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Nowadays a lady will like you like crazy and be all over you, but when it comes to chatting on social media dey go cold. short replies, delayed replies and you are left perplexed and confused, it gets to the stage you start doubting if she really likes you or just whinning you..

My brother the thing tire me too, same thing I'm facing. I just lock up. Sometimes she will use mog

Goodmarlian:
Nowadays a lady will like you like crazy and be all over you, but when it comes to chatting on social media dey go cold. short replies, delayed replies and you are left perplexed and confused, it gets to the stage you start doubting if she really likes you or just whinning you..

Maybe you are always asking questions like “how are you?”, “have you eaten?”, “where are you?” ………

nnamdi640:
My brother the thing tire me too, same thing I'm facing. I just lock up. Sometimes she will use mog

I believe it all mind games,they don't want you to be too sure where you stand they are master manipulators.

Amotolongbo:
Maybe you are always asking questions like “how are you?”, “have you eaten?”, “where are you?” ………

Na lie joor, you gender just love playing mind games that's all.

Goodmarlian:
Na lie joor, you gender just love playing mind games that's all.

Are you a learner? Play the game with them. Relationship in this part of the world to ladies is a game of manipulation. Step up your game,Oga as she no reply you early or with one word reply.. GHOST HER. What does she even have to offer you,if no be that bleeding v and bills?

Oga find girl when get sense. Their are girls with sense and some home training out there.. Play with the players,while you keep searching for that sensible one..

Goodmarlian:
Nowadays a lady will like you like crazy and be all over you, but when it comes to chatting on social media dey go cold. short replies, delayed replies and you are left perplexed and confused, it gets to the stage you start doubting if she really likes you or just whinning you..

Pls don't be bothered about that..you should go cold too. If she rate you she'll be the one begging for ur attention.

nnamdi640:
My brother the thing tire me too, same thing I'm facing. I just lock up. Sometimes she will use mog

Just lock up. You don't need to wonder why she's not replying you on social's. just give her the same energy. nothing more, nothing less.

Goodmarlian:
I believe it all mind games,they don't want you to be too sure where you stand they are master manipulators.

Long story. just give them back the same energy.

BigYash:
Are you a learner? Play the game with them. Relationship in this part of the world to ladies is a game of manipulation. Step up your game,Oga as she no reply you early or with one word reply.. GHOST HER. What does she even have to offer you,if no be that bleeding v and bills?

Oga find girl when get sense. Their are girls with sense and some home training out there.. Play with the players,while you keep searching for that sensible one..

Simple, just ghost her. no two ways.

Goodmarlian:
Nowadays a lady will like you like crazy and be all over you, but when it comes to chatting on social media dey go cold. short replies, delayed replies and you are left perplexed and confused, it gets to the stage you start doubting if she really likes you or just whinning you..

She doesn’t like you boy,a woman that likes you will always to you…


Check siggy for magic tho

Goodmarlian:
Nowadays a lady will like you like crazy and be all over you, but when it comes to chatting on social media dey go cold. short replies, delayed replies and you are left perplexed and confused, it gets to the stage you start doubting if she really likes you or just whinning you..

Anyway she may like you but not into you in the aspect of romance or relationship.

A girl that really like you will be the one seeking for your attention more.

That her behavior towards you that made you thought that she love you, she may also be showing that behaviour to many guy as well.

You're the one that thought you're special

If people use same energy they expend chasing after skirts in developing their skills, our generation will be much better

What if she prefers phone calls and face to face talks than chatting on social media?

Because texting can be very exhausting.

Amotolongbo:
Maybe you are always asking questions like “how are you?”, “have you eaten?”, “where are you?” ………

Or "Come to my house"

Bro put call regularly, especially during the evening when you think she must have returned from work and prolly relaxing. Crack silly jokes, inquire about her day/work, tell her you want to visit, ask her to visit you, talk about feeding. Don't act shy, only drop sm messages in the morning., people have tight schedule bro and prefers to speak rather than chat then also wants people to know they are talking to someone. Don't call (often) in the afternoon if she works.

You might be in your twenties! Focus and forget about what they think; get money and settle... If you start learning the modus operandi of women you fit get white hairs before you can get something meaningful out of it.

Bad guy

BigYash:
Are you a learner? Play the game with them. Relationship in this part of the world to ladies is a game of manipulation. Step up your game,Oga as she no reply you early or with one word reply.. GHOST HER. What does she even have to offer you,if no be that bleeding v and bills?

Oga find girl when get sense. Their are girls with sense and some home training out there.. Play with the players,while you keep searching for that sensible one..

Hmmm hmmm like seriously?

johnbuck81:
Just lock up. You don't need to wonder why she's not replying you on social's. just give her the same energy. nothing more, nothing less.

Good advice

Panda7:
Bro put call regularly, especially during the evening when you think she must have returned from work and prolly relaxing. Crack silly jokes, inquire about her day/work, tell her you want to visit, ask her to visit you, talk about feeding. Don't act shy, only drop sm messages in the morning., people have tight schedule bro and prefers to speak rather than chat then also wants people to know they are talking to someone. Don't call (often) in the afternoon if she works.

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I can't stop laughing

DuttyChuks:
You might be in your twenties! Focus and forget about what they think; get money and settle... If you start learning the modus operandi of women you fit get white hairs before you can get something meaningful out of it.

Panda7:
Bro put call regularly, especially during the evening when you think she must have returned from work and prolly relaxing. Crack silly jokes, inquire about her day/work, tell her you want to visit, ask her to visit you, talk about feeding. Don't act shy, only drop sm messages in the morning., people have tight schedule bro and prefers to speak rather than chat then also wants people to know they are talking to someone. Don't call (often) in the afternoon if she works.

This is it. Way to go. After that you can then draw conclusions

Amotolongbo:
Maybe you are always asking questions like “how are you?”, “have you eaten?”, “where are you?” ………

Doesn't matter what you ask, the average Nigerian woman is either too dull to hold a conversation with or erroneously expects the man to initiate every discussion, except when it comes to begging for money of course.

When a lady don’t find you interesting or like you that how they reply .

Stop wasting your time

First start with 10k airtime.

That mismatch is frustrating as hell. One minute she’s all smiles, touchy, leaning in when you see her… next minute you’re staring at “k” and 6-hour reply times on WhatsApp. Makes you question your sanity.

What this usually means:

1. She’s an in-person person
Some people just hate texting. They feel awkward, dry, or think voice notes/calls are better. In real life they light up because they feed off energy, not words on a screen.

2. She likes you, but isn’t that invested yet
If she’s cold online but warm offline, it can mean she enjoys your presence but hasn’t built the habit of chasing you digitally. She assumes if you want her, you’ll keep showing up physically.

3. She’s testing or playing it cool
A few ladies deliberately go slow on chat to avoid looking “too available”. Doesn’t make it less annoying, but it’s a thing.

4. She’s not that into you… but likes the attention
Harsh, but real. If she’s always warm in person and always cold online for weeks, you might just be her ego boost when you’re around.

What to do:

- Match her energy for 1-2 weeks. Stop double texting, stop over-explaining. See if she picks up or fades.
- Move the convo offline. “You type like you hate me 😂. Let’s just talk on call later or I’ll see you this week.” If she dodges that too, you’ve got your answer.
- Don’t overanalyze one channel. Judge the whole pattern: how she treats you in person + if she makes plans + if she initiates anything.

The rule of thumb: If someone likes you, they’ll make it obvious somewhere — texts, calls, time, effort. If you’re the only one confused, that’s information.

Diamond098454:
Hmmm hmmm like seriously?

yessss, seriously.

johnbuck81:
yessss, seriously.

I disagree with your view

Diamond098454:
I disagree with your view

What's your reason for disagreeing?

Don't put me on this hot seat this is a public forum my name is not good here

johnbuck81:
What's your reason for disagreeing?

You want me to discuss it so that Narialand guys will start bashing me again?

johnbuck81:
What's your reason for disagreeing?

Diamond098454:
You want me to discuss it so that Narialand guys will start bashing me again?

Hahaha..you dey fear bashing. I see, no problem.