man is better than a bad boy and a bad boy is better than a manipulator.



Assume that your fellow woman doesn't have the best interest in you as she always wants your downfall or wants you to be in the same level with her but on the other hand, men are not your best friends grin Women tend to groupthink and FOMO

What is the difference between a kind man and a good man from the article you wrote or copy pasted ?
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:44pm On May 04
Negroid001:
Ok oo. Perfect Simp. You're every retired Olo*** dream guy.
Simp is a word used by kids
And apparently, you are a kid from the comments you have made so far
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:44pm On May 04
engagingworld:
Keep playing dumb. Guilty concience.
huh huh huh
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:45pm On May 04
Negroid001:
Ok ooo. Dem no dey tell person.
Aii
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by lezz(m): 12:45pm On May 04
marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?
olo. Osho and their defenders will be very vexed at this post for its brutal truth.

Girls who have been penilely destroyed and men in love with leftovers will die defending and denying the truth about women with horrible past.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by erad(m): 12:45pm On May 04
engagingworld:
That's not true. How many of them have you met. You are generalizing. Your reasoning is called falacy of generalization. How did you arrive at that conclusion. Do you have the resources to conduct a survey all over the world or what? Be honest.
Maybe you should talk more with divorce lawyers before trying to get all academic with me.

You don't have to accept what I said as fact and I don't expect you to accept it as fact, that's why you have resources to conduct your own independent research.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:46pm On May 04
engagingworld:
The extent of immorality in this generation is appalling. Virginity is a basic requirement for marriage. Marriage is for disciplined people. That is why there is high rate of divorce these days, because people have relegated sound moral behaviors to the background.
So is it not the men who will enforce the "morality" by not chasing about girls upandan

You have forgotten that it takes two parties to knack and for the spate of immorality to reduce, it takes efforts from both sides
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Negroid001(m): 12:46pm On May 04
RodgersAkpafu:
Simp is a word used by kids
And apparently, you are a kid from the comments you have made so far
I have many i too sabi people like you. You go cry. And i no go dey there.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by lezz(m): 12:48pm On May 04
Mrchippychappy:
Una country is in the worse state its ever been in, even the civil war era, Nigeria wasn't this bad but na irrelevant matter like a woman's viriginity dey bother una. Truly u deserve the leaders u get.
women are the foundation of society everywhere. A promiscuous woman will destroy a good man and all his efforts.

A sound society starts with a good mother and girls with long body count don't make the cut.

I didn't my know how you term virginity and women virtue irrelevant.

Could be it's personal to you.
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by RodgersAkpafu: 12:48pm On May 04
lezz:
olo. Osho and their defenders will be very vexed at this post for its brutal truth.

Girls who have been penilely destroyed and men in love with leftovers will die defending and denying the truth about women with horrible past.
How is having a number of sexxx partners in the past a "horrible past"?

"Penilely destroyed"
Only a blunt pencil will think an organ that a human head passes through can be "destroyed penilely"

"left overs"
What does that even mean?

Man kids of these days are even more misogynistic than when I was growing up decades ago.

Well, make una continue sha
Re: The Virginity Question - A Truth Most Men Are Afraid To Discuss by Okoroemekah: 12:48pm On May 04
marcusverum:
When a woman marries as a virgin it benefits both her and her husband.

She has no comparison. She has no craving rooted in memory. Her loyalty is not divided by experience.

As a man you have a choice. You can seek a woman you can build with from a clean foundation. Or you can seek a woman who comes with history and start wondering why peace is hard to find at home.

This is not about judging women. It is about understanding what you are choosing and accepting the full weight of that choice. There is no neutral ground. Every decision has a consequence.

It is supposed to be value in exchange for value. Aura for aura.

Does a woman's past affect her ability to be a loyal wife?
you are letting your emotions and sentiments befuddled the reality.marrying a virgin is not a guarantee of good behaviour. I will be 51 years this year and has been married for 26 years and believe me I have seen a lot of crazy and weird women in my despicable years.many factors determine if a woman remains a virgin till 20 yrs which no 1 is hereditary and gene.a cheating woman will always born a cheating daughter. No 2 is environment and. No 3 parental upbringing .i have a close friend that married a virgin in 1997 but she later became the community spermm dump.my cousin married a virgin in 2013 and took her and their 3 children to UK in 2022.he remained faithful to his wife for 12 years but the serial cheating wife left him for another man this year.my farm staff also married a virgin whom confided in me that she wants me to impregnate her.so much for virginity
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