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oluwatruther:
The thing about women for 2026 now, even the ones wey you think say they sweet go still test you. The girl for your workplace, just make sure she no dey date colleague for same office. You no want drama.

Just talk to her like normal man, carry am go somewhere quiet one evening. No need to practice with anybody. If the connection there, e go flow naturally. But if you fit imagine say you go freeze when time come... well, nobody dey judge.

I no wan cast o.

bigpriik:
42 years? Men you are old ,trust me you will have challenges attracting the kind of women you desire they will term you too old.

That's the harsh reality.

RealityKings1:
This is impossible

Impossible is nothing

kiddaz:
Lol I know say you no serious sha but if na real, she nor go know. Just enter YouTube and you still fit find loose for area take train small

YouTube Kwa

AcadaWriter0:
Absolutely! It’s all about the subtle cues. a little boost to keep things flowing, right? It’s all about the perfect moment, really. a little bit of playful persuasion.

This one carry AI dey reply person

voortrekker966:
How do you know when you've not tried any of them, Mr. Linus?

You nor believe me ni

oz4real83:
Even at 42, you never still wise up. The issue is that you attach importance to less important issues, you should have either been married or be planning to get married by now. You don't need to be taught sex, you will always find your way with the right person. You should stay off those your friends that keep giving you advise to patronize prostitutes, they are not helping you at all.

Omo eh...

I've been seeing people's complain about husband not satisfying them in za oza room, he's a 2 minutes man, indomie man etc.

This is why I want to enter with experience

kpankpangolo:
You spent your whole life making decisions for yourself. Why are you now asking us what to do? When things go sour from our decision, you will still come here to blame us. My friend, carry your cross. It has worked for you now for… 42 years.

So I should keep waiting?

Duke007:
My brother, don't throw away something you have faithfully preserved for over four decades because of pressure from people. At almost 45, it would be a tragic mistake to exchange your convictions for a few moments of pleasure just to feel accepted.

The Bible says, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." — 4:4. You don't have to bow to peer pressure or worldly expectations.

Also remember, "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." — 2:15.

Your purity is not a burden; it is a testimony. Don't let ungodly counsel destroy what God has helped you keep. If marriage is your desire, pray, trust God, and pursue an honourable relationship. There is no need to "practice" with a prostitute or hookup partner. Sex is not an achievement to prove yourself; it is a gift God designed for marriage.

I got married as a virgin, and my wife was also a virgin. We learned together, and our marriage has been fulfilling. Experience is not what makes a marriage successful—love, commitment, patience, and God's grace do.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." — 3:5–6.

Stay faithful. Hold on to your convictions. God's way always brings lasting peace, and in His time, you will never regret waiting.

You are making sense sha.

Just that I don't have much time to mingle or much close female friends.

nappy760:
look for a virgin to marry . Forget every other alternative

Time to search.

And also where can I see a virgin above 24

Timsco90:
Relax yourself bros there is nothing there just relax there is always a first time in everything but don't ever carry hooks is terrible as a virgin guy. Be yourself just relax

ABi na


Sometimes I wish I was a bit wayward during my formative years

Is that what you have in mind?

lovediehatelive:
So I should keep waiting?

lovediehatelive:
Omo eh...

I've been seeing people's complain about husband not satisfying them in za oza room, he's a 2 minutes man, indomie man etc.

This is why I want to enter with experience

most of such women are overused and wornout with too many sexual experience that will make them insatiable no matter how experienced and strong you are as a man. Just pray you meet a good woman who will be satisfied even with the little you do.

kiddaz:
Whaaat
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am

Not true, nature has a way of occasionally letting you have wet dreams where it will ooze out and give you a funny fuzzy feeling .

Unless of course you are regularly or occasionally masturbating.

Make una nor quote me bikonu.

Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons

There is nothing special about having sex. Even animals do it everyday.

I don't even understand this thread. @OP what exactly is your problem/desire? Shouldn't you be thinking of someone to get married to at your big age? Is sex the ultimate right now? Pls set your priorities straight. You're over 40 already. You should be with a family by now. Don't waste further time.

Nawa o!

I'm just imagining the embarrassment you'll face if you're unfortunate to try it for the first time with a bannny that has seen it all.

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

Best thing you can do for yourself is don't be harsh on yourself. My first did not come out inexperience by any standard. Sexual knowledge is hardcoded in our DNA.

Find a girl that's into you. Not one you are into. A girl that would accept your flaws and laugh about them. Be willing to be vulnerable. That's strength.

Flow the wave. Try not to rush. Listen to her lead. You both will find your rhythm.

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

I respect you. At this point, do what ever makes you happy. You know whats right, let no one tell you different, what ever you do is right, i wish i was like you.. in short,, i wish we could be friends, i like peple that are not push overs, ur type is rare. Continue to choose friends wisely and ensure you ennjoy life the way u deep fit. I trust your judgement

lovediehatelive:
I don't want to enter marriage without za oza room confidence.

Imagine say na madam dey teach me , e make sense?


Na me suppose dey teach her.

But now I'm left with difficult option:

If I go with oloshe, I would learn well, but how about my childhood church promise that my first knack would not be with a oloshe.

At fist I said it would be on my wedding night but reality dot com don hit me.

you are writing letter to hiv

Samantha125:
Get an intimacy doll and train with it.

If you see as I bust laugh after reading this...

So he waited over how many decades and this is ya "add-vice"?

Lwkmd 🤣🤣

Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons

One wise old drunk once told advised....

Anything you don't use, especially for longer periods, becomes useless.

He was talking about the brain and some younger drunk mentioned what oga op has not been using...

The old guy agreed that it applies to everything both hands and legs.

Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons

The world is really coming to an end where bad is celebrated

Omoawoke:
I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons

lol you sound just like Lionel Luther from Smallville 😂😂😂

Do you have any better suggestions?🤔🤔🤔 Because clearly his one arm struggle won't help in this situation and I'm sure his arm has struggled enough throughout the years.

And don't tell me he must experiment with those ladies of the night.

correctguy101:
If you see as I bust laugh after reading this...

So he waited over how many decades and this is ya "add-vice"?

Lwkmd 🤣🤣

May your manhood R iP

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

Your post carries too much confusions.


Are you a Christian or not?

Know yourself and stop toying with nairalanders

bigpriik:
42 years? Men you are old ,trust me you will have challenges attracting the kind of women you desire they will term you too old.

42 is a young man.
At 70 ,a man can marry a 20 year old woman.. so chill

lovediehatelive:
Time to search.

And also where can I see a virgin above 24

They exist, a lot of them. You will be surprised. However note that, though
it's virtuous, it doesn't guarantee respect, manners, and feminine characteristics. Some may be rigid and quite frankly uninterested in bedmatics.

Some of them, not all

I wish you luck. Go for late twenties to early thirties. If anything, more mature

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

So easy, just create an atmosphere, she will complete the job

Hookup can hook you with disease that you will nurse till the rest of your life. Not a good decision

This was so me some years back