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Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by PlasmaTV: 2:19pm On May 05
How old are you? 🤔
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Valclint(m): 2:23pm On May 05
Keep trying, one day she go gree 😀😀😀
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by BigSaint1914: 2:24pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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You ready?
Mumu man
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by fitinwell: 2:26pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Just be responsible and show commitment...

Commitment means visit her parents ask for her dowry and pay up. Then she will respect and love you more..

Then u can explore her ,veejay with her blessings.
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Offpoint1: 2:31pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Instead of you to take her or persuade for medical test to check STDs status... Na knack be your mission.

Do you even know your both genotype?
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Jayrow08: 2:36pm On May 05
Otilo
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by bentenny(m): 2:39pm On May 05
kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST
If she actually allowed you do the highlighted it means she is sexually into you but what I don't understand is why una never knack?
maybe just maybe you dey slack!
I might be wrong!
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Bahamas95(m): 2:42pm On May 05
Honestly I don't understand. undecided



How can you say you've kissed a girl, cuddled her and even visited her milk factory and still having problem shifting her pant? You must be a novice......After doing all that she'll even be the one to beg you to insert your rod if you know what you're doing.

You're a disgrace to the brotherhood.

Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Starhearts: 2:46pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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U re not a MAN enough ...

Sooner or later u will blame urself, for letting a free fish 🐟 to swim away ...

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Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by eepeepook: 2:49pm On May 05
I can’t frustrate myself with any idiot female. If I ever get in this situation again (impossible since my 20s was more than a decade ago), I will:

1. Give her intimacy so good that she will lose guard one day and complete the deed. If you guys kiss and she allows you suck her tips, she’s enjoying it. Lengthen the time you spend on performing these acts and she will submit. I would have “tongued her out” on our third attempt. I must penetrate those thighs with something.

2. Find another female willing to go through the parts she isn’t giving you. You may eventually lose interest and replace her with the new catch. If you don’t want to go through the hassle, start paying oloshos. I remember men doing so during university years. They were dating very beautiful women who never satisfied all their needs. They couldn’t cut the women off because having them around was a status boost when viewed by other men.

3. Exercise while wearing boxers. That works for me all the time — even with females I do not like. Something about perspiring from press-ups while the sweat flows from your chest to your boxers raises those tips and get her ready for action.

heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by AllBlack: 3:01pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.
nice guys finish LAST.

just wasting that poor girls time
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by 198800Mam(m): 3:03pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Do go pay bride price oooo no free food anywhere
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by gigabyte13: 3:26pm On May 05
Respectful keh
Wey you don suck breast already
Confused adult children.
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Doctorova(m): 3:26pm On May 05
Give your life to Christ
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by heartbraker(op): 3:29pm On May 05
PlasmaTV:
How old are you? 🤔
30 BRO
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by heartbraker(op): 3:29pm On May 05
But UNA they mad for this nairaland no single legit advice
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Nduka172: 3:29pm On May 05
It's a barrier bro you'll scale just improve your oratory skills and body language understanding with the opposite sex ( it'll improve bonding)because in bedmatics no can mean mean yes
Sometimes so she doesn't seem cheap if u get
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by heartbraker(op): 3:33pm On May 05
Nduka172:
It's a barrier bro you'll scale just improve your oratory skills and body language understanding with the opposite sex ( it'll improve bonding)because in bedmatics no can mean mean yes
Sometimes so she doesn't seem cheap if u get
i will not rape her naa, bro i tried forcing things
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by QuinQQ: 3:54pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).
So why do you have "suck breast" in capitals? Just wondering
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Solofresh2: 4:03pm On May 05
shadrach77:
The girl may be shy. Have you made a move to f-ck her or you are expecting her to make the first move? How did you arrive at your conclusion that things are not progressing? Make a move. Her reaction will tell you her real intentions
But she no dey shy when he they suck bobbi 😏
Dey play
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by oloshun(m): 4:28pm On May 05
UkoAnnang:
cheesy

Nairaland admission da smoke Igbo these days
You are right. I don’t understand anymore
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by jubrilELsudan: 4:28pm On May 05
YOU DEY FEAR TO FOK?....ABI YOU BE VIRGIN?

Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by ayo2008: 4:41pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Yiu are already in the ocean of fornication.
Fkee formication before the ocean sweep you away.
Sin may be sweat on the surface but the consequences is disastrous.
Repent and embrace Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour. Shalom!
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Deximuz84: 4:42pm On May 05
You have done all these and you haven't done ithuh Leave her pls, you're not man enough
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by Panda7(m): 5:01pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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How do you convince a girl to come to your house? What do you promise her?
It's been real I Bleep a normal girl, all wants marriage promise and real love.
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by femi4: 5:18pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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You have to prepare her mind with the right words. Bombard her with messages n voice notes either early in the morning or late at night

To sleep with her, start from her mind. Start working with her mind romantically, eventually in weeks, you will have a soft landing
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by MONEY247: 6:43pm On May 05
Tinubu may come for you
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by themanderon: 7:34pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Flee fornication and youthful lists.
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by fynex(m): 7:36pm On May 05
heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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Flee...stop what you are doing, abstain from immorality....
Re: Confused About This Girl I’ve Been Seeing by nattyGENT: 7:39pm On May 05
You better give your life to Christ because if you advance from that your present level of fornication you may be doomed for ever. God is warning you ⚠️
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