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There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Tell your friend to count his loses and move on with his life . It's very obvious another man's already in the picture and they're only looking for a way to keep your guy off . And probably,the other guy must have promised her marriage ASAP and you know how single bannies of that age gap reasons whenever marriage proposal is brought before them

Na WA.

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself.

What is new here? Na women way. I’m friends with a 57 year old divorcee who can’t make up her mind on anything. It is either “my mother,” “my pastor,” or “my friends.” If it works to your benefit, enjoy being a man and do the picking for both of you. No be you dey find relationship, friendship, marriage or what have you?

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

eepeepook:
What is new here? Na women way. I’m friends with a 57 year old divorcee who can’t make up her mind on anything. It is either “my mother,” “my pastor,” or “my friends.” If it works to your benefit, enjoy being a man and do the picking for both of you. No be you dey find relationship, friendship, marriage or what have you?

You're trying to marry a 57year old lady?

How old are you?

spiceadole:
Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

Epic sarcasm

When you hear something like this from a woman run as fast as you can, these are the candidates of divorce in the future, let him be happy the relationship broke now rather than 5 years after marriage.

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

Jesus christ.

That girl better run for her life far from you and your friend. Such horrible writing.

I nearly ran mad reading this crap.

Better leave your friend matter and go back to night school.

Is that your friend from anambra? No tribalism but I had the same story as yours a friend also going through. It matches lol

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

1. None of your business.

2. Masculine enough to not jump into feminine conclusions.

MarkNsukkaBread:
You're trying to marry a 57year old lady?

How old are you?

MarkNsukkaBread:
Epic sarcasm

Where is the sarcasm? 😜
Is 29 years old woman not almost an evening newspaper?
Are men no longer the prize?
Can a 70 year old man not marry a 20 year old lady and still have children?

My brother who is 35 years old is still crying over a 33 year old woman.She broke up with him because he was fond of hitting her..So if this OLD woman didn't walk away,he would have considered marrying someone who is already post menopausal instead of going for 18 -20 years old girls.

Imagine ending a relationship at 33 ..She will die single and lonely.

spiceadole:
Where is the sarcasm? 😜
Is 29 years old woman not almost an evening newspaper?
Are men no longer the prize?
Can a 70 year old man not marry a 20 year old lady and still have children?

My brother who is 35 years old is still crying over a 33 year old woman.She broke up with him because he was fond of hitting her..So if this OLD woman didn't walk away,he would have considered marrying someone who is already post menopausal instead of going for 18 -20 years old girls.

Imagine ending a relationship at 33 ..She will die single and lonely.

This one and her funny takes sef. Lol.

Tenrack:
This one and her funny takes sef. Lol.

Nairaland taught me

MarkNsukkaBread:
You're trying to marry a 57year old lady?

How old are you?

You sef.
You wan commot food from his mouth?
57 year old woman , probably a grandmother , is his sugar mummy but she is indecisive in putting him in her will and he is not happy about it.

spiceadole:
Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

I prefer a lady of 29yrs to all you GenZ girls..

spiceadole:
Issalie.
How can your guy love a woman of 29 years that is almost an evening newspaper?
And if her mother says she should find another man, your guy should be happy because men are the prize. At 70,your guy can still marry 20 year old girl but this woman at 29 is already old and wrinkled. No man will want her at this age. Na she go lose.

You forgot to add "firgin" . "20 year old firgin " that's their spec on Nl

AllBlack:
Jesus christ.

That girl better run for her life far from you and your friend. Such horrible writing.

I nearly ran mad reading this crap.

Better leave your friend matter and go back to night school.

Your the one who needs to go back to school..If your brain can’t decipher what he’s trying to say then how can you understand anything in life..Others understood what he meant and did not complain but you and that empty compartment you call head can’t decode his message..

spiceadole:
Nairaland taught me

lmfao. 😂😂

Dzzzz:
Your the one who needs to go back to school..If your brain can’t decipher what he’s trying to say then how can you understand anything in life..Others understood what he meant and did not complain but you and that empty compartment you call head can’t decode his message..

Look at this one. No commas, no full stops, no sign of educational impact and we wonder why he is showing support.

FLY MUST SUPPORT SHIEET.
BIRDS OF A FEATHER.

While I do not agree with the way she handled the breakup I think she's in her right to decide what she wants. She's the one dated for two years with very bleak agreement towards settling down. Abi how can you promise marriage next year when we are in May? That's if they had the discourse in May self.
She knows best and goodluck to her.

AllBlack:
Look at this one. No commas, no full stops, no sign of educational impact and we wonder why he is showing support.

FLY MUST SUPPORT SHIEET.
BIRDS OF A FEATHER.

Are you pained?..If you’re looking for a shoulder to cry on,You can go hug transformer..

Dzzzz:
I prefer a lady of 29yrs to all you GenZ girls..

Issalie.
29 years is an OLD woman, by 30 she is already past menopause and most likely not a virgin.

Besides, I'm not GenZ and I'm not a girl.
I was born in the 80s(the last sane generation) and I'm a very old woman.

Dzzzz:
Are you pained?..If you’re looking for a shoulder to cry on,You can go hug transformer..

Pained? for your own problems? Your writing is exposing your lack of basic education and I should be pained?

Is this one okay?

eepeepook:
What is new here? Na women way. I’m friends with a 57 year old divorcee who can’t make up her mind on anything. It is either “my mother,” “my pastor,” or “my friends.” If it works to your benefit, enjoy being a man and do the picking for both of you. No be you dey find relationship, friendship, marriage or what have you?

What are you doing with a grandmother?

How old are you to begin with

spiceadole:
Issalie.
29 years is an OLD woman, by 30 she is already past menopause and most likely not a virgin.

Besides, I'm not GenZ and I'm not a girl.
I was born in the 80s(the last sane generation) and I'm a very old woman.

Why the beef?

AllBlack:
Pained? for your own problems? Your writing is exposing your lack of basic education and I should be pained?

Is this one okay?

E Dey pain you..With all your education,you still don’t have the brain to decipher a message..

Dzzzz:
E Dey pain you..With all your education,you still don’t have the brain to decipher a message..

Please try something else.

So Boring

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it

If your intentions are genuine leave her and relax your mind, they always gravitate back. But simple advice since her mom doesn’t support ur dating her just forget about the girl cos it will cause issues tomorrow.

Dzzzz:
Why the beef?

Beefing who?

⁶

Seyzi:
There is a lady, a friend of mine had been in relationship with for 2yrs now, planning settling down next year, which all of a sudden the lady came up with the issue her mum aren't approving the union later her dad and sisters on the ground of Christianity spirituality and before my friend can gets a hold of it he has been blocked and restricted

My question is how will 29yrs old woman can't decide for herself but My guy really loved the lady, he has invested emotionally from what have seen in the union, if anybody has been in this type of situation before how do you guys manage it