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Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Dipwater(m): 8:29pm On Nov 25, 2012
Ladies I wuld luv to hear from u. its a waste of time and energy to be talking to a girl and she keeps turning u down ,after some weeks or months she wuld decide to give it a trial

For me if I toast u today I expect a yes or no. I hate come today come tomorrow runs .if u don't like my style ,give me a concrete reason aand I will let u be ,simple

Some guys prefer the hard to get bullshit ,to them it shows that she's not cheap and girls that do it hope to be cherished for been hard to catch

I want y'all to let me know what works for u

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 25, 2012
There is this notion that girls have that makking themselves cheap to guys questions their dignity. i dont really blame them anyway, because, even we guys go about braging how we get a girl cheap. To be sincere any girl that just comes your way so cheap, you will have little or no regard for her.

op if you were a girl, will you be so cheap to any guy that comes your way just to proof a point to people like you?

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by dopeJemi: 9:27pm On Nov 25, 2012
SimpLe!




So dey won't Look cheap


Buh 4 Me, I prefer d pLayfuL type, if u knw wah I mean
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Dipwater(m): 9:29pm On Nov 25, 2012
if you were a girl, will you be so cheap to any guy that comes your way just to proof a point to people like you?[/quote]

Yes I will come so cheap .people like us don't appreciate girls that waste our precious time. It doesn't. Matter if u delay b4 saying yes .what is even wrong with walking up to me to start a conversation sef .I find it difficult to call girls that play this delay tactics

What wuld make me last in the relationship is her character not bcuz she played hard to get period

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Dipwater(m): 9:41pm On Nov 25, 2012
dopeJemi: SimpLe!




So dey won't Look cheap


Buh 4 Me, I prefer d pLayfuL type, if u knw wah I mean

Playing hard to get does not make u expensive overnite ,its just a way of passing a senseless message to guys that will not understand ur plan

I have friends that wuld endure and take any bullshit from girls just to get to their pants. They wuld so pretend to the core ,some of them can go as far as spending gud some of money just to get what they want . We gist about things like that often. When the girl decides to fall in luv with them that is when they knowingly break their hart. Its annoying

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by dopeJemi: 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2012
Av said it b4 n I'lL say it again











GirLz r DULL

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Mynd44: 10:02pm On Nov 25, 2012
babyface333: There is this notion that girls have that makking themselves cheap to guys questions their dignity. i dont really blame them anyway, because, even we guys go about braging how we get a girl cheap. To be sincere any girl that just comes your way so cheap, you will have little or no regard for her.

op if you were a girl, will you be so cheap to any guy that comes your way just to proof a point to people like you?
Speak for yourself dude. I take that kind of girl as someone who knows what she wants and does not want to play around like some child.

I don't like people wasting my time so I don't wastse people's time.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Dipwater(m): 10:25pm On Nov 25, 2012
Mynd_44:
Speak for yourself dude. I take that kind of girl as someone who knows what she wants and does not want to play around like some child.

I don't like people wasting my time so I don't wastse people's time.



The thing tire me o
The reason for opening this thread was a girl I toasted at a friends place early this year(fine babe sha)she was forming for me , I was irritated by her rudeness and I decided to let her be .to my greatest surprise after the whole shakara,she called me this afternoon and I invited her to my haus ,I swear I culdnt biliv my eyes .I f/uck craze comot for her ya/nch

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Mynd44: 10:32pm On Nov 25, 2012
Dipwater:


The thing tire me o
The reason for opening this thread was a girl I toasted at a friends place early this year(fine babe sha)she was forming for me , I was irritated by her rudeness and I decided to let her be .to my greatest surprise after the whole shakara,she called me this afternoon and I invited her to my haus ,I swear I culdnt biliv my eyes .I f/uck craze comot for her ya/nch
and that's the end. The funniest thing is that you might think you had the better deal. But she might just need someone to service her well

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by vivianc(f): 10:43pm On Nov 25, 2012
I don't play hard to get.
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Nov 25, 2012
I don't know IF and HOW MANY ladies play hard to get but I think that sometimes guys get it twisted.
You may be thinking that a lady is playing hard to get when in fact she just needs time to let you get closer to her.
If you call it hard to get, then yes, I AM hard to get and other ladies as well BUT we're not playing, just taking our time.
If you think we're waisting your time, then we'll not come together. It wasn't meant to be.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by dopeJemi: 11:10pm On Nov 25, 2012
Hmmm!


I fink I'lL take mah comments back




GirLz aren't so dulL after alL smiley
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by switdick(m): 11:48pm On Nov 25, 2012
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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Dipwater(m): 12:15am On Nov 26, 2012
Mynd_44:
and that's the end. The funniest thing is that you might think you had the better deal. But she might just need someone to service her well

Then why the unnecessary shakara nau .if she dey gbadun fu/cking things why all the forming like say she no dey fu/ck. Its not all about getting a better deal. Babes dey do funny things atimes,only gudness knows how long she has been denying herself quality y/anching all in the name of forming

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by megxo(m): 1:03pm On Nov 26, 2012
COS DE DONT WANNA COM CHEAP......... cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by joshuaidibia(m): 1:03pm On Nov 26, 2012
nawa o.. Funny thread. MUST EVERYTIN B OJO-FREE?. If dey gv u easily,u go b d 1st 2 cmplain say sh cheap.
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Nobody: 1:04pm On Nov 26, 2012
she playing hard to get cuz you aint got what she want. if you pull up in a bentley all that hard to get is out of the window. she will jump in before you even introduce yourself to her grin

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by joshuaidibia(m): 1:07pm On Nov 26, 2012
carefreewannabe: I don't know IF and HOW MANY ladies play hard to get but I think that sometimes guys get it twisted.
You may be thinking that a lady is playing hard to get when in fact she just needs time to let you get closer to her.
If you call it hard to get, then yes, I AM hard to get and other ladies as well BUT we're not playing, just taking our time.
If you think we're waisting your time, then we'll not come together. It wasn't meant to be.
. Na lie jor. U re jst preachn. MEN DNT WAIT 4EVA.kip playn hard 2 gt until u reach menopause or menostart,whcheva....

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Idowuogbo(f): 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2012
vivian chinaza: I don't play hard to get.
shakara= playing hard to get

so.... modify b4 i vex enter screen bite ur ear comot! angry angry tongue

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Koolking(m): 1:12pm On Nov 26, 2012
babyface333: There is this notion that girls have that makking themselves cheap to guys questions their dignity. i dont really blame them anyway, because, even we guys go about braging how we get a girl cheap. To be sincere any girl that just comes your way so cheap, you will have little or no regard for her.

op if you were a girl, will you be so cheap to any guy that comes your way just to proof a point to people like you?

That's a misconception and formulaic concept. A girl with value and dignity will always be treated as one whether she consented to your friendship advances in a few seconds or a year. A girl playing hard to get does not in any way attests she is 'cheap' or 'dear'.
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by bcomputer101: 1:14pm On Nov 26, 2012
@OP, u must be a very poor guy... So u still waste time to toast NIGERIAN girls abi? Learn how to make money and D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ will be the one to do the toasting.... Bros, I beg wake up!!!

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by ektbear: 1:15pm On Nov 26, 2012
As oyb rightly pointed out, supply and demand.

Pretty women can afford to play hard to get and do as much shakara as they want, because they will still have guys chasing them cheesy

That is life.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by felifeli: 1:18pm On Nov 26, 2012
Funny the ladies that play hard to GET are often so unattractive that they are already HARD TO WANT

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by tuyi19: 1:18pm On Nov 26, 2012
The issue is that most ladies pretend alot, they love the guy and they will still be proving difficult so that the guy would not think he got them very cheap and most times they end up regretting it, my advise is that if love somebody and the person comes to you, you dont need to keep the person waiting in the name of proofing a pont that you are decent or rigig. is either the guy wicked you back after taking so long time before you say yes.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 26, 2012
@ poster, go and upgrade ur status, fake one if possible, then go back to the same girl.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by vivianc(f): 1:25pm On Nov 26, 2012
Idowuogbo:
shakara= playing hard to get

so.... modify b4 i vex enter screen bite ur ear comot! angry angry tongue

grin grin .... Babe I'm serious. If I don't like a guy..if he likes he can ask me out from now till eternity my NO won't change. But if I like a guy and he likes me too... We hit it off immediately. I believe in living in the moment and dealing with the mess later, life is too short to play games.

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Oahray: 1:25pm On Nov 26, 2012
Lol... Guys sef. Even if a gal repeatedly screams 'no' in ur face, wldnt you still call it 'playing hard to get'? The only time many guys would admit a gal isnt playing hard to get is when she says 'yes' on first meeting. That way you can call her cheap later. #smh

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Idowuogbo(f): 1:27pm On Nov 26, 2012
vivian chinaza:

grin grin .... Babe I'm serious. If I don't like a guy..if he likes he can ask me out from now till eternity my NO won't change. But if I like a guy and he likes me too... We hit it off immediately. I believe in living in the moment and dealing with the mess later, life is too short to play games.
kai! see as dis pikin turn d all tin upside down,u win dis time ! angry angry angry angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by xynerise: 1:27pm On Nov 26, 2012
We all have pride especially when we got potentials both physical and financial. I played hard to get too grin.
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Idowuogbo(f): 1:29pm On Nov 26, 2012
Oahray: Lol... Guys sef. Even if a gal repeatedly screams 'no' in ur face, wldnt you still call it 'playing hard to get'? The only time many guys would admit a gal isnt playing hard to get is when she says 'yes' on first meeting. That way you can call her cheap later. #smh
Homosapiens for u bro! u cant win.
Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Idowuogbo(f): 1:29pm On Nov 26, 2012
xynerise: We all have pride especially when we got potentials both physical and financial. I played hard to get too grin.
eeee o! dis anteleope 2 dey form bad guyz? shocked shocked shocked lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Do Ladies Play Hard To Get? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 26, 2012
Why is it that any topic meant for girls to answer first, is been answered by the guys??undecided ...

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