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I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!

Plenty story aimed at a forum consisting of 100% males. Comedy.

Jman06:
I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!

kpankpangolo:
Plenty story aimed at a forum consisting of 100% males. Comedy.

Lol... and man, you should see many of these men dancing "Who is in the garden, a little fine girl" in the mentions of every user with "f" beside their moniker 😂

Oga OP, don't try to convince a woman NOT to take bad advice. You sha don't pick the ones who take such bad advice.

Since you got a teenager pregnant, you have lost your peace of mind. Explaining everyday and trying to recruit more. Indeed the guilty runneth when no one pursueth. All of this because some young girls said they will rather marry men in their age brackets.

But you don't need to stress it because in a 3rd world country like Nigeria, there would always be families who give out their teenage girls to men 2x her age for her university education to be guaranteed.

Sha send her to the university like you promised now she is pregnant for you. She has kept her side of the deal, please keep yours.

I don't think you have come across this topic yet

Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Kobojunkie(op): 8:16pm On Oct 17, 2025
https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent

SixSeven:
I don't think you have come across this topic yet

Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by Kobojunkie(op): 8:16pm On Oct 17, 2025
https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent

Feminists can write anything and post online just to make themselves feel good. These things are what we see practically around us, so you don't need some cooked up lies to know the truth.

pocohantas:
Since you got a teenager pregnant, you have lost your peace of mind. Explaining everyday and trying to recruit more. Indeed the guilty runneth when no one pursueth. All of this because some young girls said they will rather marry men in their age brackets.

But you don't need to stress it because in a 3rd world country like Nigeria, there would always be families who give out their teenage girls to men 2x her age for her university education to be guaranteed.

Sha send her to the university like you promised now she is pregnant for you. She has kept her side of the deal, please keep yours.

See how you carry d matter for head like say u dey hawk gala for traffic.🥱🥱

LIVINGICONREBOR:
See how you carry d matter for head like say u dey hawk gala for traffic.🥱🥱

Yes, because I won't encourage any teenager to go into marriage for trade by barter. Parents should train their daughters in school and equip her with something to survive the harsh economy. It is the least they can do before sending her off.

Just say you want an illiterate wife, own your truth.

In my own state, I've seen parents marrying off their teenage girls to older men who "promised" deceived them that they'd train them to university, they never went till date but instead have turned to baby factory.

pocohantas:
Yes, because I won't encourage any teenager to go into marriage for trade by barter. Parents should train their daughters in school and equip her with something to survive the harsh economy. It is the least they can do before sending her off.

I wonder how many of them will be excited to marry their sisters or daughters off to old men who impregnate them rather than send them to school?

The op has seen all the marry smallie and send her to school end in tears. He thinks he has hacked the system but only time will tell. We have sha seen Frank edoho who also married smallie who has now passed him and is no longer subservient. By the time the op is 60 his smallie will likely be 30. If she has grown beyond him (very likely as a successful man will not have to be doing all this belle before school to hold down smallie. Na stagnant man forming igwe dey do like that) story go hard pass frank.

folake4u:
Just say you want an illiterate wife, own your truth.

In my own state, I've seen parents marrying off their teenage girls to older men who "promised" deceived them that they'd train them to university, they never went till date but instead have turned to baby factory.

It will really be interesting to see how op would react if 19 years from now a 40 year old man showed up at his door saying he wanted to marry ops daughter.

GloriousGbola:
It will really be interesting to see how op would react if 19 years from now a 40 year old man showed up at his door saying he wanted to marry ops daughter.

It'd be interesting times ahead.

GloriousGbola:
I wonder how many of them will be excited to marry their sisters or daughters off to old men who impregnate them rather than send them to school?

The op has seen all the marry smallie and send her to school end in tears. He thinks he has hacked the system but only time will tell. We have sha seen Frank edoho who also married smallie who has now passed him and is no longer subservient. By the time the op is 60 his smallie will likely be 30. If she has grown beyond him (very likely as a successful man will not have to be doing all this belle before school to hold down smallie. Na stagnant man forming igwe dey do like that) story go hard pass frank.

Keep yarning dust you hear? My girl is not your typical woke wannabe. She's a decent girl from a Christian family background with good parental upbringing. FYI, I'm a professional and I'll equally train my girl to become a healthcare professional too. She deserves it for being a decent girl and a virgin at the time I met her.

Jman06:
Keep yarning dust you hear? My girl is not your typical woke wannabe. She's a decent girl from a Christian family background with good parental upbringing. FYI, I'm a professional and I'll equally train my girl to become a healthcare professional too. She deserves it for being a decent girl and a virgin at the time I met her.

But fornicating and getting pregnant before marriage. Naso. 🙂

pocohantas:
But fornicating and getting pregnant before marriage. Naso. 🙂

any girl wey open, na to chuk

This one no go allow us rest since he targeted a youngling and wore her down till she agreed to introduction.

Wait! so she was even pregnant before the introduction and the condition is you must sponsor her education? Phew!!!

You sir are not worthy to advise anyone dead or alive as you come off as a predator whom every parent should be weary of.

Proserpina:
This one no go allow us rest since he targeted a youngling and wore her down till she agreed to introduction.

Wait! so she was even pregnant before the introduction and the condition is you must sponsor her education? Phew!!!

You sir are not worthy to advise anyone dead or alive as you come off as a prey whom every parent should be weary off.

Leave Jman. He thinks he has such an inspiring love story that young Southern girls should tap into. Which father would want this for his teenage daughter? Strong Christian home indeed. Anyway, I done talk am a few days ago say sapa dey make person drop morals.

Jman06:
Keep yarning dust you hear? My girl is not your typical woke wannabe. She's a decent girl from a Christian family background with good parental upbringing. FYI, I'm a professional and I'll equally train my girl to become a healthcare professional too. She deserves it for being a decent girl and a virgin at the time I met her.

AGBAYA

Failed Excuse for a man who looks for small girls like a predator

No one is fooled by your long story

You are a predatory loser who looked for a poor family who would be wowed by your 20 year old beater car and your empty promises to send their daughter to school.

You remind me of the joker who was telling my friend back when we were in school that he wanted to marry my friends younger sister. We were in 400l at the time and a university lecturer in his late 30s was telling my friend he wanted to marry his sister who was not even in university.

We all had a good laugh about the weirdo.

As others have said, since there is poverty and desperation and failed parenting, creepy, Crawley underachievers like you will always find some victim to marry. My daughter turns 17 this year and we are fretting about sending her to university, not about marrying her off to someone in my age range.

Agbaya feeling funky.

pocohantas:
But fornicating and getting pregnant before marriage. Naso. 🙂

Before she agreed to do it with me, I had already gone for the first wine-carrying ceremony in her family and even at that, it took alot of convincing before she agreed. But you can believe whatever you want sha.

pocohantas:
Leave Jman. He thinks he has such an inspiring love story that young Southern girls should tap into. Which father would want this for his daughter. Strong Christian home indeed. Anyway, I done talk am a few days ago say sapa dey make person drop morals.

Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha!

I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd!

Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.

Jman06:
Before she agreed to do it with me, I had already gone for the first wine-carrying ceremony in her family and even at that, it took alot of convincing before she agreed. But you can believe whatever you want sha.

Lol. It took a lot of convincing to get a strong christian non-woke girl to fornicate. So all it takes is some persuasion, right? I will keep this in mind, Jman.

Seems all these talks only exist online.
In real life, people don't actually make their decisions based on what you tell them.
Sex is just sex to them and who they decide to have the exercise with

Proserpina:
Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha! I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd! Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.

Hahahahahahaa. You just made me laugh out loud here. Despite being a virgin, Jman had to sleep with her before marriage, impregnate her join before picking a date to conclude marriage rites. But he thinks he is the right person to advise young girls of 18-22. Just because I advised these girls to go to school first, he lost sleep and has been creating endless threads. It is well o.

Let young girls do as he says.
I am sure he cares about them.

But i thought you guys want a working lady!
How then will an 18-22yr old lady have a job!
So that means you will also sponsor her education because she needs to be in university by that age, and many men adviced against sponsoring women's education because the end is mostly fatal and frustrating.

Most working ladies are from 30yrs and above.

You guys dont want to split home bills anymore!

Lol.

Jman06:
Keep yarning dust you hear? My girl is not your typical woke wannabe. She's a decent girl from a Christian family background with good parental upbringing. FYI, I'm a professional and I'll equally train my girl to become a healthcare professional too. She deserves it for being a decent girl and a virgin at the time I met her.

Agb aya who had to convince beg a decent Christian girl to fornicate with him

No game, no aura, no money, just a desperate arugbo predator with grey hair and big stomach who is scared of being used for school and then dumped.

The only saving grace for your victim is you give off one minute man aura. Close your eyes for one minute and think of a university degree.

We can only hope that you will not use your big money to send her to teacher training college. A loser like you cannot invest in a degree wey go pass wetin you dey do.

pocohantas:
Hahahahahahaa. You just made me laugh out loud here. Despite being a virgin, Jman had to sleep with her before marriage, impregnate her join before picking a date to conclude marriage rites. But he thinks he is the right person to advise young girls of 18-22. Just because I advised these girls to go to school first, he lost sleep and has been creating endless threads. It is well o.

Let young girls do as he says.
I am sure he cares about them.

I took time to go through his post , his whole epistle is based on reproduction and other beliefs that recent scientific discoveries has proved otherwise. He should read more because his school of thought is so outdated. While he's mates are being calculative about choosing life partners that would make their lives better and easier Op here is hell bent on continuing generational redundancies and poverty. Marry a naive girl who has little to offer for reproduction while him as a man and every non thinking men like him continue to struggle to take care of wife and children limiting good living standards.
Op didn't think maybe his uncle is the sterile one but he assumed 20 years old virgin is the solution. Lol

E reach women matter he wrote epistles , ask him why naira falls and watch him go mute. These are the minds that want to advise young women? Huh?
We know people like Op, nothing upstairs but a lot down there . In this economy, person go marry 19 years old from her parents. Lol down there is really doing the thinking o

Nne, continue to do the good work o biko, our sisters must be protected at all cost.

GloriousGbola:
I wonder how many of them will be excited to marry their sisters or daughters off to old men who impregnate them rather than send them to school?

The op has seen all the marry smallie and send her to school end in tears. He thinks he has hacked the system but only time will tell. We have sha seen Frank edoho who also married smallie who has now passed him and is no longer subservient. By the time the op is 60 his smallie will likely be 30. If she has grown beyond him (very likely as a successful man will not have to be doing all this belle before school to hold down smallie. Na stagnant man forming igwe dey do like that) story go hard pass frank.

I know Shade Okoya isn't Razak's first wife, but there are successful, way too many, cases of much older men (35+) marrying much younger women (20-25).

I find it hard to criticise because as OP listed, the country is a poor one and has got poorer in the past decade. The risks involved in childbearing are more obvious with older women than with older men, all things being healthily equal. Lastly, cultural and religious reasons. It was here on NL that many lampooned Sanusi Lamido Sanusi for marrying an 18 year old, but till date, they're married.

Within my circle, some girls married very early, while a few married much later. But all married men who clearly looked like they were at least five years older than myself, and I was one of the youngest amongst my peers.

So, until Nigeria becomes significantly wealthier, and across the rest of Southern Nigeria (Lagos isn't the whole of Southern Nigeria), many men would begin family lives at an older age.

Proserpina:
Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha!

I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd!

Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.

Keep deceiving yourself, menopause is waiting for you. I didn't break any law because she was above the age of consent at the time I met her. Keep doing hook up with married men instead of getting married,you hear? At the end of the day, we'll know who's at the losing end.

pocohantas:
Since you got a teenager pregnant, you have lost your peace of mind. Explaining everyday and trying to recruit more. Indeed the guilty runneth when no one pursueth. All of this because some young girls said they will rather marry men in their age brackets.

But you don't need to stress it because in a 3rd world country like Nigeria, there would always be families who give out their teenage girls to men 2x her age for her university education to be guaranteed.

Sha send her to the university like you promised now she is pregnant for you. She has kept her side of the deal, please keep yours.

Hi Poco, nice take as always...I've frequently observed people don't practice what they preach and preach what they don't practice. Reality is based on interest and what works. Most young girls and their age mates under thirty hardly give each other "their best" or and believe in their choices, maturity or readiness etc...people banter it but it's not commonplace and those that did weren't posting they would on social media...the girls can simply accept their mates in any form of commitment that works. Funny I've seen ladies in thirties that have settlement standards...it's nobody business what they did "supposedly younger" except the man that's interested probably. Happy holidays

Jman06:
Feminists can write anything and post online just to make themselves feel good. These things are what we see practically around us, so you don't need some cooked up lies to know the truth.

And everyone here knows its a lie

Jman06:
Keep deceiving yourself, menopause is waiting for you. I didn't break any law because she was above the age of consent at the time I met her. Keep doing hook up with married men instead of getting married,you hear? At the end of the day, we'll know who's at the losing end.

Lol... dear I will embrace menopause fulfilled and glowing. Likeeeeeeee menopause self will be happy that it's coming to a well lived life, you get?

Your preying got you a virgin 19 years responsibility and I wonder why you have been explaining yourself so bad.

As long as I'm not hooking up with a married man with 19 years old wife and receding hairline like yourself, you don't need to worry. What you should be worried about is paying your wife and child's school fees at the same time. Kikikiki